7 Signs Youre Falling for the Wrong Person
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Date: 2023-08-20
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There is this one person who i have a crush on. All my friends say he isnt good for me and that he is a red flag and idk what to do. Actually i dont think he is a real crush bc i have really low self esteem and i hate myself so when someone is kind to me i will like them and this person does it but kinda in a sick way. He first was nice and actually reminded me of a person i really loved like as a very very good friend and even maybe a small crush. They were so kind to me and i loved them and i knew they loved me too and we just were best friends and they were like my favorite person of all time and then we drifted apart when i moved schools sadly. It was really hard for me. So he reminded me if them like he looked like them and when they sended voice mails to me they even sounded like them. So that was weird but i didnt really think about it. Then he started kinda fliting with me (remember that my brain falls inlove with anyone who is kind or shows affection) and at first i played along but then when the flirting became very agressive i noticed that i was really dumb and the texts were actually really unconfortable to me but bc he was REALLY showing affection i just started having this crush on him. But like i didnt really like him bc i know he was just playing with me and problably does that with everyone atleast he does that with one of my friends too and its weird cuz they dont take his texts seriously and they laugh about them so why do i start crushing on him. And i also now have ED and really really low self esteem so im really unavalible rn and its just weird cuz i still want to impress him and make him like me too and i want him to send those sick texts tho i hate them so much. And then yesterday something happened. he was in our school and with my other friend talking outside of the class i was in. I felt really dizzy bc i have eaten very poorly bc of reasons so like i saw him and he said hi to me. My heart literally stopped and i felt like my whole life was crashing bc it wasn't the right time i wasn't ready. He hasn't ever seen me we have just texted and now when he saw i was at the lowest i have ever been. I thought that i dissapointed him bc i hated myself and my looks and he saw me like this. I thought he hated me now and was disgusted tho idk why did i even care. He isnt a bad person im just weird but then i just started having the worst panic attack i have ever had in my life. I could feel the tears in my eyes and i was shivering and shaking so much and everything became blurry and i couldnt breathe and i wanted to just move schools and never see him again and forget all this. I was at the gate in our school when he ran up to me and well i turned and said i couldnt talk bc i have a panic attack and he just said okay i just wanted to say hi and then he walked away. I was so nervous and it felt like i was dying and i wouldnt even care if i was bc this felt so bad and i cant even tell how bad it felt. I didnt want to see him or him to see me i just wanted him to see me when i was confident and pretty but i wasent. Then i called my friends and told them this and they said i just should ignore him for now on and block him and i was really anxious. When i got home i just wanted to cry. Its not just that, that he saw me like this but all the things that he said was still so traumatizing to me tho i had a crush on him. I know he totally isnt the right person but i cant understand that. I mean my brain cant. After that when i was about to text him i didnt want to be in touch anymore he said he was sorry and that i was handsome and pretty(bc of low self esteem i cant take compliments and i think they are lying who say something like this) and i didnt know what to do and my friends say that blocking him is the right thing to do but i know he isnt a bad person and my brain still has a crush on him so its just hard tho i just want him to not exist and just forget this all. I think one of the reasons i like him is that he reminds me so much of that one person but im not sure tho. Right now im still at this point and literally so paranoid and i think always when i exit the classroom he is there and i felt so anxous going to school today. I just dont want to be with him but its so hard and i dont want to hurt him. So like. what should i do
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There is this one person who i have a crush on. All my friends say he isnt good for me and that he is a red flag and idk what to do. Actually i dont think he is a real crush bc i have really low self esteem and i hate myself so when someone is kind to me i will like them and this person does it but kinda in a sick way. He first was nice and actually reminded me of a person i really loved like as a very very good friend and even maybe a small crush. They were so kind to me and i loved them and i knew they loved me too and we just were best friends and they were like my favorite person of all time and then we drifted apart when i moved schools sadly. It was really hard for me. So he reminded me if them like he looked like them and when they sended voice mails to me they even sounded like them. So that was weird but i didnt really think about it. Then he started kinda fliting with me (remember that my brain falls inlove with anyone who is kind or shows affection) and at first i played along but then when the flirting became very agressive i noticed that i was really dumb and the texts were actually really unconfortable to me but bc he was REALLY showing affection i just started having this crush on him. But like i didnt really like him bc i know he was just playing with me and problably does that with everyone atleast he does that with one of my friends too and its weird cuz they dont take his texts seriously and they laugh about them so why do i start crushing on him. And i also now have ED and really really low self esteem so im really unavalible rn and its just weird cuz i still want to impress him and make him like me too and i want him to send those sick texts tho i hate them so much. And then yesterday something happened. he was in our school and with my other friend talking outside of the class i was in. I felt really dizzy bc i have eaten very poorly bc of reasons so like i saw him and he said hi to me. My heart literally stopped and i felt like my whole life was crashing bc it wasn't the right time i wasn't ready. He hasn't ever seen me we have just texted and now when he saw i was at the lowest i have ever been. I thought that i dissapointed him bc i hated myself and my looks and he saw me like this. I thought he hated me now and was disgusted tho idk why did i even care. He isnt a bad person im just weird but then i just started having the worst panic attack i have ever had in my life. I could feel the tears in my eyes and i was shivering and shaking so much and everything became blurry and i couldnt breathe and i wanted to just move schools and never see him again and forget all this. I was at the gate in our school when he ran up to me and well i turned and said i couldnt talk bc i have a panic attack and he just said okay i just wanted to say hi and then he walked away. I was so nervous and it felt like i was dying and i wouldnt even care if i was bc this felt so bad and i cant even tell how bad it felt. I didnt want to see him or him to see me i just wanted him to see me when i was confident and pretty but i wasent. Then i called my friends and told them this and they said i just should ignore him for now on and block him and i was really anxious. When i got home i just wanted to cry. Its not just that, that he saw me like this but all the things that he said was still so traumatizing to me tho i had a crush on him. I know he totally isnt the right person but i cant understand that. I mean my brain cant. After that when i was about to text him i didnt want to be in touch anymore he said he was sorry and that i was handsome and pretty(bc of low self esteem i cant take compliments and i think they are lying who say something like this) and i didnt know what to do and my friends say that blocking him is the right thing to do but i know he isnt a bad person and my brain still has a crush on him so its just hard tho i just want him to not exist and just forget this all. I think one of the reasons i like him is that he reminds me so much of that one person but im not sure tho. Right now im still at this point and literally so paranoid and i think always when i exit the classroom he is there and i felt so anxous going to school today. I just dont want to be with him but its so hard and i dont want to hurt him. So like. what should i do
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Chin
5th reason. I never introduced my ex to my family even though time to time he talked about how much he wanted marry me in one day and told me that I am not what he was looking for wife type.
He didn't visit his mom, unless he needed something from her. He said he care about his brother but never willing to send any gift for his two nieces. I don't want to spend my life with someone who is very self-centered.
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5th reason. I never introduced my ex to my family even though time to time he talked about how much he wanted marry me in one day and told me that I am not what he was looking for wife type.
He didn't visit his mom, unless he needed something from her. He said he care about his brother but never willing to send any gift for his two nieces. I don't want to spend my life with someone who is very self-centered.
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MC
So I find myself in a difficult position everyone one of these relates to my 2 year gf
1: she started not talking to me when she cheated on me
2: she started feeling emotionally exhausted when she cheated on me
3: she felt I was abusive when she cheated on me
5: she couldnt introduce me to her mother cause her mom would never allow her to be with a black dude
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So I find myself in a difficult position everyone one of these relates to my 2 year gf
1: she started not talking to me when she cheated on me
2: she started feeling emotionally exhausted when she cheated on me
3: she felt I was abusive when she cheated on me
5: she couldnt introduce me to her mother cause her mom would never allow her to be with a black dude
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SuperSolomob422
Remember though, relationships require commitment, if you see one of these, it's not over. It could just be a passing thing, giving up too early isn't the best idea, maybe try to see if it gets worse or better, or to try talking it over with them. It may even break their hear to see you go in such a way.
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Remember though, relationships require commitment, if you see one of these, it's not over. It could just be a passing thing, giving up too early isn't the best idea, maybe try to see if it gets worse or better, or to try talking it over with them. It may even break their hear to see you go in such a way.
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MyQueen
I fell for him already. At first, it's excruciating. Yet, I still loved him.
But now, as my life continues, there's unraveling of events that make me see that he's not the one for me.
Although it is only one-sided love, it's really painful. But thank God, I've dodged a bullet so early.
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I fell for him already. At first, it's excruciating. Yet, I still loved him.
But now, as my life continues, there's unraveling of events that make me see that he's not the one for me.
Although it is only one-sided love, it's really painful. But thank God, I've dodged a bullet so early.
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Annie
I have fallen for two wrong people. The first one was mentally ill, had schizophrenia. The other guy was a long distance relationship who was overly committed to his work. As soon as I told him I wanted to wait to get into a serious relationship, he found a girlfriend a week later.
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I have fallen for two wrong people. The first one was mentally ill, had schizophrenia. The other guy was a long distance relationship who was overly committed to his work. As soon as I told him I wanted to wait to get into a serious relationship, he found a girlfriend a week later.
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Christine
The last sign really hit a nerve for me because when I ended my last relationship, my mind kept wandering to someone else. It started to bother me because I am a monogamous person. I did not have an affair, it gave me the courage to end the relationship once and for all.
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The last sign really hit a nerve for me because when I ended my last relationship, my mind kept wandering to someone else. It started to bother me because I am a monogamous person. I did not have an affair, it gave me the courage to end the relationship once and for all.
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Maribeth
The only reson that some of these may apply to me is because my mother, even when I'm in high school its hard to get out, my boyfriend understands. There were two instances where we went out to the mall my God was it amazing I would love to do it more if I could.
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The only reson that some of these may apply to me is because my mother, even when I'm in high school its hard to get out, my boyfriend understands. There were two instances where we went out to the mall my God was it amazing I would love to do it more if I could.
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cartoonygothica
If I were to start dating someone, I would be very hesitant to introduce them to my family, even if we were a good match together. I'm very private about my life around my family, and the few friends I do have all live too far from me.
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If I were to start dating someone, I would be very hesitant to introduce them to my family, even if we were a good match together. I'm very private about my life around my family, and the few friends I do have all live too far from me.
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E. Nobody
99% of this made me think of my ex. he'd scare me when he got upset because he'd either start punching/ hitting stuff ( including himself ) or talk about hurting or killing himself. and I was terrified one day it was going to be aimed at me.
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99% of this made me think of my ex. he'd scare me when he got upset because he'd either start punching/ hitting stuff ( including himself ) or talk about hurting or killing himself. and I was terrified one day it was going to be aimed at me.
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pufferfishwisdom
I personally never had any of these signs, but my ex clearly had them all, since we broke u I kept trying to keep it going. I finally see why he wanted to move on, and I'm glad that I can finally move on too, thx Psych2Go
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I personally never had any of these signs, but my ex clearly had them all, since we broke u I kept trying to keep it going. I finally see why he wanted to move on, and I'm glad that I can finally move on too, thx Psych2Go
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Sir
I broke up after 6 years. It was too much. I was threatened to be sent to prison. She told me she would press charges against me. Lots of stuff. She cheated on me multiple times and blamed me for me, like I wasn't caring enough.
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I broke up after 6 years. It was too much. I was threatened to be sent to prison. She told me she would press charges against me. Lots of stuff. She cheated on me multiple times and blamed me for me, like I wasn't caring enough.
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rebecca
If a house has Mold and you know it is nor safe to be there and your person who you been seeing is not interested in protecting you from the Mold is that harming everything and is it a sign of being with the wrong person?
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If a house has Mold and you know it is nor safe to be there and your person who you been seeing is not interested in protecting you from the Mold is that harming everything and is it a sign of being with the wrong person?
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Psych2Go
It is currently 2: 12PM here in Vancouver, BC. What time is it right now? Comment below and try to guess the person above location. Use this format [your guess, your time]. Posted a video yesterday with a similar pin: )
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It is currently 2: 12PM here in Vancouver, BC. What time is it right now? Comment below and try to guess the person above location. Use this format [your guess, your time]. Posted a video yesterday with a similar pin: )
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Laila
I was in an abusive relationship, I tried so many times last ways to get away from him but he would end up finding me. He would never let me leave. No, there is not always a way out cause he will find you
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I was in an abusive relationship, I tried so many times last ways to get away from him but he would end up finding me. He would never let me leave. No, there is not always a way out cause he will find you
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Lidwina
Psych2go has so many great informative videos with awesome illustrations as well. I love it. But i find most of the narrators sound gloomy and the intonation isnt suitable with the illustrations
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Psych2go has so many great informative videos with awesome illustrations as well. I love it. But i find most of the narrators sound gloomy and the intonation isnt suitable with the illustrations
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Ranpo
nOW THIS IS THE VIDEO IM LOOKING FOR (Cause I think I wanna be friends with someone but my friends say that person is a bad person and I don't see why but I'm gonna see why in dis video UwUz)
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nOW THIS IS THE VIDEO IM LOOKING FOR (Cause I think I wanna be friends with someone but my friends say that person is a bad person and I don't see why but I'm gonna see why in dis video UwUz)
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Kim
I was think my mom could get a divorce and gender ressangement surgery so she could be as happy or as miserable as she made other people in life maybe her asshole clown boss too
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I was think my mom could get a divorce and gender ressangement surgery so she could be as happy or as miserable as she made other people in life maybe her asshole clown boss too
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SuperSolomob422
2: 49 This is true for me, but only because I don't fit in with my family, and my partner doesn't fit in the same ways I don't, I think that's acceptable.
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2: 49 This is true for me, but only because I don't fit in with my family, and my partner doesn't fit in the same ways I don't, I think that's acceptable.
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Stewart
How do you know you are falling for the wrong person?
She is a woman, because as soon as you fall for her you are boring and she will look for something new
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How do you know you are falling for the wrong person?
She is a woman, because as soon as you fall for her you are boring and she will look for something new
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Jax
Help I'm number 6, I can work a lot to get to a good relationship and do stuff, but I don't have mayor interests than being better mentally and a partner,
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Help I'm number 6, I can work a lot to get to a good relationship and do stuff, but I don't have mayor interests than being better mentally and a partner,
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Swarnav
Ok I watched this video coz of having a doubt in mind whether I'm falling for the wrong person. Actually, thanks a lot, I'm falling for the right one.
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Ok I watched this video coz of having a doubt in mind whether I'm falling for the wrong person. Actually, thanks a lot, I'm falling for the right one.
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Pierce
Me emotionally attached to my bf who've I've been dating almost a year and very happy to be with him
Psych2Go: lmaaooo it's not meant to be gurrllll
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Me emotionally attached to my bf who've I've been dating almost a year and very happy to be with him
Psych2Go: lmaaooo it's not meant to be gurrllll
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Tin
I did fall in love to a friend for a little while but after he knows that and his friends laughing for that, my heart kind of broke.
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I did fall in love to a friend for a little while but after he knows that and his friends laughing for that, my heart kind of broke.
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Valentin
I dont introduce her to my family or friends because i dont want her to see that she Is the only person my happiness rely on
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I dont introduce her to my family or friends because i dont want her to see that she Is the only person my happiness rely on
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