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Mom-Of-Three At 20 & I Don’t Believe In Birth Control - MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY

Mom-Of-Three At 20 & I Don’t Believe In Birth Control - MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY

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20-YEAR-OLD Bella and 21-year-old Reason are young parents to two-year-old Posie and 11-month-old Auria. They began sharing their story on TikTok after a post of Bella’s bump updates, when she was 17 years old and pregnant with Posie, went viral. Bella said: With being young parents I feel like the judgement we mainly get is we’re too young to know how to parent kids’, that we’re kids raising kids’ type of thing. While the couple concede that everybody with kids is so much older’ than them, they feel they have gained emotional maturity and are responsible parents. Some of their family and friends initially expressed concern about the situation but have seen them blossom as parents. Desiree, Reason’s mother, said: They stepped up and proved me wrong. Bella recently shared that she does not believe in birth control and received a mixed response in the comment section, with some outraged by her post. Bella said: With birth control I feel like, I personally don’t believe in it for myself. I prefer natural ways of prevention Or I get pregnant. The couple have some exciting news to share with their
Date: 2024-10-08

Comments and reviews: 20


I just have to say That you guys Are inspiring I'm not encouraging every 20 year old to go out and get pregnant obviously not everyone your age is this mature and I'm not saying it's going to be a walk in the park for the next 20 years But You seem happy You seem grounded I understand wanting your children's ages closer together but most of all I understand not wanting the birth control There are many people that stay on it for so long and then have infertility problems not only that as a person with thyroid issues and hormone problems I cannot take it It was awful for me Coming off of birth control was the best thing that I ever did honestly birth control is in a way playing God with your body we were meant to have cycles and to ovulate and all of the things that go with being a woman So you have a beautiful family And I hope you guys continue on this positive healthy journey and to all the people saying you're missing out I had my son at 22 and this day and age you don't have to miss out you can enjoy these things with your children make the memories with them there are so many families doing that already and it will make your kids more well-rounded experiencing other cultures I just all-around think that people should really back off and if they don't have anything nice to say don't say it at all but I do have wonderful thoughts and prayers for you guys and hope to keep up with you on social media! Maybe people should remember back in the day people getting married at 15 and having children and that was completely normal
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I guess they think that having 3 kids is that easy.
Wait until someone gets sick and then will see how easy that will be.
I think they are showing us how easy things are but I am sure they have their own struggles.
Parenting is not as easy as some people think, obviously.
There are challenges.
And they may think having 3 kids when there are still that young is a good thing.
I am sure at some point or other they will think that's somehow they didn't enjoy their lifestyle in that age.

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I don't know what it is maybe some people want to have families at Young ages but me personally when I was 20 I was in college I damn sure was not thinking about having babies with any guy but I know there's a lot of people that are around 20-something early twenties have kids early just to say that they're getting them out of the way which is weird. In my opinion I got to travel I got to enjoy my life I was 32 when I had my kid and I relaxed what's my now husband
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I fell pregnant at 17. One month away from my eighteenth birthday we had a little girl. Two and a half years later we were married. Now we have a grown daughter who is happily married with a great job and a mortgage and we are looking forward to our 34th anniversary. Not everyone splits up. There are good times and bad along the way but if you are willing to work at it and put your family first it can work and also be wonderful. Good luck to both of you.
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Listen, if the two of you want to become the next Duggar family, have at it, so long as you take care of, teach and love your children, that is all that matters. I had one biological child, and damn, if that wasn't the toughest period of my life, as he was so sick, most of the time. We made it through, but those circumstances put an end to anymore past him. So all the best, and good luck, because you guys are going to need it. LOL
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I guess some people can be happy already having babies before 20. But there's also people who are very happy not having any babies by 25, and we shouldn't be shamed for not having children, and we shouldn't be shamed for being celibate or for waiting till marriage. If society can accept youngsters having children society should also be able to accept people who are not willing to have children
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You know what good for them. I see a lot of negative people expecting the worst for them but their babies look happy and they look like they have the finances to raise them. Also the parents are young but atleast they dont look like ratchet or wild youth they actually look wholesome and mature. hope their furture stays bright and they can continue having a loving family and relationship
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If you read these comments-good job with homeschooling already, really important! As far as reading look to phonological awareness, not just the approach I saw u use with the flash cards. That’s the Whole Language model. Trust me including phonological awareness will help the little ones to spell better-read unfamiliar words-even critical thinking areas of the brain are stimulated!
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Well if you're gonna share your story with us, share the WHOLE story.
What kind of jobs do you have Are your parents helping financially Is the government
Who's footing the Bill for these children Cause AINT NO WAY that kid alone is earning all that in todays economy. The math aint mathing.

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Thing is many kids nowadays can’t even read and they’re already of school age. They gotta be doing something right for their 2 year old reading like that. Lotta hate towards young parents but not every young parent is a bad one. Seen many older parents do a lot worse of a job than this couple
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I don't believe in birth control either I'm allergic to it and the side effects and cancer sometimes its not good sometimes works for people and there fine it just depends on the person but if you say your Christian usually you wait before marriage to have kids.
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BRAVO! so proud of them, and happy for them. we need more of this in America, and society in general. these two kids are more grown up than most mellinials ive seen with children (im 38/m, my chick is 36, no kids, been together 20 years this past august 14th)
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The fact that it is expected for women to be on birth control in society is absolutely horrid. No one should have to alter their bodies to suit the demands of society especially considering how damaging birth control is on the body. It is evil and a scam!
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My mum got pregnant at 16 with my older brother got pushed into marrying my dad because of t shame back then of underage and not married, then she had me age 18 then 19 yrs later she had my little brother. That’s was 4yrs after being sterilised.
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This is all because people believe in the proverb: God gave you a bunny, and he will give you a lawn. You can live more or less happily, believing in something that does not exist, or you can suffer greatly and make your many children suffer.
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They seems like good parents and children are blessings from God. But I will advise them to go back to school or learnt a trade, so that they will not rely on their parents or the government. May God help them.
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I wonder how things will go if the next one has a disability. or is just born with a fiery temperament Also, are they going to just keep having kids over and over She still has another 25 odd years of fertility yet.
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You know I'm sure they're really good parents but who supports them does he have a job where is the welfare system supporting them I think there's fine having a baby in the family but if you're on welfare no
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Well, to be fair, getting pregnant messes up your body. I don't try to be mean, just realistic, your body changes. For example, some people have problems with their teeth even after many years of the pregnancy.
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As long as all of their kids needs are taken care of and they put money aside for them (my guess is they earn money on social media and the kids are part of their content, have as many kids as you want.
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