6 Signs of Emotional Manipulation
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Date: 2023-08-20
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nebula
now this kinda confirms the fact that my ex was (probably, most likely) manipulating me. So, in the start of our relationship, everything was really nice. She treated me well, and she was kind and loving to me. (Btw, small backstory on a group, Im in a friend group of 4! So its me, and the other 3)
Everything was fine until about a month into our relationship when she started acting weird. One girl in my friend group is named emily. So, at the time, my gf had suddenly started ignoring me and giving me weird looks when i started speaking, almost like she wanted to tell me to shut up (i cant confirm that though) but she and emily got really close for some reason. My gf started following her every where and always tried to be around her. It got to the point where she would literally make sure she had the stall next to emily in the restroom! But anyways, she sometimes, would actually spend time with me, and then go back to ignoring me after (which, refers to sign 3. they shower you in affection, and that they are kind to you at some points, to gain and maintain your trust) And then once at lunch, they all explained the whole situation to me, and my gf started to actually treat me like her gf. I felt really happy, but a month (or two. after that, she started acting like that again. it kinda just got worse and a bit annoying, but it made me feel kind of jealous, mad, or just sad in a way i cant really describe. She started to make sure i didnt go NEAR emily, or touch her, or even talk to her that much. So when i try to talk to her, my ex just pulls her away or taps her shoulder and makes her go with her. And then when i try to make a joke during lunch, she just makes this annoyed face and stops listening, and i cant help but feel a little disappointed. and it gets so bad, that when i got hurt, she wouldnt even come to me to help! and when emily and the other friend tries to help, she just ignores me and takes them somewhere else? (girl, what) so, this continued for a few months, and i got so tired of it, but i really loved her, and i didnt want to break up with me, and i started to maybe think that she loved me too, but she still keeps doing it. and actually, a few days ago, she broke up with me. so now im single woohoo
(Also a few more things, 1. she would always try and correct me when i say things, for example, i say recess is at 10: 30, i check the list of recess times, it says for my class that its scheduled at 10: 30. i tell my gf that recess is at 10: 30, and then she squints her eyes and is like no? its at 10: 40 and then i show her the list and shes like oh. i forgot and this is similar to reason 5, they act like they are never wrong) Thats it ty for reading if u did: )!
- Nebula
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now this kinda confirms the fact that my ex was (probably, most likely) manipulating me. So, in the start of our relationship, everything was really nice. She treated me well, and she was kind and loving to me. (Btw, small backstory on a group, Im in a friend group of 4! So its me, and the other 3)
Everything was fine until about a month into our relationship when she started acting weird. One girl in my friend group is named emily. So, at the time, my gf had suddenly started ignoring me and giving me weird looks when i started speaking, almost like she wanted to tell me to shut up (i cant confirm that though) but she and emily got really close for some reason. My gf started following her every where and always tried to be around her. It got to the point where she would literally make sure she had the stall next to emily in the restroom! But anyways, she sometimes, would actually spend time with me, and then go back to ignoring me after (which, refers to sign 3. they shower you in affection, and that they are kind to you at some points, to gain and maintain your trust) And then once at lunch, they all explained the whole situation to me, and my gf started to actually treat me like her gf. I felt really happy, but a month (or two. after that, she started acting like that again. it kinda just got worse and a bit annoying, but it made me feel kind of jealous, mad, or just sad in a way i cant really describe. She started to make sure i didnt go NEAR emily, or touch her, or even talk to her that much. So when i try to talk to her, my ex just pulls her away or taps her shoulder and makes her go with her. And then when i try to make a joke during lunch, she just makes this annoyed face and stops listening, and i cant help but feel a little disappointed. and it gets so bad, that when i got hurt, she wouldnt even come to me to help! and when emily and the other friend tries to help, she just ignores me and takes them somewhere else? (girl, what) so, this continued for a few months, and i got so tired of it, but i really loved her, and i didnt want to break up with me, and i started to maybe think that she loved me too, but she still keeps doing it. and actually, a few days ago, she broke up with me. so now im single woohoo
(Also a few more things, 1. she would always try and correct me when i say things, for example, i say recess is at 10: 30, i check the list of recess times, it says for my class that its scheduled at 10: 30. i tell my gf that recess is at 10: 30, and then she squints her eyes and is like no? its at 10: 40 and then i show her the list and shes like oh. i forgot and this is similar to reason 5, they act like they are never wrong) Thats it ty for reading if u did: )!
- Nebula
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ena
Im watching this because Im wondering whether or not i should leave the boy im talking to, Hes very affectionate, showers me with love, always compliments me, constantly wants to talk on the phone and hear my voicebut anytime i dont feel like talking or dont respond immediately he throws a pity party and makes it seem like i dont care about him. Ive tried to ask for space before but he always made it seem like i was the bad guy, as if i was lying the whole time about how i felt for him, he even tried to make me feel bad about leaving him by lying about his mom dying and telling me he needs me because im all he has left. Should i just leave for good?
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Im watching this because Im wondering whether or not i should leave the boy im talking to, Hes very affectionate, showers me with love, always compliments me, constantly wants to talk on the phone and hear my voicebut anytime i dont feel like talking or dont respond immediately he throws a pity party and makes it seem like i dont care about him. Ive tried to ask for space before but he always made it seem like i was the bad guy, as if i was lying the whole time about how i felt for him, he even tried to make me feel bad about leaving him by lying about his mom dying and telling me he needs me because im all he has left. Should i just leave for good?
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Delaney
My parents have both manipulated me, theyve love bombed me to get me to trust them. Theyre hiding behind their lies. Both, my mother and father have gaslighted me by saying That never happened. Or, I never did this to you. They have told me that Im being the manipulative one. Thank you for making these kinds of videos. Theyre really helpful.
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My parents have both manipulated me, theyve love bombed me to get me to trust them. Theyre hiding behind their lies. Both, my mother and father have gaslighted me by saying That never happened. Or, I never did this to you. They have told me that Im being the manipulative one. Thank you for making these kinds of videos. Theyre really helpful.
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Maddytheangel
My ex did all of this to me. and I never noticed and thought it was normal. The only reason I learned it wasn't normal was when my friends heard how he talked to me and how he treated and they told he was a manipulating me. I got out but i probably would have stayed if it wasn't for them
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My ex did all of this to me. and I never noticed and thought it was normal. The only reason I learned it wasn't normal was when my friends heard how he talked to me and how he treated and they told he was a manipulating me. I got out but i probably would have stayed if it wasn't for them
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Not
all I do as a manipulator (when I do it) is try to either gaslight (not in a harming way but just so they actually end up thinking) or I just make them trust me so they can help me but I still help them to keep trust and I don't go too far but I do sometimes confuse them with gaslighting lol
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all I do as a manipulator (when I do it) is try to either gaslight (not in a harming way but just so they actually end up thinking) or I just make them trust me so they can help me but I still help them to keep trust and I don't go too far but I do sometimes confuse them with gaslighting lol
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Wendy
This has happened more than once in my past. Hopefully I've learned what the universe needed me to know, or it has chosen a different way to teach me, because I recognize those relationships for what they were and am currently in a very good partnership with a wonderful man.
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This has happened more than once in my past. Hopefully I've learned what the universe needed me to know, or it has chosen a different way to teach me, because I recognize those relationships for what they were and am currently in a very good partnership with a wonderful man.
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BeeSweet16
I have been manipulated so much I have a lot of fear for and from it when it comes to other people. I even doubt the new friends I made or wonder if they will be. All I can do is pray to God to make sure I can identify it, be protected from it and not do it myself.
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I have been manipulated so much I have a lot of fear for and from it when it comes to other people. I even doubt the new friends I made or wonder if they will be. All I can do is pray to God to make sure I can identify it, be protected from it and not do it myself.
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Razor
I am being emotionally abused by a narcissistic ex. I dont know how to make him leave me alone. I am saying no to him for 5 years but he always comes back and play the victim card. All my friends think i am the villain. I dont know what to do. I am turning suicidal
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I am being emotionally abused by a narcissistic ex. I dont know how to make him leave me alone. I am saying no to him for 5 years but he always comes back and play the victim card. All my friends think i am the villain. I dont know what to do. I am turning suicidal
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Faith
I'm thankful that I haven't been that close to manipulative people in my life. Anyone that is manipulative or just outright mean to you should be cut out from your life and ignored as there are much better people out there: )
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I'm thankful that I haven't been that close to manipulative people in my life. Anyone that is manipulative or just outright mean to you should be cut out from your life and ignored as there are much better people out there: )
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marigold
Im honestly watching these videos to see if IM the one doing this stuff cos Im afraid of being the person whos toxic which I already know I am but dont know how to prevent it and change it
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Im honestly watching these videos to see if IM the one doing this stuff cos Im afraid of being the person whos toxic which I already know I am but dont know how to prevent it and change it
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Kenny
I could hardly hear you over the loud music
Either you speak louder or turn down the background. Can I manipulate you into doing so? Your fan and loyal sub.
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I could hardly hear you over the loud music
Either you speak louder or turn down the background. Can I manipulate you into doing so? Your fan and loyal sub.
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M.
You can be manipulated by someone playing the pitiful victim, hoping you will be so concerned for them that you forgive their hurtful behavior.
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You can be manipulated by someone playing the pitiful victim, hoping you will be so concerned for them that you forgive their hurtful behavior.
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Gerald
Sorry for saying this but for some reason the music is to loud and I cant hear anything Im just going to turn on the caption I think
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Sorry for saying this but for some reason the music is to loud and I cant hear anything Im just going to turn on the caption I think
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Furbtastic
Ill never forget how she would always say Ill keep you safe as possible when she never did. Caused me to be the same later on.
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Ill never forget how she would always say Ill keep you safe as possible when she never did. Caused me to be the same later on.
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Milla
Yes my boss loved bombing me so much that at one point I almost started hurting myself to get rid of the pain he was causing me
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Yes my boss loved bombing me so much that at one point I almost started hurting myself to get rid of the pain he was causing me
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JustFoxyAgain
My old friend use to manipulate me but this happened around 1-2 years ago but tbh it still feels like it just happened
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My old friend use to manipulate me but this happened around 1-2 years ago but tbh it still feels like it just happened
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Starseed
Cant really hear what your saying because of the music! Get rid of the music please! Want to hear advice not music!
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Cant really hear what your saying because of the music! Get rid of the music please! Want to hear advice not music!
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Kai
only criticism is the music is too loud, kinda hard to hear you. but the info was helpful despite having trouble hearing.
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only criticism is the music is too loud, kinda hard to hear you. but the info was helpful despite having trouble hearing.
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Gabriela
Is the music of this video louder than the narration for anyone else or is it just my phone that is having issues?
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Is the music of this video louder than the narration for anyone else or is it just my phone that is having issues?
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SF
I like the video. Unfortunately the background music is a little bit too loud which made the words hard to understand.
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I like the video. Unfortunately the background music is a little bit too loud which made the words hard to understand.
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shalpy
The background music and the voice doesnt matchIm having a hard time listening to her when the music is so loud.
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The background music and the voice doesnt matchIm having a hard time listening to her when the music is so loud.
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Jacen
Well would ya look at that. .. now I know. .. and I feel nothing over hearing this. .. dont know why though
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Well would ya look at that. .. now I know. .. and I feel nothing over hearing this. .. dont know why though
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