SELF CHECK: 6 Signs You're Becoming A Toxic Person
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Date: 2023-08-20
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sam
All the 6 traits = check!
Congrats to me i am a toxic person.
I was doubting myself for a long time that my behaviour around my loved ones is not kind of normal.
But when I saw this video today i was hesitant to click. but i watched till the last and now I am here thinking and regretting all the choices i made, all the things i said, I relate to almost everything and tbh many people around me have told me that i am kinda toxic. but instead of listening them i fought them and thought that they were the one who were toxic not me.
And because of my toxic behaviour i think my parents and almost my loved ones kind of hate me. And they're not wrong.
Today when i watched this, i realised how much i am changed. Not gonna lie i have affected many people's lives around me. whether I did it intentionally or not, either way I am guilty. Most importantly I am feeling sorry for my parents cause i don't know what i have done and they had gone through all because of me. I am realising now that at the school all the people whom i hated the most for telling me, advising me were good and they were right i was wrong all the time. I seek arguments and never accept. This is the reason they must have hated me and i am not complaining. I deserve it all the way.
Not all the story sorry if it was all long. If you read it all thank you
Have a nice day! ( Be aware of my types, they will surely hurt you )
Sorry for my bad English i am not native
Most importantly i will try to change, i will apologize all the people around me for making them suffer.
Again have a nice day.
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All the 6 traits = check!
Congrats to me i am a toxic person.
I was doubting myself for a long time that my behaviour around my loved ones is not kind of normal.
But when I saw this video today i was hesitant to click. but i watched till the last and now I am here thinking and regretting all the choices i made, all the things i said, I relate to almost everything and tbh many people around me have told me that i am kinda toxic. but instead of listening them i fought them and thought that they were the one who were toxic not me.
And because of my toxic behaviour i think my parents and almost my loved ones kind of hate me. And they're not wrong.
Today when i watched this, i realised how much i am changed. Not gonna lie i have affected many people's lives around me. whether I did it intentionally or not, either way I am guilty. Most importantly I am feeling sorry for my parents cause i don't know what i have done and they had gone through all because of me. I am realising now that at the school all the people whom i hated the most for telling me, advising me were good and they were right i was wrong all the time. I seek arguments and never accept. This is the reason they must have hated me and i am not complaining. I deserve it all the way.
Not all the story sorry if it was all long. If you read it all thank you
Have a nice day! ( Be aware of my types, they will surely hurt you )
Sorry for my bad English i am not native
Most importantly i will try to change, i will apologize all the people around me for making them suffer.
Again have a nice day.
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Aaliya
I have none of these traits except the jealous and possessive one. That happens with my best friend. She is always giving others more attention than me. She'll laugh and talk with everybody except me. I even tried talking about it with her once but nothing changed. Every year she gets a new person to stick to and neglects me. She only remembers me when there is nobody by her side because I'm always there. She only talks to me about her problems or her secrets because even she knows she can't trust the ones she is always laughing with. Recently I was absent for over two months because of some surgery I went through, and when I came back, she didn't even care to grace me with a look. I don't know if it's me that's toxic or her, but it's ruining me. I have started disliking her a lot. I am trying to be less jealous and possessive of her but I just don't know how to. Any advice would be of great help.
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I have none of these traits except the jealous and possessive one. That happens with my best friend. She is always giving others more attention than me. She'll laugh and talk with everybody except me. I even tried talking about it with her once but nothing changed. Every year she gets a new person to stick to and neglects me. She only remembers me when there is nobody by her side because I'm always there. She only talks to me about her problems or her secrets because even she knows she can't trust the ones she is always laughing with. Recently I was absent for over two months because of some surgery I went through, and when I came back, she didn't even care to grace me with a look. I don't know if it's me that's toxic or her, but it's ruining me. I have started disliking her a lot. I am trying to be less jealous and possessive of her but I just don't know how to. Any advice would be of great help.
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HAGURMERT
I don't relate to any which is good, I try to keep my connections relatively non-toxic, do sometimes with people who take it as jokes within each other but yeah
I do remember one time when in primary school, there's was a very toxic girl. She was basically talking shit about everyone else. I couldn't stand her and I remember hating her as well
After many months of this during 4-5 grade, within 5th grade, I couldn't hold myself anymore and. Proceeded to pick up a light plastic chair and throw that to her head. Yes, you heard that right. I don't remember where it exactly hit, but I think it hit her chin, causing permanent damage.
The fun thing is: I didn't get any punishment for that and instead she got a punishment
To this day I'm glad I did that, idk why
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I don't relate to any which is good, I try to keep my connections relatively non-toxic, do sometimes with people who take it as jokes within each other but yeah
I do remember one time when in primary school, there's was a very toxic girl. She was basically talking shit about everyone else. I couldn't stand her and I remember hating her as well
After many months of this during 4-5 grade, within 5th grade, I couldn't hold myself anymore and. Proceeded to pick up a light plastic chair and throw that to her head. Yes, you heard that right. I don't remember where it exactly hit, but I think it hit her chin, causing permanent damage.
The fun thing is: I didn't get any punishment for that and instead she got a punishment
To this day I'm glad I did that, idk why
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Scenes
I am an overly argumentative when it comes to some of my close relationship and with my partner. I know my toxic trait comes from my family mostly and it is very unfortunate that I have lost the love of my life by always being so critical and sensitive and argumentative. He had the same problems as me. so when we both were going through some very major problems in our lives, things got worse. It got to a point where couldn't normally talk to eachother anymore and always misunderstood. I am willing to work on myself. But I don't know how to be a calmer person. I don't know how to be more accepting. I'm looking for ways to learn. But he has already left too.
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I am an overly argumentative when it comes to some of my close relationship and with my partner. I know my toxic trait comes from my family mostly and it is very unfortunate that I have lost the love of my life by always being so critical and sensitive and argumentative. He had the same problems as me. so when we both were going through some very major problems in our lives, things got worse. It got to a point where couldn't normally talk to eachother anymore and always misunderstood. I am willing to work on myself. But I don't know how to be a calmer person. I don't know how to be more accepting. I'm looking for ways to learn. But he has already left too.
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wishmewellweeb
Their is nothing wrong with being toxic. Being toxic gives you full insight of who people really are and your able to peel peoples mask, manipulation, bullying and many other harmful emotional actions. As someone whos a dickhead and just because, I have peeled so many fake smiles its crazy that people try hide there intents or feel like they can manipulate you only to get peeled within seconds of a conversation.
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Their is nothing wrong with being toxic. Being toxic gives you full insight of who people really are and your able to peel peoples mask, manipulation, bullying and many other harmful emotional actions. As someone whos a dickhead and just because, I have peeled so many fake smiles its crazy that people try hide there intents or feel like they can manipulate you only to get peeled within seconds of a conversation.
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JIMIN
I'm 10% percent toxic but I'm not a bad person and I'm always trying to improve myself and be more sane. I had no real friends, and when I found a real friend, I was afraid of losing her, so I was always jealous of anyone who approached her and I became possessed towards her. It was not my intention, I just don't want to lose the only friend I have after ten years lonely.
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I'm 10% percent toxic but I'm not a bad person and I'm always trying to improve myself and be more sane. I had no real friends, and when I found a real friend, I was afraid of losing her, so I was always jealous of anyone who approached her and I became possessed towards her. It was not my intention, I just don't want to lose the only friend I have after ten years lonely.
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Fawful81080
I almost always have jealousy thoughts on friends having a good time with others, I admit it. But at the same time whenever they appear I remind myself the reasons why they must have that quality time with others as well as not being the owner of their life. Though the process really drains me down.
If anyone has a better method I'd love to hear it.
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I almost always have jealousy thoughts on friends having a good time with others, I admit it. But at the same time whenever they appear I remind myself the reasons why they must have that quality time with others as well as not being the owner of their life. Though the process really drains me down.
If anyone has a better method I'd love to hear it.
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Ano
Well that was really toxic explaining in the video, but would consider it mean and being a bully. ;/ the characters in the video are so cute, really empathized when the purple one was being mean, like telling the other one on the couch being chunky: ( All in all though; realized I'm not toxic at all, but always good to do a self-awareness check: )
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Well that was really toxic explaining in the video, but would consider it mean and being a bully. ;/ the characters in the video are so cute, really empathized when the purple one was being mean, like telling the other one on the couch being chunky: ( All in all though; realized I'm not toxic at all, but always good to do a self-awareness check: )
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Amber
Im argumentative but I dont mean for it to be toxic I just like debating topics that arnt needed but I just enjoy it yes it gets heated and it can be full of passion and I know Im a bit much sometimes but I just enjoy it like a hobby but for a lot of people its exhausting or pointless but for me it is fun, so that one I always feel so conflicted
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Im argumentative but I dont mean for it to be toxic I just like debating topics that arnt needed but I just enjoy it yes it gets heated and it can be full of passion and I know Im a bit much sometimes but I just enjoy it like a hobby but for a lot of people its exhausting or pointless but for me it is fun, so that one I always feel so conflicted
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JustBeautiful
Ok I accept that I do get jealous and am possesive (not over) for people I love but I'm working on it I never tried to control others or anything like that it's just a feeling but now I explain myself more often that it's ok if others are getting successful more if they're happy more I've started to accept and work on myself
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Ok I accept that I do get jealous and am possesive (not over) for people I love but I'm working on it I never tried to control others or anything like that it's just a feeling but now I explain myself more often that it's ok if others are getting successful more if they're happy more I've started to accept and work on myself
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Adham
ok so i just wanna get some help, i had a girl that pranked me that she died and she made that cuz she wanted to make fun of me and to make me stop talking to her again, i just knew that it was just a prank today, so, what should i do, like i wanna hurt her like she did, i wanna make her life dark and down, please someone help me
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ok so i just wanna get some help, i had a girl that pranked me that she died and she made that cuz she wanted to make fun of me and to make me stop talking to her again, i just knew that it was just a prank today, so, what should i do, like i wanna hurt her like she did, i wanna make her life dark and down, please someone help me
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ukley__
First sign you mentioned and I already knew I was toxic. Idk why dut I always like starting beef with other people when I get bored. I also instigate arguments for my entertainment. I know It's a very shit personality trait of mine. and I want to tone it down, but it's easier said than done, especially when I'm in the moment.
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First sign you mentioned and I already knew I was toxic. Idk why dut I always like starting beef with other people when I get bored. I also instigate arguments for my entertainment. I know It's a very shit personality trait of mine. and I want to tone it down, but it's easier said than done, especially when I'm in the moment.
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Jesse
Thanks. I'm sorry. I just don't have any friends other than2 very close ones and yk it's just really hard to be sat alone while everyone else is just enjoying time and playing and hanging out with their friends. I just feel like people hate me or are against me whenever I do anything. IM SO ANNOYING. Why am I like this?
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Thanks. I'm sorry. I just don't have any friends other than2 very close ones and yk it's just really hard to be sat alone while everyone else is just enjoying time and playing and hanging out with their friends. I just feel like people hate me or are against me whenever I do anything. IM SO ANNOYING. Why am I like this?
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Mx.
This was genuinely super important for me to hear. I thought I was toxic in different areas, and now I'm really learning where I'm actually being toxic. Mainly possessiveness and demeaning others accomplishment.
This is a super important video and I'm really interested to see where this revelation will put me.
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This was genuinely super important for me to hear. I thought I was toxic in different areas, and now I'm really learning where I'm actually being toxic. Mainly possessiveness and demeaning others accomplishment.
This is a super important video and I'm really interested to see where this revelation will put me.
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xXAkira. _. MoonXx
im not toxic for being jealous. my friend is toxic for replacing me and ignoring me, and starting arguments over nothing.
they were my friend 4 a year, we'll call them h. h knew my bff, c, for a week, and they constantly play together, h constantly ignores me.
[H if you see this, you didnt]
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im not toxic for being jealous. my friend is toxic for replacing me and ignoring me, and starting arguments over nothing.
they were my friend 4 a year, we'll call them h. h knew my bff, c, for a week, and they constantly play together, h constantly ignores me.
[H if you see this, you didnt]
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Lili
I want everyone to remember that no matter what type of person you are you are not stuck that way. We don't need to be wealthy to make a wealth plan and we don't need to be healthy to make a health plan. We certainly don't need to be the ultimate example of an angel in order for us to work on ourselves.
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I want everyone to remember that no matter what type of person you are you are not stuck that way. We don't need to be wealthy to make a wealth plan and we don't need to be healthy to make a health plan. We certainly don't need to be the ultimate example of an angel in order for us to work on ourselves.
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Durgesh
I show all of the signs in this video but in very little amount. I used to be exactly like this in past but now I'm becoming a better person and I hate to admit it but in the past, I was very insecure but overtime I started to love myself for who I am and now I'm confident and not toxic at all
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I show all of the signs in this video but in very little amount. I used to be exactly like this in past but now I'm becoming a better person and I hate to admit it but in the past, I was very insecure but overtime I started to love myself for who I am and now I'm confident and not toxic at all
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memoirse
And it's kinda sad as someone who has all of them, not being able to change quickly or get rid of those toxic traits right away because once you've done it you'll be stuck on your ways and it's kind of frustrating sometimes yet can't helped but to become one unintentionally or intentionally.
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And it's kinda sad as someone who has all of them, not being able to change quickly or get rid of those toxic traits right away because once you've done it you'll be stuck on your ways and it's kind of frustrating sometimes yet can't helped but to become one unintentionally or intentionally.
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ehrlsy_mp
I'm so glad that I'm not relate to any of these signs. I almost thought of myself that I'm a toxic person for some reason. After watching this, I think I noticed one of my classmates who is toxic and has all of these signs. This video opens my eyes a lot. Thank you so much
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I'm so glad that I'm not relate to any of these signs. I almost thought of myself that I'm a toxic person for some reason. After watching this, I think I noticed one of my classmates who is toxic and has all of these signs. This video opens my eyes a lot. Thank you so much
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Geno
Im gonna be honest, I dont know if I fit any of those perfectly but this is definitely something I should reflect on. Lately Ive started being more introspective and I wanna make sure Im being a good friend so this was a pretty valuable video for me! Thanks!
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Im gonna be honest, I dont know if I fit any of those perfectly but this is definitely something I should reflect on. Lately Ive started being more introspective and I wanna make sure Im being a good friend so this was a pretty valuable video for me! Thanks!
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TDS_Lunarrx
The 4th one I relate to too much, because my friend always talks with another, and recently hes been treating me really badly and making irritating jokes. that friend is why i have toxic traits, or maybe i made a mistake idk.
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The 4th one I relate to too much, because my friend always talks with another, and recently hes been treating me really badly and making irritating jokes. that friend is why i have toxic traits, or maybe i made a mistake idk.
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Simulacore
I fall into every single one of these categories. I understand where I went wrong with everything now. Thank you for showing me Psych2Go, I'll strive to become a better person, and mend my relationshi with my friends.
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I fall into every single one of these categories. I understand where I went wrong with everything now. Thank you for showing me Psych2Go, I'll strive to become a better person, and mend my relationshi with my friends.
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pancakes46
a few months ago i agree that i have 3 out of 6 of the signs. now i have all of them and its heavily obvious. which makes me wonder, why did i become toxic? why does a person become toxic?
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a few months ago i agree that i have 3 out of 6 of the signs. now i have all of them and its heavily obvious. which makes me wonder, why did i become toxic? why does a person become toxic?
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education
I came here to see if I was actually a full jerk but then I didn't see anything like that on me, that's it hit me: what if I'm so messed up I can't even see I'm a jerk?
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I came here to see if I was actually a full jerk but then I didn't see anything like that on me, that's it hit me: what if I'm so messed up I can't even see I'm a jerk?
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Andrea
i have a friend with which i hav been rethinking my friendship with her for the past three months, she is exactly doing everything which is described in this video.
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i have a friend with which i hav been rethinking my friendship with her for the past three months, she is exactly doing everything which is described in this video.
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