Your WORST Personality Trait Based on Your Personality Type
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Date: 2023-08-20
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k41tLynn
I am an INFJ but I relate to none of the traits. Im not a perfectionist, unempathetic, too empathetic, too unrealistic, too realistic, stuck in the past, not thinking about the past, too caring, too selfish, too free spirited and spontaneous, etc. I would say that one major flaw I have is not being able to express my thoughts since my thoughts arent expressed by words. Being too subjective is a major flaw on its own, and my thoughts also may sound like assumptions since I am only open to one possibility of what hasnt been told. I think that every detail means something. To me, if someone liked my comment, that means they agree with my opinion. If someone stares at me, that means they hate me. I dont look at every detail individually however, since everything is the same. Another bad trait is that I never remember or care about facts. What is more interesting to me is what hasnt happened yet, and I am more dominant in the pending event. To me, its easier to think about a possibility of what isnt shown rather then objectively thinking about facts that are presented in front of me, and those present facts are a big headache too. I cant look at things as they are, only the possibility that awaits. Also, what is shown isnt enough for me to understand the whole thing. (Ik it sound a lot like Ni, which is introverted intuition. The reason for this is because my dominance in Ni creates many struggles for me, and I would be any other type that doesnt have high Ni)
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I am an INFJ but I relate to none of the traits. Im not a perfectionist, unempathetic, too empathetic, too unrealistic, too realistic, stuck in the past, not thinking about the past, too caring, too selfish, too free spirited and spontaneous, etc. I would say that one major flaw I have is not being able to express my thoughts since my thoughts arent expressed by words. Being too subjective is a major flaw on its own, and my thoughts also may sound like assumptions since I am only open to one possibility of what hasnt been told. I think that every detail means something. To me, if someone liked my comment, that means they agree with my opinion. If someone stares at me, that means they hate me. I dont look at every detail individually however, since everything is the same. Another bad trait is that I never remember or care about facts. What is more interesting to me is what hasnt happened yet, and I am more dominant in the pending event. To me, its easier to think about a possibility of what isnt shown rather then objectively thinking about facts that are presented in front of me, and those present facts are a big headache too. I cant look at things as they are, only the possibility that awaits. Also, what is shown isnt enough for me to understand the whole thing. (Ik it sound a lot like Ni, which is introverted intuition. The reason for this is because my dominance in Ni creates many struggles for me, and I would be any other type that doesnt have high Ni)
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ScarletLion
I am an ENFJ-A, and that is very true. Sometimes I forget that it's the person's choice to be who they really are and reach that level, I can't force them. And I may pretend that nothing is wrong when clearly something is I don't want to make the other person worry or be afraid. And that comes very true and I'm working on just being more honest with my feelings and just be open and be sad and show other emotions and help my friend become the best selves but remember it's their choice and support them. Just be honest with feelings and worry about myself for just 1 minute and still help everyone else with their own potential. Truly ENFJ-A and ENFJ-T very great and not to mentioned empathetic and compassionate. I'm still trying to work out of loving myself more as a person especially just helping everyone else to announce field loved and forgetting to just love myself I'm still trying to work out of loving myself more as a person especially just helping everyone else to feel loved and forgetting to just love myself And it's still an ongoing process but I believe I'll get there and other people will get there. At least I'm patting know that I'm an ENFJ-A that's I should be proud of myself and who I am as a person. And other people who are ENFJ-A too. And I love people a lot so free hugs. Go ENFJ-A!
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I am an ENFJ-A, and that is very true. Sometimes I forget that it's the person's choice to be who they really are and reach that level, I can't force them. And I may pretend that nothing is wrong when clearly something is I don't want to make the other person worry or be afraid. And that comes very true and I'm working on just being more honest with my feelings and just be open and be sad and show other emotions and help my friend become the best selves but remember it's their choice and support them. Just be honest with feelings and worry about myself for just 1 minute and still help everyone else with their own potential. Truly ENFJ-A and ENFJ-T very great and not to mentioned empathetic and compassionate. I'm still trying to work out of loving myself more as a person especially just helping everyone else to announce field loved and forgetting to just love myself I'm still trying to work out of loving myself more as a person especially just helping everyone else to feel loved and forgetting to just love myself And it's still an ongoing process but I believe I'll get there and other people will get there. At least I'm patting know that I'm an ENFJ-A that's I should be proud of myself and who I am as a person. And other people who are ENFJ-A too. And I love people a lot so free hugs. Go ENFJ-A!
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Alexander
ENFP-A here. One of the most important things to learn is that it is fine to wish for things like wanting to be liked, popular, funny or successfull etc.
Its when we dont just want it but expect it of ourselves that we go down a dangerous path.
Placing expectations on ourselves and feeling forced to live up to them are maybe the most common reason for feeling dissatisfied with ones life.
Comparing yourself with your ideal version of yourself is dangerous. Dont force yourself to be perfect.
Self love is easing the preassure you put on yourself.
You can wish for anything but dont take things you dont have for granted. Avoid expectations.
Also dont worry if people like you. Most people are indifferent towards most people that they dont Interact much with. Be yourself but dont force yourself to be what you think is your best side. Be who you feel like you are in the moment. Be yourself.
Hopes this helps someone.
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ENFP-A here. One of the most important things to learn is that it is fine to wish for things like wanting to be liked, popular, funny or successfull etc.
Its when we dont just want it but expect it of ourselves that we go down a dangerous path.
Placing expectations on ourselves and feeling forced to live up to them are maybe the most common reason for feeling dissatisfied with ones life.
Comparing yourself with your ideal version of yourself is dangerous. Dont force yourself to be perfect.
Self love is easing the preassure you put on yourself.
You can wish for anything but dont take things you dont have for granted. Avoid expectations.
Also dont worry if people like you. Most people are indifferent towards most people that they dont Interact much with. Be yourself but dont force yourself to be what you think is your best side. Be who you feel like you are in the moment. Be yourself.
Hopes this helps someone.
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_SPT-WarWolf_
Short Version
ISTP- Unreliable and Aversive to Commitment
ISFP- Unreliable and Doesn't Learn from Mistakes
ESTP- Disregard Rules
ESFP- People Pleasing
ESTJ- Overly Ambitious
ESFJ- Manipulative
ISFJ- Persistent In Preserving Harmony
ISTJ- Rigid and High Expectations
ENFP- Easily Bored
INFP- Too Idealistic
ENFJ- Unrealistic Expectations
INFJ- Self-Critical and Overthinking
INTJ- Prideful
ENTJ- Callous
ENTP- Overly Critical and Disregard Emotional Needs
INTP- Socially Inept and Inadvertently Rude
Personally, I don't think these are entirely true. I've met kind ESTJs, rational ISFJs and outgoing INTPs, so these may be unfair to expect from each type.
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Short Version
ISTP- Unreliable and Aversive to Commitment
ISFP- Unreliable and Doesn't Learn from Mistakes
ESTP- Disregard Rules
ESFP- People Pleasing
ESTJ- Overly Ambitious
ESFJ- Manipulative
ISFJ- Persistent In Preserving Harmony
ISTJ- Rigid and High Expectations
ENFP- Easily Bored
INFP- Too Idealistic
ENFJ- Unrealistic Expectations
INFJ- Self-Critical and Overthinking
INTJ- Prideful
ENTJ- Callous
ENTP- Overly Critical and Disregard Emotional Needs
INTP- Socially Inept and Inadvertently Rude
Personally, I don't think these are entirely true. I've met kind ESTJs, rational ISFJs and outgoing INTPs, so these may be unfair to expect from each type.
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RatInACoat
im an infp and have taken the test multiple times with the same result, but im told and feel like im much more of an intp. hell, i watch MIT lectures in my free time and im 14, yet im not considered a thinker. im not sure which i fit in to more, because while i do tend to let my emotions control me sometimes, mostly im making rescissions based on my head. i dont tend to daydream either, which always seems to be the main focus of people when talking about infps. i dont know where i belong on the scale. is that a common thing? because i know they arent supposed to be 100% accurate to your personality, but i have equal if not more similarities to the personality im not assigned to.
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im an infp and have taken the test multiple times with the same result, but im told and feel like im much more of an intp. hell, i watch MIT lectures in my free time and im 14, yet im not considered a thinker. im not sure which i fit in to more, because while i do tend to let my emotions control me sometimes, mostly im making rescissions based on my head. i dont tend to daydream either, which always seems to be the main focus of people when talking about infps. i dont know where i belong on the scale. is that a common thing? because i know they arent supposed to be 100% accurate to your personality, but i have equal if not more similarities to the personality im not assigned to.
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nugget
I'm an INTP and I'm realizing that it may be working against me when combined with past trauma. I naturally have a lot of trouble finding friends that I feel really understand me and I often do end up getting in my own head at the inconvenience of others. However, formative experiences in my life have made me very conscious of other people's emotions and I frequently worry that I'm bothering them, being too clingy, being too distant, that they're lying when they say they enjoy spending time with me, etc. This combination has led me to withdraw from people I care about for fear of annoying them, because logically if I cut myself off from them, it won't be a problem anymore.
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I'm an INTP and I'm realizing that it may be working against me when combined with past trauma. I naturally have a lot of trouble finding friends that I feel really understand me and I often do end up getting in my own head at the inconvenience of others. However, formative experiences in my life have made me very conscious of other people's emotions and I frequently worry that I'm bothering them, being too clingy, being too distant, that they're lying when they say they enjoy spending time with me, etc. This combination has led me to withdraw from people I care about for fear of annoying them, because logically if I cut myself off from them, it won't be a problem anymore.
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LocalTea
Im an esfp and I always worry about others to the point I dont think about myself. My friend was going through a tough time so I said to her that her problems will be mine now and I will help her no matter what. I took on her problems and as soon as I did I became super depressed due to not taking care of myself. I luckily dont do it as bad but Im still a huge people pleaser and its kind of a problem
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Im an esfp and I always worry about others to the point I dont think about myself. My friend was going through a tough time so I said to her that her problems will be mine now and I will help her no matter what. I took on her problems and as soon as I did I became super depressed due to not taking care of myself. I luckily dont do it as bad but Im still a huge people pleaser and its kind of a problem
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DarthBlaker
Bro what. .. I literally have been looking more into my personality type and the bad side of it. Since then I've been trying to fix all the bad qualities about my personality but then I watch this video and I'm just surprised that I've been stuck in analysis paralysis since I tried fixing myself. (I'm INFJ)
Why does whenever I fix something about myself just create another problem
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Bro what. .. I literally have been looking more into my personality type and the bad side of it. Since then I've been trying to fix all the bad qualities about my personality but then I watch this video and I'm just surprised that I've been stuck in analysis paralysis since I tried fixing myself. (I'm INFJ)
Why does whenever I fix something about myself just create another problem
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education
As INTP, I know one thing:
People HATE argue with us.
Because, more worked up they get, more confused we are. More confused we are, more worked up they get, because they think, we don't take them seriously and treat them like kids/CONDESCENDINGLY. We don't. We just prove, we are RIGHT, because WHY they are worked up just flee our radar. At least on 'empathizing' level.
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As INTP, I know one thing:
People HATE argue with us.
Because, more worked up they get, more confused we are. More confused we are, more worked up they get, because they think, we don't take them seriously and treat them like kids/CONDESCENDINGLY. We don't. We just prove, we are RIGHT, because WHY they are worked up just flee our radar. At least on 'empathizing' level.
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Oo
INFP here, I definitely day dream a lot, I've planned out the end goals of my future business, before I've even started it! I can picture the whole plot, like its right in front of my eyes.
The majority of my high expectations are on myself, and my mums gardener, that constantly destroys mine, and other peoples, bloody hard work! I'll hire my own again some day!
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INFP here, I definitely day dream a lot, I've planned out the end goals of my future business, before I've even started it! I can picture the whole plot, like its right in front of my eyes.
The majority of my high expectations are on myself, and my mums gardener, that constantly destroys mine, and other peoples, bloody hard work! I'll hire my own again some day!
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deepankar
I can agree, as an INTJ i m mostly about myself and do work when my friends r chilling beside me i just see that as time wasting and sometimes all though l try to avoid making myself look superior but sometimes l just tell people that how l m better than them and how they r not working as required instead of complaining
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I can agree, as an INTJ i m mostly about myself and do work when my friends r chilling beside me i just see that as time wasting and sometimes all though l try to avoid making myself look superior but sometimes l just tell people that how l m better than them and how they r not working as required instead of complaining
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Starglitter
the thing about ENFJ is true, we really value the condition and growth of those dearly to us, them being okay makes us double okay, which sometimes, worrying that wed be too much, like smothering, and overlooking the details of what a person was actually having problems on, like what the video stated.
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the thing about ENFJ is true, we really value the condition and growth of those dearly to us, them being okay makes us double okay, which sometimes, worrying that wed be too much, like smothering, and overlooking the details of what a person was actually having problems on, like what the video stated.
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lily
As an ENFP, this is very accurate. I get restless easily and honestly I'd be really dissatisfied with my life if I didn't use reading as a coping mechanism. As it happens, I'm quite happy with my life rn and appreciate everyday things that might not be noticeable to others: )
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As an ENFP, this is very accurate. I get restless easily and honestly I'd be really dissatisfied with my life if I didn't use reading as a coping mechanism. As it happens, I'm quite happy with my life rn and appreciate everyday things that might not be noticeable to others: )
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Ziggy
as an ENFP this is too true omg, i literally want to get a phd in physics 1000 hours flying experience and become an astronaut and then become a therapist (possibly create movies instead. its so unrealistic but thats just the way i am i guess
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as an ENFP this is too true omg, i literally want to get a phd in physics 1000 hours flying experience and become an astronaut and then become a therapist (possibly create movies instead. its so unrealistic but thats just the way i am i guess
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xDecisivex
INTP here, I must say this is almost true. I don't struggle with getting to know people deeply at all as long as they are understanding my logic and are funny. I'm also not usually rude to people, but I make a lot of sassy comments.
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INTP here, I must say this is almost true. I don't struggle with getting to know people deeply at all as long as they are understanding my logic and are funny. I'm also not usually rude to people, but I make a lot of sassy comments.
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Zein.
Enfp here. And yes, it can get very stressful.
Being so disorganized and having no focus at all really makes our lives harder. And its also not like we can fix this behavior in one snap, its very hard to brush off.
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Enfp here. And yes, it can get very stressful.
Being so disorganized and having no focus at all really makes our lives harder. And its also not like we can fix this behavior in one snap, its very hard to brush off.
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Benja
-Stubborn
-Insensitive (I try my best not to be mean, I swear)
-Dislike comminment
-Doesnt know how to relax
-Overly critical, especially with myself
I feel like a mix of ISTP, ESTJ and INTJ lmao
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-Stubborn
-Insensitive (I try my best not to be mean, I swear)
-Dislike comminment
-Doesnt know how to relax
-Overly critical, especially with myself
I feel like a mix of ISTP, ESTJ and INTJ lmao
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Rabarberellum
In my experience toxic is a relative thing. What is toxic for me, can be great for others. It just a matter of how much internal teflon you have and what kind of person you are.
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In my experience toxic is a relative thing. What is toxic for me, can be great for others. It just a matter of how much internal teflon you have and what kind of person you are.
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Jarrod
msot jorunalisitis are enfp! theyrey shallwoo aobutu long term stragetgies and goals so they dont undertan in depth 90 prcent of waht they talk about whehter potlicsi or banking.
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msot jorunalisitis are enfp! theyrey shallwoo aobutu long term stragetgies and goals so they dont undertan in depth 90 prcent of waht they talk about whehter potlicsi or banking.
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SavviKing
I'm an INFJ-T, you explained me exactly and hearing that from another person makes me feel bad about myself and I'm always trying to chance my ways, but nothing is working: (
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I'm an INFJ-T, you explained me exactly and hearing that from another person makes me feel bad about myself and I'm always trying to chance my ways, but nothing is working: (
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QwQ
i really dont like how anything to do with a personality type that has t in it aka thinking means automatically they are organized, cold, smart, hardworking makes no sense to me.
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i really dont like how anything to do with a personality type that has t in it aka thinking means automatically they are organized, cold, smart, hardworking makes no sense to me.
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Shachin's
I'm an INFJ Even I have analysis paralysis and obsessive with perfectionism, if my art has a flaw I get self critical and Start getting burnt out out of mental exhaustion
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I'm an INFJ Even I have analysis paralysis and obsessive with perfectionism, if my art has a flaw I get self critical and Start getting burnt out out of mental exhaustion
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Logan
Despite taking the test and somewhat getting mixed results of INTJ and INFJ. They both fit me a little more than I like to admit, especially with being self critical.
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Despite taking the test and somewhat getting mixed results of INTJ and INFJ. They both fit me a little more than I like to admit, especially with being self critical.
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psych2go
I already have the worst traits including; worst person ever, deserving to die, and would make the world wayyyyyyyyyy better if they would dissapear
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I already have the worst traits including; worst person ever, deserving to die, and would make the world wayyyyyyyyyy better if they would dissapear
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Jarrod
every human nation organization and civilization is a black hole in him or herself. then you cant always succeed as an intj entj infj enfj.
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every human nation organization and civilization is a black hole in him or herself. then you cant always succeed as an intj entj infj enfj.
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