7 Psychological Tricks To Make a Good First Impression
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Motivated
As a 17 year old highschool student born an introverted virgin who has an introverted 19 year old brother who has autism, I must admit that the first minute of the video lifted me up. The crush I've had on this one girl for literally over a year had always friendzoned me. She also denies every bit of truth I try to speak of to her. She wants me to become a stronger man, mentally. But I fail every single time because I usually give her shitty first impressions, like saying oh for example and showing her slight bit of attention, even though I am giving everything I got for her approval. She is moving after summer break and this shatters my heart because we both had many ups and downs and I cannot let it go downhill. I know I want to win her. No matter what, I will always be optimistic because life's got unlimited meanings, and that tells me that moving on can suck my ass. But she is the voice in my head that is telling me go whenever it tells me to. I would try to avoid her, so I would say no. And to this day, I am still trying to earn her respect and make her my girlfriend. I am trying to know more people. And I am still writing this comment (not really tho. And so to build my confidence, I want to meet new friends, and know them better. I want to belong. And that is what brought me to this video. Thank you for this.
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As a 17 year old highschool student born an introverted virgin who has an introverted 19 year old brother who has autism, I must admit that the first minute of the video lifted me up. The crush I've had on this one girl for literally over a year had always friendzoned me. She also denies every bit of truth I try to speak of to her. She wants me to become a stronger man, mentally. But I fail every single time because I usually give her shitty first impressions, like saying oh for example and showing her slight bit of attention, even though I am giving everything I got for her approval. She is moving after summer break and this shatters my heart because we both had many ups and downs and I cannot let it go downhill. I know I want to win her. No matter what, I will always be optimistic because life's got unlimited meanings, and that tells me that moving on can suck my ass. But she is the voice in my head that is telling me go whenever it tells me to. I would try to avoid her, so I would say no. And to this day, I am still trying to earn her respect and make her my girlfriend. I am trying to know more people. And I am still writing this comment (not really tho. And so to build my confidence, I want to meet new friends, and know them better. I want to belong. And that is what brought me to this video. Thank you for this.
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where
I need some help from you, amazing beautiful people on the internet.
I'm moving out for colleague. I was planning to stay in a residency, like a dorm if you could say so. You live in an apartment with the other 3 girls but everyone has their own room (I woul dgo there without knowing anybody at all.
Now, my mom's friend's daughter is also going to the same college but she rented an apartment for herself, she is searching for a roomie. We used to be kinda friends when little when our moms saw each other but it's been years since I last saw her.
I message her and told her if we should meet, cause maybe her mom is excited about the idea of sharing a place but maybe, just maybe I aren't meant for each other lol (that sounded like a romantic couple, I told her that and she said that she remembers me, and she's excited to live with me (before I told her to meet up. So I want to keep this picture of a nice person cuase I wwant to leave with her but in the last years I've become a shy peron and don't want to mess things up.
What things could we talk about? How do I start conversation? How can I avoid awkard silence? I could I make her feel comfortable about living with me?
Cause it is a first impression if you think about it, right?
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I need some help from you, amazing beautiful people on the internet.
I'm moving out for colleague. I was planning to stay in a residency, like a dorm if you could say so. You live in an apartment with the other 3 girls but everyone has their own room (I woul dgo there without knowing anybody at all.
Now, my mom's friend's daughter is also going to the same college but she rented an apartment for herself, she is searching for a roomie. We used to be kinda friends when little when our moms saw each other but it's been years since I last saw her.
I message her and told her if we should meet, cause maybe her mom is excited about the idea of sharing a place but maybe, just maybe I aren't meant for each other lol (that sounded like a romantic couple, I told her that and she said that she remembers me, and she's excited to live with me (before I told her to meet up. So I want to keep this picture of a nice person cuase I wwant to leave with her but in the last years I've become a shy peron and don't want to mess things up.
What things could we talk about? How do I start conversation? How can I avoid awkard silence? I could I make her feel comfortable about living with me?
Cause it is a first impression if you think about it, right?
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I need some help from you, amazing beautiful people on the internet.
I'm moving out for colleague.
My mom's friend's daughter is going to the same college but she rented an apartment for herself, she is searching for a roomie. We used to be kinda friends when little when our moms saw each other but it's been years since I last saw her.
I message her and told her if we should meet, cause maybe her mom is excited about the idea of sharing a place but maybe, just maybe we aren't meant for each other lol (that sounded like a romantic couple, I told her that, and she said that she does remember me, and she's excited about the idea of living with me (at least that's what she said by message.
So I want to keep this picture of a nice person cause I want to leave with her but in the last years, I've become a shy person and don't want to mess things up.
What things could we talk about? How do I start conversation? How can I avoid awkward silence? How could I make her feel comfortable about living with me?
Cause it is a first impression if you think about it, right?
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I need some help from you, amazing beautiful people on the internet.
I'm moving out for colleague.
My mom's friend's daughter is going to the same college but she rented an apartment for herself, she is searching for a roomie. We used to be kinda friends when little when our moms saw each other but it's been years since I last saw her.
I message her and told her if we should meet, cause maybe her mom is excited about the idea of sharing a place but maybe, just maybe we aren't meant for each other lol (that sounded like a romantic couple, I told her that, and she said that she does remember me, and she's excited about the idea of living with me (at least that's what she said by message.
So I want to keep this picture of a nice person cause I want to leave with her but in the last years, I've become a shy person and don't want to mess things up.
What things could we talk about? How do I start conversation? How can I avoid awkward silence? How could I make her feel comfortable about living with me?
Cause it is a first impression if you think about it, right?
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Bal
One of my best friends in Elementary School had a bad first impression on me. It was the first day of Kindergarten, and the two kids I knew on my bus were sitting with older kids leaving me on my own. One said This seat is saved, and the other was already sitting with an older kid. Then I'm sitting on my own a bit disappointed, and then this one other kindergartener sits next to me. He was kind of smaller with neatly combed hair and a big smile on his face. My thoughts were 'Wow I'm stuck with this kid'. He didn't do anything wrong, it's just that my attitude was poor. Surprisingly we became best friends for some years.
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One of my best friends in Elementary School had a bad first impression on me. It was the first day of Kindergarten, and the two kids I knew on my bus were sitting with older kids leaving me on my own. One said This seat is saved, and the other was already sitting with an older kid. Then I'm sitting on my own a bit disappointed, and then this one other kindergartener sits next to me. He was kind of smaller with neatly combed hair and a big smile on his face. My thoughts were 'Wow I'm stuck with this kid'. He didn't do anything wrong, it's just that my attitude was poor. Surprisingly we became best friends for some years.
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GHOST.
During this I realized that a good impression is subjective. Therefor a different impression may be better for one situation more than another, meaning how to make a good impression is actually not of much use if you not specifying the situation. For instance if a person is wrongfully accused of a crime they probably are not going to want to be open in there first impression and wait for a lawyer or in a business meeting showing enthusiasm might not be the best first impression. My two cents for what theyre worth anyway.
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During this I realized that a good impression is subjective. Therefor a different impression may be better for one situation more than another, meaning how to make a good impression is actually not of much use if you not specifying the situation. For instance if a person is wrongfully accused of a crime they probably are not going to want to be open in there first impression and wait for a lawyer or in a business meeting showing enthusiasm might not be the best first impression. My two cents for what theyre worth anyway.
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ob1995
1. be enthusaistic show interest in person you meet
2. show respect ( please, thank you) - waiter, CEO, janitor
3. Be open to new ideas: let them know your willing to do. some new with them
4 Be Postiive: in the good and bad
5. Realize its not all bout you
6. Try to avoid bad days: let them know your meetings with them are important thus you want to bring your best
7. Body language: good posture, eye contact and lean forward to show interest
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1. be enthusaistic show interest in person you meet
2. show respect ( please, thank you) - waiter, CEO, janitor
3. Be open to new ideas: let them know your willing to do. some new with them
4 Be Postiive: in the good and bad
5. Realize its not all bout you
6. Try to avoid bad days: let them know your meetings with them are important thus you want to bring your best
7. Body language: good posture, eye contact and lean forward to show interest
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Shresth
0: 22-People take 7 seconds to make a first impression
0: 38-Be enthusiastic and don't try to hide your enthusiasm about something
0: 55-Show Respect to the person and to other people around you.
1: 10-Be open to new ideas and experiences doing an activity with someone is a great way to increase closeness
1: 40-Be positive and try to find goodd things in bad mishaps
1: 55-It's a not all about you
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0: 22-People take 7 seconds to make a first impression
0: 38-Be enthusiastic and don't try to hide your enthusiasm about something
0: 55-Show Respect to the person and to other people around you.
1: 10-Be open to new ideas and experiences doing an activity with someone is a great way to increase closeness
1: 40-Be positive and try to find goodd things in bad mishaps
1: 55-It's a not all about you
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Maddiew36
Im much better at first impressions than talking to people I kind of know if that makes any sense. I guess its more those people who arent really your friends but you see them a lot and know each others names but only interact when needed, then youre forced to interact for whatever reason but its so awkward and. bleh. Its so much easier with a clean slate anyone relate or is this just a me problem?
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Im much better at first impressions than talking to people I kind of know if that makes any sense. I guess its more those people who arent really your friends but you see them a lot and know each others names but only interact when needed, then youre forced to interact for whatever reason but its so awkward and. bleh. Its so much easier with a clean slate anyone relate or is this just a me problem?
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Maria
Be enthusiastic passion
Smile
Show respect
Be open new things
Be positive
Be humble
Try to avoid bad days
Body language Calm relaxed open available
Confidence
Take your space
Move slowly
Talky smoothly
Good posture
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Be enthusiastic passion
Smile
Show respect
Be open new things
Be positive
Be humble
Try to avoid bad days
Body language Calm relaxed open available
Confidence
Take your space
Move slowly
Talky smoothly
Good posture
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Lenah
When I try to make friends with someone, I try to be myself, but I don't like very much to show my enthusiastic side, because I'm afraid people don't like me by who I am. I know this is wrong, but I'm insecure about this side of myself.
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When I try to make friends with someone, I try to be myself, but I don't like very much to show my enthusiastic side, because I'm afraid people don't like me by who I am. I know this is wrong, but I'm insecure about this side of myself.
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ANADKAT
body odour and your good or bad breath also plays a vital role as it Directly reflects how one maintains oneself. Looks are not everything but looking clean and organized definitely has an impression on others! what say?
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body odour and your good or bad breath also plays a vital role as it Directly reflects how one maintains oneself. Looks are not everything but looking clean and organized definitely has an impression on others! what say?
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education
Can anyone please tell me how to start a conversation with a stranger
Like I would just say hi, what's your name but after that I'm just blank.
What am I supposed to say next to keep the conversation going.
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Can anyone please tell me how to start a conversation with a stranger
Like I would just say hi, what's your name but after that I'm just blank.
What am I supposed to say next to keep the conversation going.
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Mikaelle
I care a lot about my first impression to someone else, because is when a person will or not respect me and talk of me in a bad/good way. Everything suffers influence from the first time that you meet someone.
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I care a lot about my first impression to someone else, because is when a person will or not respect me and talk of me in a bad/good way. Everything suffers influence from the first time that you meet someone.
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THE
1. Be enthusiastic.
2. Show respect.
3. Be open to ideas.
4. Be positive.
5. Realize it's not about you.
6. Try to avoid the bad days.
7. Pay attention to your body language.
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1. Be enthusiastic.
2. Show respect.
3. Be open to ideas.
4. Be positive.
5. Realize it's not about you.
6. Try to avoid the bad days.
7. Pay attention to your body language.
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W1ldfireYT
1: 08 no, be nice to the people you want to be nice to. You're saying that if a new student joined my class, I am supposed to suck up to people trying to make me commit suicide.
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1: 08 no, be nice to the people you want to be nice to. You're saying that if a new student joined my class, I am supposed to suck up to people trying to make me commit suicide.
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DevotedManatee
Step 1. Love yourself! Or have self-love. Then you will genuinely be able to love and truly care for others: ) it can be difficult but dont ever give up on loving yourself
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Step 1. Love yourself! Or have self-love. Then you will genuinely be able to love and truly care for others: ) it can be difficult but dont ever give up on loving yourself
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Pandora
I remember that when I changed schools people thought I was strange and stayed away from me, but I also never knew how to socialize. Today, these people are my best friends.
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I remember that when I changed schools people thought I was strange and stayed away from me, but I also never knew how to socialize. Today, these people are my best friends.
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Cludia
I agree that the first impression is important, if you meet someone new, i try to make a good impression on people, an impression of someone nice and friendly
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I agree that the first impression is important, if you meet someone new, i try to make a good impression on people, an impression of someone nice and friendly
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Samridhi
Be enthusiastic
Be respectful
Be open to new ideas
Be positive
It's not about about you
Try to avoid the bad days
Body language
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Be enthusiastic
Be respectful
Be open to new ideas
Be positive
It's not about about you
Try to avoid the bad days
Body language
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Archana
me before watching video: i don't make good impressions
me after watching video: let's meet some people
coronavirus: hold my beer
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me before watching video: i don't make good impressions
me after watching video: let's meet some people
coronavirus: hold my beer
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Thomaz
I really liked the video, i think i'm good at making friends and I actually don't know why. I try to be the coolest I can with everyone.
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I really liked the video, i think i'm good at making friends and I actually don't know why. I try to be the coolest I can with everyone.
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Virgin
The badest impression I ever have is with my father cause when I was first open my eyes when I was born in this world he wasn't there.
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The badest impression I ever have is with my father cause when I was first open my eyes when I was born in this world he wasn't there.
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Jimmy
Completely on topic observation, at 3: 14 one person uses their right hand to shake, the other uses their left hand to shake
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Completely on topic observation, at 3: 14 one person uses their right hand to shake, the other uses their left hand to shake
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Rihani71
I'm watching this because Im a loser and I can't make friends I used to have a gang in 3rd grade now it's just 1 guy
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I'm watching this because Im a loser and I can't make friends I used to have a gang in 3rd grade now it's just 1 guy
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Jees
Score a second date lol
If you have to score it then it's not worth it. Desire should be mutual and reciprocatory
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Score a second date lol
If you have to score it then it's not worth it. Desire should be mutual and reciprocatory
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