7 Early Signs A Relationship Won't Last
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Maiya
Honestly my partner is insecure and so am I, when we first met I said something completely honest and he didn't like it at all, I cried and cried telling him I'm sorry and he almost blocked me on social media, and over the past 2 years now he brought it up twice. The first time I tried being open with him I got really emotionally about it, as I tried asking who are these girls he's following on another platform because it was quite sus (cringe twerking, big butts, half naked, etc) but when I tried saying it to him I was too nervous so it ended coming out in a different way and that's when he gave me that mood that he was upset and brought up the thing I said to him, I had to apologize again. Then last year he brought it up again this time he was very close to breaking up with me over something I said about a year ago during that time: / I wrote him a letter basically telling him none of us are perfect, that hes been through alot more than I have, and other common sense stuff. He didn't really apologize after reading my letter, it woke him up a little bit but. What kinda gets me is that I feel unappreciated, I bought him gifts that he never uses or wears, and whenever I'm sad he just tells me don't be sad. Which is why I'm slowly getting a crush on someone else because I feel like I'm the one putting all the effort and hes not really trying He's nice and everything, but whenever he's down and I try to comfort him and he would just dismiss it, and knowing how he is, I don't like confrontation.
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Honestly my partner is insecure and so am I, when we first met I said something completely honest and he didn't like it at all, I cried and cried telling him I'm sorry and he almost blocked me on social media, and over the past 2 years now he brought it up twice. The first time I tried being open with him I got really emotionally about it, as I tried asking who are these girls he's following on another platform because it was quite sus (cringe twerking, big butts, half naked, etc) but when I tried saying it to him I was too nervous so it ended coming out in a different way and that's when he gave me that mood that he was upset and brought up the thing I said to him, I had to apologize again. Then last year he brought it up again this time he was very close to breaking up with me over something I said about a year ago during that time: / I wrote him a letter basically telling him none of us are perfect, that hes been through alot more than I have, and other common sense stuff. He didn't really apologize after reading my letter, it woke him up a little bit but. What kinda gets me is that I feel unappreciated, I bought him gifts that he never uses or wears, and whenever I'm sad he just tells me don't be sad. Which is why I'm slowly getting a crush on someone else because I feel like I'm the one putting all the effort and hes not really trying He's nice and everything, but whenever he's down and I try to comfort him and he would just dismiss it, and knowing how he is, I don't like confrontation.
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Maria
last year i was in toxic relationships that didn't last. proof that toxic relationship ended last summer.
Signs that relationship doesn't work out it has to end:
signs of toxic guy:
won't be open with each other.
forces, rush things.
no trust or communication full of excuses,
passive aggressive, behavior.
just option not priority
no value in toxic relationships.
no resolves resentment. Anger stress.
drain your energy, used take advance. childish behavior.
no empathy or remorse, listening.
cheating
who doesn't really love you just fake love loveboming of narasstic abusers toxic doesn't respect your privacy check your things before you do.
he can't control emotions reaction to everything else.
can't agree to disagree on things bossy have proof your right never takes no for answer.
attractive to other people.
Jealously angary toxic no respect of boundaries standards.
never change his ways.
waste of time and effort.
all move reasons to breakup the toxic relationships forget about him move on without him forever. be happier find someone who is better.
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last year i was in toxic relationships that didn't last. proof that toxic relationship ended last summer.
Signs that relationship doesn't work out it has to end:
signs of toxic guy:
won't be open with each other.
forces, rush things.
no trust or communication full of excuses,
passive aggressive, behavior.
just option not priority
no value in toxic relationships.
no resolves resentment. Anger stress.
drain your energy, used take advance. childish behavior.
no empathy or remorse, listening.
cheating
who doesn't really love you just fake love loveboming of narasstic abusers toxic doesn't respect your privacy check your things before you do.
he can't control emotions reaction to everything else.
can't agree to disagree on things bossy have proof your right never takes no for answer.
attractive to other people.
Jealously angary toxic no respect of boundaries standards.
never change his ways.
waste of time and effort.
all move reasons to breakup the toxic relationships forget about him move on without him forever. be happier find someone who is better.
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education
Hey, I got a strange feelings problem and I would like to share it here bcz I'm kinda worried 'bout it: )
K, it's about a sort of feeling, like,
when I'm with my partner, I'm in my bubble thinking 'bout nothing like an innocent child lost in the Woods
(yeah it was a pretty weird example, like,
kinda empty but not in a negative way.
BUT,
When I'm NOT with my partner, I'm fantasizing 'bout them for a lot of time and totally excited.
PS: I was like this with my first and my last partner (no they're not one same person-) (I been 4 times in couple (IRL) with 4 differents partners)
I hope that someone can help me to understand (if you did lmao) or I hope at least that I'm not the only one who been like this
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Hey, I got a strange feelings problem and I would like to share it here bcz I'm kinda worried 'bout it: )
K, it's about a sort of feeling, like,
when I'm with my partner, I'm in my bubble thinking 'bout nothing like an innocent child lost in the Woods
(yeah it was a pretty weird example, like,
kinda empty but not in a negative way.
BUT,
When I'm NOT with my partner, I'm fantasizing 'bout them for a lot of time and totally excited.
PS: I was like this with my first and my last partner (no they're not one same person-) (I been 4 times in couple (IRL) with 4 differents partners)
I hope that someone can help me to understand (if you did lmao) or I hope at least that I'm not the only one who been like this
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Worst
I think that number 4 is me, I have a hard time keeping my Emotions and I put them always in a jar but love always breaks out so I just learned to live with it but I really don't know about my relationship He and me seem like a perfect couple but we faces many problems and with starters he and me are from two diffrent countries and we live far away from eachother so it can be nice to wait for them when the times comes to meet eachother in real life but the other part is that is more easier for them to cheat on you while you don't know it but what I know in a relationship is if we don't have trust we don't have anything 2 more years and one problem is slove
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I think that number 4 is me, I have a hard time keeping my Emotions and I put them always in a jar but love always breaks out so I just learned to live with it but I really don't know about my relationship He and me seem like a perfect couple but we faces many problems and with starters he and me are from two diffrent countries and we live far away from eachother so it can be nice to wait for them when the times comes to meet eachother in real life but the other part is that is more easier for them to cheat on you while you don't know it but what I know in a relationship is if we don't have trust we don't have anything 2 more years and one problem is slove
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Amanda
Wow! Just Wow! My last relationship was 7 out of 7 listed in this video, so it was pretty much doomed from the start. May I suggest adding 2 more to this list 1) He/she says l love you (by text or social media) WAY too early in the relationship & 2) He/she says l love you in a text but he/she either denies it or outright calls you a liar because you don't have proof (which damages the trust between you & your partner)
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Wow! Just Wow! My last relationship was 7 out of 7 listed in this video, so it was pretty much doomed from the start. May I suggest adding 2 more to this list 1) He/she says l love you (by text or social media) WAY too early in the relationship & 2) He/she says l love you in a text but he/she either denies it or outright calls you a liar because you don't have proof (which damages the trust between you & your partner)
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Nikki
I spent 4 years with the wrong man. Always trying to proof my self as a worthy woman. And all five of these came into that relationship. He even said sorry for his behaviour and said he would take 100% of the blame. As I did nothing wrong. I'm still getting over the trauma. So my advice to anyone out their that feels like their living their life For him or her get out! And run as far away as possible.
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I spent 4 years with the wrong man. Always trying to proof my self as a worthy woman. And all five of these came into that relationship. He even said sorry for his behaviour and said he would take 100% of the blame. As I did nothing wrong. I'm still getting over the trauma. So my advice to anyone out their that feels like their living their life For him or her get out! And run as far away as possible.
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Nancy
I have been the person who couldnt control their emotions and I am still working on it, I have also been very jealous, but definitely didnt feel any security and so my ego misbehaved in this way: -(
I never thought Id be that person, being that in my other relationships I had never felt as insecure as the one I was in. All I can say is we should all actively try and do better.
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I have been the person who couldnt control their emotions and I am still working on it, I have also been very jealous, but definitely didnt feel any security and so my ego misbehaved in this way: -(
I never thought Id be that person, being that in my other relationships I had never felt as insecure as the one I was in. All I can say is we should all actively try and do better.
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Maqia
I broke up with someone a while ago. I couldn't understand why it didn't work out. I really wanted to meet them but a month after we got together a lot of stuff happend to me. And I think I can understand why the relationship didn't feel right anymore. I can also see that I should've told them how I feel and tell them what's going on. Thank you for helping me
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I broke up with someone a while ago. I couldn't understand why it didn't work out. I really wanted to meet them but a month after we got together a lot of stuff happend to me. And I think I can understand why the relationship didn't feel right anymore. I can also see that I should've told them how I feel and tell them what's going on. Thank you for helping me
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wallsy
Sometimes Id text my SO when I was bored and missed them just to see what they were up to even if I knew they were away, not because I was suspicious of anything but because I just want them to know Im thinking of them. I wouldnt text them all day but can someone tell me is that controlling? I really dont want to be the controlling boyfriend.
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Sometimes Id text my SO when I was bored and missed them just to see what they were up to even if I knew they were away, not because I was suspicious of anything but because I just want them to know Im thinking of them. I wouldnt text them all day but can someone tell me is that controlling? I really dont want to be the controlling boyfriend.
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Anna
Knowing where your partner is and who they are with at all times I think is healthy. Both partner should communicate things like this. Jealousy to me is not letting them hang out with people other than you or they have to go with you all the time. Why keep these certain people a secret from your partner?
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Knowing where your partner is and who they are with at all times I think is healthy. Both partner should communicate things like this. Jealousy to me is not letting them hang out with people other than you or they have to go with you all the time. Why keep these certain people a secret from your partner?
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Swagalicious
He's in the military and I know it's tough but I really do love him.
Lately we argued for weeks because I was trying to get him to communicate better and prioritize me. Instead of making me feel neglected and that my words aren't valid (he doesn't listen to me) yet we're good now.
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He's in the military and I know it's tough but I really do love him.
Lately we argued for weeks because I was trying to get him to communicate better and prioritize me. Instead of making me feel neglected and that my words aren't valid (he doesn't listen to me) yet we're good now.
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Arinda
4: 29 Then what about if my partner suddenly disappear for a long time (like 7-8 hours) without no explanation, is it also toxic if i continously ask him what is he doing and stuff? Aren't we supposed to know what they are doing especially in a long distance relationship?
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4: 29 Then what about if my partner suddenly disappear for a long time (like 7-8 hours) without no explanation, is it also toxic if i continously ask him what is he doing and stuff? Aren't we supposed to know what they are doing especially in a long distance relationship?
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Emily
I think the last one is hard to say, if you are in a relationship then texting and having communication if youre going to be out or running late is something that is just respectful. I wouldnt mind if they checked in especially if they arent going to be home
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I think the last one is hard to say, if you are in a relationship then texting and having communication if youre going to be out or running late is something that is just respectful. I wouldnt mind if they checked in especially if they arent going to be home
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CBarbs17
My jealousy got in the way of my relationship. I knew it wasnt normal and it never went away even though I told myself over and over again that I was wrong for thinking like that. Idk how to fix it and I really really want to so it doesnt happen again.
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My jealousy got in the way of my relationship. I knew it wasnt normal and it never went away even though I told myself over and over again that I was wrong for thinking like that. Idk how to fix it and I really really want to so it doesnt happen again.
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Ali
Sorry but i had a question, you said that not being able to control emotions is a sign but what about good emotions? I cant resist complimenting or telling someone how much i like them some times, does that count? I always thought this was a good sign haha
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Sorry but i had a question, you said that not being able to control emotions is a sign but what about good emotions? I cant resist complimenting or telling someone how much i like them some times, does that count? I always thought this was a good sign haha
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Lim
When it comes to priorities each one should understand that we all have our own priorities in life like studies and work plus household chores. Don't expect them to prioritize you over their priorities in life. You should be understanding as a partner.
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When it comes to priorities each one should understand that we all have our own priorities in life like studies and work plus household chores. Don't expect them to prioritize you over their priorities in life. You should be understanding as a partner.
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Cali
1. You're not open to each other
2. You're not a priority to them
3. You run away from fights
4. You can't control your emotions
5. You can't agree to disagree
6. You're attracted to other people
7. They get jealous too easily
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1. You're not open to each other
2. You're not a priority to them
3. You run away from fights
4. You can't control your emotions
5. You can't agree to disagree
6. You're attracted to other people
7. They get jealous too easily
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Vampira
Struggling with the second one because they have a crazy work schedule because of the type of job they have. We aren't serious but I'm planning on trying to set up a routine with them where we can have allocated time slots for each other.
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Struggling with the second one because they have a crazy work schedule because of the type of job they have. We aren't serious but I'm planning on trying to set up a routine with them where we can have allocated time slots for each other.
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Morgain
Yes one of my Relationships has ended because my Partner always thought I had it with other Ones and I could say what I wanted to try to convince him that I only love him, he never believed me. It is very sad for me cus I still love him.
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Yes one of my Relationships has ended because my Partner always thought I had it with other Ones and I could say what I wanted to try to convince him that I only love him, he never believed me. It is very sad for me cus I still love him.
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Mrs
I have a question about number three? Lets say we fight right and his just screaming at you and his just telling you YOURE wrong you have no reason to feel the way you do and you both are screaming at each other what should we do?
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I have a question about number three? Lets say we fight right and his just screaming at you and his just telling you YOURE wrong you have no reason to feel the way you do and you both are screaming at each other what should we do?
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Mana
Instead of using the term fights, it would be more accurate to say dont run away from conflicts/problems. As no one wants to deal with fights but to be calmed and solve problems for a healthy relationship.
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Instead of using the term fights, it would be more accurate to say dont run away from conflicts/problems. As no one wants to deal with fights but to be calmed and solve problems for a healthy relationship.
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Elizabeth
My parents literally got divorced for this kind of stuff in their relationship. Thank you so much for advising people about this toxic and common situation in toxic relationships
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My parents literally got divorced for this kind of stuff in their relationship. Thank you so much for advising people about this toxic and common situation in toxic relationships
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Shivam
Right now I am dealing with all of the reasons she ignores me dosent feel excited around me show the attraction towards other guys dosent respond to msg easily what should I do
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Right now I am dealing with all of the reasons she ignores me dosent feel excited around me show the attraction towards other guys dosent respond to msg easily what should I do
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Chanutr
I got an issue about my boyfriend went to see his ex and his flings like twice a month, even I have talked with him that i feel so awkward about what he did. HE still do it.
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I got an issue about my boyfriend went to see his ex and his flings like twice a month, even I have talked with him that i feel so awkward about what he did. HE still do it.
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TechyCatz
I really hate cell phones when it comes to relationships. I am an introvert and it makes me feel like I can never have alone time with a cell phone glued to my hand.
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I really hate cell phones when it comes to relationships. I am an introvert and it makes me feel like I can never have alone time with a cell phone glued to my hand.
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