Movies Too Uncomfortable To Watch With Your Partner
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Any movie that is thought provoking, and makes you want to discuss the movie afterwards, is a great movie to watch with your significant other. What a great way to strike up a conversation and listen to each others thoughts on things. I really enjoy taking with my Wife, her outlook, thoughts, and opinions on things. They are one of the many reasons, why I am so madly in love with her, even after almost 20 years together.
I feel sorry for anyone that would have an issue watching anyone of these movies with their partner and having it cause strife in their relationship. :(
Date: 2020-07-14
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Matt
I went to see Gone Girl in theaters by myself. I never once thought oh shit, I need to make sure my wife never see's this or omg, I hope my wife never turns out like this. I saw an excellent movie (one of my top 5 in fact) and recommended it.
The very next day my wife mentioned how she wanted to see it in theaters before reading the book because she heard great things about it, and I (without missing a beat) said you wanna go see it? She was surprised and said. you want to see it again today? I was like Hell yeah, it's great, you'll love it! Lets go!
And she loved it too.
People who have issues with these movies are just insecure
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I went to see Gone Girl in theaters by myself. I never once thought oh shit, I need to make sure my wife never see's this or omg, I hope my wife never turns out like this. I saw an excellent movie (one of my top 5 in fact) and recommended it.
The very next day my wife mentioned how she wanted to see it in theaters before reading the book because she heard great things about it, and I (without missing a beat) said you wanna go see it? She was surprised and said. you want to see it again today? I was like Hell yeah, it's great, you'll love it! Lets go!
And she loved it too.
People who have issues with these movies are just insecure
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160p2GHz
Totally agree with most comments these seeing and discussing or just accepting it's a story is better. But even more than that people should keep in mind it might be good to think about some of these things. What if your partner is unfaithful, what if they want to see other people, what if they did get dementia? You don't have to pick the same path as the characters in the movie (like, uh, maybe don't frame them for murder) but it will be helpful down the road if you both know what the other person's expectations are.
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Totally agree with most comments these seeing and discussing or just accepting it's a story is better. But even more than that people should keep in mind it might be good to think about some of these things. What if your partner is unfaithful, what if they want to see other people, what if they did get dementia? You don't have to pick the same path as the characters in the movie (like, uh, maybe don't frame them for murder) but it will be helpful down the road if you both know what the other person's expectations are.
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Bill
Vehemently disagree with Mr. November and Away From Her. Watched both with my wife and am glad we did. Sparked frank discussions between us but no arguments. We could see both sides in each case.
A movie we could not watch together was Irreversible (2002. OMG that is a hard movie to watch. Also, 9 1/2 Weeks was hard to watch with my wife. Ordinary People (1980) was also very difficult to watch together. Very sad relationship between Mary Tyler Moore and Donald Sutherland.
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Vehemently disagree with Mr. November and Away From Her. Watched both with my wife and am glad we did. Sparked frank discussions between us but no arguments. We could see both sides in each case.
A movie we could not watch together was Irreversible (2002. OMG that is a hard movie to watch. Also, 9 1/2 Weeks was hard to watch with my wife. Ordinary People (1980) was also very difficult to watch together. Very sad relationship between Mary Tyler Moore and Donald Sutherland.
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kcbh24
Closer, starring Jude Law, Natalie Portman, Julia Roberts, and Clive Owen, has long been one of my favorite movies. Since it came out in 2004, I've had a handful of boyfriends. I kid you not- every single one has watched it to immediately say, Why did you let me watch that movie? It's terrible!
They're all disturbed by it for some reason. As though the screening was my way of admitting an affair.
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Closer, starring Jude Law, Natalie Portman, Julia Roberts, and Clive Owen, has long been one of my favorite movies. Since it came out in 2004, I've had a handful of boyfriends. I kid you not- every single one has watched it to immediately say, Why did you let me watch that movie? It's terrible!
They're all disturbed by it for some reason. As though the screening was my way of admitting an affair.
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Cheryl
My Husband and I have pretty much the same mindset. I never saw Gone Girl but I think what she did was too drastic, yes he had an affair but what she did was worse and I know he would think the same way. I watch sweet November with him and we both loved it. watched Faithful with him as well. didn't see any of the other ones though but I don't imagine we would have a problem watching them together.
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My Husband and I have pretty much the same mindset. I never saw Gone Girl but I think what she did was too drastic, yes he had an affair but what she did was worse and I know he would think the same way. I watch sweet November with him and we both loved it. watched Faithful with him as well. didn't see any of the other ones though but I don't imagine we would have a problem watching them together.
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Julie
My husband and I watched some of these together and had deep conversations about our expectations in marriage and life in general. It helped us get to know one another better and headed off some awakenings to rude disillusions later on. You need to be able to detach yourself from and not identify with the characters and storyline. Hell, we even watched The Woodsman together.
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My husband and I watched some of these together and had deep conversations about our expectations in marriage and life in general. It helped us get to know one another better and headed off some awakenings to rude disillusions later on. You need to be able to detach yourself from and not identify with the characters and storyline. Hell, we even watched The Woodsman together.
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GroovyNipple
Revolutionary Road was me and my ex except for the ending of course. God those fights they had! I almost thought he started a lot of fights with me after seeing this movie because in his twisted head it was romantic to be like a couple of characters from a movie he loved. To this day I cant watch that movie but I love it. Its a great movie.
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Revolutionary Road was me and my ex except for the ending of course. God those fights they had! I almost thought he started a lot of fights with me after seeing this movie because in his twisted head it was romantic to be like a couple of characters from a movie he loved. To this day I cant watch that movie but I love it. Its a great movie.
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kwaii
These points of contentions, might be true for couples, but obviously, this was put together by someone who is not married. If you want a list that causes real marital strife, have a list that includes The Last Jedi. How my wife likes that movie is beyond comprehension, and should be grounds for a divorce, under irreconcilable differences.
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These points of contentions, might be true for couples, but obviously, this was put together by someone who is not married. If you want a list that causes real marital strife, have a list that includes The Last Jedi. How my wife likes that movie is beyond comprehension, and should be grounds for a divorce, under irreconcilable differences.
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Shelly's
If a couple watching these movies together feel uncomfortable, then they're clearly not honest with each other. And cheating in relationships happen all the time- watching a movie dealing with the subject is not going to make someone stop doing it. Not everyone is an Amy Dunne in real life FFS!
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If a couple watching these movies together feel uncomfortable, then they're clearly not honest with each other. And cheating in relationships happen all the time- watching a movie dealing with the subject is not going to make someone stop doing it. Not everyone is an Amy Dunne in real life FFS!
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