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6 Subtle Signs of Bullying

6 Subtle Signs of Bullying

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Bullying comes in all forms and ways, such as cyberbullying, verbal abuse, spreading rumors, and so on. Bullies dont have criteria when it comes to peoples self-worth, they have a constant need to put others down. So it doesnt matter what you do, who you are, where you come from, what you say or have, everyone is prone to becoming a victim of bullying. The good news is, the signs of bullying can be noticeable even in the early stages of oppression. By learning all these signs, we can become more aware of the situation and deal with it quicker. If you want to know what these signs are, so carry on watching this video. If you related to this video and want to learn about bullying in the form of emotional abuse, we've got that covered as well
Date: 2023-08-20

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When I was in elementary I was verbally bullied quite intensly, they would make fun of me and my friends, call us names, etc. I can't even remember most of the time between 3rd and 5th grade (time I was bullied) in 6th grade the pandemic started and we were on lockdown, not having to see them everyday made my life so much better.
In 7th grade I had to get therapy because I wasn't able to socialise, it frustrated my mom and I literally had a breakdown in front of her, I almost commited su1c1de once because of that as well.
In the middle of 9th grade my teacher sat me at a table close to a certain kid (let's call him A) he had a friend (B) and they started to tease me, at first they would make sounds like 'ewwww' when I would walk by a one of their tables, then they started to tease my friend as well, whenever we'd talk they would say things like 'shhhhhh' it was very annoying so I reached out to my teacher, she said that when we'll have a new sitting arrangement she will sit me away from him, I come back from vacation and there's no new sitting arrangement, I wait a month and only about then there's a new sitting arrangement and I'm away from him, end of story' right
Wrong, they keep making fun of us and now I'm sure that some of the girls in my class are also in it as well.
But I was doing better I had some new friends from other classes so my parents decided to take me out of therapy.
A month later we're having our yearbook photos taken, I have curly hair, and I didn't brush it for a while and my mother decided to put half my hair up in a clip.
I'm quite a reserved girl and on my way to school I listen to music with my headphones, which is part of the reason I believe they chose me as their target, after all if I can't hear 'em, I probably won't notice although I did even before the incident I'm about to describe.
Anyways I'm on my way to class listening to music when I get a little bored of listening to music, so I decided to stop the music but keep my headphones on, I got into the class sit down and I hear him say 'The girl at the car wash' something along the lines of that, I hear B and the other girls in my class giggling, he said a few more things about my hair, I don't remember, but I decided I had enough, I went to the principal and told her.
They suspended him I think, called his mom, I was told I wasn't his first victim.
But the damage was done, and now I have picked up a few habits like when I go to school in the morning don't go straight to class but to one of the benches near it, and when recess starts go right out of it, to avoid confrontation make sure no one knows what you're watching or doing on your phone because you know the kids make fun of you for liking anime, you don't want them to find out you're a gamer too, and if you think they are laughing at you pause the video and listen for a few seconds, 'cause they probably are and you can't trust anyone.
As I am writing this I'm stuck in a field trip with my class and both A, B and the girls I'm sure were laughing at me are there and to make matters worse my ex best friend is friends with them, not surprised though, she was very toxic looking back, I feel like shit.

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no one might care but Im in 6th grade and in fifth grade i met these two girls well One I new since 1st grade but but we had not been in the same class since 1st grade and she and the other girl i met were nice at first but then i stop being friend with my other friend and they told me that we should jump her but i did not want to but then they got mad but before we planed to do it a teacher found out they got in trouble cause 2 other friends i had were also force to do that and did not and they told the teacher it was their idea so later on they wanted to do a tiktok dances and i didn't want to but i still did and these 2 boys in my class were also there so me and my friend were team up and they pick our team name and called us the shorties and they all laughed at us then i did not want to the dance and neither did my friend so then they called us to dance first but we were shy and uncomfortble and they wanted us to sing to but we didnt want to so we search the song on the school laptop but they kept rushing us then the 2 boys were laughing at me and my friend and said we were being annoying then recess ended we walk to science but they gave us dirty looks and were talking about us it made me want to cry to think i was humiliated by my own so call friends when science ended i walked up to them and they all look at me as if i was a germ a monster then the one i new since 1st grade said omg can someone come behind me so just walked to the back of the line we went to lunch they sat in front of us i was trying to wave at my little brother and cause he walk behind that girl who was my so call friend and i looked her in the eye and she looked at me with this looked on her faced so i looked down and ate my lunch with my other friend we didn't even say anything to eachother cause we new they would judge us so we just eated quietly as they said stuff about us
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Heres a story about me being bullied. First thing first, when I was in 5th grade I wasnt as tall as other kids. I was about 4-1. At the start of 5th grade I noticed other people were taller/larger than they were last year. Then I look back to me and notice that Ive barely changed at all. I would always ask god why he made me like this and I always thought I was weird, but I soon learned that Im just unique. So at the 2 semester almost 3rd, there was this kid that would bully me because of my height. I thought he would stop soon, but he wouldnt. I decided to tell my dad about it after he put up a sign that said Short Evans matter which made me very upset and angry. When I told my dad I cried a lot, but we contacted my principal and teacher. After that he stopped, but soon later something else happened. I was playing recess and I say to a supervisor they arent letting people play and then he said I dont think 3rd graders are supposed to be playing with 5th graders. I took this very personally and I said I dont think old people are supposed to be teachers. After that I got a major which is very bad. I told my principal about this and my dad. In the end the teacher got fired and I spent the rest of the year being called small, smalls, smally, dwarf, and those small people from Charlie and the chocolate factory. And again I wasnt a dwarf and was just not growing that fast. And thats the story of how I was bullied
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Hey! Im in school and i was being called a bully because there was a person spamming in chat and i wanted to kick them as in ban They did not listen and still spammed, so i kicked them. See, this person talks a-lot, which bothers me a little, so i told her in a nice way and said I know, my other friends told me something. The next day, she didnt come to school cause she was scared of me. I wasnt alone. My other friends were there to, so they got in trouble as well. When i said kick she took it literally like the action. I was hoping if you can do a side with how to apologize to someone when u are the bully, because i didnt know i was bullying her. Oh WHATS MY LUCK! Ugh im typing this the April 19, 2023. Tomorrow is my birthday. I totally love today i mean. If u can do a series where u can do the bullys point of view but in a way to help to apologize and tips to stop and overcome, it would mean a-lot! Thank you some much! love ur vids(sorry u think im to mean, i didnt want to hurt here, it broke me to)
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The one who cares about his classmates and giving them things what they wanted like money, fish, or plants but some days later. His friends are starting to act unfriendly anymore like ignoring, roll eyes, manipulating me, bullying me, calling me bald things on my rear hair. And he started to feel isolated and lonely and he knew my classmate was right to observe they're actions but he acted same too, now, he felt like being used by his classmates for money and things and his classmates don't know how much he loved them. And yes that's me i forgive my classmates but they still do the same thing and which makes me to attempt self injury like slapping myself or punch my self i have low self esteem because of my betraying friends. I knew they were fake friends, the true friend is the one who cares about him and never use him for money and things they always care to their friends. But i never had one
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Actually today I got bullied. So I was at recess and there was 7th and 8th graders staring at me and pointing and also keeps laughing. I really did not go what was going on so I went to the slide just to sit there. Then a 7th or 8th grader grabbed me and held me still and another one was cutting a little bit of my hair. They also said to me your a B! TCH, UGLY, FAT, AND YOU SHOULD NOT BE HEAR! When they said that I got really sad and started crying. So when they let me go I ran and I went to hide. After recess was over I could not stop crying so the teacher told me to come there. So when I went there my teacher said, whats wrong? And I said nothing. When I got home I ran to my room and watched this video. After my best friend called me and I play with her everyday but today said, Im busy. I also draw everyday but I did not. The next day I told my teacher and she talked to thos bullyies
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It really annoys me that everyone keeps on saying to reach out for help. I was a victim and it just broke my life so bad that I ended up feeling so distant with people and it feels so hard to trust someone. Ive tried reaching out to people so many times to help me get through this, but all i got was being ignored or being told deal it yourself idk how to help you and venting is like seeking for attention, you are really annoying, its better to keep it to yourself if you dont want to seek for unnecessary attention. Surprisingly they are the same people who told me if you want to vent, im here to listen. So it seems useless to reach out to people for help, they dont give a shit about your life and I just stopped doing it. Its better for me to let the negative thoughts build up inside me rather than feeling abandoned when i really seek for help. I just gave up.
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Theres this one person whos a family friend, who always comes around and acts really nice and polite. But whenever Im given the opportunity to help myself, and be a good person, he does it himself. It also happens a lot when Im trying to have a conversation with people, and he just takes it over.
And I KNOW he does it on purpose because Ive told him multiple times about my low self-image and my own feelings of inadequacy. And the worst part is, I used to trust him, and tell him these things because I saw him as a guidance figure, and a good friend. But nowadays hes always brushing me aside and acting superior in a very covert, and hurtful way.

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one of the greatest pieces of advice i've ever gotten in my life was from my mom. you know, when i was a little kid, there was a kid who was bugging me in school. she said, okay, i'm gonna tell you what to do. the kid's bugging you, if he puts his hands on you. you pick up the nearest rock or whatever you can get your hands on, and you lay him out. then i did. and i felt better. and it worked. and so for me, that was a great lesson. because someone had invaded my space, invaded my being, you know. and was doing something against me that i didn't want to be done. so i took control of the situation and i ran with it. -- Johnny Depp
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Well its more of them making fun of and insulting me and my friends and Im scared theyll actually hurt us. So I just wanna know if ignoring them is a good thing like what should I do? One of my friends is more of an easy target for them and my friend gets irritated and says stuff out loud sort of like mumbling. The bullies just shout things out in the middle of the classroom. Also most of my classmates already dislike her and talk badly behind our backs. So basically its us vs the whole class, the bullies are popular so they influence how other ppl think about us. What should I do?
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Ive previously been the target of social and Verbal bullying. The reason I am here is because I am still recovering from it. There have been several times when I would just cry for hours because of it. My mom tried helping me but it just was no use. I tried talking to the school social worker (while in literal tears) but they dismissed it as girl drama and tried to tell me it was my fault. Im still being bullied. Just not as badly. Mainly because Ive just had to manually remove myself as nobody would do it for me. Bullying is no joke, thats shit does stuff to you.
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Hi, so if anybody reads this, I've been having a huge problem in school. One of my old friends and I got in a huge fight, so we ovc aren't friends anymore, then my other friend and her were enemies and became friends again. Mia(I'm using this name for privacy) mia was the one that was my old friend and Sophia was my current friend. She became friends with Mia and they teamed up on me. I got told to kms. I don't even know what I did. She chocked my bsf. She, are me loose all my friends (mia) and she said to not go near her or she would kill ke.
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Over the years, this thing about bullying has become what concerns me the most. Today I see men of the same age or slightly younger and their body language and face have now taught me as a behavioral scientist and researcher, this is someone who was bullied once upon a time. damn this is ruining these people's whole lives. It sits in at the age of 40, 50. I wouldn't have thought so. But I see it now. Thank God that these days this is curbed directly in Swedish schools. Although so much else has gone wrong, this has been curbed.
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I just lost control and broke down crying when she said it's not your fault. My bullies will never know how profoundly hurt and sad and broken I am all these years later. I'm a 37 year old man that still sometimes cries himself to sleep like I did in high school when I was bullied. All of my problems with mental health, self-esteem, substance abuse and suicide attempts can be directly traced back to my teenage years and the bullying that came with them.
They destroyed me for life. Permanently broke me.

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A lot of people here says Ask for help. But guess what? In reality, people will just turn a blind eye. They won't even help because they don't want to interfere or get in trouble. Been there done that. All the bullies I've seen in life are happy now and they don't even suffered. The victim have to go through with all the pain for the rest of their life and it is extremely heartbreaking and cruel
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I'm in the middle of being bullied. I broke up with a bf. Since I lost feelings. He turned my friends against me and its been 3 months now. Whenever one of them see me, it's a new opportunity to yell or just even standing close for example one of them stood so close their shoulder touched mine. I'm beginning to believe it's turning into a form of harrasment since I'm not even bothering them.
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Well, today, I got heavily bullied by my own friends, which they've been doing it since I was a minor. and they made me feel contemptuous. They've been calling me out with the rudest name, and today, they were bullying me in front of random people and they started me bullying me with them and they was instigating me to leave or either give them replies and at that moment my brain was numb
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Ive been bullied by Mexicans and Mexican-Americans for my lifestyle. Ive been called the gringo and Chicano, which are offensive terms used to describe Mexican-Americans, and witnessed people bullying Mexican-Americans who refuse to adapt to the Mexican culture. One time, my dad yelled at me for eating American food. It got to the point where I developed depression and anxiety.
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1: 20 I liked when she was mentioning the symptoms of bullying, it helped a lotttt! It made me feel like I wasn't alone, and that this information is sooo true. The bully I'm dealing with got in my head. She made me believe in her insults, and she also flipped me off. Straightforward to my point, I like how the Narrator has known my symptoms without even asking me or knowing me.
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I've get bullied for 5 years still get bullied and all these signs i relate to but my parents think im faking it that i just want attention and my friend who knows all of this act like it never happend and makes me even more insecure their talking behind my back and if i will ever kms they will be suprised please look out for ur friends even if you dont like them that much
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I like to say Im not a victim I am a SURVIVOR ima be here bullying has affected my life in ways I dont like to talk about. It came to the point as an adult I now wake up drinking everyday, people say youre grown that shouldnt bother you anymore, yes I am grown, but it happened for years BrUH, but when I became the aggressive one, I became the problem
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The thing is, I honestly cant tell, but I struggle with all of these problems. This girl at my school teases me and calls me out in front of class everyday that Im there because of my religion. She spreads rumors and now people are afraid of me or just dont want to talk to me. Now everyone knows and some people dont stand up for me because of my religion.
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It's hard for me to talk about my bullies and when I finally got the courage my parents said to my face Are you surprised? that hurts. I don't want to be judged by the fact that I didn't (and still don't) do well with my bullies. At school they say they've changed, a total lie on their part. When someone says that, I want to kill them.
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I think one of my friends might be getting bullied, I'm really concerned for them, but we're not that close and they keep insisting they don't need help, and the people who are being mean used to be really nice but suddenly became jearks and I don't know what's happening anymore, I'm just really concerned.
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What i want to know is how bullies learn to do what they do. All these complex methods of passive-aggressive behaviour and getting under their victims' skin
Tjings like tjis require analytical thinking which is beyond them
Or, do they just learn from someone in their family and copy them?

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