Explain Every Single Manipulation Tactic In 9 Minutes
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Date: 2024-07-24
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user-em2wv1ls4f
Being a victim of a narcissist father, I can relate somewhat. As what he did, was make false claims, and then make something up about them, then yell at me. Example: Him’The sky is green’ Me: ’Uhmit’s not but, alight I guess. ’ Him’So it’s true then, the sky is green. ’ Me’I gues sobecause you said it was’ Him’When did I say that Why do you believe that I never told you that. Stop making stuff up. This is why you struggle in school. You lie. ’ End of example: I had to deal with him 24/7 almost, however my parents no longer together, so it’s 50/50 split, now it’s more like a 95/5 split, I live mostly at my mother now after what happened. I will not go into detail, but it was bad what happend. I’m just glad k don’t see him nearly as often, even when I do, o don’t go over to his house overnight. So now, I’m able to freely watch Psych2go, I love the content. You guys genuinely give me hope sometimes in hard times. Besides music, watching one of youre videos is one way for me to decompress. I just love psychology and wish to study it, I love that you guys provide free access to content almost daily, it gives hope. It reminds me, I can live, I can be human, I can chase my dreams of helping someone. Because for me, helping someone through a conflict or situation I’ve been through put a smile on my face, I don’t feel as much for doing things only for me. My personality being empathetic, very much at that, I just want to help other by giving them what I didn’t have. For example, i went through very rough times without a therapist to help me, so I coped and delt with it on my own. I want to be a firend where, if someone is hurt, I’m there for them. I want to pour my heart and compassion and everything else into them. I just want to help people, I just want to see someone smile and know I did that, I made them smile, I comforted them. I was the reason, they had a good day and remembered it. I was the reason, someone lived a better life than me, because I helped them through the exact same situation by giving them what I needed most, either that be help, love, comfort, or just someone to listen to.
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Being a victim of a narcissist father, I can relate somewhat. As what he did, was make false claims, and then make something up about them, then yell at me. Example: Him’The sky is green’ Me: ’Uhmit’s not but, alight I guess. ’ Him’So it’s true then, the sky is green. ’ Me’I gues sobecause you said it was’ Him’When did I say that Why do you believe that I never told you that. Stop making stuff up. This is why you struggle in school. You lie. ’ End of example: I had to deal with him 24/7 almost, however my parents no longer together, so it’s 50/50 split, now it’s more like a 95/5 split, I live mostly at my mother now after what happened. I will not go into detail, but it was bad what happend. I’m just glad k don’t see him nearly as often, even when I do, o don’t go over to his house overnight. So now, I’m able to freely watch Psych2go, I love the content. You guys genuinely give me hope sometimes in hard times. Besides music, watching one of youre videos is one way for me to decompress. I just love psychology and wish to study it, I love that you guys provide free access to content almost daily, it gives hope. It reminds me, I can live, I can be human, I can chase my dreams of helping someone. Because for me, helping someone through a conflict or situation I’ve been through put a smile on my face, I don’t feel as much for doing things only for me. My personality being empathetic, very much at that, I just want to help other by giving them what I didn’t have. For example, i went through very rough times without a therapist to help me, so I coped and delt with it on my own. I want to be a firend where, if someone is hurt, I’m there for them. I want to pour my heart and compassion and everything else into them. I just want to help people, I just want to see someone smile and know I did that, I made them smile, I comforted them. I was the reason, they had a good day and remembered it. I was the reason, someone lived a better life than me, because I helped them through the exact same situation by giving them what I needed most, either that be help, love, comfort, or just someone to listen to.
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draapulus
Summary/ Overview:
0: 26 1 Aggressive jokes
0: 49 2 Anger & Fear
1: 04 3 Blackmail
1: 11 4 Blaming
1: 34 5 Boundary Violation
1: 41 6 Changing the subject
1: 56 7 Coercion
2: 08 8 Criticizing
2: 23 9 Crowd Manipulation
2: 38 10 Denial
3: 00 11 Downplaying
3: 08 12 Emotional blackmail
3: 23 13 Fake moralization
3: 53 14 Flattery
4: 12 15 Gaslighting
4: 23 15 Generalizing
4: 42 16 Ghosting
4: 55 17 Guilt tripping
5: 12 18 Hoovering
5: 33 19 Infatilization
5: 44 20 Isolation
5: 58 21 Love bombing
6: 17 22 Lying
6: 34 23 Passive aggression
6: 44 24 Playing on insecurities
7: 05 25 Projection
7: 32 26 Shaming
7: 52 27 Shifting the goalpost
8: 11 28 Smear campaigns
8: 22 29 Silent treatment
8: 44 30 Threatening
9: 03 31 Triangulation
9: 26 32 Victimhood
Might have missed something, dunno.
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Summary/ Overview:
0: 26 1 Aggressive jokes
0: 49 2 Anger & Fear
1: 04 3 Blackmail
1: 11 4 Blaming
1: 34 5 Boundary Violation
1: 41 6 Changing the subject
1: 56 7 Coercion
2: 08 8 Criticizing
2: 23 9 Crowd Manipulation
2: 38 10 Denial
3: 00 11 Downplaying
3: 08 12 Emotional blackmail
3: 23 13 Fake moralization
3: 53 14 Flattery
4: 12 15 Gaslighting
4: 23 15 Generalizing
4: 42 16 Ghosting
4: 55 17 Guilt tripping
5: 12 18 Hoovering
5: 33 19 Infatilization
5: 44 20 Isolation
5: 58 21 Love bombing
6: 17 22 Lying
6: 34 23 Passive aggression
6: 44 24 Playing on insecurities
7: 05 25 Projection
7: 32 26 Shaming
7: 52 27 Shifting the goalpost
8: 11 28 Smear campaigns
8: 22 29 Silent treatment
8: 44 30 Threatening
9: 03 31 Triangulation
9: 26 32 Victimhood
Might have missed something, dunno.
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sliceofloving
You back away, once they no longer feel any remorse for what they do, just entitlement. And they don't care about how it can detrimentally effect you. They can be extremely harmful in response to your mistakes, but proceeding to continue inflicting harm towards you, while you've already taken accountability, or changed, takes away the necessity towards their treatment towards you.
Its never a double-standard, if you've openly expressed your boundaries, and explained how they're distressing you, and the decide to continue to make those actions, and ignore how you feel, its more harmful to keep them in your circle.
And, we've all been guilty for at least one of these actions, that doesn't mean everyone is willing to take accountability for them. I am definitely not proud of my former self, but I'm happy enough that I no longer desire to be that person anymore.
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You back away, once they no longer feel any remorse for what they do, just entitlement. And they don't care about how it can detrimentally effect you. They can be extremely harmful in response to your mistakes, but proceeding to continue inflicting harm towards you, while you've already taken accountability, or changed, takes away the necessity towards their treatment towards you.
Its never a double-standard, if you've openly expressed your boundaries, and explained how they're distressing you, and the decide to continue to make those actions, and ignore how you feel, its more harmful to keep them in your circle.
And, we've all been guilty for at least one of these actions, that doesn't mean everyone is willing to take accountability for them. I am definitely not proud of my former self, but I'm happy enough that I no longer desire to be that person anymore.
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KabberTheR1nner
My wife did 14 of these, I did 11
Some of them the same.
I think it's impossible not to manipulate to some extent, because we all want what's best for ourselves, even when we think it is what would be best for the people we know, love, and care about. But if they don't see/think/feel the same way, to them it's us manipulating them to our needs.
I mean, I can't control how my wife feels nor should I, but if she's sad I'd tell her; don't be sad.
There's a thin line between encouragement an manipulation.
I think it depends on the reason/motivation behind the actions/reactions. But in most cases you'll never know.
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My wife did 14 of these, I did 11
Some of them the same.
I think it's impossible not to manipulate to some extent, because we all want what's best for ourselves, even when we think it is what would be best for the people we know, love, and care about. But if they don't see/think/feel the same way, to them it's us manipulating them to our needs.
I mean, I can't control how my wife feels nor should I, but if she's sad I'd tell her; don't be sad.
There's a thin line between encouragement an manipulation.
I think it depends on the reason/motivation behind the actions/reactions. But in most cases you'll never know.
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psych2go
My friends always tell me my singing is horrible, im excluded from any kareokes or singing activities with them. I tried talking to them thru text telling them it made me feel terrible, but i didnt get a response
Im a trans male, and im rlly insecure about my high pitched voice so i force it to be lower, which sometimes makes my voice sound raspy and I developed a toxic connection to singing only to sing as low as possible. I guess this is why
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My friends always tell me my singing is horrible, im excluded from any kareokes or singing activities with them. I tried talking to them thru text telling them it made me feel terrible, but i didnt get a response
Im a trans male, and im rlly insecure about my high pitched voice so i force it to be lower, which sometimes makes my voice sound raspy and I developed a toxic connection to singing only to sing as low as possible. I guess this is why
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Spr1ng. s
I seriously need advice, i noticed my bf was acting different and felt like he was going to break up with me so i changed, i started being closer to him and more distant to my friends, and i didnt know that was manipulative I guess it makes sense but like, i stayed that way, we used to have a really toxic relationship but now its sweet, we’ve gone 6 months without a big fight (we’ve been together a year) so idk
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I seriously need advice, i noticed my bf was acting different and felt like he was going to break up with me so i changed, i started being closer to him and more distant to my friends, and i didnt know that was manipulative I guess it makes sense but like, i stayed that way, we used to have a really toxic relationship but now its sweet, we’ve gone 6 months without a big fight (we’ve been together a year) so idk
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furociousarts
I have a bunch of discord friends who would slander me for being a Team Fortress 2 fan and how desperate I was to have the game fixed. They would often make aggressive jokes or generalise all TF2 players as brain-dead bozos who can't just move on.
A fix for the game comes around and they're immediately happy they can play the game and say they've always liked the game (they also had a lot hours on TF2.
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I have a bunch of discord friends who would slander me for being a Team Fortress 2 fan and how desperate I was to have the game fixed. They would often make aggressive jokes or generalise all TF2 players as brain-dead bozos who can't just move on.
A fix for the game comes around and they're immediately happy they can play the game and say they've always liked the game (they also had a lot hours on TF2.
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Swiddler
Not sure if these manipulations happen on a cognitive level. I'm sure if we're honest, we can attest to being guilty to some of these manipulations at different times. Adaptations at the emotional level that our selfish genes have concocted to achieve their goals. Great being aware of them so we can better one another but I'd try not to demonise ppl who exhibit such behaviours. Only human after all
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Not sure if these manipulations happen on a cognitive level. I'm sure if we're honest, we can attest to being guilty to some of these manipulations at different times. Adaptations at the emotional level that our selfish genes have concocted to achieve their goals. Great being aware of them so we can better one another but I'd try not to demonise ppl who exhibit such behaviours. Only human after all
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ThoughtOfWant
If a person attempts to make us feel uncomfortable about not doing as they say against our will and this makes us feel uncomfortable, a way to feel better could be to think of the person as a challenger rather than a perpetrator, believing that the challenger is allowed to attempt to control us and believing that we don't have to do as the challenger says, even if it makes them uncomfortable.
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If a person attempts to make us feel uncomfortable about not doing as they say against our will and this makes us feel uncomfortable, a way to feel better could be to think of the person as a challenger rather than a perpetrator, believing that the challenger is allowed to attempt to control us and believing that we don't have to do as the challenger says, even if it makes them uncomfortable.
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RandomThings-je9mv
Pretty sure people can't read my intentions but I really don't manipulate it's more cause nobody ask and judge people without getting to know the person personally yeah made the right choice to leave without explaining cause they spreaded lies but it's alright cause my friend know who I truly am as a person cause my nature is kindhearted and tend not judge people
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Pretty sure people can't read my intentions but I really don't manipulate it's more cause nobody ask and judge people without getting to know the person personally yeah made the right choice to leave without explaining cause they spreaded lies but it's alright cause my friend know who I truly am as a person cause my nature is kindhearted and tend not judge people
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Aggressive jokes 0: 25
2. Anger and fear 0: 42
3. Blackmail 0: 58
4. Blaming 1: 09
5. Boundary violation 1: 20
6. Changing the subject 1: 39
7. Coercion 1: 54
8. Criticizing 2: 04
9. Crowd manipulation 2: 19
10. Denial 2: 36
11. Downplaying 2: 52
12. Emotional blackmail 3: 07
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Timestamps
1. Aggressive jokes 0: 25
2. Anger and fear 0: 42
3. Blackmail 0: 58
4. Blaming 1: 09
5. Boundary violation 1: 20
6. Changing the subject 1: 39
7. Coercion 1: 54
8. Criticizing 2: 04
9. Crowd manipulation 2: 19
10. Denial 2: 36
11. Downplaying 2: 52
12. Emotional blackmail 3: 07
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Lsotyh
I spent my summer talking to someone feeling it out and last week they said they just wanted to be friends, honestly I am hurt. We agreed to talk in person in two weeks, but I don't know if I can talk to them right now. If I distance myself do I need to tell them I really care about them but I think it's a bit much for me.
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I spent my summer talking to someone feeling it out and last week they said they just wanted to be friends, honestly I am hurt. We agreed to talk in person in two weeks, but I don't know if I can talk to them right now. If I distance myself do I need to tell them I really care about them but I think it's a bit much for me.
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chalima
Tbh, looking at this, I think we use manipulation much more often than we think. At least in my case: I don't wanna manipulate people, but I realised I sometimes do some of these techniques without realising. I usually don't mean harm and think I'm just talking normally. But guess it still counts as manipulation
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Tbh, looking at this, I think we use manipulation much more often than we think. At least in my case: I don't wanna manipulate people, but I realised I sometimes do some of these techniques without realising. I usually don't mean harm and think I'm just talking normally. But guess it still counts as manipulation
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davids2096
Yes, we humans can be quite devious, calculating, sinister, and unfortunately have so many other hideous and dark traits! Hopefully we can learn from our many experiences and actions, and end up on the right track eventually! We can only hope this comes to pass! Again, good luck out there! Take care!
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Yes, we humans can be quite devious, calculating, sinister, and unfortunately have so many other hideous and dark traits! Hopefully we can learn from our many experiences and actions, and end up on the right track eventually! We can only hope this comes to pass! Again, good luck out there! Take care!
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jydas160
Fun fact: I've just recently cut the bridges with a close friend because he manipulated me for almost 3 years now, and he used like a half of all the methods you explained
Your video just confirmed me everything i've been thinking for months, glad to see I wasn't the one in the wrong all this time
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Fun fact: I've just recently cut the bridges with a close friend because he manipulated me for almost 3 years now, and he used like a half of all the methods you explained
Your video just confirmed me everything i've been thinking for months, glad to see I wasn't the one in the wrong all this time
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Ga61-n9f_her3
Is there a manipulation tactic where the manipulator treats the victim cold and distant after he(the victim) didn't accomplished a task The manipulator may talk to the victim, but he may treat the victim poorly, being cold and distant, avoiding different subjects, doing things together etc.
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Is there a manipulation tactic where the manipulator treats the victim cold and distant after he(the victim) didn't accomplished a task The manipulator may talk to the victim, but he may treat the victim poorly, being cold and distant, avoiding different subjects, doing things together etc.
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BlaqAdam
There should be a disclaimer on these videos that explains how to not use psychology as your main lense to see the world. The introduction of psych to the regular population has been a failed experiment. Especially when professionals have to study for years to even begin to grasp these concepts.
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There should be a disclaimer on these videos that explains how to not use psychology as your main lense to see the world. The introduction of psych to the regular population has been a failed experiment. Especially when professionals have to study for years to even begin to grasp these concepts.
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rankamoeba4979
My friend is getting ghosted by her best friend, because she saw her w me.
What should I tell her to do Or I do
She says I can't talk to her about (this subject) because I'm not good about it and I basically can't and she got more angry when I tried to talk to her about this
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My friend is getting ghosted by her best friend, because she saw her w me.
What should I tell her to do Or I do
She says I can't talk to her about (this subject) because I'm not good about it and I basically can't and she got more angry when I tried to talk to her about this
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xxihategunsxx
There is a woman I've watched on the internet for many years who is very well known to be manipulative, deceitful, and just a toxic person. I see so much more in her, though. Maybe I look at her with rose colored glasses, or I'm just crazy. or being manipulated.
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There is a woman I've watched on the internet for many years who is very well known to be manipulative, deceitful, and just a toxic person. I see so much more in her, though. Maybe I look at her with rose colored glasses, or I'm just crazy. or being manipulated.
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psych2go
One of my best friends, named Kayhlia, (Kayla, I think she blames me for simply trying to help her. Like, she says, I'm done, whenever I suggest something that could help her. What's that called Does it fall under any of the manipulation tactics
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One of my best friends, named Kayhlia, (Kayla, I think she blames me for simply trying to help her. Like, she says, I'm done, whenever I suggest something that could help her. What's that called Does it fall under any of the manipulation tactics
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