Why Do People Gossip About You
video description
Date: 2023-08-20
Related videos
Comments and reviews: 25
Chandline
I'm getting the same thing rumors keep on watching what I'm doing 24/7 and spread rumors I want my life to be keep personal, anything I'm doing not private, I really want my personal life to be personal I don't tell people all my life story tricky thing I do on my own to be spread what is going thing you don't want someone to do to you stop doing it to others you won't do that to yourself why we doing it to me I don't understand it, I never did that to someone watch what they do privately continue watching them and spreading rumors any website I'm doing from Library others places I don't know when someone get there, and then they start spread it every where, that does not make any sense please I don't do that to someone why we doing it to me, I never get into someone business, they life, they relationship, they family cause I know death can come in my way anytime and I will die why do somebody keep doing it to me, I'm going to bank I'm being watch by so much faces that I got so much money they after my money you don't do that, somebody keep telling all they family to follow me for money that I got so much money, I'm receiving federal tax loan they give me so much money that I don't give money to others is someone doing it I'm not gonna repeat her name she's sending over 1000 people from me that I'm having money, they never my friend, and they don't wanna be my friend all they trying to do is send someone to attack me everywhere, they hate me with bad face, for no reason I don't understand, there's people that more mean than me why they don't go do it to them, those things will bring you under the earth fast, rumors, running through me cause of house, money, and other good thing, me I don't do that follow people cause of nice car, house, and so much more why somebody doing it to me, if you don't have anything to eat here I lend you $20 to eat, but you not gonna try to take everything away from me I don't understand, I never try to attack people spread rumors after them cause of they money, all I want is everything they got and laugh again send a lot of people after someone cause of what they got. I like you normally Im not gonna like you cause of what you got take everything away from you and good bye again what's going on and spread a lot of people after you to tell them you got so much money.
Thankyou I hope someone understand me. I don't understand what going on anymore?
reply
I'm getting the same thing rumors keep on watching what I'm doing 24/7 and spread rumors I want my life to be keep personal, anything I'm doing not private, I really want my personal life to be personal I don't tell people all my life story tricky thing I do on my own to be spread what is going thing you don't want someone to do to you stop doing it to others you won't do that to yourself why we doing it to me I don't understand it, I never did that to someone watch what they do privately continue watching them and spreading rumors any website I'm doing from Library others places I don't know when someone get there, and then they start spread it every where, that does not make any sense please I don't do that to someone why we doing it to me, I never get into someone business, they life, they relationship, they family cause I know death can come in my way anytime and I will die why do somebody keep doing it to me, I'm going to bank I'm being watch by so much faces that I got so much money they after my money you don't do that, somebody keep telling all they family to follow me for money that I got so much money, I'm receiving federal tax loan they give me so much money that I don't give money to others is someone doing it I'm not gonna repeat her name she's sending over 1000 people from me that I'm having money, they never my friend, and they don't wanna be my friend all they trying to do is send someone to attack me everywhere, they hate me with bad face, for no reason I don't understand, there's people that more mean than me why they don't go do it to them, those things will bring you under the earth fast, rumors, running through me cause of house, money, and other good thing, me I don't do that follow people cause of nice car, house, and so much more why somebody doing it to me, if you don't have anything to eat here I lend you $20 to eat, but you not gonna try to take everything away from me I don't understand, I never try to attack people spread rumors after them cause of they money, all I want is everything they got and laugh again send a lot of people after someone cause of what they got. I like you normally Im not gonna like you cause of what you got take everything away from you and good bye again what's going on and spread a lot of people after you to tell them you got so much money.
Thankyou I hope someone understand me. I don't understand what going on anymore?
reply
Didier
Almost my entire family gossip and being locked with them is so frustrating cause they are always trashing on others or even the ones that live in the same house and for the smallest things. The one who does this the most is one of my cousins, actually she is the one that starts gossiping and the rest follows her. She is super mean to literally EVERYBODY even her husband, he is nice to her but she always says he is an idiot behind and in front of him. She always treats everyone like they are inferior to her, she even said one time that she wakes up with a good mood and all of us make her mad. __.
Also, like a month ago my sister's pet died and when someone told her she started laughing and i got mad, and everyone else got mad AT ME.
The most annoying part is that
she doesn't speak, she YELLS and SCREAMS all the time and is a small house so it's impossible to not hear her voice and i'm so tired of her, it affects my mental health in so many ways, she makes me so angry and anxious and i hace to bottle those feelings because i really can't do anything, she won't change and that's the main reason nobody wants to say something to her. She turns others against each other and thinks of herself like she is a good person. I really don't know what to do.
reply
Almost my entire family gossip and being locked with them is so frustrating cause they are always trashing on others or even the ones that live in the same house and for the smallest things. The one who does this the most is one of my cousins, actually she is the one that starts gossiping and the rest follows her. She is super mean to literally EVERYBODY even her husband, he is nice to her but she always says he is an idiot behind and in front of him. She always treats everyone like they are inferior to her, she even said one time that she wakes up with a good mood and all of us make her mad. __.
Also, like a month ago my sister's pet died and when someone told her she started laughing and i got mad, and everyone else got mad AT ME.
The most annoying part is that
she doesn't speak, she YELLS and SCREAMS all the time and is a small house so it's impossible to not hear her voice and i'm so tired of her, it affects my mental health in so many ways, she makes me so angry and anxious and i hace to bottle those feelings because i really can't do anything, she won't change and that's the main reason nobody wants to say something to her. She turns others against each other and thinks of herself like she is a good person. I really don't know what to do.
reply
JoyZoneYT
Well. there is another reason why it can happen, which isn't talked about in this video. It might just be me but:
To get a different perspective on things.
I wasn't specifically speaking poorly about the person but rather of a person's behavior and words. I was in cruel need of advice on how to approach the situation in the best way, and I outlined how it frustrated me and where I wanted it to go.
It kind of frustrates me to have people validate my emotions when I am more in need of solutions to help both people in that situation. I understand how nice it can be sometimes (for example on personal achievements, but it makes me feel dismissed when I can't seem to see a way out, ask someone because I am aware of previous experiences, or they have been of good advice in the past, and to receive that sort of approach.
reply
Well. there is another reason why it can happen, which isn't talked about in this video. It might just be me but:
To get a different perspective on things.
I wasn't specifically speaking poorly about the person but rather of a person's behavior and words. I was in cruel need of advice on how to approach the situation in the best way, and I outlined how it frustrated me and where I wanted it to go.
It kind of frustrates me to have people validate my emotions when I am more in need of solutions to help both people in that situation. I understand how nice it can be sometimes (for example on personal achievements, but it makes me feel dismissed when I can't seem to see a way out, ask someone because I am aware of previous experiences, or they have been of good advice in the past, and to receive that sort of approach.
reply
fwoop
Currently dealing with middle school gossips: ) (8th grade) Heard them talking about me the other day made me feel like shit. I couldnt hear exactly what they were saying about me but it was along the lines of how weird and quiet I am, and were talking about something I apparently did that was weird to them. I, thankfully, no longer feel too bad about it, but it still bothers me that people are talking about me behind my back in general. Now that I think about it, people were gossiping about me for a while, but Ive always turned a blind eye subconsciously. Not one for confrontation. I believe if I ignore it theyll have no power over me and will get bored.
reply
Currently dealing with middle school gossips: ) (8th grade) Heard them talking about me the other day made me feel like shit. I couldnt hear exactly what they were saying about me but it was along the lines of how weird and quiet I am, and were talking about something I apparently did that was weird to them. I, thankfully, no longer feel too bad about it, but it still bothers me that people are talking about me behind my back in general. Now that I think about it, people were gossiping about me for a while, but Ive always turned a blind eye subconsciously. Not one for confrontation. I believe if I ignore it theyll have no power over me and will get bored.
reply
arkwinter23
I always found gossip can be destructive even when it's done with the best intentions. You could be talking about someone in the most positive light but eventually it spreads and someone most likely will misinterpret and put a negative spin on it. Then worse case scenario the negative information gets back to the person that was the object of the gossip and they find out it was you it was originated from, now you have broken trust to deal with. Open honest communication with the person that is the subject of the information is best way go before it gets to someone else.
reply
I always found gossip can be destructive even when it's done with the best intentions. You could be talking about someone in the most positive light but eventually it spreads and someone most likely will misinterpret and put a negative spin on it. Then worse case scenario the negative information gets back to the person that was the object of the gossip and they find out it was you it was originated from, now you have broken trust to deal with. Open honest communication with the person that is the subject of the information is best way go before it gets to someone else.
reply
Rainbow
I have defiantly gossiped to vent my frustrations. The one subject to this gossip is someone who I have never seen nor meet, so I can only imagine who they are by their hideous actions (not just towards me, but towards others who were at the same event that night) He has caused great grief and anger within me and what could only be imagined as indescribable pain within others. Talking about the event and how horrible that guy was with my friends who were there is sometimes a way for me to let off steam. (and believe me, I would hold the guy accountable if I could)
reply
I have defiantly gossiped to vent my frustrations. The one subject to this gossip is someone who I have never seen nor meet, so I can only imagine who they are by their hideous actions (not just towards me, but towards others who were at the same event that night) He has caused great grief and anger within me and what could only be imagined as indescribable pain within others. Talking about the event and how horrible that guy was with my friends who were there is sometimes a way for me to let off steam. (and believe me, I would hold the guy accountable if I could)
reply
education
This video was so interresting and useful
Gossiping isn't evitable nowadays, whether it is online or offline, and everyone does this, some do gossip more, and some people gossip more depending on the situation and the people they are surrounded with.
Gossiping is really a big issue, and yes it's for weak minds if you do it just for joy or your ego you know.
We must be careful bc at some point gossiping can become a habit.
reply
This video was so interresting and useful
Gossiping isn't evitable nowadays, whether it is online or offline, and everyone does this, some do gossip more, and some people gossip more depending on the situation and the people they are surrounded with.
Gossiping is really a big issue, and yes it's for weak minds if you do it just for joy or your ego you know.
We must be careful bc at some point gossiping can become a habit.
reply
Jack
I live in small village went to work 2500 km away somewhere. then I met someone who was from next village near 100 km from main. we work together start to know each other talk this and that, then the guy started to talk about me to others and everyone called me some names, the employer liked me much but he also called me some racist slang words, I almost lost control of myself and beat that guy, Im not great person but that guy
reply
I live in small village went to work 2500 km away somewhere. then I met someone who was from next village near 100 km from main. we work together start to know each other talk this and that, then the guy started to talk about me to others and everyone called me some names, the employer liked me much but he also called me some racist slang words, I almost lost control of myself and beat that guy, Im not great person but that guy
reply
He
People in my school actually like to gossip about me, make assumption about me and whatsoever because my resting bish face. But, i don't actually mind them doing that. Let them have their own opinion and delusional thingy and i will do my own life as well. And tbh, whenever i heard gossip about me, and thats not true, that gossip became a humour for me personaly. Thanks to them i have a lot more entertainment. Lol.
reply
People in my school actually like to gossip about me, make assumption about me and whatsoever because my resting bish face. But, i don't actually mind them doing that. Let them have their own opinion and delusional thingy and i will do my own life as well. And tbh, whenever i heard gossip about me, and thats not true, that gossip became a humour for me personaly. Thanks to them i have a lot more entertainment. Lol.
reply
Tanzeela
Everyone gossips let them gossip who gives a damn it's just an opinion don't take it too personally
There own lives must be boring who cares about their words words are nothing they mean absolutely nothing be happy with your own self be yourself no matter what people say or think just don't give a damn about them you only have one life to live might as well live your life to the fullest
reply
Everyone gossips let them gossip who gives a damn it's just an opinion don't take it too personally
There own lives must be boring who cares about their words words are nothing they mean absolutely nothing be happy with your own self be yourself no matter what people say or think just don't give a damn about them you only have one life to live might as well live your life to the fullest
reply
Bill
I really hate when a person gossips about me and they put their head down whenever they see me. When people are guilty they need to understand that their body language is powerful when they put their heads down or up, no eye contact and act extremely uncomfortable. I feel like saying to them ''You are so guilty''. At least know how to hide your actions.
reply
I really hate when a person gossips about me and they put their head down whenever they see me. When people are guilty they need to understand that their body language is powerful when they put their heads down or up, no eye contact and act extremely uncomfortable. I feel like saying to them ''You are so guilty''. At least know how to hide your actions.
reply
Zanarkand_0
I used to gossip when I was in High school. It was a horrible and desperate attempt at fitting in.
Now that I'm older I understand why it's wrong. But for reasons far beyond my understanding I had family that still continues to do this shit. literally people in their 60's gossiping and bullying behind our backs. it's so pathetic.
reply
I used to gossip when I was in High school. It was a horrible and desperate attempt at fitting in.
Now that I'm older I understand why it's wrong. But for reasons far beyond my understanding I had family that still continues to do this shit. literally people in their 60's gossiping and bullying behind our backs. it's so pathetic.
reply
DonSam
In my former workplace i think gossiping is so contagious. I have no energy for gossiping and i just do my work. Im a victim of those people who make stories and gossips. I tend not to care and still kind to these people. But my mental and emotional health get stall. I resigned from that job.
reply
In my former workplace i think gossiping is so contagious. I have no energy for gossiping and i just do my work. Im a victim of those people who make stories and gossips. I tend not to care and still kind to these people. But my mental and emotional health get stall. I resigned from that job.
reply
Ena
I don't like people that gossip. Its just rude. Im not interested in such actions. If you think something of someone, better tell them to their face then talk behind their back and never face them. I cut out ppl like that out my life cuz who knows what they talk about then behind my back.
reply
I don't like people that gossip. Its just rude. Im not interested in such actions. If you think something of someone, better tell them to their face then talk behind their back and never face them. I cut out ppl like that out my life cuz who knows what they talk about then behind my back.
reply
Soy
if this is not in the list then what is it called:
You talk about someone because they do it to you and worst and you just tell someone with thrush they won't tell anyone that you said they are bad and that they were hurting your feelings and can't keep it just to themself!
reply
if this is not in the list then what is it called:
You talk about someone because they do it to you and worst and you just tell someone with thrush they won't tell anyone that you said they are bad and that they were hurting your feelings and can't keep it just to themself!
reply
Georgiana
One of the reasons some people gossip is because they're envious of that person's success. Another reason is that there are many people that prefer to gossip rather than get to know that person better or do a small research about the situation or problem.
reply
One of the reasons some people gossip is because they're envious of that person's success. Another reason is that there are many people that prefer to gossip rather than get to know that person better or do a small research about the situation or problem.
reply
Cloudzy
I actually dont gossip but I had a class mate, I wasnt her friend but she always tried to stick with me but all she did was talking at people's back, soon I realised what she was doing was wrong so I just got off and stopped havig interactions with her.
reply
I actually dont gossip but I had a class mate, I wasnt her friend but she always tried to stick with me but all she did was talking at people's back, soon I realised what she was doing was wrong so I just got off and stopped havig interactions with her.
reply
Lulu
People also gossip if someone else they hate gossip about them, my best friend's bully gossiped about my best friend so she started gossiping about her and telling me stuff, but i listen because i think that makes her more happy and better so i listen
reply
People also gossip if someone else they hate gossip about them, my best friend's bully gossiped about my best friend so she started gossiping about her and telling me stuff, but i listen because i think that makes her more happy and better so i listen
reply
Jigimon
I'd much rather have no friends that gain fake friends by talking smack about others. People like that are shallow, toxic and easily replaceable. When more attractive or successful friend comes along, you will become non-existent and irrelevant.
reply
I'd much rather have no friends that gain fake friends by talking smack about others. People like that are shallow, toxic and easily replaceable. When more attractive or successful friend comes along, you will become non-existent and irrelevant.
reply
D.
Gossiping about others only speaks the truth about how they have too much time on their hands. They are real cowards, instead of speaking to a person face to face, they'd rather say false things about others that is farther from the truth.
reply
Gossiping about others only speaks the truth about how they have too much time on their hands. They are real cowards, instead of speaking to a person face to face, they'd rather say false things about others that is farther from the truth.
reply
Rik-key
Especially that last one in the video is what i do. Dont talk to jealous people they often have a victim mentality and arent really open to admit their own flaws! They rather put blame on others instead of changing themselves!
reply
Especially that last one in the video is what i do. Dont talk to jealous people they often have a victim mentality and arent really open to admit their own flaws! They rather put blame on others instead of changing themselves!
reply
Sasha
Enemies love to laugh at your downfall screaming just fight them luv!
. jk all you got to do is PRAY! Ask God for his blessings unto you will be so big your enemies will be mad from all the hate they wished you
reply
Enemies love to laugh at your downfall screaming just fight them luv!
. jk all you got to do is PRAY! Ask God for his blessings unto you will be so big your enemies will be mad from all the hate they wished you
reply
Sarah
Is it bad I gossip about my friend? I always warn my other friends about the rude things she says to me. Shes honestly a fake friend but Im scared if I stop being friends with her shell tell everyone my secrets.
reply
Is it bad I gossip about my friend? I always warn my other friends about the rude things she says to me. Shes honestly a fake friend but Im scared if I stop being friends with her shell tell everyone my secrets.
reply
Anime
People around us do that and the thing is they don't even know anything about me nor try to get to know me so in turn others believe them when those people don't know me either. I hope I am making sense
reply
People around us do that and the thing is they don't even know anything about me nor try to get to know me so in turn others believe them when those people don't know me either. I hope I am making sense
reply
extrapathos
Can gossiping be positive?
Cause I often talk about people in a good way and about their achievements and such. Also if someone talks negative about someone else I always try to defend them.
reply
Can gossiping be positive?
Cause I often talk about people in a good way and about their achievements and such. Also if someone talks negative about someone else I always try to defend them.
reply
Add a review, comment
Other channel videos
