How To Ask Your Crush Out (that works)
video description
Date: 2023-08-20
Related videos
Comments and reviews: 25
Jay
I'm a Pisces (2/28/2002, so I don't even know much about dealing with people or societal norms without being aggravated more, but I haven't been involved with people outside my family who will accept me for all my imperfections cuz I'm scared for them getting hurt by my family (verbally/emotionally) and if I can't protect them in time from anyone messing with them, it'll be my burden to bear if they come to any harm, and I'll never forgive myself if that happens. My childhood sweetheart, luisana (nana) nevarez is a cancer (7/22/2003, and the crush next door, Liz garcia, is a taurus (5/1/2004, so who should I fall in love with? I've known luisana since 2008, but after parting ways by leaving lakeshore club without saying goodbye to each other, we fell out of touch, but she's never too far from my mind and heart. Until I saw her again in 2018 when I was out with my mom and big sister at walmart, and it was an unexpected reunion, but as soon as we said bye to each other, I told them I have feelings for her, but they called her a ho cuz she's not wife material behind her back, so, without luisana knowing of my love for her and my family's sudden rivalry between her and her family, I chose her over my family, bc she's the only woman I don't even care enough to hate but care enough to love her so much I wish I had the courage and guidance from likeminded individuals to tell nana how I felt before I lost her to another man. After that, I swore never to love again. Until I met the girl next door named Liz who's only 2 years younger than me on Dec 10, 2020. We talked about our hobbies, the usual stuff people want to get know each other better, but as usual, my mom and sisters told me not to fall in love again bc of what they (my family) did back in 2018 that made me lose my soon to be girl, not to mention the new crush next door is like a certain third grade crush that rejected me cuz she had a boyfriend at the time when I was young, but I don't believe them, so I has to see for myself without anyone knowing to see if my family's suspicions were correct. And it turns out, they were right, cuz I accidentally saw her kissing what appears to be her boyfriend, and I cried in my sleep for a little bit, bc I waited too long with the first one and she left me behind to be married to someone I don't even want (I never went thru it, due to my unrequited feelings for luisana and the inability to abandon her if I move on with someone else, and she (my first love) didn't know that, after all this time away in self imposed exile, I loved her, and I still do, every day for the rest of my life. And it's not our fault, it's society and my family's fault. I knew I had to give up on love for good if I'm gonna survive in the real world as a self-described disaster who's differently abled, is an self-aware assassin-templar sage, who never got to experience the firsts of teenhood while in exile, and already messing up in my adulthood at 21 cuz I want to stay true to myself by leaving Florida to reinvent myself as an pipe-cleaner metalbending artist again. So again, I did what I had to do in order to keep people safe, and denied my ways of metalbending magic, dreams, and family.
reply
I'm a Pisces (2/28/2002, so I don't even know much about dealing with people or societal norms without being aggravated more, but I haven't been involved with people outside my family who will accept me for all my imperfections cuz I'm scared for them getting hurt by my family (verbally/emotionally) and if I can't protect them in time from anyone messing with them, it'll be my burden to bear if they come to any harm, and I'll never forgive myself if that happens. My childhood sweetheart, luisana (nana) nevarez is a cancer (7/22/2003, and the crush next door, Liz garcia, is a taurus (5/1/2004, so who should I fall in love with? I've known luisana since 2008, but after parting ways by leaving lakeshore club without saying goodbye to each other, we fell out of touch, but she's never too far from my mind and heart. Until I saw her again in 2018 when I was out with my mom and big sister at walmart, and it was an unexpected reunion, but as soon as we said bye to each other, I told them I have feelings for her, but they called her a ho cuz she's not wife material behind her back, so, without luisana knowing of my love for her and my family's sudden rivalry between her and her family, I chose her over my family, bc she's the only woman I don't even care enough to hate but care enough to love her so much I wish I had the courage and guidance from likeminded individuals to tell nana how I felt before I lost her to another man. After that, I swore never to love again. Until I met the girl next door named Liz who's only 2 years younger than me on Dec 10, 2020. We talked about our hobbies, the usual stuff people want to get know each other better, but as usual, my mom and sisters told me not to fall in love again bc of what they (my family) did back in 2018 that made me lose my soon to be girl, not to mention the new crush next door is like a certain third grade crush that rejected me cuz she had a boyfriend at the time when I was young, but I don't believe them, so I has to see for myself without anyone knowing to see if my family's suspicions were correct. And it turns out, they were right, cuz I accidentally saw her kissing what appears to be her boyfriend, and I cried in my sleep for a little bit, bc I waited too long with the first one and she left me behind to be married to someone I don't even want (I never went thru it, due to my unrequited feelings for luisana and the inability to abandon her if I move on with someone else, and she (my first love) didn't know that, after all this time away in self imposed exile, I loved her, and I still do, every day for the rest of my life. And it's not our fault, it's society and my family's fault. I knew I had to give up on love for good if I'm gonna survive in the real world as a self-described disaster who's differently abled, is an self-aware assassin-templar sage, who never got to experience the firsts of teenhood while in exile, and already messing up in my adulthood at 21 cuz I want to stay true to myself by leaving Florida to reinvent myself as an pipe-cleaner metalbending artist again. So again, I did what I had to do in order to keep people safe, and denied my ways of metalbending magic, dreams, and family.
reply
Luinar
Now bro you probably seen my other comment story on my crush. And she is a shy girl and I have known her for 7 years and I was a shy boy before becoming this fake Gangster dahood wannabe star. I don't care that much I just like talking like this You feel me? anyway enough of that here is the reasons why I love my crush.
She is cute, respectful and very nice. She treats me like I had bad day and just makes it better. My example is when I was in track and field I was running and she was behind me. I tripped and slid on the rocks. There was blood everywhere. On my legs my arms and almost on my head. And she stopped and said to me. Are you okay? do you need help? You are going to be alright! which made my heart melt. It was so heartwarming that a girl would say that to me. Now you are probably saying. Bro you watch anime you don't touch grass and you never been helped by a girl before? Now bro let me tell you the hoods rules/ the school popularity rules. Now if you are friends with a girl OOOOOOH SNAP MAN YOU GET SHIPPED HARD BRO. there are two groups. The boys. The girls. nobody has crossed those boundries but now since we in grade 7 we are friends with some. but not real friends you know what I saying. And bro my crush helped me and carried me to the office like a chad. man not even my homeboy Johnny would do that.
My secound reason is She is so beautiful. Man when I stare into her eyes it's like I stare into the stars. Some people say she is ugly but bro doesn't understand how beautiful her voice is. It's so soft and charming always helping someone.
my third reason SHE LOVES ANIME. Well I aint a demon slayer fan but she loves Demon slayer, naruto, and jjba. And bro I love jjba It's just so nice man.
My fourth reason She is a roblox fanatic. She loves roblox more than anything. But she doesn't have me friended yet: ( I'll get there. But she loves games like adopt me mm2 or even vibe games. Yeah i don't like that stuff. But she get's impressed by my arsenal skillz.
my final reason. I think she likes me. I have the same personality as her. I am cheerful, charming, and sometimes even nice towards holding the doors or helping them with homework. I also like anime and she does too. I love roblox too she also talks like me sometimes, Like saying ayy what's up bestiee is which just the same as What's up my N, or what's up my bro how you doing? She also asks me lots of questions.
reply
Now bro you probably seen my other comment story on my crush. And she is a shy girl and I have known her for 7 years and I was a shy boy before becoming this fake Gangster dahood wannabe star. I don't care that much I just like talking like this You feel me? anyway enough of that here is the reasons why I love my crush.
She is cute, respectful and very nice. She treats me like I had bad day and just makes it better. My example is when I was in track and field I was running and she was behind me. I tripped and slid on the rocks. There was blood everywhere. On my legs my arms and almost on my head. And she stopped and said to me. Are you okay? do you need help? You are going to be alright! which made my heart melt. It was so heartwarming that a girl would say that to me. Now you are probably saying. Bro you watch anime you don't touch grass and you never been helped by a girl before? Now bro let me tell you the hoods rules/ the school popularity rules. Now if you are friends with a girl OOOOOOH SNAP MAN YOU GET SHIPPED HARD BRO. there are two groups. The boys. The girls. nobody has crossed those boundries but now since we in grade 7 we are friends with some. but not real friends you know what I saying. And bro my crush helped me and carried me to the office like a chad. man not even my homeboy Johnny would do that.
My secound reason is She is so beautiful. Man when I stare into her eyes it's like I stare into the stars. Some people say she is ugly but bro doesn't understand how beautiful her voice is. It's so soft and charming always helping someone.
my third reason SHE LOVES ANIME. Well I aint a demon slayer fan but she loves Demon slayer, naruto, and jjba. And bro I love jjba It's just so nice man.
My fourth reason She is a roblox fanatic. She loves roblox more than anything. But she doesn't have me friended yet: ( I'll get there. But she loves games like adopt me mm2 or even vibe games. Yeah i don't like that stuff. But she get's impressed by my arsenal skillz.
my final reason. I think she likes me. I have the same personality as her. I am cheerful, charming, and sometimes even nice towards holding the doors or helping them with homework. I also like anime and she does too. I love roblox too she also talks like me sometimes, Like saying ayy what's up bestiee is which just the same as What's up my N, or what's up my bro how you doing? She also asks me lots of questions.
reply
: P
I just wanna rant before the day I decided I was going to ask him. Basically, we knew eachother when I was in 7th grade and he was in 8th. I'm a freshman and hes a sophomore now, and I'm very confident he's going to say no. Which is scary. We were friends and I only developed feelings this year, but I really did appreciate our friendship and I really don't want to make it more awkward. We haven't even talked too much lately, which scares me even more. I really just don't know whether or not to ask him now, if now isn't a good time, but I know I'll live in regret for a while if I don't. Also, alot of my friends dont like the people he hangs around (not him in particular) but I just don't know. The first day of Highschool I was told not to get involved with their friend group so now I have multiple dilemmas. Plus, I am a person who has had two concrete crushes in my entire life and no real relationship (not even anything really close to one. None of my friends know about my crush, none of my family know, and thats why I'm ranting on the Internet. I know nobody will probably see this, but if anyone has any advice. Please share it with me
reply
I just wanna rant before the day I decided I was going to ask him. Basically, we knew eachother when I was in 7th grade and he was in 8th. I'm a freshman and hes a sophomore now, and I'm very confident he's going to say no. Which is scary. We were friends and I only developed feelings this year, but I really did appreciate our friendship and I really don't want to make it more awkward. We haven't even talked too much lately, which scares me even more. I really just don't know whether or not to ask him now, if now isn't a good time, but I know I'll live in regret for a while if I don't. Also, alot of my friends dont like the people he hangs around (not him in particular) but I just don't know. The first day of Highschool I was told not to get involved with their friend group so now I have multiple dilemmas. Plus, I am a person who has had two concrete crushes in my entire life and no real relationship (not even anything really close to one. None of my friends know about my crush, none of my family know, and thats why I'm ranting on the Internet. I know nobody will probably see this, but if anyone has any advice. Please share it with me
reply
gd_gamer
Hello, this is my terrible crush situation.
So, im in 5 grade and our school is from 5 to 12 grade so we are all new. I've been crushing on a boy from our class for a month. In school my crush always plays games with his friends and i cant communicate with him at school. However I've been going home with the public tansport with him and my bff. First we go on the bus for two stops and then we go to the metro. Me and my crush go in one direction and my bff in the other. So thats the only time I can talk with him. I am on the metro with him for three stops and I try talking with him about hobbies or stories. Idk why but he avoids eye contact and doesn't talk unless i haven't started. Does he like me or not? Can you give me advice or jokes (not too flirty?
reply
Hello, this is my terrible crush situation.
So, im in 5 grade and our school is from 5 to 12 grade so we are all new. I've been crushing on a boy from our class for a month. In school my crush always plays games with his friends and i cant communicate with him at school. However I've been going home with the public tansport with him and my bff. First we go on the bus for two stops and then we go to the metro. Me and my crush go in one direction and my bff in the other. So thats the only time I can talk with him. I am on the metro with him for three stops and I try talking with him about hobbies or stories. Idk why but he avoids eye contact and doesn't talk unless i haven't started. Does he like me or not? Can you give me advice or jokes (not too flirty?
reply
RunOut
My crush left to Hawaii for a week, and on the day she was getting back, I left to travel across my state to see family. Ive missed her, and stumbled upon one of these videos, and realized I have feelings for her. Im currently debating between telling her soon after I go back home, or waiting until a dance in January. Im luckily alone with her most weekdays, so going for the sooner time could work. When I get the courage, or just have the ever so powerful 3 AM motivation, I might just text her about it, go to sleep and hope for the best. It could work, but thats just a theory.
reply
My crush left to Hawaii for a week, and on the day she was getting back, I left to travel across my state to see family. Ive missed her, and stumbled upon one of these videos, and realized I have feelings for her. Im currently debating between telling her soon after I go back home, or waiting until a dance in January. Im luckily alone with her most weekdays, so going for the sooner time could work. When I get the courage, or just have the ever so powerful 3 AM motivation, I might just text her about it, go to sleep and hope for the best. It could work, but thats just a theory.
reply
Puff
Theres this event where its kind of like prom and Ive been trying to work up the courage to ask him out to go with me
I had said that today was the day (the last Monday before the event) and I had a dream like 20 minutes ago where I was just a second too late to confess to him
A girl literally just asked him before me and so he had to reject me and I like accepted it but felt rlly disappointed in myself so I dont wanna feel that in real life
Ill update when I get back from school: )
reply
Theres this event where its kind of like prom and Ive been trying to work up the courage to ask him out to go with me
I had said that today was the day (the last Monday before the event) and I had a dream like 20 minutes ago where I was just a second too late to confess to him
A girl literally just asked him before me and so he had to reject me and I like accepted it but felt rlly disappointed in myself so I dont wanna feel that in real life
Ill update when I get back from school: )
reply
Tristan
I've had a crush on this girl for several months, but I'm not sure whether or not she shows the same feelings. We're both extremely introverted and shy normally. I catch her staring at me at times, almost every day. However, we have a mutual friend who's also a girl and they were talking about me the other day (: /. My crush said that we don't talk often, outside of school work, and she would like to know me better.
Do I ask her out?
reply
I've had a crush on this girl for several months, but I'm not sure whether or not she shows the same feelings. We're both extremely introverted and shy normally. I catch her staring at me at times, almost every day. However, we have a mutual friend who's also a girl and they were talking about me the other day (: /. My crush said that we don't talk often, outside of school work, and she would like to know me better.
Do I ask her out?
reply
Jose
Im going to ask her in August. Im flying to her Country for a 10 days. I plan to tell her how I feel the third night Im there! Just in hopes of spending a week together. I plan to say that I enjoy spending time with her and that I really like her. That I believe we can be something more. And then ask her how does she feel about that. Any comments to how I am asking her will be helpful
reply
Im going to ask her in August. Im flying to her Country for a 10 days. I plan to tell her how I feel the third night Im there! Just in hopes of spending a week together. I plan to say that I enjoy spending time with her and that I really like her. That I believe we can be something more. And then ask her how does she feel about that. Any comments to how I am asking her will be helpful
reply
AVENGER291
Got my crushs number, gotta work up the courage to do ask them if they want to meet up for coffee sometime. To add to obvious shyness Ive got social anxiety, adhd, and generally dont do well in most social settings. However I do find it fairly easy to talk to her. Hope it works out between us.
Edit: got rejected and Im dealing with it via gaming sessions and lots of music
reply
Got my crushs number, gotta work up the courage to do ask them if they want to meet up for coffee sometime. To add to obvious shyness Ive got social anxiety, adhd, and generally dont do well in most social settings. However I do find it fairly easy to talk to her. Hope it works out between us.
Edit: got rejected and Im dealing with it via gaming sessions and lots of music
reply
education
Been to multiple events, many game nights, many discussions about common interests, compliments here and there, we know a reasonable amount about eachother. Ive even got the perfect line to ask the question. I just need the balls to actually do it. Ive got pretty bad social anxiety (as does he, so anyone out there who has been in a similar situation, how did you manage?
reply
Been to multiple events, many game nights, many discussions about common interests, compliments here and there, we know a reasonable amount about eachother. Ive even got the perfect line to ask the question. I just need the balls to actually do it. Ive got pretty bad social anxiety (as does he, so anyone out there who has been in a similar situation, how did you manage?
reply
Jackson
Me over here being 14 being aero ace and watching these (my fyp is weird y'all I this is the first video I even WATCHED like this) and then they bring up driving to a location Oh. This is meant for high schoolers and/or late middle schoolers! Wait, why am I even watching this! I have never even had a crush!
reply
Me over here being 14 being aero ace and watching these (my fyp is weird y'all I this is the first video I even WATCHED like this) and then they bring up driving to a location Oh. This is meant for high schoolers and/or late middle schoolers! Wait, why am I even watching this! I have never even had a crush!
reply
JOSE
I work with my crush and we always do the eye contact but she looks like she just zoned out but when I get close to her to see whats going on she says yay and starts singing a song in a different language cause apparently Im the only one who loves to hear her sing at work. Should I go for it and ask her out?
reply
I work with my crush and we always do the eye contact but she looks like she just zoned out but when I get close to her to see whats going on she says yay and starts singing a song in a different language cause apparently Im the only one who loves to hear her sing at work. Should I go for it and ask her out?
reply
hang
I dunno when I'm gonna but I only have one class with them at the end of the day and I hope I can ask them then but I'm so scared because I've known them for only a few days and I don't want to scare them away because if they don't want to go out with me then I would still want to just be their friend
reply
I dunno when I'm gonna but I only have one class with them at the end of the day and I hope I can ask them then but I'm so scared because I've known them for only a few days and I don't want to scare them away because if they don't want to go out with me then I would still want to just be their friend
reply
TVsmasher2099
This did not work, I tried to grope them, then they called the police on me. I dont know if this was because of our age gap ( I am 20 and she is 12, but I dont know if this is suppose to happen please give advice guys. PS. She never came through this alley again. :(
reply
This did not work, I tried to grope them, then they called the police on me. I dont know if this was because of our age gap ( I am 20 and she is 12, but I dont know if this is suppose to happen please give advice guys. PS. She never came through this alley again. :(
reply
Mrs
So I need to wait a little for summer but how I'm going to ask them out is I'm going to take them to the beach and ask them if we can take a walk and then ask them if they will be partner please tell me if it's a good idea or if I should tell them sooner. Please tell me now!
reply
So I need to wait a little for summer but how I'm going to ask them out is I'm going to take them to the beach and ask them if we can take a walk and then ask them if they will be partner please tell me if it's a good idea or if I should tell them sooner. Please tell me now!
reply
josh
My crush knows I have a crush on them
Edit: I just asked my crush out today well u didn't I got one of my friend who is friends with her but she did say I respect her dersition but she said no I am a year younger she 12 I'm 11 but we're both in year 7/8th grade
reply
My crush knows I have a crush on them
Edit: I just asked my crush out today well u didn't I got one of my friend who is friends with her but she did say I respect her dersition but she said no I am a year younger she 12 I'm 11 but we're both in year 7/8th grade
reply
psych2go
I'm to scared to approach my crush because I know two ppl that like him aswell and I dont want to ruin that incase but I hoped he liked me but he dosent I dont think but we have talked awkwardly to each other and he was awkward aswell so maybe I never know
reply
I'm to scared to approach my crush because I know two ppl that like him aswell and I dont want to ruin that incase but I hoped he liked me but he dosent I dont think but we have talked awkwardly to each other and he was awkward aswell so maybe I never know
reply
almostideal
I just asked my crush out. It was hard getting over that nervousness but it's better to have a yes (she said take things slow but yes: D ) or a no as opposed to that nagging sensation of never asking, that thing will eat you alive.
reply
I just asked my crush out. It was hard getting over that nervousness but it's better to have a yes (she said take things slow but yes: D ) or a no as opposed to that nagging sensation of never asking, that thing will eat you alive.
reply
Luke
1: 16 HOW DO YOU KNOW IF IT'S CREEPY OR NOT? AHHHHHH!
What makes eye contact creepy? Is it too much? What is too much? Is it too much without smiling? I DON'T SMILE!
Someone who isn't a clinical overthinker please tell me!
reply
1: 16 HOW DO YOU KNOW IF IT'S CREEPY OR NOT? AHHHHHH!
What makes eye contact creepy? Is it too much? What is too much? Is it too much without smiling? I DON'T SMILE!
Someone who isn't a clinical overthinker please tell me!
reply
besche
What if im super awkward, never talked to her, the only interaction was getting off the same bus/train? My chance of success is high right? Im not gonna get a word spread out of myself being a wierd awkward loner right?
reply
What if im super awkward, never talked to her, the only interaction was getting off the same bus/train? My chance of success is high right? Im not gonna get a word spread out of myself being a wierd awkward loner right?
reply
TVsmasher2099
Second comment but ummmmmm I complimented my other crush ( she was a fetus, I said her ovaries were beautiful, and her mother slapped me across the face, is this suppose to happen? please guys I NEED HELP!
reply
Second comment but ummmmmm I complimented my other crush ( she was a fetus, I said her ovaries were beautiful, and her mother slapped me across the face, is this suppose to happen? please guys I NEED HELP!
reply
NightKing1974
A wise man once said
if you are rejected by a woman you ask to date then do not get stuck on them. Move on. There are billions of fish in the sea. Which is plenty enough for an individual
reply
A wise man once said
if you are rejected by a woman you ask to date then do not get stuck on them. Move on. There are billions of fish in the sea. Which is plenty enough for an individual
reply
Hungrydegree318
Im just going to say never be worried about being put in the friend zone. You may not go out with them but at least you still have a good friend. Their are plenty more people out there.
reply
Im just going to say never be worried about being put in the friend zone. You may not go out with them but at least you still have a good friend. Their are plenty more people out there.
reply
Eduardo
What if I had already asked my crush out about more then a year ago, but my feelings hadn't changed since and we are much closer now and know each other better?
Am I allowed to ask again?
reply
What if I had already asked my crush out about more then a year ago, but my feelings hadn't changed since and we are much closer now and know each other better?
Am I allowed to ask again?
reply
Colewantstodraw
We were coming back from a field trip and my friend somehow got her to tell us every single detail about her and they got me in a spot where I have to confess I will update you guys
reply
We were coming back from a field trip and my friend somehow got her to tell us every single detail about her and they got me in a spot where I have to confess I will update you guys
reply
Add a review, comment
Other channel videos
