6 Differences Between Love vs Lust
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Stephanie
I find this stuff really interesting because Im going through what I believe are the first stages of a loving, potentially long-lasting relationship, yet sometimes find myself conflicted as my previous relationship was most certainly built on lust and had a string of red flags I was too blind to see. With my lust relationship, it only lasted 3 months but it took me 3 years to get over it. I thought I was in love with him, but really it was the chemical reaction in my brain that had fallen for him, and despite the lying, double life, and all the other things he was doing behind my back, I had convinced myself it was real love - because how else could I feel so strongly attracted to every single thing about him? When I was with him, around him, talking to him, I felt constantly nervous, excited, giddy, as though I had to be on my best behaviour, be funny, be intelligent, and not slip up. Eventually this became exhausting and anxiety inducing, but I was addicted to the rush he gave me. Fast forward 3 years and Ive finally moved past what he could have offered, Ive met someone else, but this time its entirely different. Ive met someone and weve been doing by long distance for 6 months, yet our relationship hasnt been better. Its going slowly but surely upwards, hes proving with his actions and words that he is committed to a future together and is making active steps towards this. Im not a secret, theres no double life, hes a real gentle, kind, beautiful person. I feel very secure and comfortable around him, and I dont feel like Im walking on eggshells, or like I have to be on my best behaviour. I feel adored and wanted and admired. The only thing that I find myself thinking about though, is that because I dont have that lusty overwhelming feeling around him, that I sometimes wonder what I should be looking for or accepting? Which one is better for me or what kind of feeling is the right one? I have moments where I look at my new partner and consider myself extremely lucky to have met such a hidden gem, but then I wonder why Im not elevating him to godlike status as with my previous relationship It can be confusing, but if Im honest, I think this guy really is amazing, and Im very lucky to have him in my life. Im excited to see how our relationship develops for the long run, and I do believe the love will build slowly but surely over time, and we are both making actual, real commitments together. I guess its just new territory! So something I have to get used to
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I find this stuff really interesting because Im going through what I believe are the first stages of a loving, potentially long-lasting relationship, yet sometimes find myself conflicted as my previous relationship was most certainly built on lust and had a string of red flags I was too blind to see. With my lust relationship, it only lasted 3 months but it took me 3 years to get over it. I thought I was in love with him, but really it was the chemical reaction in my brain that had fallen for him, and despite the lying, double life, and all the other things he was doing behind my back, I had convinced myself it was real love - because how else could I feel so strongly attracted to every single thing about him? When I was with him, around him, talking to him, I felt constantly nervous, excited, giddy, as though I had to be on my best behaviour, be funny, be intelligent, and not slip up. Eventually this became exhausting and anxiety inducing, but I was addicted to the rush he gave me. Fast forward 3 years and Ive finally moved past what he could have offered, Ive met someone else, but this time its entirely different. Ive met someone and weve been doing by long distance for 6 months, yet our relationship hasnt been better. Its going slowly but surely upwards, hes proving with his actions and words that he is committed to a future together and is making active steps towards this. Im not a secret, theres no double life, hes a real gentle, kind, beautiful person. I feel very secure and comfortable around him, and I dont feel like Im walking on eggshells, or like I have to be on my best behaviour. I feel adored and wanted and admired. The only thing that I find myself thinking about though, is that because I dont have that lusty overwhelming feeling around him, that I sometimes wonder what I should be looking for or accepting? Which one is better for me or what kind of feeling is the right one? I have moments where I look at my new partner and consider myself extremely lucky to have met such a hidden gem, but then I wonder why Im not elevating him to godlike status as with my previous relationship It can be confusing, but if Im honest, I think this guy really is amazing, and Im very lucky to have him in my life. Im excited to see how our relationship develops for the long run, and I do believe the love will build slowly but surely over time, and we are both making actual, real commitments together. I guess its just new territory! So something I have to get used to
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education
Ive spent the last couple days going threw hell because I thought I was in love with my dead cousins best friend who I still talk to and hangout regularly. I've come to realize I kinda can't stand who he is as a person, he's selfish, narcissist, egotistical. but he is ungodly attractive and a literal walking hell for me but I've come to realize I just lust after him so bad. Take away that I couldn't love who he is as a person but I want him so
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Ive spent the last couple days going threw hell because I thought I was in love with my dead cousins best friend who I still talk to and hangout regularly. I've come to realize I kinda can't stand who he is as a person, he's selfish, narcissist, egotistical. but he is ungodly attractive and a literal walking hell for me but I've come to realize I just lust after him so bad. Take away that I couldn't love who he is as a person but I want him so
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Marie
I found this truth both painful but interesting to hear. I was sadly involved with my ex-boyfriend who only wanted me for my body and he falsely accused me of cheating on him with a guy who we both met in a pub. I regretted that we didn't get to know each other over time before dating so we would get to know the good and bad of each other's personalities. Sorry for the waffling.
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I found this truth both painful but interesting to hear. I was sadly involved with my ex-boyfriend who only wanted me for my body and he falsely accused me of cheating on him with a guy who we both met in a pub. I regretted that we didn't get to know each other over time before dating so we would get to know the good and bad of each other's personalities. Sorry for the waffling.
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Joshua
Lust is a chemical reaction, we all fall in lust. Love is a concept weve created to make sense of the transcendent feeling that is not comprehensive to us. That transcendent feeling goes beyond life, not love like I said love contextualises and describe that feeling, ultimately theyre separate from each other but they correlate because we make it that way.
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Lust is a chemical reaction, we all fall in lust. Love is a concept weve created to make sense of the transcendent feeling that is not comprehensive to us. That transcendent feeling goes beyond life, not love like I said love contextualises and describe that feeling, ultimately theyre separate from each other but they correlate because we make it that way.
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HUSKY
I had a friend who had lust and she basically never had love she basically wanted to sleep with every guy she saw she would just look at them once not even talking to them and say I have a crush on him she was basically a girl for the streets so I stopped talking to her and then she told me I like you I just laughed and blocked her
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I had a friend who had lust and she basically never had love she basically wanted to sleep with every guy she saw she would just look at them once not even talking to them and say I have a crush on him she was basically a girl for the streets so I stopped talking to her and then she told me I like you I just laughed and blocked her
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Kimberly
watching this, i realize i have only ever been in lust.
i think your capability of loving is rooted in the desire to achieve stability. people who thrive in instability cant ever truly love.
(sorry, just thinking out loud)
thank you for the video - it made me reconsider very important things.
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watching this, i realize i have only ever been in lust.
i think your capability of loving is rooted in the desire to achieve stability. people who thrive in instability cant ever truly love.
(sorry, just thinking out loud)
thank you for the video - it made me reconsider very important things.
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Lize
Hii I am Lize a year ago last year the 25 /03/2022 I found my true love this year the 25/03/2023 we were a year together but the same year the 6/04/2023 he ended things between us and it HURTS ME SO MUCH BECAUSE I GIVE IT MY ALL BUT I WASN'T GOOD ENOUGH FOR HIM IT HURTS SO BAD NO ONE UNDERSTANS THAT
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Hii I am Lize a year ago last year the 25 /03/2022 I found my true love this year the 25/03/2023 we were a year together but the same year the 6/04/2023 he ended things between us and it HURTS ME SO MUCH BECAUSE I GIVE IT MY ALL BUT I WASN'T GOOD ENOUGH FOR HIM IT HURTS SO BAD NO ONE UNDERSTANS THAT
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glitzy
NGL, I've been in a relationship that has nothing but lust. For almost 2 years, I'm so mentally, emotionally, and physically drained. We don't do dates, he just want us to spend the nights in his very cold room. I love his cats though. We're not together now coz it's so toxic, I had to let go.
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NGL, I've been in a relationship that has nothing but lust. For almost 2 years, I'm so mentally, emotionally, and physically drained. We don't do dates, he just want us to spend the nights in his very cold room. I love his cats though. We're not together now coz it's so toxic, I had to let go.
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SUPER
i experience love on my first girlfriend but things didn't go well
i tried to fix everything nothing work then that when i change and become a different person i become jackass and have a big desire and lust also become bad person untik my girl's bestfriend help me
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i experience love on my first girlfriend but things didn't go well
i tried to fix everything nothing work then that when i change and become a different person i become jackass and have a big desire and lust also become bad person untik my girl's bestfriend help me
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Fariha
The worst part about me is that when I am at the lust stage then it turns into love, the person whom I liked may not feel the same about me. Therefore that person did not move into the love stage
So no potential of being in a relationship
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The worst part about me is that when I am at the lust stage then it turns into love, the person whom I liked may not feel the same about me. Therefore that person did not move into the love stage
So no potential of being in a relationship
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Katherine
I have noticed the difference between this relationship and my last ones. I have been so careful and tried to be as discerning as possible. Whether it be him or someone else, I feel like I am ready to have something real and long lasting.
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I have noticed the difference between this relationship and my last ones. I have been so careful and tried to be as discerning as possible. Whether it be him or someone else, I feel like I am ready to have something real and long lasting.
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Khusbu
I didn't have any experience of relationship. But I always doubt do male have same emotional love feelings like female? .why I don't know I always met those who are always attracted towards body. I hope me worry to be wrong.
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I didn't have any experience of relationship. But I always doubt do male have same emotional love feelings like female? .why I don't know I always met those who are always attracted towards body. I hope me worry to be wrong.
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Rhonda
Some awes musicians wrote song song s on this. Lol ok I name a few Kristen D. Sara B and Sara M. Um Tommy J and the Dell s. Lol Gn. Media is very interesting tonight! Well some rest dude s make great friends anyway
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Some awes musicians wrote song song s on this. Lol ok I name a few Kristen D. Sara B and Sara M. Um Tommy J and the Dell s. Lol Gn. Media is very interesting tonight! Well some rest dude s make great friends anyway
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LSDxSaurabh
My dad have relationship with other younger/pritter girl. And he doesn't know that I know about his extra marital relationship. So I confused is he in real love or Just in lust.
What should I do now?
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My dad have relationship with other younger/pritter girl. And he doesn't know that I know about his extra marital relationship. So I confused is he in real love or Just in lust.
What should I do now?
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DRAMA_HUB
Love is something about tom and jerry fights. And being a best friend of each other! Even a long distance relationship is love. In which 2 hearts stays connected bcoz distance hardly matters to them!
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Love is something about tom and jerry fights. And being a best friend of each other! Even a long distance relationship is love. In which 2 hearts stays connected bcoz distance hardly matters to them!
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Sunny
Im so use to having infatuations, Im trying to watch these videos to try to prove that I dont really love them when all these videos have done is confirm things even more for me.
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Im so use to having infatuations, Im trying to watch these videos to try to prove that I dont really love them when all these videos have done is confirm things even more for me.
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UnknownPlaylist
Okay so Im in lust with one person and it seems like Im in love with another.
Theres someone who I would like sacrifice anything in order to be there for him.
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Okay so Im in lust with one person and it seems like Im in love with another.
Theres someone who I would like sacrifice anything in order to be there for him.
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Nitesh
The whole video then have no point is if we experienceing lust then it is possible to turn your feelings into love. What is this meaning and how is this legitimate then
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The whole video then have no point is if we experienceing lust then it is possible to turn your feelings into love. What is this meaning and how is this legitimate then
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Grace-m-c
Thank you allot I needed this info motion because I have a crush on this boy and i know now that Ive fallen in love with him its just the asking him out part now
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Thank you allot I needed this info motion because I have a crush on this boy and i know now that Ive fallen in love with him its just the asking him out part now
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Alice
marriages that last 4 - ever that is Habit. you can be with someone many years and not love them, they fill your needs and they put up with you, lol
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marriages that last 4 - ever that is Habit. you can be with someone many years and not love them, they fill your needs and they put up with you, lol
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Jennifer
Alot of couples would break up if Intercourse is no longer in the relationship. Would you say that is lust if so because that is very common.
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Alot of couples would break up if Intercourse is no longer in the relationship. Would you say that is lust if so because that is very common.
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Ant
1: 00 lust is a majority of pornstar/ seeing with the eyes/liking someone for financial reasons, relationships in a nutshell. 3: 13 makes sense.
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1: 00 lust is a majority of pornstar/ seeing with the eyes/liking someone for financial reasons, relationships in a nutshell. 3: 13 makes sense.
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EdmacZ
Lust: You are willing to do anything to please the other person.
Love: You are willing to sacrifice for the other person.
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Lust: You are willing to do anything to please the other person.
Love: You are willing to sacrifice for the other person.
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Siberian
I always have more Lust than Love and that's why I am very avoidant of any woman to escape from the feeling of guilty
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I always have more Lust than Love and that's why I am very avoidant of any woman to escape from the feeling of guilty
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F43J4D3_K3NNY
I love strangers appearances.
I love my crushes personality, appearance, i love everything about them
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I love strangers appearances.
I love my crushes personality, appearance, i love everything about them
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