5 Ways to Deal With a Break Up
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Dolphian
Just got breakup few days ago, it felt like a truck after 4 years. She said she felt like we can't grow or we grew differently. I assume ( I could be wrong ) it's because of culture shock after she started University ( LDR of course ) and right after I finish mine and started working (as a Software Developer ) few months ago. The time I was studying ( we were LDR ), I promise her when I'll get a decent job, get enough funds and continue studying at her university in about 5-6 months from today, making projects we wanted to do. Soon we started chatting less, We still take care of each other like she ate less like a piece of bread or me stressing at work. We started chatting less and sometimes she avoid my message/late reply and not giving any news about each other (We were busy, understandable). And just off from work she was home at the momment because of festival break, telling me to meet her. I caught off guard after she said she wanted to end it. During my studies while she was at home, I'm still kept myself loyal and she's perfect, I'm feel like im a success and able to land a job because of her support. Things change when it's her time to be in University
Few minutes after we broke up, I did a bad decision of trying to get her back and she said But thats exactly what I dont want you to do: /
Live out your best life and take care of yourself for me, okay?
Thats final from me and left read when I text her. I burst into tears because of things we promise, dated, took care of each other, cuddled.
We promise not to throw away gifts away and if one of us wanted, just tell to pick it up so no waste has happened.
I know I made bad accusations/mistakes but maybe the time I go to her University things will get better or get the dream job/place/university I wanted to drag her along.
We still followed each other on social media ( Ended up in good terms even after my bad decision) and I will keep her promise because deep down, I still love her and miss her. And who knows, maybe time will either we will get back happily or just happy on our own/other loved ones.
Maybe this story will tell you that you are not alone. Some people ended badly and some ended reasonably. Hope we will rise from the leap of faith ( odd but owh well )
Anyway I will keep updating about how I feel in the meantime.
Apologize for my bad writting
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Just got breakup few days ago, it felt like a truck after 4 years. She said she felt like we can't grow or we grew differently. I assume ( I could be wrong ) it's because of culture shock after she started University ( LDR of course ) and right after I finish mine and started working (as a Software Developer ) few months ago. The time I was studying ( we were LDR ), I promise her when I'll get a decent job, get enough funds and continue studying at her university in about 5-6 months from today, making projects we wanted to do. Soon we started chatting less, We still take care of each other like she ate less like a piece of bread or me stressing at work. We started chatting less and sometimes she avoid my message/late reply and not giving any news about each other (We were busy, understandable). And just off from work she was home at the momment because of festival break, telling me to meet her. I caught off guard after she said she wanted to end it. During my studies while she was at home, I'm still kept myself loyal and she's perfect, I'm feel like im a success and able to land a job because of her support. Things change when it's her time to be in University
Few minutes after we broke up, I did a bad decision of trying to get her back and she said But thats exactly what I dont want you to do: /
Live out your best life and take care of yourself for me, okay?
Thats final from me and left read when I text her. I burst into tears because of things we promise, dated, took care of each other, cuddled.
We promise not to throw away gifts away and if one of us wanted, just tell to pick it up so no waste has happened.
I know I made bad accusations/mistakes but maybe the time I go to her University things will get better or get the dream job/place/university I wanted to drag her along.
We still followed each other on social media ( Ended up in good terms even after my bad decision) and I will keep her promise because deep down, I still love her and miss her. And who knows, maybe time will either we will get back happily or just happy on our own/other loved ones.
Maybe this story will tell you that you are not alone. Some people ended badly and some ended reasonably. Hope we will rise from the leap of faith ( odd but owh well )
Anyway I will keep updating about how I feel in the meantime.
Apologize for my bad writting
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CraftyCraft
It hurts when you and another break up and never talk again.
But it hurts harder on a completely different level when you friends after a breakup, especially if you still love them, but they dont love you anymore
Even if you want them to be happy, it still hurts seeing them move on as your friend, and most likely being in a relationship with someone else
My boyfriend had just broken up with me, saying he couldnt be in a relationship, and instead wanted to focus on school. Him and I had been in a relationship for about a year and a half, and when he told me that he wanted to focus more on school than being in a relationship, he said it in a nice way, but making it clear that he wanted to stay friends.
Outwardly, I was understanding, and glad that he was honest! It wasnt a very long conversation, as little had to be said, I made it clear that I wasnt angry, and said a was a little upset, but was still happy with going back to friends!
But internally, I was overwhelmed with confusing emotions like shock, confusion, and most strongly: numbness
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It hurts when you and another break up and never talk again.
But it hurts harder on a completely different level when you friends after a breakup, especially if you still love them, but they dont love you anymore
Even if you want them to be happy, it still hurts seeing them move on as your friend, and most likely being in a relationship with someone else
My boyfriend had just broken up with me, saying he couldnt be in a relationship, and instead wanted to focus on school. Him and I had been in a relationship for about a year and a half, and when he told me that he wanted to focus more on school than being in a relationship, he said it in a nice way, but making it clear that he wanted to stay friends.
Outwardly, I was understanding, and glad that he was honest! It wasnt a very long conversation, as little had to be said, I made it clear that I wasnt angry, and said a was a little upset, but was still happy with going back to friends!
But internally, I was overwhelmed with confusing emotions like shock, confusion, and most strongly: numbness
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andrea
I've been with him since we were in 9 grade is very toxic, full of on and off situation. We work things out on Nov 2022. I thought we have the world in our hand. I have codependency and anxiety after the multiple breakup we have. Im still working on on my mental process and it seems so nice for him to understand me unlike those days. But it came that he's getting tired of me till we broke up again. Almost 11 months was all gone seems a very short time but I've learned to be more dependent to it. I couldn't take it so much that for so long he could never be with me again. He told me that he's moving on and will start to see someone someday. I was hurt very much that the person I trusted will then again hurt me once again. Every 4 or 5 in the morning I'll wake up just to reach for my breath. Idk how to handle this. Its just been 1 week and feel so dead.
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I've been with him since we were in 9 grade is very toxic, full of on and off situation. We work things out on Nov 2022. I thought we have the world in our hand. I have codependency and anxiety after the multiple breakup we have. Im still working on on my mental process and it seems so nice for him to understand me unlike those days. But it came that he's getting tired of me till we broke up again. Almost 11 months was all gone seems a very short time but I've learned to be more dependent to it. I couldn't take it so much that for so long he could never be with me again. He told me that he's moving on and will start to see someone someday. I was hurt very much that the person I trusted will then again hurt me once again. Every 4 or 5 in the morning I'll wake up just to reach for my breath. Idk how to handle this. Its just been 1 week and feel so dead.
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lana
I just gotten broken up with by my bf. Said he didnt feel the same way he did before we have had been togother for 3 years. I thought i loved him i loved him sm i cared for him i thought he was gonna be there for me he promised he said he loved me thats what he said to me. I thought i was being good enough but he just had to end it i cant even imange him leaving me BLOCKED me, and all that i am so sad and so hurt. I tried so hard to make it work all my hard work went to shit he was the only thing i looked forawrd to was to talk to him. Nothing lasts forver and i hate it but its better to let it sink in and not get too attached bc the more u get attached the more it hurst i love u all just know there is someone who will stay with u one day sending hugs
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I just gotten broken up with by my bf. Said he didnt feel the same way he did before we have had been togother for 3 years. I thought i loved him i loved him sm i cared for him i thought he was gonna be there for me he promised he said he loved me thats what he said to me. I thought i was being good enough but he just had to end it i cant even imange him leaving me BLOCKED me, and all that i am so sad and so hurt. I tried so hard to make it work all my hard work went to shit he was the only thing i looked forawrd to was to talk to him. Nothing lasts forver and i hate it but its better to let it sink in and not get too attached bc the more u get attached the more it hurst i love u all just know there is someone who will stay with u one day sending hugs
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Stacy123
break ups suck. im going through one right now and its harder than i expected it to be. anyone whos going through one rn, i get how your feeling and i know its hard to forget all the fun times you had with this person, how much you loved them. take your time. slowly put those memorys in the past and begin to make new ones. treat yourself with something nice. if your truly meant to be with this person, you too will find a way back to each other and if not thats ok. your certain special one is just around the corner waiting for you. feel better and if anyone needs a crying buddy im here
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break ups suck. im going through one right now and its harder than i expected it to be. anyone whos going through one rn, i get how your feeling and i know its hard to forget all the fun times you had with this person, how much you loved them. take your time. slowly put those memorys in the past and begin to make new ones. treat yourself with something nice. if your truly meant to be with this person, you too will find a way back to each other and if not thats ok. your certain special one is just around the corner waiting for you. feel better and if anyone needs a crying buddy im here
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SakuraSea
My boyfriend of 2 years ended our relationship just over a month ago and I am devastated. I always cry, I'm not myself anymore and I always have that feeling in my stomach, kind of like a sickness feeling, that you get when you're devastated and scared and upset. I've started doing unhealthy things and ive tried everything to get over him but it so difficult, especially because he acts as if the past two years never happened and that I was and am nothing to him.
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My boyfriend of 2 years ended our relationship just over a month ago and I am devastated. I always cry, I'm not myself anymore and I always have that feeling in my stomach, kind of like a sickness feeling, that you get when you're devastated and scared and upset. I've started doing unhealthy things and ive tried everything to get over him but it so difficult, especially because he acts as if the past two years never happened and that I was and am nothing to him.
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Charmielyn
Im going through alot rn i really loved him all of his flaws and evrrything he just liked another girl when hes tired of me and i
Idk anymore its really hard idk what to do without him hes my first bf ive been and its pretty tough that ive been so naive to believe him and i get palpitates from too much pain in my heart srsly im just such a sensitive person ive protected it for so long and gave it to him just for him yeah idk
Just wanna vent idk
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Im going through alot rn i really loved him all of his flaws and evrrything he just liked another girl when hes tired of me and i
Idk anymore its really hard idk what to do without him hes my first bf ive been and its pretty tough that ive been so naive to believe him and i get palpitates from too much pain in my heart srsly im just such a sensitive person ive protected it for so long and gave it to him just for him yeah idk
Just wanna vent idk
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Madison
This is harder then I thought he was my first boyfriend and he broke up with me I tried for a year almost a year and two months in 3 days. but Ill always love him I miss him so much Ive never gone through something like this but Im glad I did everything I could have done and I knew he was for me I just know I wasnt for him he didnt love me enough to change he promised things he couldnt do he gave he hopes for no reason.
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This is harder then I thought he was my first boyfriend and he broke up with me I tried for a year almost a year and two months in 3 days. but Ill always love him I miss him so much Ive never gone through something like this but Im glad I did everything I could have done and I knew he was for me I just know I wasnt for him he didnt love me enough to change he promised things he couldnt do he gave he hopes for no reason.
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SomethingPlatypus
My older brothers girl friend just broke up with him and he hasn't come out of his room. I thought she was the one because she was so incredibly nice, sweet, and funny. When she broke up with him, I couldn't stop crying. I felt his pain so so bad. I shouldn't be the one upset but I am. I've been trying to look on the bright side but it's hard. This video has helped me so much! Thank you for this!
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My older brothers girl friend just broke up with him and he hasn't come out of his room. I thought she was the one because she was so incredibly nice, sweet, and funny. When she broke up with him, I couldn't stop crying. I felt his pain so so bad. I shouldn't be the one upset but I am. I've been trying to look on the bright side but it's hard. This video has helped me so much! Thank you for this!
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BDI99
time heal the wounds
but some wounds are too deep to be healed
that's the hardest pain you ever felt
that can get you into depression
i think there's no thing that can make you get over a break up
you will heal with time
all the best for people that going through a break up right now
be strong and take care of you and your heart you are more important
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time heal the wounds
but some wounds are too deep to be healed
that's the hardest pain you ever felt
that can get you into depression
i think there's no thing that can make you get over a break up
you will heal with time
all the best for people that going through a break up right now
be strong and take care of you and your heart you are more important
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had
My boyfriend broke up with me last night. It's really tough. After I thought I found the perfect guy and the best partner ever, he chose to leave me with no reason.
The problem is, I planned my future with him, I planned my dreams depending on him. He is a great guy and our relationship was perfect. Everything changed in 30 minutes with no reason.
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My boyfriend broke up with me last night. It's really tough. After I thought I found the perfect guy and the best partner ever, he chose to leave me with no reason.
The problem is, I planned my future with him, I planned my dreams depending on him. He is a great guy and our relationship was perfect. Everything changed in 30 minutes with no reason.
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Sakshi_
I have my exams in upcoming three days, not able to study crying whole day, was trying to save the relationship and even say sorry to him so many times. but how pathetic I'm. the person used to love me make me feel special he came back second time with some promises I was trying to trust him again. oh I'm so foolish in love. again he left me
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I have my exams in upcoming three days, not able to study crying whole day, was trying to save the relationship and even say sorry to him so many times. but how pathetic I'm. the person used to love me make me feel special he came back second time with some promises I was trying to trust him again. oh I'm so foolish in love. again he left me
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Marquez
There was this girl i thought would love me forever but she felt too codependent and broke up with me. The only girl thats ever loved me and ever will love me left me. The one person i cherished and truly loved, i started working out because of her. They say theres plenty of fish in the sea but there are none that are attracted to me
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There was this girl i thought would love me forever but she felt too codependent and broke up with me. The only girl thats ever loved me and ever will love me left me. The one person i cherished and truly loved, i started working out because of her. They say theres plenty of fish in the sea but there are none that are attracted to me
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Jiri
It sucks to a whole new level when you weren't out to your parents so they don't know you were together and you're gay so you can't talk to them and you have very few friends to actually help you through it and all of those will probably make it worse as they're all pretty shit when it comes to this sort of stuff
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It sucks to a whole new level when you weren't out to your parents so they don't know you were together and you're gay so you can't talk to them and you have very few friends to actually help you through it and all of those will probably make it worse as they're all pretty shit when it comes to this sort of stuff
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K1s3ss: )
My gf just broke up with me and I tried talking to my closest friend but they litterly just got a gf also and my other friends either got broken up with, they like bullying me for just being me, or are going to get a lover. Istg everything around me is reminding me of my gf. This sucks for a first time; (
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My gf just broke up with me and I tried talking to my closest friend but they litterly just got a gf also and my other friends either got broken up with, they like bullying me for just being me, or are going to get a lover. Istg everything around me is reminding me of my gf. This sucks for a first time; (
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WhatsApp
My ex came back to me a few days ago I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and
beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do Alot of work also like financial problem and court case, etc
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My ex came back to me a few days ago I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and
beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do Alot of work also like financial problem and court case, etc
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Thomy
I asked him to be friends after I broke up because he was unique. But I know it would be the best for both. I wasn't the person and it wasn't the time for it sadly. Now I'm dealing with this but sometimes you have to let them go if you care about them, even if it hurts a lot
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I asked him to be friends after I broke up because he was unique. But I know it would be the best for both. I wasn't the person and it wasn't the time for it sadly. Now I'm dealing with this but sometimes you have to let them go if you care about them, even if it hurts a lot
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Highsez
It was my first relationship and i took it seriously. I want to make him happy but he broke it off. After the break up, while i respected him, he talked abt other girls in front of me so easily like i was nothing i have anxiety issues and he just make it worse, thanks ex.
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It was my first relationship and i took it seriously. I want to make him happy but he broke it off. After the break up, while i respected him, he talked abt other girls in front of me so easily like i was nothing i have anxiety issues and he just make it worse, thanks ex.
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Psych2Go
Happy Sunday everyone and sorry for not replying to everyone's comment lately. But we've been reading them and slowly adding more topics to our list of videos. Break ups was requested a while back and now we have it completed. Hope it helps for those who are going this!
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Happy Sunday everyone and sorry for not replying to everyone's comment lately. But we've been reading them and slowly adding more topics to our list of videos. Break ups was requested a while back and now we have it completed. Hope it helps for those who are going this!
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Edoardo
I love you
We gonna be together forever yes
In three years gonna get married
We gonna have a house and live together there
The wedding is going to be in Madeira
After two years almost. wanna brake up she said. now all things are throw in trash
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I love you
We gonna be together forever yes
In three years gonna get married
We gonna have a house and live together there
The wedding is going to be in Madeira
After two years almost. wanna brake up she said. now all things are throw in trash
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kie
i just got broken up with and im not sure what im supposed to do now weve been together for 10 months and so close to 1 year i was so excited to celebrate our first year together. life got in the way and ruined that. i miss her already i didnt want this to happen
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i just got broken up with and im not sure what im supposed to do now weve been together for 10 months and so close to 1 year i was so excited to celebrate our first year together. life got in the way and ruined that. i miss her already i didnt want this to happen
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Farrin
My ex sits right next to me in band class because we are the only two bass guitar players in the school band so its kinda hard to distance myself from him, cuz we have to sit next to each other in my FIRST period any ideas? (from anyone)
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My ex sits right next to me in band class because we are the only two bass guitar players in the school band so its kinda hard to distance myself from him, cuz we have to sit next to each other in my FIRST period any ideas? (from anyone)
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Angel
Those 2 years with her was the best years of my life. I didnt feel any pain when she was with me. We did everything together. After 4 of my friends passed away in summer of 2020 she helped me through that. And now Im alone
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Those 2 years with her was the best years of my life. I didnt feel any pain when she was with me. We did everything together. After 4 of my friends passed away in summer of 2020 she helped me through that. And now Im alone
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felixzislinda
I was at my moms when it happened and I thought they root loved me I wanted to tell them so much stuff I just need them back they said they would kill Gor me and they just dump me like bro I LOVED YOU SO MUCH TJ
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I was at my moms when it happened and I thought they root loved me I wanted to tell them so much stuff I just need them back they said they would kill Gor me and they just dump me like bro I LOVED YOU SO MUCH TJ
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mobile
Its only a month and i lose her because i she lost her feeling for me. I never thought of this, this feeling is so hurtful. Thank you for reading my feeling here. Hope you guys can move on and find a new love interest.
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Its only a month and i lose her because i she lost her feeling for me. I never thought of this, this feeling is so hurtful. Thank you for reading my feeling here. Hope you guys can move on and find a new love interest.
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