3 Powerful Mindsets that People Find Attractive
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Orion
I tend toward all three of these points, and gravitate more to those who embody similar traits (despite having to sacrifice the majority of my time with people who embody the polar opposite in painful contrast; in fact its happening even as I type this post, which isnt good at all.
Its honestly still a little jarring to receive compliments and positive feedback from others given past circumstances (with more ridicule, criticism, and outright hostility than any rational mind would call fair and/or reasonable, but it also feels like constant reminders that Im worth it despite these challenges, and this experience we call life has good moments that offer a well-earned respite.
The fact I always find a way to muddle through each challenge no matter how dire things may seem is proof that Im strong enough to endure what breaks many a wavering soul; this may be why a friend I briefly knew back in 2021 referred to me as a warrior, not because Im a fighter, but because I endure challenges with the strength and conviction of a warrior.
Hm is this the proverbial Way of the Warrior, or something akin to it? Ive been deemed to have traits and characteristics associated with leaders, and Im also an ENFP who presents as INFJ, according to the MBTI, which could explain why people (including strangers in public) come to me for assistance or directions even if weve never met before, and often when my own social/emotional battery is drained and/or overloaded (and I still make time to assist em)
Maybe its as simple as I care, and thats what people see in me: someone who cares.
_I care. _
Orion J. Zeds campaign slogan
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I tend toward all three of these points, and gravitate more to those who embody similar traits (despite having to sacrifice the majority of my time with people who embody the polar opposite in painful contrast; in fact its happening even as I type this post, which isnt good at all.
Its honestly still a little jarring to receive compliments and positive feedback from others given past circumstances (with more ridicule, criticism, and outright hostility than any rational mind would call fair and/or reasonable, but it also feels like constant reminders that Im worth it despite these challenges, and this experience we call life has good moments that offer a well-earned respite.
The fact I always find a way to muddle through each challenge no matter how dire things may seem is proof that Im strong enough to endure what breaks many a wavering soul; this may be why a friend I briefly knew back in 2021 referred to me as a warrior, not because Im a fighter, but because I endure challenges with the strength and conviction of a warrior.
Hm is this the proverbial Way of the Warrior, or something akin to it? Ive been deemed to have traits and characteristics associated with leaders, and Im also an ENFP who presents as INFJ, according to the MBTI, which could explain why people (including strangers in public) come to me for assistance or directions even if weve never met before, and often when my own social/emotional battery is drained and/or overloaded (and I still make time to assist em)
Maybe its as simple as I care, and thats what people see in me: someone who cares.
_I care. _
Orion J. Zeds campaign slogan
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Christina_YJ
The way I behave towards other people is very different. I think I tend to absorb whatever vibe theyre showing off and it changes how I treat people. This happens when I dont realise it. I have a friend who is negative and she doesnt treat me fairly but I think it is because of how she is. I dont feel like getting close to her and she expect me to do something when she cant even do it. I have another friend who is amazing and somehow the best friend from my dreams. She helped me overcome my problems whenever I have one. Because she is a wonderful friend, I wanted to repay her back by showing her kindness and loyalty that I never show before. Some of my friends what I say sometimes and I told her that and she doesnt like people like that which somehow makes it very happy. Knowing how several people who are friends act insensitive tells me how different she is from any other friends I have. I hoped those who are looking for a friend meets your expectations will get it soon. I waited for someone like her so long the point is, different kind of people who treats me, I treat them how they like so I dont even know my true self. Different people affect how I talked to them and treat them. For some friends I just ignore because they never move considered how I feel. Those are the inconsiderate and unreasonable people. Those friends who cared for me, Ill give them more of my attention. Those friends who kept on asking for my attention, Ill ignore them because they dont seem to understand why Im avoiding them. Im trying to seek for my reasons of myself to make myself better. Researching make me happier: D
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The way I behave towards other people is very different. I think I tend to absorb whatever vibe theyre showing off and it changes how I treat people. This happens when I dont realise it. I have a friend who is negative and she doesnt treat me fairly but I think it is because of how she is. I dont feel like getting close to her and she expect me to do something when she cant even do it. I have another friend who is amazing and somehow the best friend from my dreams. She helped me overcome my problems whenever I have one. Because she is a wonderful friend, I wanted to repay her back by showing her kindness and loyalty that I never show before. Some of my friends what I say sometimes and I told her that and she doesnt like people like that which somehow makes it very happy. Knowing how several people who are friends act insensitive tells me how different she is from any other friends I have. I hoped those who are looking for a friend meets your expectations will get it soon. I waited for someone like her so long the point is, different kind of people who treats me, I treat them how they like so I dont even know my true self. Different people affect how I talked to them and treat them. For some friends I just ignore because they never move considered how I feel. Those are the inconsiderate and unreasonable people. Those friends who cared for me, Ill give them more of my attention. Those friends who kept on asking for my attention, Ill ignore them because they dont seem to understand why Im avoiding them. Im trying to seek for my reasons of myself to make myself better. Researching make me happier: D
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Ryan
Sensations tension no brainer err happened wot findy wits ood instant proximity itty whirrs going flow err thought session mood hunt impulses instincts can't force tood crowds oot measures idfk how to properly tally tilt whirrs wants n need hides let em go b wits freedom ood feeling confusion excessive heated up this season idfk sop approved popular methodology meany make moves mimicry whys tricky this setup attempting results consequences sum sorts sensation mixy signals friction whirrs modus truely maybe could ya discover am deep fakey hella dumb flunky terrible meh search meh cat scan keepy in minds popular standards is itty disservice breaking doon jus eeking oot survive sum sort scum intense emotions them zounds struck meh ood thought funny jus playing rounds hectic pitys paces so lame wanna shares felt safe gud company wildly went whirrs wot happens wits our progression kinda curious possibilities idfk sensation seeking satisfaction o contusion course knockoot rounds ya needy dummy smartmouth stfu let's ago moving oon gits oot ours sways err results consequences collection choas n mores nuffins alls furs to lose jus caring stuff done tricksy meh throwing meh loopy behavior sum reflective properties probably fool thinky encourage jokey along cohabitation furs lifespan ood idea floating rounds feels like tiring wurk oot destress dis fiend idfk effects affection curious whirrs vee generation environmental pressure feely forced wanna release tension to enjoys freedom moderation tips taps time oot olly olly oxzyn frets so wot weirdo dat tally marr meh meany bys nya sojourneys
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Sensations tension no brainer err happened wot findy wits ood instant proximity itty whirrs going flow err thought session mood hunt impulses instincts can't force tood crowds oot measures idfk how to properly tally tilt whirrs wants n need hides let em go b wits freedom ood feeling confusion excessive heated up this season idfk sop approved popular methodology meany make moves mimicry whys tricky this setup attempting results consequences sum sorts sensation mixy signals friction whirrs modus truely maybe could ya discover am deep fakey hella dumb flunky terrible meh search meh cat scan keepy in minds popular standards is itty disservice breaking doon jus eeking oot survive sum sort scum intense emotions them zounds struck meh ood thought funny jus playing rounds hectic pitys paces so lame wanna shares felt safe gud company wildly went whirrs wot happens wits our progression kinda curious possibilities idfk sensation seeking satisfaction o contusion course knockoot rounds ya needy dummy smartmouth stfu let's ago moving oon gits oot ours sways err results consequences collection choas n mores nuffins alls furs to lose jus caring stuff done tricksy meh throwing meh loopy behavior sum reflective properties probably fool thinky encourage jokey along cohabitation furs lifespan ood idea floating rounds feels like tiring wurk oot destress dis fiend idfk effects affection curious whirrs vee generation environmental pressure feely forced wanna release tension to enjoys freedom moderation tips taps time oot olly olly oxzyn frets so wot weirdo dat tally marr meh meany bys nya sojourneys
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The
Seems that I fall in all 3 of the powerful mindsets.
I try to keep a positive attitude around myself and others
When I realize that I'm not doing well, I try to escape the situation and recover by myself and when I can't, I let others know that I'm upset and need time for myself.
I also stay honest to myself, no matter what I see other people are doing. I'm not gonna change my behavior or appearance to fit in with the cool kids, I know that isn't good for you and I wouldn't want that because I won't be honest to myself.
And yet I would say I have a good amount of friends that I talk to but no bigger relationship with someone.
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Seems that I fall in all 3 of the powerful mindsets.
I try to keep a positive attitude around myself and others
When I realize that I'm not doing well, I try to escape the situation and recover by myself and when I can't, I let others know that I'm upset and need time for myself.
I also stay honest to myself, no matter what I see other people are doing. I'm not gonna change my behavior or appearance to fit in with the cool kids, I know that isn't good for you and I wouldn't want that because I won't be honest to myself.
And yet I would say I have a good amount of friends that I talk to but no bigger relationship with someone.
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Nick
I'm all for emotional intelligence, not only despite but BECAUSE of the fact that I haven't always been the best example. Genuinely nice people (as opposed to merely social ones) have typically had this quality, and I've benefitted from it greatly when it happens. In fact, I really don't think that the outgoing social traits that society favors count for very much unless paired with real emotional intelligence, and sensitivity to others' feelings.
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I'm all for emotional intelligence, not only despite but BECAUSE of the fact that I haven't always been the best example. Genuinely nice people (as opposed to merely social ones) have typically had this quality, and I've benefitted from it greatly when it happens. In fact, I really don't think that the outgoing social traits that society favors count for very much unless paired with real emotional intelligence, and sensitivity to others' feelings.
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Anthony
I agree with all three traits! I've always liked people who are emotionally smart and pick up on things quite fast all while being real to themselves. You can't trust a person if they're lying to themselves, right? On positivity, I'm not fond of ultra realistic people or even people who like to keep it real and just be negative with you. It's also not good for people who are too overly positive to the point that they come off as fake.
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I agree with all three traits! I've always liked people who are emotionally smart and pick up on things quite fast all while being real to themselves. You can't trust a person if they're lying to themselves, right? On positivity, I'm not fond of ultra realistic people or even people who like to keep it real and just be negative with you. It's also not good for people who are too overly positive to the point that they come off as fake.
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Spiritflight
Dear Psych2go
This is my millionth time watching your videos, liking your videos, yet my first time commenting on your videos. I have a lot of anxiety and stuff Ive been stressing about lately, and Ive just been binge watching your videos every day. It makes me feel good about myself, and those around me. Im still feeling anxious about some things, but you help me in so many ways, I cant say thank you enough
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Dear Psych2go
This is my millionth time watching your videos, liking your videos, yet my first time commenting on your videos. I have a lot of anxiety and stuff Ive been stressing about lately, and Ive just been binge watching your videos every day. It makes me feel good about myself, and those around me. Im still feeling anxious about some things, but you help me in so many ways, I cant say thank you enough
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Gl
Meanwhile me not trusting anyone to be more than friends because of betrayal, bullying and just able to turn any good thing into a bad thing if i explain the specifics away enough. To the point i was confessed to atleast 3 times by 3 different people and rejected them all as i had heard 2 of them get dared to do that and the third i asked what they liked about me and they said they were paid $20 to say that
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Meanwhile me not trusting anyone to be more than friends because of betrayal, bullying and just able to turn any good thing into a bad thing if i explain the specifics away enough. To the point i was confessed to atleast 3 times by 3 different people and rejected them all as i had heard 2 of them get dared to do that and the third i asked what they liked about me and they said they were paid $20 to say that
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neco
Well the problem with being authentic is, that me being authentic would mean shutting out everyone and maybe interact with them once a month. Don't think that would help. And that's a bit of my problem with people saying just be yourself and everything will be great. Some people simply aren't really all that likable. And if they want it to change then they have to put on an act.
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Well the problem with being authentic is, that me being authentic would mean shutting out everyone and maybe interact with them once a month. Don't think that would help. And that's a bit of my problem with people saying just be yourself and everything will be great. Some people simply aren't really all that likable. And if they want it to change then they have to put on an act.
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Warxior
being an INTP, is it really important to be approachable? , because at the end of the day its just waste of effort. obviously people are important, but only when they are fulfilling their job, for ex, the milkman delivers milk, talkative kid talks and teacher teaches etc, i just dont get what else there is to people. id rather not spend time to become approachable tbh.
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being an INTP, is it really important to be approachable? , because at the end of the day its just waste of effort. obviously people are important, but only when they are fulfilling their job, for ex, the milkman delivers milk, talkative kid talks and teacher teaches etc, i just dont get what else there is to people. id rather not spend time to become approachable tbh.
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Jinouga
Hey just dropping by to say a few things. So like probably a lot other people here I too have some problems but to be honest these kind of videos help me to have a different perspective of things or live and make me try to improve. Also they make me think that things can change to the better. So honestly thank you for making these videos.
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Hey just dropping by to say a few things. So like probably a lot other people here I too have some problems but to be honest these kind of videos help me to have a different perspective of things or live and make me try to improve. Also they make me think that things can change to the better. So honestly thank you for making these videos.
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Cupcake_Shuffle
Its important to me to be authentic in my romantic relationship since I feel that Im a people pleaser at work and in my family. If we want to be together for the rest of our lives, we must love each other for all that we are. Disagreements are normal and communication is key. Love your videos.
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Its important to me to be authentic in my romantic relationship since I feel that Im a people pleaser at work and in my family. If we want to be together for the rest of our lives, we must love each other for all that we are. Disagreements are normal and communication is key. Love your videos.
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EChillyKahlil
Fear of judgement or rejection, that's where I'm at at the moment. I think there's a self awareness piece I'm missing, or maybe I'm being impatient and a month isn't quite long enough to get back into the groove after 4 years of isolationism. Anyway, thanks again for the video!
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Fear of judgement or rejection, that's where I'm at at the moment. I think there's a self awareness piece I'm missing, or maybe I'm being impatient and a month isn't quite long enough to get back into the groove after 4 years of isolationism. Anyway, thanks again for the video!
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Dave
I'm not a particularly positive person. Never have been. So I don't really judge someone if they're battling their own demons. As long as you know when the battle is hardest you can stay away from them and let them deal with it. Could be worth being more open minded about such things.
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I'm not a particularly positive person. Never have been. So I don't really judge someone if they're battling their own demons. As long as you know when the battle is hardest you can stay away from them and let them deal with it. Could be worth being more open minded about such things.
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Mr.
For me, I find when people aren't embarrassed to enjoy things attractive. There is still a big social stigma over liking things that are considered childish like cartoons and Disney films. You can still be an adult while still having that wonder for life like children do.
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For me, I find when people aren't embarrassed to enjoy things attractive. There is still a big social stigma over liking things that are considered childish like cartoons and Disney films. You can still be an adult while still having that wonder for life like children do.
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Flamegamer
I highly agree on those 3 traits. When theres someone that Im attracted to, I like them for their mindset and personality, regardless of their appearance. I stay true to myself most of the time. But there are some people who just doesnt want accept me for who I am.
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I highly agree on those 3 traits. When theres someone that Im attracted to, I like them for their mindset and personality, regardless of their appearance. I stay true to myself most of the time. But there are some people who just doesnt want accept me for who I am.
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Drew
I have a kind of brain that makes people obsess over me, hate me for delusional and false reasons, and make pathetic attempts to outsmart or patronize to me like a child. Either ive got an ugly, ugly brain, or a brain that attracts the uglies like moths to a flame.
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I have a kind of brain that makes people obsess over me, hate me for delusional and false reasons, and make pathetic attempts to outsmart or patronize to me like a child. Either ive got an ugly, ugly brain, or a brain that attracts the uglies like moths to a flame.
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Sam
Study the laws of the universe, and dont be afraid to work through the traumas from the past that make you feel and respond to the world in the ways that you do. Its all ok. The reward is you will much more easily develop all three attributes in this video.
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Study the laws of the universe, and dont be afraid to work through the traumas from the past that make you feel and respond to the world in the ways that you do. Its all ok. The reward is you will much more easily develop all three attributes in this video.
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JustAlpha
Attraction is multi faceted. What can be extremely attractive for one, may be terrible for another. One must understand though that the understanding of one's self and building self esteem as a result is attractive no matter who you're talking to. :)
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Attraction is multi faceted. What can be extremely attractive for one, may be terrible for another. One must understand though that the understanding of one's self and building self esteem as a result is attractive no matter who you're talking to. :)
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Panuganti
What to do if I'm a negative person by nature? I can either be genuine and be unattractive due to my negativity (have experienced this first hand, or I could suppress negative thoughts and be not genuine, which is also unattractive
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What to do if I'm a negative person by nature? I can either be genuine and be unattractive due to my negativity (have experienced this first hand, or I could suppress negative thoughts and be not genuine, which is also unattractive
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DOODADOF
The only thing you need to know about emotions is other people control them. they are strictly reactionary. if you only care about how you feel congratulations your a foll that's easily manipulated. rise above stick to science.
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The only thing you need to know about emotions is other people control them. they are strictly reactionary. if you only care about how you feel congratulations your a foll that's easily manipulated. rise above stick to science.
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Abyssinia
Thank you.
Talking from personal experience though, Authenticity is one of the least attractive traits to most people in the world; i rarely meet those who appreciate my truthfulness even when it challenges their egos.
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Thank you.
Talking from personal experience though, Authenticity is one of the least attractive traits to most people in the world; i rarely meet those who appreciate my truthfulness even when it challenges their egos.
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Kephy_
Bruh I'm the opposite of these mindsets, I'm not positive at all, I don't feel emotions so I don't understand them and I'm literally acting like a fictionnal character all the time because I don't even know who I am
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Bruh I'm the opposite of these mindsets, I'm not positive at all, I don't feel emotions so I don't understand them and I'm literally acting like a fictionnal character all the time because I don't even know who I am
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Maru
Id actually really appreciate some steps on how to grow emotional intelligence.
I feel like understanding myself can be the key to understanding others, tho im not sure how to build on it really
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Id actually really appreciate some steps on how to grow emotional intelligence.
I feel like understanding myself can be the key to understanding others, tho im not sure how to build on it really
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Groadmiral
In my opinion intelligence is pretty attractive. Of course it's not mindset but it's a trait I like. some people of my course made jokes because I had a crush on the smart girl of our course.
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In my opinion intelligence is pretty attractive. Of course it's not mindset but it's a trait I like. some people of my course made jokes because I had a crush on the smart girl of our course.
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