5 Signs You've Outgrown Your Relationship
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Date: 2024-03-28
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sagya7586
this past month I've been struggling a lot with my relationship with my school friends. I think the term outgrown them is best fitting! I've realized that I became their friend just to pass the time in school, like there is 0 common interests between us. but when i graduated high school. i thought it's too late to ditch them and make new friends because it requires more time and effort. so in college I was still maintaining this friendship and trying to glorify it in my eyes. but recently I became more aware of red-flags in relationships, and oh boy i found a lot. i couldn't let myself be in this toxic friendship setting while putting a smily face on. so, I've chosen the isolation path. I became distant from them; not returning their calls, ghosting them etc. and sadly, communication is not an option here because i know they wouldn't understand it and they'll mock me for being dramatic. so isolation is the only option. good thing i'm graduating college this semester so i won't have to come across them. well, sorry for the large text and bad english. but i really wanted to vent. and as always, thank you so much for videos like these where we feel heard!
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this past month I've been struggling a lot with my relationship with my school friends. I think the term outgrown them is best fitting! I've realized that I became their friend just to pass the time in school, like there is 0 common interests between us. but when i graduated high school. i thought it's too late to ditch them and make new friends because it requires more time and effort. so in college I was still maintaining this friendship and trying to glorify it in my eyes. but recently I became more aware of red-flags in relationships, and oh boy i found a lot. i couldn't let myself be in this toxic friendship setting while putting a smily face on. so, I've chosen the isolation path. I became distant from them; not returning their calls, ghosting them etc. and sadly, communication is not an option here because i know they wouldn't understand it and they'll mock me for being dramatic. so isolation is the only option. good thing i'm graduating college this semester so i won't have to come across them. well, sorry for the large text and bad english. but i really wanted to vent. and as always, thank you so much for videos like these where we feel heard!
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aviatorsound914
Also, remember that these are not concrete rules that says if you see them, it might be time to move on. Remember everything changes in life and sometimes it might happen in unexpected ways. Also, if you’re a high school student just remember that there’s more out there than the concrete walls of high school and you haven’t experienced life until you step out of the boundaries of high school and into college. ;)
Also, I love these videos since it helps many inspiring psychologist and those who want to go into psychiatry understand more about how we can approach and deal with many of these issues.
Psychology is a complex topic dealing with how we express ourselves, and what goes into the making of human emotion. Psychology changes lives and our thoughts and behaviors. We have came a long way since the past and we should be proud of that.
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Also, remember that these are not concrete rules that says if you see them, it might be time to move on. Remember everything changes in life and sometimes it might happen in unexpected ways. Also, if you’re a high school student just remember that there’s more out there than the concrete walls of high school and you haven’t experienced life until you step out of the boundaries of high school and into college. ;)
Also, I love these videos since it helps many inspiring psychologist and those who want to go into psychiatry understand more about how we can approach and deal with many of these issues.
Psychology is a complex topic dealing with how we express ourselves, and what goes into the making of human emotion. Psychology changes lives and our thoughts and behaviors. We have came a long way since the past and we should be proud of that.
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KL-zg7lu
As soon as someone started trying to press having kids, (already had them) I realize I started becoming turned off. That wasn't the only thing that put me off, though it was a significant issue.
That, combined with them trying to take control of business and money that I don't want anyone having access to, because it's my business. Too many people have done illegal things, or spent when they shouldn't have, which holds up my money
I shouldn't have to deal with any of this, and dony want to deal with anything else, esp from someone who is not AT ALL on the same page as I am.
By the time they turned their nose up at going to or volunteering at a botanical garden, I realized we do not have the same life in mind at all.
I don't need to control anyone, but when you're not walking on the same path at all, it's time to part ways.
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As soon as someone started trying to press having kids, (already had them) I realize I started becoming turned off. That wasn't the only thing that put me off, though it was a significant issue.
That, combined with them trying to take control of business and money that I don't want anyone having access to, because it's my business. Too many people have done illegal things, or spent when they shouldn't have, which holds up my money
I shouldn't have to deal with any of this, and dony want to deal with anything else, esp from someone who is not AT ALL on the same page as I am.
By the time they turned their nose up at going to or volunteering at a botanical garden, I realized we do not have the same life in mind at all.
I don't need to control anyone, but when you're not walking on the same path at all, it's time to part ways.
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jerrodplummer6850
Also, your partnership might be experiencing depression, anxiety, and mania due to a lack of consistent feedback within your support network and shared understanding if they
1) frequently doubt your commitment to them, expressing strong emotions but struggle to share their thoughts and plans for the future (uncertainty)
2) often place the opinions of their friends, mentors, and public figures above yours growing the space between you and them (boundaries)
3) publicly accuse and blame you for issues in the relationship without prioritizing discussing them with you directly (gossip)
recognize if your behaviors reflect these issues as they signal a lack of emotional safety and consideration for your partner and support network
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Also, your partnership might be experiencing depression, anxiety, and mania due to a lack of consistent feedback within your support network and shared understanding if they
1) frequently doubt your commitment to them, expressing strong emotions but struggle to share their thoughts and plans for the future (uncertainty)
2) often place the opinions of their friends, mentors, and public figures above yours growing the space between you and them (boundaries)
3) publicly accuse and blame you for issues in the relationship without prioritizing discussing them with you directly (gossip)
recognize if your behaviors reflect these issues as they signal a lack of emotional safety and consideration for your partner and support network
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mgbm8335
Hmmmm I think this mainly applies to like Youthful ages (below 30. The era where there's life changes/walk different paths.
Imagine saying you outgrew someone who's like 5 years older than you and has a higher salary/is the bread winner/has more connections, sounds very off.
Instead of outgrowing I think it's more like the couple is no longer aligned with each other.
People grow differently and they grow at a different pace too. We don't have control of that. You can still love them though.
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Hmmmm I think this mainly applies to like Youthful ages (below 30. The era where there's life changes/walk different paths.
Imagine saying you outgrew someone who's like 5 years older than you and has a higher salary/is the bread winner/has more connections, sounds very off.
Instead of outgrowing I think it's more like the couple is no longer aligned with each other.
People grow differently and they grow at a different pace too. We don't have control of that. You can still love them though.
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chrisoconnor7110
Communication can only go so far, I knew my marriage was over back in 2022 but I held onto hope but began preparing for the worst, we are two humans who love each other but found our paths are going elsewhere, communication, love and intimacy were there, but last year we found we can't keep our commitment intact, we did a great deal right but it still didn't work out
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Communication can only go so far, I knew my marriage was over back in 2022 but I held onto hope but began preparing for the worst, we are two humans who love each other but found our paths are going elsewhere, communication, love and intimacy were there, but last year we found we can't keep our commitment intact, we did a great deal right but it still didn't work out
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pixelizedneko
This is so timely. Just this week, a former friend called me after not talking to me after 1. 5 years just because I already set my boundaries and didn't do the favor she asked then. I didn't answer the call but I asked what she needs. She just asked if I'm available that day. I didn't reply. I've already outgrown our friendship and can't tolerate her attitude anymore
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This is so timely. Just this week, a former friend called me after not talking to me after 1. 5 years just because I already set my boundaries and didn't do the favor she asked then. I didn't answer the call but I asked what she needs. She just asked if I'm available that day. I didn't reply. I've already outgrown our friendship and can't tolerate her attitude anymore
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PCMenten
Outgrowing a relationship is painful for both partners. When I am the one who feels that the relationship has run its course, I have made it a point to be kind but clear. I know that there may be bruised feelings, but I believe it to be a kindness to end the relationship rather than drag things out to spare someone’s feelings.
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Outgrowing a relationship is painful for both partners. When I am the one who feels that the relationship has run its course, I have made it a point to be kind but clear. I know that there may be bruised feelings, but I believe it to be a kindness to end the relationship rather than drag things out to spare someone’s feelings.
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BeelzeKid
a shattered heart that's left in no peace my soul lives on my mind decided. i want to go. there is no way they need me here so i must stay. the mess they made i have to clear. all i am left with. its just fear. never i can dance this dance again. forever alone. my skills i must hone. for when im done. im already gone.
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a shattered heart that's left in no peace my soul lives on my mind decided. i want to go. there is no way they need me here so i must stay. the mess they made i have to clear. all i am left with. its just fear. never i can dance this dance again. forever alone. my skills i must hone. for when im done. im already gone.
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mimigrabner4486
My husband and I had to lose a very close best friend to find each other. Our Narcissistic BFF was the reason was destroying us. We found out that he was telling my husband horrible things and telling me horrible lies that were not true. After we throw away our ex friend. My Husband and I found the spark again
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My husband and I had to lose a very close best friend to find each other. Our Narcissistic BFF was the reason was destroying us. We found out that he was telling my husband horrible things and telling me horrible lies that were not true. After we throw away our ex friend. My Husband and I found the spark again
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urfancyfoxtv
Honestly this also works with other people in your life not just romantic partner when it's time to leave, LEAVE for your own serenity and peace. It very difficult to leave someone you used to love and trust me it's going to be a very long process leaving but you will eventually recover and feel much better.
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Honestly this also works with other people in your life not just romantic partner when it's time to leave, LEAVE for your own serenity and peace. It very difficult to leave someone you used to love and trust me it's going to be a very long process leaving but you will eventually recover and feel much better.
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FROGKING_TM
a girl i liked is now at a other school we waved always when she got off the bus and we smiled when we talked but a year before that i asked if she wanted to be my gf she said she wasnt ready but i still have her on a game should i join her and talk a bit when i see her online
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a girl i liked is now at a other school we waved always when she got off the bus and we smiled when we talked but a year before that i asked if she wanted to be my gf she said she wasnt ready but i still have her on a game should i join her and talk a bit when i see her online
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Unknown-209
What about cyber bullying because these to guys who are adults were insulting me just for the way I speak and they were saying I’m white which I’m not when I told them my race they said I wasn’t they called me dumb and they are aware I’m only in middle school
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What about cyber bullying because these to guys who are adults were insulting me just for the way I speak and they were saying I’m white which I’m not when I told them my race they said I wasn’t they called me dumb and they are aware I’m only in middle school
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IcyRitisha
Time stamps for y'all
1. Is the spark still there 0: 46
2. Do you still share the same goals 1: 49
3. Are you becoming codependent 2: 51
4. Are you in different transitional phrases 3: 49
5. Are you feeling burnt out 5: 26
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Time stamps for y'all
1. Is the spark still there 0: 46
2. Do you still share the same goals 1: 49
3. Are you becoming codependent 2: 51
4. Are you in different transitional phrases 3: 49
5. Are you feeling burnt out 5: 26
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arcadeyous
Most of these seem like obstacles that can be faced together if both sides still care, not reasons to break up tbf
Unless it wasn't real love
Cuz if it is real love you don't care what you do as long as you are with that person
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Most of these seem like obstacles that can be faced together if both sides still care, not reasons to break up tbf
Unless it wasn't real love
Cuz if it is real love you don't care what you do as long as you are with that person
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Hygix_
Psych, i have a question about my relationship, but i would prefer if i would like a personal conversation with you, i just want to explain my situation and i want to atleast know the best decision that i should do
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Psych, i have a question about my relationship, but i would prefer if i would like a personal conversation with you, i just want to explain my situation and i want to atleast know the best decision that i should do
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monie92707
It is very difficult to communicate with a narcissistic partner. My words and concerns are devalued and ignored. The only way to detach from this unrequited relationship is to simply walk away.
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It is very difficult to communicate with a narcissistic partner. My words and concerns are devalued and ignored. The only way to detach from this unrequited relationship is to simply walk away.
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lowpolysunrise
This came to me when. my relationship has hit rough times.
It literally shocked me out of whatever I was doing.
I know I can save my relationship.
I'm confident I can.
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This came to me when. my relationship has hit rough times.
It literally shocked me out of whatever I was doing.
I know I can save my relationship.
I'm confident I can.
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jessieh9127
1. Is the spark still there
2. Do you still share the same goals
3. Are you becoming codependent
4. Are you in different transitional phases
5. Are you feeling burnt out
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1. Is the spark still there
2. Do you still share the same goals
3. Are you becoming codependent
4. Are you in different transitional phases
5. Are you feeling burnt out
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ameyashivalkar3934
I haven’t seen one yet, so I have to ask if you can do a video on empty nest syndrome for the youngest children in their families And if you have can you link it at all
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I haven’t seen one yet, so I have to ask if you can do a video on empty nest syndrome for the youngest children in their families And if you have can you link it at all
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