A Video to Watch When You Need Comfort
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Date: 2023-12-13
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thedinkster7655
Just 2 days ago on Sunday I went to the mall with my brother and my dad and I went to the VR arcade there and played half life alyx for the very first time and I have never seen a VR headset before let alone heard of one and when I was playing half life alyx on some else's save file I was doing a platforming puzzle and I was in an open room with a TV above and behind me on the wall displaying the game I was playing and in the game it looked like I was about to fall off a box and I knew I was in an open room so I just moved my right foot forward slowly in case I don't feel a platform but I felt the carpet floor underneath me and Instantly knew I was fully safe and I feel like as if I had looked into half life alyx when it released I would not feel this same as I did 2 days ago and it was so freaking trippy in VR because it looked and felt like I was in a closed room and the headphones I was wearing were noise cancelling and the same sound quality as going to the cinema movie theater and I had to go into the game settings to turn down the volume and when I walked forward I saw a virtual wall saying stop and looking around withing reach of the virtual wall I saw the entire perimeter of the virtual wall and moved to the center of the perimeter. The only thing I can really confirm about VR for the first time is that's it's freaking awesome to the third degree.
For a few weeks I have been having dreams of being in a battle reenactment and last night I dreamed I was in a WW2 reenactment taking over a museum and since I have been having these reenactment dreams I have remembered every single detail and I have looked into battle reenactment and it sounds very very interesting and fun to me.
These dreams started in October and right up until then I was dreaming I was sonic the hedgehog exploring the multiverse and since last December and last Christmas I put on my wishlist for Santa that I wanted to be Sonic the hedgehog so closest I got which is spot on for me is non stop having amazing dreams of being sonic the hedgehog exploring the multiverse and the backrooms and creepypasta stories and it's just endless
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Just 2 days ago on Sunday I went to the mall with my brother and my dad and I went to the VR arcade there and played half life alyx for the very first time and I have never seen a VR headset before let alone heard of one and when I was playing half life alyx on some else's save file I was doing a platforming puzzle and I was in an open room with a TV above and behind me on the wall displaying the game I was playing and in the game it looked like I was about to fall off a box and I knew I was in an open room so I just moved my right foot forward slowly in case I don't feel a platform but I felt the carpet floor underneath me and Instantly knew I was fully safe and I feel like as if I had looked into half life alyx when it released I would not feel this same as I did 2 days ago and it was so freaking trippy in VR because it looked and felt like I was in a closed room and the headphones I was wearing were noise cancelling and the same sound quality as going to the cinema movie theater and I had to go into the game settings to turn down the volume and when I walked forward I saw a virtual wall saying stop and looking around withing reach of the virtual wall I saw the entire perimeter of the virtual wall and moved to the center of the perimeter. The only thing I can really confirm about VR for the first time is that's it's freaking awesome to the third degree.
For a few weeks I have been having dreams of being in a battle reenactment and last night I dreamed I was in a WW2 reenactment taking over a museum and since I have been having these reenactment dreams I have remembered every single detail and I have looked into battle reenactment and it sounds very very interesting and fun to me.
These dreams started in October and right up until then I was dreaming I was sonic the hedgehog exploring the multiverse and since last December and last Christmas I put on my wishlist for Santa that I wanted to be Sonic the hedgehog so closest I got which is spot on for me is non stop having amazing dreams of being sonic the hedgehog exploring the multiverse and the backrooms and creepypasta stories and it's just endless
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psych2go
I just don't see how it could get better for me. Things aren't going well right now.
I had 2 friends who I cared about above all else, and I trusted them with everything. The key word there is had. So what happened? They sound like such good friends, what could've happened to tear it apart?
I happened. We got into a touchy subject of debate, and, well, it didn't go down too well. We had different views on the matter and we left the arguement quite upset. A couple hours later, I went to ask them if they were alright and if I upset them, because I was worried I had. They said I did and I made the wrong respones to that. This was what ruined everything. I asked how? Instead of apologising and letting it go. After that, they got really angry and continued the deabte from earlier, names were thrown at me, and I tried denying them, but it was no use. The second friend came in midway through and they weren't very amicable either. I had never seen them so upset by anything. And that was it. They said they didn't want to talk to me again, and they didn't. I couldn't sleep that night and the next day, I went to them and I said that I know they didn't want to see me again, but I thought that if they were going to do that, I should give a proper applogy first, and so I did. It didn't change anything though. 2 weeks went by and I asked if there was anything I could do to fix it, and I was told to f ck off and that they didn't want to fix things and would prefer it if I never spoke to them again. All I have left of them is a broken red pen they gave me about 5 months ago, and they said I should put it on my Christmas tree, and I plan to. The worst part about it isn't that they aren't talking to me anymore, it's that it's all my fault and I'm the reason this all happened.
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I just don't see how it could get better for me. Things aren't going well right now.
I had 2 friends who I cared about above all else, and I trusted them with everything. The key word there is had. So what happened? They sound like such good friends, what could've happened to tear it apart?
I happened. We got into a touchy subject of debate, and, well, it didn't go down too well. We had different views on the matter and we left the arguement quite upset. A couple hours later, I went to ask them if they were alright and if I upset them, because I was worried I had. They said I did and I made the wrong respones to that. This was what ruined everything. I asked how? Instead of apologising and letting it go. After that, they got really angry and continued the deabte from earlier, names were thrown at me, and I tried denying them, but it was no use. The second friend came in midway through and they weren't very amicable either. I had never seen them so upset by anything. And that was it. They said they didn't want to talk to me again, and they didn't. I couldn't sleep that night and the next day, I went to them and I said that I know they didn't want to see me again, but I thought that if they were going to do that, I should give a proper applogy first, and so I did. It didn't change anything though. 2 weeks went by and I asked if there was anything I could do to fix it, and I was told to f ck off and that they didn't want to fix things and would prefer it if I never spoke to them again. All I have left of them is a broken red pen they gave me about 5 months ago, and they said I should put it on my Christmas tree, and I plan to. The worst part about it isn't that they aren't talking to me anymore, it's that it's all my fault and I'm the reason this all happened.
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dragonlord3389
I've been having a ruff time lately, it feels like the closer it gets to Christmas the stronger cognitive dissonance and intrusive thoughts take hold. Been very ruff on myself and been putting my self last again.
I needed this video and I saved it for later viewing again.
In life we are not given the rules but are expected to govern our emotions and actions off of societal norms. We are sapost to act like drones or robots. I strive every single day that the more harder my life gets the more positive I need to act. No matter what life throws you can heal and you will get threw it. On the other hand all the negativity drags me down and makes me have very very dark thoughts. The further away from my past I get the more it creeps up on me and taps me on the shoulder.
Thank you for the video, I have cried ALOT today and this video brought me to tears. I just had a convo with my father saying that I'm always strong, positive and encouraging for others but no body is that way to me. When will I find my happiness because apparently the universe thinks I'm indestructible because it throws everything, even the kitchen sink at me.
Yet my own inner universe is a constant one yet couldn't be more different from those around me.
We are all given opportunitys and adversities, how we choose to deal with them shapes and morphs us into who we are ment to be.
Thank you for the video, Peace and love to all creations and may your Christmas be filled with joy, happiness and many long years of prosperity.
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I've been having a ruff time lately, it feels like the closer it gets to Christmas the stronger cognitive dissonance and intrusive thoughts take hold. Been very ruff on myself and been putting my self last again.
I needed this video and I saved it for later viewing again.
In life we are not given the rules but are expected to govern our emotions and actions off of societal norms. We are sapost to act like drones or robots. I strive every single day that the more harder my life gets the more positive I need to act. No matter what life throws you can heal and you will get threw it. On the other hand all the negativity drags me down and makes me have very very dark thoughts. The further away from my past I get the more it creeps up on me and taps me on the shoulder.
Thank you for the video, I have cried ALOT today and this video brought me to tears. I just had a convo with my father saying that I'm always strong, positive and encouraging for others but no body is that way to me. When will I find my happiness because apparently the universe thinks I'm indestructible because it throws everything, even the kitchen sink at me.
Yet my own inner universe is a constant one yet couldn't be more different from those around me.
We are all given opportunitys and adversities, how we choose to deal with them shapes and morphs us into who we are ment to be.
Thank you for the video, Peace and love to all creations and may your Christmas be filled with joy, happiness and many long years of prosperity.
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zacharymonroe5918
In our lives, on this planet, in this solar system, in this galaxy, and in this universe, our problems our so minuscule compared to the vast wonders and unknowns of the universe beyond our little planet. We are a grain of sand, in a vast ocean of an unknown, and our problems are like dust in the proverbial wind. I personally find deep meaningful conversations to be quite therapeutic. We all come from different backgrounds, and the conversations we have in life, help us gain a better understanding of the community we live in. If you are sitting alone at a restaurant, pub/bar, or wherever it is that you are alone, strike up a conversation with someone there. If you feel more comfortable, stay with your own cohort. By talking with one another, talking about our experiences, interests, etc, it can have the ability to heal us over time. We are only given a short time to experience life. It will be rough at times, scary, and at times freighting. I nearly drove my self into insanity by trying to make sense of the dual nature of human existence, where creativity and beauty coexist with how irrational, chaotic, depraved the world, we live in can be. You ll find peace and comfort in your lives, but its all about the journey. Once you find what, clicks, your mind and troubles will wash away with time. I m on this journey with y'all, may the coming and going of the tide remain low.
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In our lives, on this planet, in this solar system, in this galaxy, and in this universe, our problems our so minuscule compared to the vast wonders and unknowns of the universe beyond our little planet. We are a grain of sand, in a vast ocean of an unknown, and our problems are like dust in the proverbial wind. I personally find deep meaningful conversations to be quite therapeutic. We all come from different backgrounds, and the conversations we have in life, help us gain a better understanding of the community we live in. If you are sitting alone at a restaurant, pub/bar, or wherever it is that you are alone, strike up a conversation with someone there. If you feel more comfortable, stay with your own cohort. By talking with one another, talking about our experiences, interests, etc, it can have the ability to heal us over time. We are only given a short time to experience life. It will be rough at times, scary, and at times freighting. I nearly drove my self into insanity by trying to make sense of the dual nature of human existence, where creativity and beauty coexist with how irrational, chaotic, depraved the world, we live in can be. You ll find peace and comfort in your lives, but its all about the journey. Once you find what, clicks, your mind and troubles will wash away with time. I m on this journey with y'all, may the coming and going of the tide remain low.
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hoppy875
Today i went to the cinema very late, didn't like the movie that much, but decided to catch the last bus instead of calling a taxi. Managed to help 3 people at the bus stop while waiting. First some drunk man aproached a girl to baigain money and i steped in like we are friends, just go away please did the trick, but yeah, i felt that adrenaline rush, it sucks. She thanked me, and much later, her car arrived. Then, after the teenage boy asked us to look up taxi prices. He ordered a taxi but then his phone died and he didnt know what to do and i think, wasnt bold enough to straight up ask for help. I realised, he was waiting for a taxi that wont arrive and his last bus already departed. So I just ordered him a taxi through my phone. He paid me in cash. Lastly, the woman was stressed that she, too, missed her last bus, but it turned out that was the same i waited for, and i showed her a schedule in my app that said it'll arrive. We got on the bus and I told the boy the numbers for taxi and all the info. Then i texted the driver to not miss the guy and how he looks like. I was able to see through my app that he indeed picked up the boy and drove him home. I am just sharing this as a little wholesome story because, despite me not enjoying the cinema that much, it felt good being in a time and place where i was able to help out. I felt really good about myself.
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Today i went to the cinema very late, didn't like the movie that much, but decided to catch the last bus instead of calling a taxi. Managed to help 3 people at the bus stop while waiting. First some drunk man aproached a girl to baigain money and i steped in like we are friends, just go away please did the trick, but yeah, i felt that adrenaline rush, it sucks. She thanked me, and much later, her car arrived. Then, after the teenage boy asked us to look up taxi prices. He ordered a taxi but then his phone died and he didnt know what to do and i think, wasnt bold enough to straight up ask for help. I realised, he was waiting for a taxi that wont arrive and his last bus already departed. So I just ordered him a taxi through my phone. He paid me in cash. Lastly, the woman was stressed that she, too, missed her last bus, but it turned out that was the same i waited for, and i showed her a schedule in my app that said it'll arrive. We got on the bus and I told the boy the numbers for taxi and all the info. Then i texted the driver to not miss the guy and how he looks like. I was able to see through my app that he indeed picked up the boy and drove him home. I am just sharing this as a little wholesome story because, despite me not enjoying the cinema that much, it felt good being in a time and place where i was able to help out. I felt really good about myself.
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nedoske
normally i wouldnt message my life here but i just need somewhere to let it all out
im a male (wont say age) that endures a whole lot of stuff everyday, i did some things i deeply, deeply regret and i punish myself for them because i never got the punishment i was supposted to be given, im deppresed out of my mind and i not only put up a mask everyday, but i keep it on, even at home i have to use it, it has gotten so bad, i go everywhere tired, im home tired im at my training tired without even starting anything, even worse nobody can hear my out and therapists well. a complicated situation with them, i try to help other, as much as i can, i neglect myself because of it and im aware, but i stopped caring about myself long ago, now helping others is my life. without it. im just nothing, i thought that, if i just dont help a person today, am i even worth it to live? if i cant help people. then what am i?
thank you for reading all this, i hope you live a better life then mine, and if you dont, i just have one quote for you from a fnaf game (sounds absurd ik)
its simple
tomorrow, is another day
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normally i wouldnt message my life here but i just need somewhere to let it all out
im a male (wont say age) that endures a whole lot of stuff everyday, i did some things i deeply, deeply regret and i punish myself for them because i never got the punishment i was supposted to be given, im deppresed out of my mind and i not only put up a mask everyday, but i keep it on, even at home i have to use it, it has gotten so bad, i go everywhere tired, im home tired im at my training tired without even starting anything, even worse nobody can hear my out and therapists well. a complicated situation with them, i try to help other, as much as i can, i neglect myself because of it and im aware, but i stopped caring about myself long ago, now helping others is my life. without it. im just nothing, i thought that, if i just dont help a person today, am i even worth it to live? if i cant help people. then what am i?
thank you for reading all this, i hope you live a better life then mine, and if you dont, i just have one quote for you from a fnaf game (sounds absurd ik)
its simple
tomorrow, is another day
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kittiblu7343
It feels so silly for me. But. my favorite color is blue. Announcing that makes me feel so seen. when i was made to feel so small always. Latey things like. the Jirai Kei fashion. and Sanrio's Kuromi, her whole design. and punk/goth fashion. gives me life. only when i arrange for these items to have my favorite color. It. sucks a little. cause finding pastel blue or vibrant blue items that are equally or more cute thank anything in the color pink. is isolating. I feel just as small as i was always made to feel.
I was told when younger that the color Blue is the most favored color in the world. If that's true. why do i see very little of it? Why are there so few blue flowers, blue fruits, blue accessories. why if we can make pastel pink stuff. why not pastel blue of those same items?
If blue is so favored. why is it treated like it doesn't exist.
It feels small. insignificant. left behind.
The color blue brings me the most comfort. And i feel like i can't have my comfort. we'd rather coat the color in a lie than admire it for what it truly is.
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It feels so silly for me. But. my favorite color is blue. Announcing that makes me feel so seen. when i was made to feel so small always. Latey things like. the Jirai Kei fashion. and Sanrio's Kuromi, her whole design. and punk/goth fashion. gives me life. only when i arrange for these items to have my favorite color. It. sucks a little. cause finding pastel blue or vibrant blue items that are equally or more cute thank anything in the color pink. is isolating. I feel just as small as i was always made to feel.
I was told when younger that the color Blue is the most favored color in the world. If that's true. why do i see very little of it? Why are there so few blue flowers, blue fruits, blue accessories. why if we can make pastel pink stuff. why not pastel blue of those same items?
If blue is so favored. why is it treated like it doesn't exist.
It feels small. insignificant. left behind.
The color blue brings me the most comfort. And i feel like i can't have my comfort. we'd rather coat the color in a lie than admire it for what it truly is.
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lazylemon4081
Theres so much love being shared here that I just wanted to leave a nice message of my own.
Remember that if you ever feel down, depressed or worthless, you are never worthless. You are literally worth everything to you. A quote I really love and want to share: To the world, you are one person. But to one person, you can be the world. And that person can be you, be your own world - cause if anyone will ever have your back, it would be you!
So go out there, have fun, make the most of what you can! And remember you are never alone. Just believe in yourself. Cause I believe in you!
And a personal quote from me:
People will doubt you, people will judge you. But you will stay strong, and you will succeed - as long as you don't doubt yourself.
Take lots and lots of care; )
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Theres so much love being shared here that I just wanted to leave a nice message of my own.
Remember that if you ever feel down, depressed or worthless, you are never worthless. You are literally worth everything to you. A quote I really love and want to share: To the world, you are one person. But to one person, you can be the world. And that person can be you, be your own world - cause if anyone will ever have your back, it would be you!
So go out there, have fun, make the most of what you can! And remember you are never alone. Just believe in yourself. Cause I believe in you!
And a personal quote from me:
People will doubt you, people will judge you. But you will stay strong, and you will succeed - as long as you don't doubt yourself.
Take lots and lots of care; )
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PH3_N0X
Thank you so much for this wonderful comforting message
I have experienced trauma and it sucks, I was told that I was unwanted and not needed. My parents thought I was never good enough. I had closed my self of, and cried myself to sleep. I felt as if I shouldn t exist, like if I should have just never existed. this is all that I need, thanks sooooo much for this! I personally would like to tell anyone else that is going through a rough time to hang in there and that there are people that care about you, you are wanted, and if no one tells you so, then I would. To all that have had past trauma or it is just a rough time for you right now, I would love to just give you a hug. I mean that s what I would have wanted, so just know that you, whom ever reads this is wanted!
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Thank you so much for this wonderful comforting message
I have experienced trauma and it sucks, I was told that I was unwanted and not needed. My parents thought I was never good enough. I had closed my self of, and cried myself to sleep. I felt as if I shouldn t exist, like if I should have just never existed. this is all that I need, thanks sooooo much for this! I personally would like to tell anyone else that is going through a rough time to hang in there and that there are people that care about you, you are wanted, and if no one tells you so, then I would. To all that have had past trauma or it is just a rough time for you right now, I would love to just give you a hug. I mean that s what I would have wanted, so just know that you, whom ever reads this is wanted!
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Charlotte. 0803
I just got back friends with a girl who I was bffs with for 5 years. I don t know how to feel about it but I m slightly happier. I think I just know that it s not the same as it was. I became super sad when we stopped being friends (the beginning of the school year. And my friends have been telling me, you shouldn t be friends with her. She s hurt you a lot. And I ve given her so many chances and I just keep going back. I don t know how to let her go. I know I need to but I just can t. I keep on resorting to her as my comfort space, when she actually hurts me and I don t see it. I seriously need to choose if I want (or need) to be her friend or not. Idk what I should do half of the time. Thank you for this video. I needed it
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I just got back friends with a girl who I was bffs with for 5 years. I don t know how to feel about it but I m slightly happier. I think I just know that it s not the same as it was. I became super sad when we stopped being friends (the beginning of the school year. And my friends have been telling me, you shouldn t be friends with her. She s hurt you a lot. And I ve given her so many chances and I just keep going back. I don t know how to let her go. I know I need to but I just can t. I keep on resorting to her as my comfort space, when she actually hurts me and I don t see it. I seriously need to choose if I want (or need) to be her friend or not. Idk what I should do half of the time. Thank you for this video. I needed it
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psych2go
I'm 17 and is not same 7 years ago? I in the time of that 7yrs ago I'm not getting back turned me into something different. I in the time of that 7yrs ago yep no get back, did something. me start make degree change(kinda basically just like the industry rev or whatevs idk). I started my life story, when I was 10, ya math, 17 rn and 7 years ago is 10yrs old me. anyways. when I 10. I 'life-ly'. created something. something l i f e. I freaking created a story & it still continues till now. and am also holding the weight of something undefined. but is heavy. so heavy. I need to do this. I have to also stop this. this all hurts for me
B A C K. T O. T H I S. V I D. !! !. too hyperactive today, I fcknhg idk y; -; 0. 0 -_- t t T T
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I'm 17 and is not same 7 years ago? I in the time of that 7yrs ago I'm not getting back turned me into something different. I in the time of that 7yrs ago yep no get back, did something. me start make degree change(kinda basically just like the industry rev or whatevs idk). I started my life story, when I was 10, ya math, 17 rn and 7 years ago is 10yrs old me. anyways. when I 10. I 'life-ly'. created something. something l i f e. I freaking created a story & it still continues till now. and am also holding the weight of something undefined. but is heavy. so heavy. I need to do this. I have to also stop this. this all hurts for me
B A C K. T O. T H I S. V I D. !! !. too hyperactive today, I fcknhg idk y; -; 0. 0 -_- t t T T
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edifiedermine9247
I am on a road to recovery. Even though I don t talk, I made friends, and they like having me around. It s been easier for me to enjoy small things. I love my comfy clothes, popcorn, and the beautiful cloudy skies. I love my ability to be able to recreate music I hear on my piano, and I love how happy my dogs are to see me everyday. Life doesn t have to be complicated. You d be surprised as to how many people are just happy to have you in their lives, things wouldn t be the same without you. The way your brain works is entirely new and unique! Now go get yourself your favourite snack, do you like ice cream? Pretzels? Chips? Whatever you d like. You deserve it.
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I am on a road to recovery. Even though I don t talk, I made friends, and they like having me around. It s been easier for me to enjoy small things. I love my comfy clothes, popcorn, and the beautiful cloudy skies. I love my ability to be able to recreate music I hear on my piano, and I love how happy my dogs are to see me everyday. Life doesn t have to be complicated. You d be surprised as to how many people are just happy to have you in their lives, things wouldn t be the same without you. The way your brain works is entirely new and unique! Now go get yourself your favourite snack, do you like ice cream? Pretzels? Chips? Whatever you d like. You deserve it.
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quantumslime7265
This could not have come at a better time. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Honestly its making me cry listening to this lol.
My struggles are probably not comparable with some of the other people here. I'm just struggling with my future and education. The fear of being a young adult and the slip ups of someone who cant concentrate on work and study until its too late to make it up. To be honest though I'm surprised I got this far. Looking back its rather strange to think about. I still feel like a kid. I hope whoever reads this realizes that it is indeed true. You've come far. We all have.
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This could not have come at a better time. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Honestly its making me cry listening to this lol.
My struggles are probably not comparable with some of the other people here. I'm just struggling with my future and education. The fear of being a young adult and the slip ups of someone who cant concentrate on work and study until its too late to make it up. To be honest though I'm surprised I got this far. Looking back its rather strange to think about. I still feel like a kid. I hope whoever reads this realizes that it is indeed true. You've come far. We all have.
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sharkbite7922
I often forget to take time to care for myself when I spend the majority of of my time caring for others.
You are always willing to save others, but who's going to save you?
This is constantly ringing in my head when I felt that i was worthless and meaningless. But reminiscing on how far I've helped me realize that life is worth living. And that there are people that do care. All i have to is reach out to them.
I just want to take this time to thank you. For helping me remember to that.
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I often forget to take time to care for myself when I spend the majority of of my time caring for others.
You are always willing to save others, but who's going to save you?
This is constantly ringing in my head when I felt that i was worthless and meaningless. But reminiscing on how far I've helped me realize that life is worth living. And that there are people that do care. All i have to is reach out to them.
I just want to take this time to thank you. For helping me remember to that.
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rashikasingh5878
Things that bring comfort to me these days:
1. Listening to the same songs
2. Listening to lofi songs
3. Cleaning my space one shelf at a time.
4. Making a letting go and acceptance journal
5. Dancing till I learn the steps
6. Drinking hot chocolate
7. Eating sweet and sugary items
8. Sleeping with my soft toy penguin
9. Writing prayers and writing my diary
10. Helping a child with special needs as helping him makes me feel better.
Hope it helps you: )
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Things that bring comfort to me these days:
1. Listening to the same songs
2. Listening to lofi songs
3. Cleaning my space one shelf at a time.
4. Making a letting go and acceptance journal
5. Dancing till I learn the steps
6. Drinking hot chocolate
7. Eating sweet and sugary items
8. Sleeping with my soft toy penguin
9. Writing prayers and writing my diary
10. Helping a child with special needs as helping him makes me feel better.
Hope it helps you: )
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sw40c
I m sorry, but this is pie in the sky I m 46 and this hasn t happened yet despite being on a healing journey with treatment since 21. This doesn t happen for everyone - just spend time on the internet. I truly hope it happens for others, but for some, like the movie says, it s as good as it gets. False hope is infinitely worse than just learning to accept the hand you re dealt. Never stop aiming for healing, but sometimes it just doesn t happen for some.
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I m sorry, but this is pie in the sky I m 46 and this hasn t happened yet despite being on a healing journey with treatment since 21. This doesn t happen for everyone - just spend time on the internet. I truly hope it happens for others, but for some, like the movie says, it s as good as it gets. False hope is infinitely worse than just learning to accept the hand you re dealt. Never stop aiming for healing, but sometimes it just doesn t happen for some.
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psych2gomandarin
0: 00 intro
0: 14 when everything is going wrong and it feels like the world is punishing you
0: 57 you were born for a reason and you belong here
1: 52 the best moments they haven't happened
2: 05 hope is all around us
2: 43 there is something comforting about the idea of rebirth
3: 25 it's okay to go back in time and visit memories
4: 17 here are some more small ways to practice self-comfort on your own
4: 31 outro
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0: 00 intro
0: 14 when everything is going wrong and it feels like the world is punishing you
0: 57 you were born for a reason and you belong here
1: 52 the best moments they haven't happened
2: 05 hope is all around us
2: 43 there is something comforting about the idea of rebirth
3: 25 it's okay to go back in time and visit memories
4: 17 here are some more small ways to practice self-comfort on your own
4: 31 outro
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meanytime1212
Even if it is hard to believe, the storm you are facing today is temporary, you will come out of the storm one day for sure and you will see the one who saved you from this storm will be no one but yourself, when you finally see the rainbow you might not believe it, yes its you buddy you saved yourself and you will keep doing that over and over again, you are way stronger than you think you are, so don't underestimate yourself buddy.
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Even if it is hard to believe, the storm you are facing today is temporary, you will come out of the storm one day for sure and you will see the one who saved you from this storm will be no one but yourself, when you finally see the rainbow you might not believe it, yes its you buddy you saved yourself and you will keep doing that over and over again, you are way stronger than you think you are, so don't underestimate yourself buddy.
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AdamBorseti
I find the sound of my own footsteps to be very soothing. Sometimes I'll go for a walk and just listen to the sound my shoes make across various surfaces. I listen to every detail, how the footsteps have 2 parts, the sound of the heal landing and then the toes. I try to notice the little deviations of sound as I walk over some leaves or a grassy patch. I know this might sound weird but it's oddly soothing to me.
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I find the sound of my own footsteps to be very soothing. Sometimes I'll go for a walk and just listen to the sound my shoes make across various surfaces. I listen to every detail, how the footsteps have 2 parts, the sound of the heal landing and then the toes. I try to notice the little deviations of sound as I walk over some leaves or a grassy patch. I know this might sound weird but it's oddly soothing to me.
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RockerDefeater
You are wonderful, just the way you are with all of your imperfections and are allowed to embrace them. Life will always have to tear you down and make you feel like you're not important to anyone or anything, but it's very important to remember that you are important to the people around you, even you don't think so. So keep your head up and always keep on believing. Life will get better if you take risks.
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You are wonderful, just the way you are with all of your imperfections and are allowed to embrace them. Life will always have to tear you down and make you feel like you're not important to anyone or anything, but it's very important to remember that you are important to the people around you, even you don't think so. So keep your head up and always keep on believing. Life will get better if you take risks.
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