5 Signs A Long Distance Relationship is Right For You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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syerli
I just found this video when Im feeling not good questioning bout my relationship. I have LDR with my bf for 2 years, we have all those signs, we even committed to see each other and get married next year, since we stay in different country, he agreed to moved out and stay with me. But something happened, 6 months ago his mother got heart surgery, and he needs to take care of her all the time. Because she cant do alot of things and force her strength. He has a sister, but she moved out already to focus with his carrier in another town. He has no one at home to help his mom. Due to this circumstance, he said he cant leave his mom. I cant stay with him too, because I work for the government in my country. If I quit my job now, I will get penalty. I'm in my misery right now. Dont know what to do, since his mom also doesnt want to stay with us. Can somebody give some advice? What should I do? Should I end up this relationship if u can see its not gonna work out. I got frustrated lately. We love each other so much. The thing that his mom needs him to take care of her, makes me doubt the end.
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I just found this video when Im feeling not good questioning bout my relationship. I have LDR with my bf for 2 years, we have all those signs, we even committed to see each other and get married next year, since we stay in different country, he agreed to moved out and stay with me. But something happened, 6 months ago his mother got heart surgery, and he needs to take care of her all the time. Because she cant do alot of things and force her strength. He has a sister, but she moved out already to focus with his carrier in another town. He has no one at home to help his mom. Due to this circumstance, he said he cant leave his mom. I cant stay with him too, because I work for the government in my country. If I quit my job now, I will get penalty. I'm in my misery right now. Dont know what to do, since his mom also doesnt want to stay with us. Can somebody give some advice? What should I do? Should I end up this relationship if u can see its not gonna work out. I got frustrated lately. We love each other so much. The thing that his mom needs him to take care of her, makes me doubt the end.
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Nyrtrix
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and we have gotten through sooooo much its been kinda hard but it has gone so smoothly like we were made for each other. I trust him sooo easily and its because he doesnt lie to me. Hes not scared to show messages a or give me his account info because he has nothing to hide. Ladies if your lover wont show you his phone and keeps it hidden its most likely because he has something he doesnt want you to know about and it might be that youre not his only one. Anyways we have talked soooo much about the future and although its so scary its so nice to think about. Its hard to imagine a future without him. I really feel it will last and more so because we have had linked dreams. I have talked about something happening in my dream and he cuts me off and asked if something like whatever he was talking about happened. I was amazed the first few times because it had like no joke it had happened
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and we have gotten through sooooo much its been kinda hard but it has gone so smoothly like we were made for each other. I trust him sooo easily and its because he doesnt lie to me. Hes not scared to show messages a or give me his account info because he has nothing to hide. Ladies if your lover wont show you his phone and keeps it hidden its most likely because he has something he doesnt want you to know about and it might be that youre not his only one. Anyways we have talked soooo much about the future and although its so scary its so nice to think about. Its hard to imagine a future without him. I really feel it will last and more so because we have had linked dreams. I have talked about something happening in my dream and he cuts me off and asked if something like whatever he was talking about happened. I was amazed the first few times because it had like no joke it had happened
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Rebellious
After my last one (Though technically, it was like a real one, but we talked as if we were an item) I never want to do a LDR with anyone again. Trust me, it's accomplishable and you can pull it off, but it's hard if the other person is not on board or if they're riding a high, then later on, they pretend that the feelings they had were a dream. I believe in true love and I want it to happen to me more than anything. I put faith, meditation, and hope into the other person and because of that, the key to beating it all was patience, despite the fact I didn't win whom I thought to be possibly my other half, the love of my life, etc, but it's fine. I hope everyone has better then I did and I wish you the best. Don't feel discouraged about LDR but please know the risks and the time put into it before you do it.
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After my last one (Though technically, it was like a real one, but we talked as if we were an item) I never want to do a LDR with anyone again. Trust me, it's accomplishable and you can pull it off, but it's hard if the other person is not on board or if they're riding a high, then later on, they pretend that the feelings they had were a dream. I believe in true love and I want it to happen to me more than anything. I put faith, meditation, and hope into the other person and because of that, the key to beating it all was patience, despite the fact I didn't win whom I thought to be possibly my other half, the love of my life, etc, but it's fine. I hope everyone has better then I did and I wish you the best. Don't feel discouraged about LDR but please know the risks and the time put into it before you do it.
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Aetricity
I'd say LDRs are nice in their own way. Typically the people you'll meet online will be more similar to you, and so, therefore, it's easier to find a compatible mate. There are many pros and cons to it really and it depends on who you are. I'm an autistic person who probably can't really find someone in real life, so I'd say for me LDRs are the way to go for me. I'm currently in one right now and it has lasted for over 7 months which is pretty good for two people around 15 years of age.
If the current relationship I'm in doesn't work out though, I want to try having at least one face-to-face relationship if possible. It'll be damn hard for me to do, but I feel like I could pull it off because while I do have many undesirable traits I do think I have some good ones as well.
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I'd say LDRs are nice in their own way. Typically the people you'll meet online will be more similar to you, and so, therefore, it's easier to find a compatible mate. There are many pros and cons to it really and it depends on who you are. I'm an autistic person who probably can't really find someone in real life, so I'd say for me LDRs are the way to go for me. I'm currently in one right now and it has lasted for over 7 months which is pretty good for two people around 15 years of age.
If the current relationship I'm in doesn't work out though, I want to try having at least one face-to-face relationship if possible. It'll be damn hard for me to do, but I feel like I could pull it off because while I do have many undesirable traits I do think I have some good ones as well.
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Lacy
Me and my now fiance have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years but knowing each other for about 5. It has a lot to do with being friends first and having a great understanding and trust for one another and respecting their time as well. You do have to put in a lot of time, but you also have to be respectful of that time. There may be days you can spend every waking moment talking, but know hey they haven't seen their friends in awhile and work has been stressful, so you tell them to relax and enjoy a day out being social even if it doesn't include you.
Right now we are still in the process of me immigrating over there, which I think has been the most stressful due to delays in outcomes and when you can start the next chapter. He's in the UK and Im in the US.
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Me and my now fiance have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years but knowing each other for about 5. It has a lot to do with being friends first and having a great understanding and trust for one another and respecting their time as well. You do have to put in a lot of time, but you also have to be respectful of that time. There may be days you can spend every waking moment talking, but know hey they haven't seen their friends in awhile and work has been stressful, so you tell them to relax and enjoy a day out being social even if it doesn't include you.
Right now we are still in the process of me immigrating over there, which I think has been the most stressful due to delays in outcomes and when you can start the next chapter. He's in the UK and Im in the US.
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Omorfi
been with him for 8 months and it's been exhausting most of it, like we lack connectedness and communication, he struggles to express his feelings and thoughts, we don't share the same exact goals for life, we slightly discussed the future but I'm learning not to worry about it, but it's like one day I'm his lover, one day I'm not his priority. but yesterday (after 4months of an extreme lack in chatting and downs, we talked like we used to! tbh I've always been comfortable with him, until he asked me to send him another picture of myself for his friends to know me, like sending it for him is more than ok, but I'm still asking for my mother's okay to the relationship. it's hard but we've been through the up&downs and I love him so much
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been with him for 8 months and it's been exhausting most of it, like we lack connectedness and communication, he struggles to express his feelings and thoughts, we don't share the same exact goals for life, we slightly discussed the future but I'm learning not to worry about it, but it's like one day I'm his lover, one day I'm not his priority. but yesterday (after 4months of an extreme lack in chatting and downs, we talked like we used to! tbh I've always been comfortable with him, until he asked me to send him another picture of myself for his friends to know me, like sending it for him is more than ok, but I'm still asking for my mother's okay to the relationship. it's hard but we've been through the up&downs and I love him so much
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TheMorbidAsshole
We don't have similar goals, I'm scared of the future and we're not as invested as I think we are. I don't know how long I'll last in this long distant relationship of mine because it feels lonely and sometimes painful. I recently told her that I'm tired of missing her all the time and we almost broke up but we fixed such issue by waiting out a little longer to see what the future might bring, although I still feel lonely and sometimes at pain. I went cold on her these past recent weeks but did my best for a comeback, is this normal? how can we resolve this? how can I last longer in this relationship?
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We don't have similar goals, I'm scared of the future and we're not as invested as I think we are. I don't know how long I'll last in this long distant relationship of mine because it feels lonely and sometimes painful. I recently told her that I'm tired of missing her all the time and we almost broke up but we fixed such issue by waiting out a little longer to see what the future might bring, although I still feel lonely and sometimes at pain. I went cold on her these past recent weeks but did my best for a comeback, is this normal? how can we resolve this? how can I last longer in this relationship?
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Viruskat
Im in a LDR. Its a little big complicated how it first started. We met each other around a year ago on Tinder but we didnt make it to face each other because he had to fly back to US (Im from Danmark. Although we kept each other in contact and wanted to be friends at first. 4-5 months later he came to Denmark and we spend a lot of time together. And then we kissed out of sudden. We still kept the contact after he flew back to US. But did not talk about it. Then I told him I would come and visit the US. He was very happy about the news. Now Im in the US and having a good time. In the end, were dating now.
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Im in a LDR. Its a little big complicated how it first started. We met each other around a year ago on Tinder but we didnt make it to face each other because he had to fly back to US (Im from Danmark. Although we kept each other in contact and wanted to be friends at first. 4-5 months later he came to Denmark and we spend a lot of time together. And then we kissed out of sudden. We still kept the contact after he flew back to US. But did not talk about it. Then I told him I would come and visit the US. He was very happy about the news. Now Im in the US and having a good time. In the end, were dating now.
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Ness
I had a Long Distance Best friend and Today she is now my Girlfriend and i couldn't feel happier.
But this is my first relationship so I'm scared and it dosen't really help when we are both teens.
She lives in America and I live in Austraila (ive never seen her irl though)
We Have eachothers snap and we did our first facetime today (Shes really pretty) and it was great at the start and then it got awkward and i feel horrible about it.
i hope this dosen't affect how the rest of the time we are together.
I don't want to lose her as a girlfriend and as a friend
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I had a Long Distance Best friend and Today she is now my Girlfriend and i couldn't feel happier.
But this is my first relationship so I'm scared and it dosen't really help when we are both teens.
She lives in America and I live in Austraila (ive never seen her irl though)
We Have eachothers snap and we did our first facetime today (Shes really pretty) and it was great at the start and then it got awkward and i feel horrible about it.
i hope this dosen't affect how the rest of the time we are together.
I don't want to lose her as a girlfriend and as a friend
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Aesteria
You know, long distance relationship needs a little bit of going off your texting with them too. I've seen it myself that if you be there for them everytime, you'll not get any value or respect, take some time off the chats and gather some topics in those off days and you can discuss on that once you think that I should talk with my partner, it should be 2 days or more. My boyfriend and I lives in different countries, and we're both busy in our world, but we still manage to talk, appreciate that! Don't be angry over for them not texting you.
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You know, long distance relationship needs a little bit of going off your texting with them too. I've seen it myself that if you be there for them everytime, you'll not get any value or respect, take some time off the chats and gather some topics in those off days and you can discuss on that once you think that I should talk with my partner, it should be 2 days or more. My boyfriend and I lives in different countries, and we're both busy in our world, but we still manage to talk, appreciate that! Don't be angry over for them not texting you.
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Oshi
Ive been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years. I live in BC, Canada, and he lives in New York. We have met three times and in a week it will be four times! We talk all the time and agree on our future goals, however it definitely isnt easy. We fight sometimes. We love each other a lot, but are still two very different people, and can get in big disagreements. Its nice to see videos about long distance relationships because I can really relate to them.
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Ive been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years. I live in BC, Canada, and he lives in New York. We have met three times and in a week it will be four times! We talk all the time and agree on our future goals, however it definitely isnt easy. We fight sometimes. We love each other a lot, but are still two very different people, and can get in big disagreements. Its nice to see videos about long distance relationships because I can really relate to them.
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Elika
Hello Psych2go, I'd like to ask a question. My boyfriend of 3 years would like to study abroad for a year. I love him more than my own life and I know he feels the same way. I want him to go study there beacuse it's a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. However, I am so desperately dependent on him, if I don't see him for more than 3 days, I bawl my eyes out. Do you think I'm gonna make it? Or should I get some antidepressants in advance? :D Thank you very much
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Hello Psych2go, I'd like to ask a question. My boyfriend of 3 years would like to study abroad for a year. I love him more than my own life and I know he feels the same way. I want him to go study there beacuse it's a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. However, I am so desperately dependent on him, if I don't see him for more than 3 days, I bawl my eyes out. Do you think I'm gonna make it? Or should I get some antidepressants in advance? :D Thank you very much
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124
My girlfriend is moving to a different state but she really doesnt want to because the new high school seems awful. Ive really wanted to talk about it because Im afraid with new friends and education we will become different people and wont love each other anymore but she avoids the topic every time I bring it up. Can anyone give advice? Should I keep pressing even though I know it hurts her to talk about it or should I wait and see what happens?
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My girlfriend is moving to a different state but she really doesnt want to because the new high school seems awful. Ive really wanted to talk about it because Im afraid with new friends and education we will become different people and wont love each other anymore but she avoids the topic every time I bring it up. Can anyone give advice? Should I keep pressing even though I know it hurts her to talk about it or should I wait and see what happens?
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ZimZCade
Ive been in an 8 month relationship with a Californian boy on the West Coast while I live in PA on the East Coast. We have seen each other three times, and he has even come to my homecoming. Even though it is really hard at times, it is so rewarding. Commitment is the key to a long-distance relationship, and if you feel confident in yourself and the relationship, than anything is possible.
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Ive been in an 8 month relationship with a Californian boy on the West Coast while I live in PA on the East Coast. We have seen each other three times, and he has even come to my homecoming. Even though it is really hard at times, it is so rewarding. Commitment is the key to a long-distance relationship, and if you feel confident in yourself and the relationship, than anything is possible.
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HIntsaa
I live in Virginia and she lives in California Every morning I text her good morning beautiful have a wonderful day make sure you eat breakfast and drink lots of water. This helps us strengths our relationship on a daily basis because thats the first thing youre doing when you wake up.
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I live in Virginia and she lives in California Every morning I text her good morning beautiful have a wonderful day make sure you eat breakfast and drink lots of water. This helps us strengths our relationship on a daily basis because thats the first thing youre doing when you wake up.
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Yuu
Yesss for me i did and felt all these things, i really wanted the day we could see each other in real life, but. He always dobut about it very deeply that i would change my mind, like. He was only insegure about himself and then bad misunderstandings starter and he left me. :/ Was a coward
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Yesss for me i did and felt all these things, i really wanted the day we could see each other in real life, but. He always dobut about it very deeply that i would change my mind, like. He was only insegure about himself and then bad misunderstandings starter and he left me. :/ Was a coward
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Aaron's
This video couldn't have come at a more perfect time. In a couple week I'm going to be going all the way across the country for college and I won't be able to see my girlfriend for two months. This video gives me confidence though, and it definitely gave me some tips. Thank you so much
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This video couldn't have come at a more perfect time. In a couple week I'm going to be going all the way across the country for college and I won't be able to see my girlfriend for two months. This video gives me confidence though, and it definitely gave me some tips. Thank you so much
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NA
I agree! Me and my boyfriend have been doing long distance for 6 months now and we have all that and its still rough sometimes just bcus its hard to communicate properly so we get in disagreements over nothing but when were together its bliss and I only have 2 months to go and Im so happy
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I agree! Me and my boyfriend have been doing long distance for 6 months now and we have all that and its still rough sometimes just bcus its hard to communicate properly so we get in disagreements over nothing but when were together its bliss and I only have 2 months to go and Im so happy
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Apocalypse320
i can never do long distance relationships. it reminds me day after day how my partner is never with me physically and it pains me to have the thought that i could be doing all these pleasant and nice things with them only to know that once again: THEYRE NOT HERE: (
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i can never do long distance relationships. it reminds me day after day how my partner is never with me physically and it pains me to have the thought that i could be doing all these pleasant and nice things with them only to know that once again: THEYRE NOT HERE: (
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ukasz
I really like work you do and find it really helpful but. You don't have video about asperger. My brother has it and i want to understand him better. And my sister has autism. I wanna understand them both better so can i ask you to make video about autism and asperger?
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I really like work you do and find it really helpful but. You don't have video about asperger. My brother has it and i want to understand him better. And my sister has autism. I wanna understand them both better so can i ask you to make video about autism and asperger?
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Jannik
Not that long ago I got to know a really lovely and wonderful girl from the US, but I live in Germany. On one side I'm happy that the internet allows us to have friends all around the globe, but on the other side I'm sad that we will probably never meet each other.
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Not that long ago I got to know a really lovely and wonderful girl from the US, but I live in Germany. On one side I'm happy that the internet allows us to have friends all around the globe, but on the other side I'm sad that we will probably never meet each other.
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Shawn
Long distance relationships I hate it because I cant trust those people makes fun of me. I have point to tell my partner where are you, where you going etc. I'm very strickt during relationship with me no argument. I say like that because I know how to love
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Long distance relationships I hate it because I cant trust those people makes fun of me. I have point to tell my partner where are you, where you going etc. I'm very strickt during relationship with me no argument. I say like that because I know how to love
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Kitty
I'm in a long distance relationship but we never met face to face he lives in a different state of the u. s we hit all the points you've mentioned but I was wondering if it was a problem that we never met in person before
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I'm in a long distance relationship but we never met face to face he lives in a different state of the u. s we hit all the points you've mentioned but I was wondering if it was a problem that we never met in person before
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Alice
You guys making whole the reasons into true topic. I believed when true love keep it strong, it takes lot of ups and downs to polishing it to see how much deep of love even both far apart from each other. Thanks!
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You guys making whole the reasons into true topic. I believed when true love keep it strong, it takes lot of ups and downs to polishing it to see how much deep of love even both far apart from each other. Thanks!
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First
Im not that interesting to many girls in my school life since they see my depressing side in school. Maybe if I meet a girl in social media or in video games is the way to go because I show my true self there.
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Im not that interesting to many girls in my school life since they see my depressing side in school. Maybe if I meet a girl in social media or in video games is the way to go because I show my true self there.
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