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7 Surprising Ways Birth Order Affects Us

7 Surprising Ways Birth Order Affects Us

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7 Surprising Ways Birth Order Affects Us elianaalove: Nah girl. middle one are the most kind, have the best personality, disciplineed, and high achiever. They are like a gift to the family. They bring balance to family. middle childs are the most humble cause they got a lot of perspective, they understand life in a view that the older or younger doesn't. Trust me if you do your research well with the middle child and with their family, most of them would say, my middle kid is the sweetest, she/ or he is the most disciplineed, she /he is the topper of her class and etc. not only this after a period of their teenage they become the most high ambitious than their whole ass family and siblings, and gets successful, cause their view of life, their work ethic their mindset is so different from the others. So don't let this video get into your head middle kids. Cause y'all know at some point how gifted you are. AND you'll see how your kind humble big personality literally bond your family together when your other 2 or3 sibling couldn't care less. First second third every born has their pros and cons, And I think middle one are the most special kid cause there is something different, something so beautiful and unique to their appearance and energy. They are very family oriented, and very understanding. I have a middle sister and guys. she is a literal angel. And she is literally aceing her academic life. Her way of thinking is out of this world. And the most kindest with a beautiful soul human being in my family. I wish people could appreciate their middle ones and stop saying things like they are forgotten kids NO they've been always there but some family member just doesn't pay attention to them or appreciate them cause of the older and younger and that's not okay. In my family my middle sister is best kid. Even I envy her sometime how disciplineed and ambitious she is, and not to mention about her academic achievements, there's no one like her in my family
So yeah. . I hope you guys realize how gifted you are, how unreal you are and intelligent you are. Days are changing, you guys are not the forgotten one. You Guys are THE ONE. the main character, the main siblings

Date: 2023-08-20

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Everyone says that the youngest child is the favorite and has the good life out of everyone in their family, but mine's literally the opposite. I'm the youngest in my entire family and the oldest siblings are the favorites because they know everything and are perfect at everything just because they're older. When my older bro gets on my nerves, I tell him to stop and then he doesn't which makes me scream at him and then my mom comes by yelling at me and telling me to behave and shit when my bro is the reason why I yell, and when I try to explain that to my mom she just interrupts me with He's older than you, so he knows what he's doing. You're probably just malfunctioning because of your young little brain So I always get in trouble for someting that my bro did just because I'm a little kid and have a small, unused brain. I'd like to know how my mom was like when She was the little 12 year old kid and didn't know anything. It's her job to raise me right so I don't have a malfuctioning brain anymore. My bro gets all the attention and things he wants because my mom thinks that he knows it's for a good cause while everytime I ask my mom for something she either says no, or bribes me with school by saying that she'll get me what I want if I get 100% on each of my classes. Some of you may not know the struggle of being the youngest so I wanted to clarify an example of shit that goes on in my fam.
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M last children. nd m aggressive, tu de, straight forward, and neurologically slow in every work, I can't understand easily, my elder sister means first child of my parents, she is brilliant in studies. nd always topper in whole school. 'm the slowest teenager in my class. I failed lot of time. And my parents expecting from me the same grades, the higher education.
I don't knw what to do. I try to tell them m not ok mentally. M in depression, I have lot of mental issues. Which I figured out from since last 7-8 years. Nd psychologically also m not ok. I get anxiety attacks, but nobody understands anything. They all be like ohh. what is depression. There is no any kind of thing exist on planet. You just making drama to avoid studies, but I don't think. That's true. Yes I do accept m not good at education. But I can't do something better.
They laughing every time on me. At bullied me for not having good
M teenager now nd. i wanna die.

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What being the middle child is actually like:
You have to respect the oldest sibling
You need to baby the younger sibling
If you get good grades you don't receive any recognition
If you are the most well behaved you're the background character
If you daydream you get instantly attacked
No one will ever understand your point of view because your too emotional
If you're an extrovert you get told to be quiet
If you're an introvert you get told to be social.
You have to be the most mature of them all
P. S: Some off this is off personal experience some off other comments my parents don't do most of these things and are awesome but they still do some of em so is a more accurate version because it has my and other people's experiences.

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I used to be a nice person till my bro came in this world
My parents completely threw my presence and opinions in trash
They always go to my siblings' rooms and talk to em
But they dont think bout entering my room
When I go talk to em they just make some lame excuse and just throw me out of their room
I have become an asshole
I went from straight A s to I hope I pass
Where did I go wrong
My parents only care about my grades
Not my mental health
My siblings ridicule me and there's nothing I can do because they would rather scold me than their other children
Everyone in my family thinks I'm a rebellious brat and a dissapointment
I don't know what to do with my life anymore
I

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Well the main distinction is between 1st born and later born, with the significance being 1st born learn primarily from mature adults. Later born learn have their learning diluted by immature subjects (the elder sibling. A younger sibling frequently imitates elder siblings, but infrequently the reverse. Leadership is obvious as you are the leader of the 'child faction' in your environment, and verbal skill will obviously be higher if your initial verbal interactions are with 100% adults as opposed to 33% or 50% with another child. (These are obviously generalisations as is the initial subject matter)
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What's with the middle child suffer tho my sister (a middle child) is the smartest in family, she's going into college in a very young age, met love of her live and marrying him without even failing in her relationship, have a kid 2 months straight after married, she is a famous dentist. While me as the first born finish my college late, failing my relationship several times before married and almost 5 years trying still no child. so, really don't think being a middle is a series of unfortunate events in my point of view. Not that I am complaint, I love and happy for her.
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But I'm the only who make good grades here. tho, I always get the blame for everything and I matured at a very young age bcause of everything that's happening in my life. Although I can say, I am a big trouble maker, sometimes I skip classes and then my mom who's a teacher would yell at me infront of a lot of kids (I know she does that so that kids would learn from my mistakes, but does she really have to do that) anyways, I sometimes feel like I have slight lack of emotion for some reason. I'm happy but my face stays stiff. you know what I mean?
-Middle Child

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I'm the first born but I never got straight As and I was shy and I hated conflict, Everybody says oldest are usually the instigators I usually never tried to instigate my siblings, it usually was the other way around. My sister was more of a Big sister than I was. And she got straight A's and my sister was Sometimes bossy and the leader and my brother was the youngest and he's really not that obedient and hes not that trustworthy because he got the most spankings. My brother was the scapegoat, my sister was the hero child, and I was the Lost child
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As the oldest of 10 Imma explain why the oldest has the highest grades / is the best communicator. Parents expect the most out of us, so they pressure us to get better grades or punish us more harshly when we do poorly. The better communication thing comes out of a need to be a better negotiator and occasional go-between for our parents and siblings.
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My brother is on the middle, for some reasons im really proud and encourage him drawing and sculpting while others well they say good things but a little encouragement. I will hear my mom says like Youre drawing again or Youre sculpting again thats what you do every day.
Mostly my brother will show me first his masterpieaces before to others.

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My brother and I are the opposite. I'm the first born, he was the second/last for 18 years. As for the actual last born, she doesn't doesn't follow rules at all. She is constantly trying to find ways to bend and break them. As for the one person I knew was an only child, she was very spoiled and tended to talk down to people.
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Me being the last born and watching the firstborn being praised so much:
Me not even listening to the middle born child: XD the middle child lol.
Me learning about the last born: UWU yes yes. WHY DID YOU STOP THERE! THE FIRSTBORN CLEARLY GOT MORE PRAISE!
Me continuing to the only child: throws the whole video away

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The thing with only children is that if they grow up in a nice family, theyre usually happier than siblings. But if they grow up in an unstable household, they have no one to lean on and usually end up being the mediator of the parents, resulting in fairly unhappy children. It all depends on environment
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I believe we are all created unique & we are born with a set of personality traits. I think there are so many factors in the development of a person's personality & to accurately predict a person's personality/behavior is extremely difficult, if not impossible. Just my thoughts.
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im last born
i suffer and i havent been happy for years
im hated in my family but im useful for doing things for them
basically im their slave, i dont get to be alone, whenever i am alone in my room to finally do what i want someone wants me to do things for them

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Im the first born of 2 and years ago my gcse grades were st but I agreed that 1st borns are less social and more conscious. Where as the 2nd born/last is much more academically smart, more social and known exactly what they want to achieve or do in life.
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The Last born is inaccurate, Last born are impulsive, have a big pride, and a spoiled brat.
Or it's just my lil bro?
btw I'm middle child and that's inaccurate, me and my brother are both middle child but we're the most behave child in the family, lmao.

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Almost every child in China is a single child because the one child policy. So the study is biased. If you are a single child, you will feel bad when you see others playing with their siblings while you play by yourself. Of course this rarely happens in China.
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Yeh China, of course they would say that. I wonder how they manipulated those stats to suit their weird rules. 'you can only have one child oh and look at our study that says only children are the happiest'. coincidence!
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So yall were only studying white children I think because damnnnnnn being the oldest made me extremely social and impulsive as a way to escape my parents never noticing or having time for me
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Why middle child are most neglected? I am that child and have always been either neglected completely or been baby sitted by my family. I M not like other people should be at this age of mine
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Ya well, being born in the middle, my parents stopped giving a shit.
I was abused and neglected while the first born and last born were and are still, treated like gold.

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I think first born children are more intelligent because they have to figure the world out by themselves, and then learn how to explain that information to the younger siblings.
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Those who are only children experience higher life satisfaction than those who have siblings
Oh, cool!
This study was conducted in China
Well, that checks out.

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