How To Detach Yourself From Someone You Love
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Date: 2024-04-05
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Dellloga
I have 2 ex girlfriends.
I dated both about 4 years each
I have a son with both of them.
It's been 2 years since my recent left me, and it's been 6 since the previous one left me.
They both made me miserable after the breakup. Yet through all of that I still have feelings for them. I constantly feel grief over both. My mind bombards my heart every day. some weeks I'll go days without sleeping. Even though it's been two years, I want either one to come back.
Deep down I know getting back with either one is a horrible move. Mainly because of the post breakup, I got to see their true colors.
Yet my heart aches for the old days, the good times to return.
Edit: I'd let everything go if I didn't hold onto the grief of losing two families.
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I have 2 ex girlfriends.
I dated both about 4 years each
I have a son with both of them.
It's been 2 years since my recent left me, and it's been 6 since the previous one left me.
They both made me miserable after the breakup. Yet through all of that I still have feelings for them. I constantly feel grief over both. My mind bombards my heart every day. some weeks I'll go days without sleeping. Even though it's been two years, I want either one to come back.
Deep down I know getting back with either one is a horrible move. Mainly because of the post breakup, I got to see their true colors.
Yet my heart aches for the old days, the good times to return.
Edit: I'd let everything go if I didn't hold onto the grief of losing two families.
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psych2go
I definitely think that this is great advice for anybody who feels like they’ve lost themselves in their relationship romantic or otherwise with another person. There’s too many people who believe that that other person makes for their happiness, when in fact, they should only add to their happiness.
Plus, I feel like this would be especially useful for anybody who maybe there coming off of a break up with someone special who maybe it’s just not the right time for the other person Not so much the case of a bad break up, but being on different positions in life and what you want at the time A case of basically the right person but the wrong time I feel like this advice would be great for anybody who is experiencing that.
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I definitely think that this is great advice for anybody who feels like they’ve lost themselves in their relationship romantic or otherwise with another person. There’s too many people who believe that that other person makes for their happiness, when in fact, they should only add to their happiness.
Plus, I feel like this would be especially useful for anybody who maybe there coming off of a break up with someone special who maybe it’s just not the right time for the other person Not so much the case of a bad break up, but being on different positions in life and what you want at the time A case of basically the right person but the wrong time I feel like this advice would be great for anybody who is experiencing that.
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psych2go
Building a healthy level of detachment in a relationship is crucial for maintaining balance and individual growth. One piece of advice is to prioritize communication and set clear boundaries early on. It's important to understand that while love and connection are essential, maintaining a sense of self and independence is equally important. Encouraging each other's personal growth, pursuing individual hobbies and interests, and respecting each other's space are all key aspects of fostering a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Ultimately, it's about finding the right balance between togetherness and individuality.
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Building a healthy level of detachment in a relationship is crucial for maintaining balance and individual growth. One piece of advice is to prioritize communication and set clear boundaries early on. It's important to understand that while love and connection are essential, maintaining a sense of self and independence is equally important. Encouraging each other's personal growth, pursuing individual hobbies and interests, and respecting each other's space are all key aspects of fostering a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Ultimately, it's about finding the right balance between togetherness and individuality.
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DeaconSmith-uf4nw
My ex bf never loved me but i still love him, i tried all i could to keep him with me but he thought it would be better to scream at me and threaten to krill himself because i was panicking that he was going to leave me. I had to go to his friends to make him stay with me but he still attempted. I said i would get police on him if he tried to do it and that was the last time i ever heard from him. But i am still trying to get him back, i found out he moved, where he lives and i sent him emails and texts and looked all over social just to make him be with me again. I love him so much i wont give up
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My ex bf never loved me but i still love him, i tried all i could to keep him with me but he thought it would be better to scream at me and threaten to krill himself because i was panicking that he was going to leave me. I had to go to his friends to make him stay with me but he still attempted. I said i would get police on him if he tried to do it and that was the last time i ever heard from him. But i am still trying to get him back, i found out he moved, where he lives and i sent him emails and texts and looked all over social just to make him be with me again. I love him so much i wont give up
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DaDMonDCB
I wish I had the ability to watch this about 5 years ago, when I had been struggling with a messy end to a connection I had with someone I loved. I'd have done just about anything for them, only for them to eventually start using me, and then accuse me of being toxic when I (at the urging of family, friends, and therapists) questioned why they kept avoiding/pushing me away further.
I have a new friend whom is far more accepting of my feelings and things are much more honest and open, and my only refret is if I hadn't had previous mistakes, we could have been happier that much more quickly.
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I wish I had the ability to watch this about 5 years ago, when I had been struggling with a messy end to a connection I had with someone I loved. I'd have done just about anything for them, only for them to eventually start using me, and then accuse me of being toxic when I (at the urging of family, friends, and therapists) questioned why they kept avoiding/pushing me away further.
I have a new friend whom is far more accepting of my feelings and things are much more honest and open, and my only refret is if I hadn't had previous mistakes, we could have been happier that much more quickly.
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pastarzzoto
People say the best thing to do after a breakup is to focus that energy on improving yourself when it’s really easier said than done, especially if you still love that person and had a very close connection. In theory, it sounds great to focus on working on yourself But in reality, it’s a rollercoaster of emotions and setbacks. It may take some time to recover, but for some of us, the pain becomes permanent. It’s like losing a part of your body that will never grow back.
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People say the best thing to do after a breakup is to focus that energy on improving yourself when it’s really easier said than done, especially if you still love that person and had a very close connection. In theory, it sounds great to focus on working on yourself But in reality, it’s a rollercoaster of emotions and setbacks. It may take some time to recover, but for some of us, the pain becomes permanent. It’s like losing a part of your body that will never grow back.
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psych2go
I have a question,
so I have a group of friends and im happy with them and they are happy with me but time to time I feel like im being ignored so I left the group without saying goodbye.
now I keep overthinking if they hate me because they still ignore me. my question is do I need to talk or say goodbye to them also im scared to talk to them because they might say something i don't like.
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I have a question,
so I have a group of friends and im happy with them and they are happy with me but time to time I feel like im being ignored so I left the group without saying goodbye.
now I keep overthinking if they hate me because they still ignore me. my question is do I need to talk or say goodbye to them also im scared to talk to them because they might say something i don't like.
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WTEditorNudel
I want to let go a little bit because i'm too attached and seem to bother the person with my clinginess, they just too nice not to tell me directly.
It hurts being so aware or assume it all the time and long-term just ruins my mood.
At the same time i struggle to enjoy time alone despite trying to find something to do alone since years
How would i go on about it, any advice
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I want to let go a little bit because i'm too attached and seem to bother the person with my clinginess, they just too nice not to tell me directly.
It hurts being so aware or assume it all the time and long-term just ruins my mood.
At the same time i struggle to enjoy time alone despite trying to find something to do alone since years
How would i go on about it, any advice
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Lord_Nidus
Literally. I'm having this We are friends but more than friend but not dating. can't put a label on what we are. situation and I am not for it.
I am tired of giving this woman my love and I'm tired of the mix signals. and tired of having hope that maybe her and I can be more.
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Literally. I'm having this We are friends but more than friend but not dating. can't put a label on what we are. situation and I am not for it.
I am tired of giving this woman my love and I'm tired of the mix signals. and tired of having hope that maybe her and I can be more.
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wheneaglesfly8211
My 2 cents. Detach SPIRITUALLY. There is a condition referred to as a soul tie, it is a spiritual bond that occurs as a result of a covenant usually. Research spirit spouses, as well. I speak from experience. A MUST to spiritually sever that bond.
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My 2 cents. Detach SPIRITUALLY. There is a condition referred to as a soul tie, it is a spiritual bond that occurs as a result of a covenant usually. Research spirit spouses, as well. I speak from experience. A MUST to spiritually sever that bond.
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meetshawn3720
I saw the caption on this video and couldn't resist the call to click it. It is exactly what I have been experiencing for the past three months and the encouragement I needed this morning to continue on. Thank you for sharing this word of confirmation!
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I saw the caption on this video and couldn't resist the call to click it. It is exactly what I have been experiencing for the past three months and the encouragement I needed this morning to continue on. Thank you for sharing this word of confirmation!
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marcomongke3116
Love for fictional character is perhaps the strongest or considered worse. Because almost nobody in life can hope to reach their beauty and subjective attractive qualities. Also, our definition and feelings of love will vastly differ.
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Love for fictional character is perhaps the strongest or considered worse. Because almost nobody in life can hope to reach their beauty and subjective attractive qualities. Also, our definition and feelings of love will vastly differ.
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istamosh
1. The art of surrender: just let go, challenging but liberating journey
2. Feel and process your emotions
3. Establish your boundaries
4. Focus and self-care
5. Cultivate a support system: from your family and friends
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1. The art of surrender: just let go, challenging but liberating journey
2. Feel and process your emotions
3. Establish your boundaries
4. Focus and self-care
5. Cultivate a support system: from your family and friends
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John-de4mn
What if your only support system is the person you like I’ve been struggling with this for a little while now and I feel like this video is really helpful with that so thank you for the wise words.
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What if your only support system is the person you like I’ve been struggling with this for a little while now and I feel like this video is really helpful with that so thank you for the wise words.
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reddragonlegacy
Been trying to get over close friends, who I cared deeply for. I would even argue that I felt a form of Philia, love of family, because they were an online family/tribe for me. good timing
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Been trying to get over close friends, who I cared deeply for. I would even argue that I felt a form of Philia, love of family, because they were an online family/tribe for me. good timing
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sacredcat3222
Always on point but
not entirely love just crush thinking of confessing simply saying and letting go than regret of not trying
so that i can focus on my 5 hours study
should i
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Always on point but
not entirely love just crush thinking of confessing simply saying and letting go than regret of not trying
so that i can focus on my 5 hours study
should i
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chisaten
Timestamps of points
1: 16 The Art of Surrender
1: 51 Feel and Process Your Emotions
2: 35 Establish Boundaries
3: 07 Focus on Self-Care
3: 48 Cultivate a Support System
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Timestamps of points
1: 16 The Art of Surrender
1: 51 Feel and Process Your Emotions
2: 35 Establish Boundaries
3: 07 Focus on Self-Care
3: 48 Cultivate a Support System
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nathanelrond8796
1. The Art of Surrender
2. Feel and Process Your Emotion
3. Establish Boundaries
4. Focus on Your Self-care
5. Cultivate a Support System
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1. The Art of Surrender
2. Feel and Process Your Emotion
3. Establish Boundaries
4. Focus on Your Self-care
5. Cultivate a Support System
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laquitaj182
really needed this one today. i love someone. we live together but i find myself needing to move out to possibly help our relationship needing space
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really needed this one today. i love someone. we live together but i find myself needing to move out to possibly help our relationship needing space
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gedhoughton9523
Simple. Just don’t care. Put your hobbies first, convince yourself it’s not worth it anymore. I’m 25 and don’t see much hope for future.
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Simple. Just don’t care. Put your hobbies first, convince yourself it’s not worth it anymore. I’m 25 and don’t see much hope for future.
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