5 Negative Character Traits Disguised As Good Qualities
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Date: 2023-09-11
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Benjamin
Fear the known and unknown and if you don't oh well.
The man that bought the world at face value from the man that sold it to him.
We needed money to make sure our comunity would survive, because we are inherently greedy by nature. One man decided we all had good products we made out of curiosity, but we needed to share amongst our selves to progress. With it we hid the evil briefly. The evil only morphed in a different ways if not multiple. Without moderation we made greed in a different form and with it made the madness of the world with comfortable distraction. Our distractions are us trying to avoid what we really know. The only thing we slave for is the cause in unity despite the indviduals. We saw ourselves as higher because we worked hard to get it well why can't we just try without the stress and fule our actual curiosities despite our known danger on a singular level. Ego is not a bad thing but we need to take pride in a singular goal. Is your comunity taken care of? Are they fed and housed just like you? Can they feed their true curiosities without the stress we deal with in the name of distractions. We need morals but we don't need a system to keep it. Malice can end. when it dosent and you see it end it with the knowlage they taught us if they don't see it oh well.
I do not fear the end we should embrace it because we did it out of pure curiosity without fear.
Share this with like minded people if it resonates never dull your true purposes though if this isn't you I understand and I'm sorry.
Take down the money and the laws your killing us! Please. And with it the hate should follow. Because in the end we are all equals to one another no matter the age or status. If not oh well I tried. If this seems odd or bothers you deeply I beg you to look inside yourself before you speak to the community around you. I've been doing this all week don't fear the unknown embrace it as it is.
They know they are wroung but that can't stop it because it made an entity the petty few might fight but they are only human right?
And if you see a problem across the world fix it yourself singularly or not at all we need our kids to put this past them.
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Fear the known and unknown and if you don't oh well.
The man that bought the world at face value from the man that sold it to him.
We needed money to make sure our comunity would survive, because we are inherently greedy by nature. One man decided we all had good products we made out of curiosity, but we needed to share amongst our selves to progress. With it we hid the evil briefly. The evil only morphed in a different ways if not multiple. Without moderation we made greed in a different form and with it made the madness of the world with comfortable distraction. Our distractions are us trying to avoid what we really know. The only thing we slave for is the cause in unity despite the indviduals. We saw ourselves as higher because we worked hard to get it well why can't we just try without the stress and fule our actual curiosities despite our known danger on a singular level. Ego is not a bad thing but we need to take pride in a singular goal. Is your comunity taken care of? Are they fed and housed just like you? Can they feed their true curiosities without the stress we deal with in the name of distractions. We need morals but we don't need a system to keep it. Malice can end. when it dosent and you see it end it with the knowlage they taught us if they don't see it oh well.
I do not fear the end we should embrace it because we did it out of pure curiosity without fear.
Share this with like minded people if it resonates never dull your true purposes though if this isn't you I understand and I'm sorry.
Take down the money and the laws your killing us! Please. And with it the hate should follow. Because in the end we are all equals to one another no matter the age or status. If not oh well I tried. If this seems odd or bothers you deeply I beg you to look inside yourself before you speak to the community around you. I've been doing this all week don't fear the unknown embrace it as it is.
They know they are wroung but that can't stop it because it made an entity the petty few might fight but they are only human right?
And if you see a problem across the world fix it yourself singularly or not at all we need our kids to put this past them.
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Timinations900
I wish this video was around when I was still in Middle school. The amount of times I told both my older brother and my younger brother not to act a certain way or do certain actions, as it may be not only embarrassing to me, but to themselves. I thought I was saving themselves from embarrassment. But the more you get older, the more you realize that all the crazy stuff my brothers did, were because they were acting their age. They were still kids, like me.
But the difference with me was that, while I was pretending to be someone I wasn't, which left me to be alone, isolated from people, and even distant to my brothers if I sensed embarrassment coming from them towards other people. Being in college has gotten me to feel lonely because there were moments that I could've enjoyed being as a kid instead of treating everything seriously.
I felt like I was being too honest of myself and to my brothers and I regret ever telling them they had to act a certain way because I wasn't a fond of the embarrassment they gave out in front of other people, despite us being kids. It seemed like I was the one managing the entire house rather than enjoying what being a kid is all about. My parents at times would even shun me for being too strict with my brothers when I was only trying to be honest.
It could be from what I was taught as a young age. School was a hatred place for me. My middle school and high school to be exact I hated it so much, I couldn't describe how much I wanted the worst to come out from it. I couldn't fit in with other students. I was more of acting like an adult in middle and high school than compared to now as a college student. I wish I could take it all back.
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I wish this video was around when I was still in Middle school. The amount of times I told both my older brother and my younger brother not to act a certain way or do certain actions, as it may be not only embarrassing to me, but to themselves. I thought I was saving themselves from embarrassment. But the more you get older, the more you realize that all the crazy stuff my brothers did, were because they were acting their age. They were still kids, like me.
But the difference with me was that, while I was pretending to be someone I wasn't, which left me to be alone, isolated from people, and even distant to my brothers if I sensed embarrassment coming from them towards other people. Being in college has gotten me to feel lonely because there were moments that I could've enjoyed being as a kid instead of treating everything seriously.
I felt like I was being too honest of myself and to my brothers and I regret ever telling them they had to act a certain way because I wasn't a fond of the embarrassment they gave out in front of other people, despite us being kids. It seemed like I was the one managing the entire house rather than enjoying what being a kid is all about. My parents at times would even shun me for being too strict with my brothers when I was only trying to be honest.
It could be from what I was taught as a young age. School was a hatred place for me. My middle school and high school to be exact I hated it so much, I couldn't describe how much I wanted the worst to come out from it. I couldn't fit in with other students. I was more of acting like an adult in middle and high school than compared to now as a college student. I wish I could take it all back.
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Lia
For me personally, it s being organized and value-oriented. I struggle with the former because I think I like to overly organize my physical life because emotionally and mentally, I m a TOTAL MESS.
I think I value quality over quality as a means of validating myself. By placing emphasis on the value of things I almost get to escape accountability in performing poorly which may also be a cover up for my lacking in actually being organized in an effective way. I m a big work in progress and watching these tidbits of Psych2Go (coupled with Talk Therapy and now DBT) has been TREMENDOUS in my personal growth for the past 8 years.
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For me personally, it s being organized and value-oriented. I struggle with the former because I think I like to overly organize my physical life because emotionally and mentally, I m a TOTAL MESS.
I think I value quality over quality as a means of validating myself. By placing emphasis on the value of things I almost get to escape accountability in performing poorly which may also be a cover up for my lacking in actually being organized in an effective way. I m a big work in progress and watching these tidbits of Psych2Go (coupled with Talk Therapy and now DBT) has been TREMENDOUS in my personal growth for the past 8 years.
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дошик
2. 5/5 Not that bad, right? I definitely rely a lot on my plans and organization. Sometimes this results in me losing touch with reality on my well-ordered path to nowhere. Since childhood, I have been more sympathetic to the characters of the pure-mind-without-emotions archetype and saw the path of imprisoning my feelings as my way of living this life. And it seems to me that sometimes I outwardly agree to obey, but inside I refuse to change out of pure stubbornness, although sometimes I think on the contrary, that I am completely spineless and will obey any command
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2. 5/5 Not that bad, right? I definitely rely a lot on my plans and organization. Sometimes this results in me losing touch with reality on my well-ordered path to nowhere. Since childhood, I have been more sympathetic to the characters of the pure-mind-without-emotions archetype and saw the path of imprisoning my feelings as my way of living this life. And it seems to me that sometimes I outwardly agree to obey, but inside I refuse to change out of pure stubbornness, although sometimes I think on the contrary, that I am completely spineless and will obey any command
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Sienna
I have the brutal honesty thing. I m very direct with people, but I also do my best to not be a jerk. The organization thing, yeah, kind of. Now the emotional strength one, I definitely have this. I never allow myself to struggle and I never allow myself to show emotions if they re not related to happiness. I bottle them up, try to run from them, or use my healthy coping skills as a way of hoping they will magically disappear and shut off for good and I will never feel them again, and hope they don t exist. I m trying to have a perfect life that is struggle free.
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I have the brutal honesty thing. I m very direct with people, but I also do my best to not be a jerk. The organization thing, yeah, kind of. Now the emotional strength one, I definitely have this. I never allow myself to struggle and I never allow myself to show emotions if they re not related to happiness. I bottle them up, try to run from them, or use my healthy coping skills as a way of hoping they will magically disappear and shut off for good and I will never feel them again, and hope they don t exist. I m trying to have a perfect life that is struggle free.
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Ravens
OK I gotta admit I got brutal honesty. But I really try to control it. But at the same time I'm sick of people who don't speak directly to me about things. Especially now that I'm querying my novel around, for the first time in the last ten years [before which I was submitting short stories to magazines] and it's the same nonsense from before. When I get a rejection, they don't tell me exactly what they found so bothersome. Just vague things like We can't use this right now. OK, what's wrong with it? And when exactly can you use it?
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OK I gotta admit I got brutal honesty. But I really try to control it. But at the same time I'm sick of people who don't speak directly to me about things. Especially now that I'm querying my novel around, for the first time in the last ten years [before which I was submitting short stories to magazines] and it's the same nonsense from before. When I get a rejection, they don't tell me exactly what they found so bothersome. Just vague things like We can't use this right now. OK, what's wrong with it? And when exactly can you use it?
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education
Don't thank me )))
Stubbornness vs. Determination:
Stubbornness: When someone is unwilling to change their stance or opinion even when presented with evidence or valid arguments, it can be seen as a negative trait. They may come across as inflexible and closed-minded.
Determination: On the other hand, determination is often seen as a positive quality. It involves having a strong sense of purpose and a willingness to persevere through challenges to achieve goals. However, when determination crosses into stubbornness, it can hinder personal growth and lead to conflict.
Bluntness vs. Honesty:
Bluntness: While honesty is generally a virtue, being excessively blunt or brutally honest can hurt others' feelings and damage relationships. People who are overly blunt may justify their comments as "just telling it like it is" but can come across as tactless or insensitive.
Honesty: Honesty, when practiced with empathy and consideration for others' feelings, is a valuable trait. It involves being truthful without causing unnecessary harm or offense. Striking the right balance between honesty and sensitivity is essential.
Independence vs. Isolation:
Independence: Independence is often admired as a sign of self-sufficiency and confidence. It can imply the ability to make decisions and take care of oneself.
Isolation: However, extreme independence can lead to isolation and an unwillingness to rely on or connect with others. Building healthy relationships and seeking support from loved ones is essential for emotional well-being.
Perfectionism vs. Attention to Detail:
Perfectionism: Perfectionists set exceedingly high standards for themselves and often struggle with anxiety and self-criticism when they fall short. This can be a negative trait when it leads to unrealistic expectations and excessive stress.
Attention to Detail: Attention to detail is a valuable quality in many fields, as it ensures accuracy and precision. However, when taken to extremes, it can lead to micromanagement and a lack of trust in others.
Competitiveness vs. Ruthlessness:
Competitiveness: Being competitive can drive individuals to achieve their goals and excel in their pursuits. Healthy competition can be motivating and lead to personal growth.
Ruthlessness: Excessive competitiveness, however, can lead to unethical behavior, such as stepping on others to get ahead. It's essential to compete with integrity and respect for others.
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Don't thank me )))
Stubbornness vs. Determination:
Stubbornness: When someone is unwilling to change their stance or opinion even when presented with evidence or valid arguments, it can be seen as a negative trait. They may come across as inflexible and closed-minded.
Determination: On the other hand, determination is often seen as a positive quality. It involves having a strong sense of purpose and a willingness to persevere through challenges to achieve goals. However, when determination crosses into stubbornness, it can hinder personal growth and lead to conflict.
Bluntness vs. Honesty:
Bluntness: While honesty is generally a virtue, being excessively blunt or brutally honest can hurt others' feelings and damage relationships. People who are overly blunt may justify their comments as "just telling it like it is" but can come across as tactless or insensitive.
Honesty: Honesty, when practiced with empathy and consideration for others' feelings, is a valuable trait. It involves being truthful without causing unnecessary harm or offense. Striking the right balance between honesty and sensitivity is essential.
Independence vs. Isolation:
Independence: Independence is often admired as a sign of self-sufficiency and confidence. It can imply the ability to make decisions and take care of oneself.
Isolation: However, extreme independence can lead to isolation and an unwillingness to rely on or connect with others. Building healthy relationships and seeking support from loved ones is essential for emotional well-being.
Perfectionism vs. Attention to Detail:
Perfectionism: Perfectionists set exceedingly high standards for themselves and often struggle with anxiety and self-criticism when they fall short. This can be a negative trait when it leads to unrealistic expectations and excessive stress.
Attention to Detail: Attention to detail is a valuable quality in many fields, as it ensures accuracy and precision. However, when taken to extremes, it can lead to micromanagement and a lack of trust in others.
Competitiveness vs. Ruthlessness:
Competitiveness: Being competitive can drive individuals to achieve their goals and excel in their pursuits. Healthy competition can be motivating and lead to personal growth.
Ruthlessness: Excessive competitiveness, however, can lead to unethical behavior, such as stepping on others to get ahead. It's essential to compete with integrity and respect for others.
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Rick
0: 50 I don't know what else to say except thank you. Having had to deal with people stating facts (even simple things that usually shouldn't bother anyone) in an unnecessary brutal way I found this video really helpful. More often than not what hurts the most is not what is being said, but the way in which it is being said.
By the way, I found the whole video really instructing and interesting, thank you for publishing this content.
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0: 50 I don't know what else to say except thank you. Having had to deal with people stating facts (even simple things that usually shouldn't bother anyone) in an unnecessary brutal way I found this video really helpful. More often than not what hurts the most is not what is being said, but the way in which it is being said.
By the way, I found the whole video really instructing and interesting, thank you for publishing this content.
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mokuroh14
I tried to show emotional strength after my mum's breast cancer diagnosis. But months later I finally broke down into tears after watching my brother have a breakdown of his own right in front of me. And you know what I felt so much better after calming myself down, due to no longer bottling up the emotions.
The breast cancer was found early, and fingers crossed she's going to be all fine now after having radiotherapy sessions.
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I tried to show emotional strength after my mum's breast cancer diagnosis. But months later I finally broke down into tears after watching my brother have a breakdown of his own right in front of me. And you know what I felt so much better after calming myself down, due to no longer bottling up the emotions.
The breast cancer was found early, and fingers crossed she's going to be all fine now after having radiotherapy sessions.
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WinterWarlock
When it comes to brutal honesty I do try to be pretty honest. If someone actually asks me a question, I will reply what I feel is the best most accurate answer, not what they're expecting. But I'm trying to not comment UNLESS asked (which means they WANT my opinion. But I think the difference between total honesty and brutal honesty is tact. HOW you say it.
Tact: The difference between making a point, and making an enemy.
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When it comes to brutal honesty I do try to be pretty honest. If someone actually asks me a question, I will reply what I feel is the best most accurate answer, not what they're expecting. But I'm trying to not comment UNLESS asked (which means they WANT my opinion. But I think the difference between total honesty and brutal honesty is tact. HOW you say it.
Tact: The difference between making a point, and making an enemy.
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Khoiruunisa
I don't consider myself Brutally Honest, though when I want to tell the truth to others personally, I always consider their mental condition first. If I think they aren't mentally ready, I'll consider restraining myself to say the truth or choose better words to say it. But if I consider it urgent, I'll say it no matter what without considering if the person is ready or not.
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I don't consider myself Brutally Honest, though when I want to tell the truth to others personally, I always consider their mental condition first. If I think they aren't mentally ready, I'll consider restraining myself to say the truth or choose better words to say it. But if I consider it urgent, I'll say it no matter what without considering if the person is ready or not.
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Jaje
If these resonate with you in any way just know I'm guilty of number one but these last 4 years have grown and have changed for the better so I'm here to tell you yes you can change everyday just drive to be better than the person you are the day before I promise you life gets better. And I can't wait for my plushie to get here I can't wait to have something to snuggle with
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If these resonate with you in any way just know I'm guilty of number one but these last 4 years have grown and have changed for the better so I'm here to tell you yes you can change everyday just drive to be better than the person you are the day before I promise you life gets better. And I can't wait for my plushie to get here I can't wait to have something to snuggle with
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silicon212
Re: brutal honesty. Some of us possess this 'feature' due to being autistic. It's not that we want to make others feel bad, nor is it that we feel superior by always being honest. It has more to do with that ASD thing of not reading social cues, along with not understanding how what we're saying may make others feel bad. Mind blindness I think they call it.
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Re: brutal honesty. Some of us possess this 'feature' due to being autistic. It's not that we want to make others feel bad, nor is it that we feel superior by always being honest. It has more to do with that ASD thing of not reading social cues, along with not understanding how what we're saying may make others feel bad. Mind blindness I think they call it.
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Karen
I have been told over n over by lots of different people that I look good when I try! I get this but it dies hurt. I am not perfect and I think at times I have definitely been too honest, then spend ages trying to not to say anything. it's a defo a work in progress! Thanks
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I have been told over n over by lots of different people that I look good when I try! I get this but it dies hurt. I am not perfect and I think at times I have definitely been too honest, then spend ages trying to not to say anything. it's a defo a work in progress! Thanks
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Nimzi
Isee theae as good traits. If you're too weak to handle these, that's your problem. Not mine. I dont care what experts say when they're also saying that believing a delusion about who you are is valid and every one should also validate said delusion.
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Isee theae as good traits. If you're too weak to handle these, that's your problem. Not mine. I dont care what experts say when they're also saying that believing a delusion about who you are is valid and every one should also validate said delusion.
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That's
I like this voice actress better. The other one was refined and skilled, but it was sultry in such a way that undermined the seriousness of the subject matter. Not really trying to hear about suicidal ideation delivered in a sensual ASMR voice.
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I like this voice actress better. The other one was refined and skilled, but it was sultry in such a way that undermined the seriousness of the subject matter. Not really trying to hear about suicidal ideation delivered in a sensual ASMR voice.
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Pie
I can definitely butt into others' business
I have the deep urge to help my friends and fix everything for them so they don't have to, but I learned I am not other people and everyone needs their own space and breathing room
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I can definitely butt into others' business
I have the deep urge to help my friends and fix everything for them so they don't have to, but I learned I am not other people and everyone needs their own space and breathing room
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MuffinMan
im super passionate about becoming a psychologist so these videos help because i cant really study psychology outside of random websites and expensive textbooks (im not even close to being old enough to go to college)
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im super passionate about becoming a psychologist so these videos help because i cant really study psychology outside of random websites and expensive textbooks (im not even close to being old enough to go to college)
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Deadly
Timestamps
1. Brutal honesty 0: 35
2. Being organised 1: 04
3. Self-confidence 1: 34
4. Emotional stregth 2: 02
5. Being value-oriented 2: 36
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Timestamps
1. Brutal honesty 0: 35
2. Being organised 1: 04
3. Self-confidence 1: 34
4. Emotional stregth 2: 02
5. Being value-oriented 2: 36
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Sir. Raphim
I found all this characteristics in a former friend. who's mother is a major narcisist.
Turns out. that friend is emotionally stunted because of the parents shadow and degrading.
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I found all this characteristics in a former friend. who's mother is a major narcisist.
Turns out. that friend is emotionally stunted because of the parents shadow and degrading.
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