8 Signs of Low Self Esteem
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Date: 2023-08-20
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The1&OnlyK. T
Nothing really impacted me to start having low self esteem, but i found out last year that i had it. Ever since then, whenever i think about this topic, it makes me cry. To think that some relationships i have with some of my friends are not the best, it hasnt improved. I looked online at some other symptome, some examples getting hostile, being overly sensitive to criticism and feeling embarassed asking for help, and those match my symptoms. Ever since i found out, my life has changed drastically, instead of being someone whos proud of their achievements and stuff like that, im here suffering this pain. Sorry if i said too much, i needed somewhere to vent.
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Nothing really impacted me to start having low self esteem, but i found out last year that i had it. Ever since then, whenever i think about this topic, it makes me cry. To think that some relationships i have with some of my friends are not the best, it hasnt improved. I looked online at some other symptome, some examples getting hostile, being overly sensitive to criticism and feeling embarassed asking for help, and those match my symptoms. Ever since i found out, my life has changed drastically, instead of being someone whos proud of their achievements and stuff like that, im here suffering this pain. Sorry if i said too much, i needed somewhere to vent.
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lindsey
I have these signs: 1, 4, 6, 7, 8
And makes me strongly believe that I have low self esteem, I just feel like a failure and I feel like nothing in life is going to get better. My performance at school is low and I would blame myself when something goes wrong. My social life is nonexistent due to my social isolation (I dont even have the motivation and confidence to make friends). I feel unloved despite living around parents who wants the best for me.
Its a pain every time Im around people, especially ones I dont know. But Im going back to therapy in about a week and Im not sure if I will last, Im not sure if it will even work just like last time.
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I have these signs: 1, 4, 6, 7, 8
And makes me strongly believe that I have low self esteem, I just feel like a failure and I feel like nothing in life is going to get better. My performance at school is low and I would blame myself when something goes wrong. My social life is nonexistent due to my social isolation (I dont even have the motivation and confidence to make friends). I feel unloved despite living around parents who wants the best for me.
Its a pain every time Im around people, especially ones I dont know. But Im going back to therapy in about a week and Im not sure if I will last, Im not sure if it will even work just like last time.
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Flintstone
I'm a kid that wants to have fun and play football/Soccer in a small league but I was always too scared of failure so I never joined. And I always said to myself You wouldn't have been accepted anyway but my dad signed me up for tryouts without telling me so I would have to go. I always wanted to do tryouts to see if I could get in but I was always too scared to try. So now I have tryouts in May and I keep telling myself I can't do it. I am horrified of failing but what can I do now.
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I'm a kid that wants to have fun and play football/Soccer in a small league but I was always too scared of failure so I never joined. And I always said to myself You wouldn't have been accepted anyway but my dad signed me up for tryouts without telling me so I would have to go. I always wanted to do tryouts to see if I could get in but I was always too scared to try. So now I have tryouts in May and I keep telling myself I can't do it. I am horrified of failing but what can I do now.
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Metsiet
I relate to the things mentioned on this video. I have low self esteem & I'm really self critical. My low self esteem afected me so much that I quit a job early because I thought I was incapable of doing the job and others were better than me. The worst part of having low self esteem for me is how you believe your own negative thoughts about yourself, others and the world and end up feeling depressed. I have hope I will be able to overcome this problem though
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I relate to the things mentioned on this video. I have low self esteem & I'm really self critical. My low self esteem afected me so much that I quit a job early because I thought I was incapable of doing the job and others were better than me. The worst part of having low self esteem for me is how you believe your own negative thoughts about yourself, others and the world and end up feeling depressed. I have hope I will be able to overcome this problem though
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Bri
Me Just Venting:
Here I am, 27 yr old black woman, just now realizing how this low self esteem shit is literally ruining all aspects of my life. I just want to know what its like to wake up and be completely content with myself my body and my life. Sometimes I feel like I dont even want to be here if I cant be free from the negative thoughts coming from within. I dont know what to do or how to work on it. People say just love yourself but idk how.
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Me Just Venting:
Here I am, 27 yr old black woman, just now realizing how this low self esteem shit is literally ruining all aspects of my life. I just want to know what its like to wake up and be completely content with myself my body and my life. Sometimes I feel like I dont even want to be here if I cant be free from the negative thoughts coming from within. I dont know what to do or how to work on it. People say just love yourself but idk how.
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Ryan
I could relate to all of these traits. And what's worse is that I have double standards to ppl's comments on me. When I receive compliments, I would think they r just being polite. And when they r being sarcastic, I would think it's true(even if they r just joking. i. e. All compliments on me r false, every criticism towards me is true.
I've realized it but intuitively I just can't help doing it over and over.
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I could relate to all of these traits. And what's worse is that I have double standards to ppl's comments on me. When I receive compliments, I would think they r just being polite. And when they r being sarcastic, I would think it's true(even if they r just joking. i. e. All compliments on me r false, every criticism towards me is true.
I've realized it but intuitively I just can't help doing it over and over.
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Aditya
At that time, I've met with all of my friends, they're all inviting me to some kind of party, but then I realized, I'm the shortest person in the group of my friends, they're all handsome, tall, having a beautiful girlfriend beside them, I feel very anxious talking with them or meet them, I feel like I'm not supposed to be in the party, it's not like i don't want, but it's just me feeling like I'm inferior
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At that time, I've met with all of my friends, they're all inviting me to some kind of party, but then I realized, I'm the shortest person in the group of my friends, they're all handsome, tall, having a beautiful girlfriend beside them, I feel very anxious talking with them or meet them, I feel like I'm not supposed to be in the party, it's not like i don't want, but it's just me feeling like I'm inferior
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education
As a male who was attempted to be killed by my bio mother and then step mother. Then in my teens being abused with religion by another woman my father dated who told me I was ugly and would never get to date. Then actually did date, who in turn abused me. Yeah, I have no self esteem, never had a ego, and stuck in therapy for the rest of my life trying to figure out why women hate me so much.
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As a male who was attempted to be killed by my bio mother and then step mother. Then in my teens being abused with religion by another woman my father dated who told me I was ugly and would never get to date. Then actually did date, who in turn abused me. Yeah, I have no self esteem, never had a ego, and stuck in therapy for the rest of my life trying to figure out why women hate me so much.
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Limbo
My self esteem is that bad it's held me back from things I enjoy and I'm good at because I tell myself I can't do it and I'm bad at things all the time, it's taken me until now to realise the problem as I just thought it was normal. it's had a massive impact on my life over the last 10 years and I hope anyone who suffers with this mindset including myself break through the barrier!
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My self esteem is that bad it's held me back from things I enjoy and I'm good at because I tell myself I can't do it and I'm bad at things all the time, it's taken me until now to realise the problem as I just thought it was normal. it's had a massive impact on my life over the last 10 years and I hope anyone who suffers with this mindset including myself break through the barrier!
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Nisanth
A lot of these apply to me like having the mindset that you are inferior to other people in many aspects, constantly being self conscious in front of others, trying to change the way you want to do things just because you feel others may think of it in a negative or different way, getting bullied (like I kinda get bullied for being thin, etc)
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A lot of these apply to me like having the mindset that you are inferior to other people in many aspects, constantly being self conscious in front of others, trying to change the way you want to do things just because you feel others may think of it in a negative or different way, getting bullied (like I kinda get bullied for being thin, etc)
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JACCO
I'm 32 and I've never considered myself to have low self esteem but a few weeks ago something came up that made me question it and now after watching this i check almost all of the listed boxes.
It answers so much and yet is hella depressing. This is something i should've worked on and addressed when i was a teenager. It's scary.
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I'm 32 and I've never considered myself to have low self esteem but a few weeks ago something came up that made me question it and now after watching this i check almost all of the listed boxes.
It answers so much and yet is hella depressing. This is something i should've worked on and addressed when i was a teenager. It's scary.
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Badgirs
I find it hard to think well of myself because all my life I've been weird and dumb and people never liked me because those things make the others around me have more work or trouble, so yeah, I can't become smarter or less awkward and that just make me hate myself and try to avoid being a bourden to the others
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I find it hard to think well of myself because all my life I've been weird and dumb and people never liked me because those things make the others around me have more work or trouble, so yeah, I can't become smarter or less awkward and that just make me hate myself and try to avoid being a bourden to the others
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Tsunami_Extra
I have a lot of self doubt and none of my friends seem to notice it, I have a lot of pressure and I think one of the main causes is bc of how rarely I see my girlfriend. And when I am with her I'm too nervous or shy, I try to hold her hand but my bad thoughts kick in.
I feel like I'm always suffering
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I have a lot of self doubt and none of my friends seem to notice it, I have a lot of pressure and I think one of the main causes is bc of how rarely I see my girlfriend. And when I am with her I'm too nervous or shy, I try to hold her hand but my bad thoughts kick in.
I feel like I'm always suffering
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georgina
literally relate to all of the traits. the negative self image is only sometimes. some days I feel really good ab myself and who I am but it fluctuates. the last one I have always battled with. it takes me long to hand in work for school because its not as good as I want it to be
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literally relate to all of the traits. the negative self image is only sometimes. some days I feel really good ab myself and who I am but it fluctuates. the last one I have always battled with. it takes me long to hand in work for school because its not as good as I want it to be
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Peter
My self esteem has absolutely crashed this year. Every single day I think and say the most horrible things about myself. I have no love for myself. Whenever I think of myself all I think is how much I hate myself. I always say that I pity the person who falls in love with me.
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My self esteem has absolutely crashed this year. Every single day I think and say the most horrible things about myself. I have no love for myself. Whenever I think of myself all I think is how much I hate myself. I always say that I pity the person who falls in love with me.
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Magical
I also admit that I feel most of signs I also have low self-esteem as well same with depression makes it hard with having symptoms of Fibromyalgia I do go to massage therapy and acupuncture and doing yoga at times I get unmotivated I try and do my best and rest
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I also admit that I feel most of signs I also have low self-esteem as well same with depression makes it hard with having symptoms of Fibromyalgia I do go to massage therapy and acupuncture and doing yoga at times I get unmotivated I try and do my best and rest
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SilverPsychic
Me having all of these but the one that hit the deepest; Down playing your achievements. Im a fanfic author with 19k readers and everyone is always like WOW! But Im like Its not even that good so I dont understand why people even give a glance to it
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Me having all of these but the one that hit the deepest; Down playing your achievements. Im a fanfic author with 19k readers and everyone is always like WOW! But Im like Its not even that good so I dont understand why people even give a glance to it
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Burnt
I had the most confidence when i was 18 during my pre-university program. I achieved my greatest academic result and believed i was really smart. Fast forward to degree, i just realised that pre-university program is just easy and im nothing special
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I had the most confidence when i was 18 during my pre-university program. I achieved my greatest academic result and believed i was really smart. Fast forward to degree, i just realised that pre-university program is just easy and im nothing special
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tash
I relate to almost all of these coments. Even though its kinda sad because I relate to them so much but I feel better knowing that I am not alone. I am glad that I came across this video and I got to read all these amazing people's experiences.
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I relate to almost all of these coments. Even though its kinda sad because I relate to them so much but I feel better knowing that I am not alone. I am glad that I came across this video and I got to read all these amazing people's experiences.
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Surbhi
This video is Spot on in my situation, I've had low self esteem since I was in pre school and Its heartbreaking to imagine a child having low self esteem since I was 3 yrs old. Now I understood but nobody cares about my mental health
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This video is Spot on in my situation, I've had low self esteem since I was in pre school and Its heartbreaking to imagine a child having low self esteem since I was 3 yrs old. Now I understood but nobody cares about my mental health
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GLEN
My ex has this problem. wont sleep in the air con room. uses old rags to save money on tampons, cant under stand why a black and white tv is just as good as a led tv/ Build a new house on the beach so she divorced me to get out.
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My ex has this problem. wont sleep in the air con room. uses old rags to save money on tampons, cant under stand why a black and white tv is just as good as a led tv/ Build a new house on the beach so she divorced me to get out.
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[? PompomBoba]
OMG BOTH OF MY FRIND HAVE SELF LOW EXTEEM NOT ONLY THAT I THINK ALOT OF MY FRONDS DO I THINK I DO BUT VERRY LITTLE BBRUH how to make there esteem hire i surch this vid bc i wanna learn how to make them esteam hire
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OMG BOTH OF MY FRIND HAVE SELF LOW EXTEEM NOT ONLY THAT I THINK ALOT OF MY FRONDS DO I THINK I DO BUT VERRY LITTLE BBRUH how to make there esteem hire i surch this vid bc i wanna learn how to make them esteam hire
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bl
i have low self esteem im always tired sad or i just wanna be alone i hate going out but i just cant make my self do it even if i wanna idk why my life is sad and i wish it would stop but it does not
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i have low self esteem im always tired sad or i just wanna be alone i hate going out but i just cant make my self do it even if i wanna idk why my life is sad and i wish it would stop but it does not
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psych2go
Yes, I know I have low self esteem, it really makes me feel terrible. I always think people are internally judging me. I can relate to all of them except the bad posture, I'm fixing that: >
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Yes, I know I have low self esteem, it really makes me feel terrible. I always think people are internally judging me. I can relate to all of them except the bad posture, I'm fixing that: >
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Mr.
I just think that I'm the ugliest person on earth even though people tell me that I'm very attractive. I also don't post any picture of myself cuz in my mind I'm so ugly in every one of them.
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I just think that I'm the ugliest person on earth even though people tell me that I'm very attractive. I also don't post any picture of myself cuz in my mind I'm so ugly in every one of them.
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