Do You Always Feel So Alone? This Might Be Why
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Samdal
I had alot of friends but either people left me or I drifted away, I only have one friend left that I see on the regular, they have been there for me countless of times and I feel like I do not deserve to have this person as a friend, and I feel guilty when I want personal space or feel tired when I hang out with them. Im also just generally bad at getting close to people recently I think, and so I feel like im keeping them from having other friends, I'm very thankful to have them but I'm just so tired and confused about everything and I feel numb, I miss all the people that used to be there or the people who could have become my friends but I never reached out to, So I just feel kind of empty and lonely despite that I'm not completely alone just yet. I kinda feel like I'm just preparing for when my last friend leaves me too: ( I got to have one moment where I felt like I had social connections and many knew me and I knew many but now It's gone and idk if everyone actually hates me or if it's just my brain telling me that they do. I'm so tired
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I had alot of friends but either people left me or I drifted away, I only have one friend left that I see on the regular, they have been there for me countless of times and I feel like I do not deserve to have this person as a friend, and I feel guilty when I want personal space or feel tired when I hang out with them. Im also just generally bad at getting close to people recently I think, and so I feel like im keeping them from having other friends, I'm very thankful to have them but I'm just so tired and confused about everything and I feel numb, I miss all the people that used to be there or the people who could have become my friends but I never reached out to, So I just feel kind of empty and lonely despite that I'm not completely alone just yet. I kinda feel like I'm just preparing for when my last friend leaves me too: ( I got to have one moment where I felt like I had social connections and many knew me and I knew many but now It's gone and idk if everyone actually hates me or if it's just my brain telling me that they do. I'm so tired
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Tony
I lost 7 years of my life being in prison. Within those 7 years the world has changed immensely. Theres so many things that have come and gone that I never had the chance to experience (and I understand thats all my fault)
I find new things, things that interest me and make me happy but what brings me down most, what makes me feel alone, is when I share with others the things that Ive found and discovered to make me happy. They always tell me the same thing, that its old news, that everyone has moved on, that that isnt fun to anyone anymore. It hurts cause I just think: I dont have anyone to share anything with.
Im getting by just being on my own, but I do wish I could make friends
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I lost 7 years of my life being in prison. Within those 7 years the world has changed immensely. Theres so many things that have come and gone that I never had the chance to experience (and I understand thats all my fault)
I find new things, things that interest me and make me happy but what brings me down most, what makes me feel alone, is when I share with others the things that Ive found and discovered to make me happy. They always tell me the same thing, that its old news, that everyone has moved on, that that isnt fun to anyone anymore. It hurts cause I just think: I dont have anyone to share anything with.
Im getting by just being on my own, but I do wish I could make friends
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Ali
All what she said in video I'm experiencing now. I'm really tired of studying but I can't stop I feel like it is a duty to be the 1st on the class and if I get down grades sometime I feel like I want to suicide. and sometimes I be depressed bc of my appearance. I just dk what to do I'm feeling lonely and all the ppl that know me are saying that now I'm different and they always ask why I'm sad but I feel like all the life problems are on me. I just sometimes want to escape. and also i feel like my friends dont want me or like i cant fit with them. I can't write more. I dk what is happening.
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All what she said in video I'm experiencing now. I'm really tired of studying but I can't stop I feel like it is a duty to be the 1st on the class and if I get down grades sometime I feel like I want to suicide. and sometimes I be depressed bc of my appearance. I just dk what to do I'm feeling lonely and all the ppl that know me are saying that now I'm different and they always ask why I'm sad but I feel like all the life problems are on me. I just sometimes want to escape. and also i feel like my friends dont want me or like i cant fit with them. I can't write more. I dk what is happening.
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Peank-Pink
I know I am really like REALLY late to this video (btw I love your videos Psy) but I just need to talk at least to comment section. Idk what is going on now, but I started to be alone at class, eat alone, just do everything alone. I even find myself talking to the same people over and over again, and if they don't talk to me but to someone else, I feel jealous because I can't talk with new people. Basically I just can't make new friends and I'm stucked at that 2-3 people. And I can't even talk to my classmates even tho we've been so many years together.
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I know I am really like REALLY late to this video (btw I love your videos Psy) but I just need to talk at least to comment section. Idk what is going on now, but I started to be alone at class, eat alone, just do everything alone. I even find myself talking to the same people over and over again, and if they don't talk to me but to someone else, I feel jealous because I can't talk with new people. Basically I just can't make new friends and I'm stucked at that 2-3 people. And I can't even talk to my classmates even tho we've been so many years together.
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Rohihn
I've been alone my whole life, I'm 35 and every woman I have opened up to has left. My brother killed himself and my sister was killed by a drunk driver. I've always known that my depression is part of a natural cycle that is designed to drive me to procreate, seek comfort in others, and just create things in general. Without all the comforts we have created in the world depression would look alot different. But my biggest question is did depression exist before we had the ability to see everything in the world that we COULD be doing but aren't?
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I've been alone my whole life, I'm 35 and every woman I have opened up to has left. My brother killed himself and my sister was killed by a drunk driver. I've always known that my depression is part of a natural cycle that is designed to drive me to procreate, seek comfort in others, and just create things in general. Without all the comforts we have created in the world depression would look alot different. But my biggest question is did depression exist before we had the ability to see everything in the world that we COULD be doing but aren't?
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Princess
I went through a lot last and this year. I got thrown out from my parents, lived in a womens shelter meanwhile I was trying to get my graduation from high school and last literally my last nerve. I changed so hard that the people around me started to critize me for letting myself go and staying silent all the time. I lost all my friends because they couldnt handle the change or even the fact that my family is so broken. I cant talk to anyone because I dont want to be vulnerable but I cant force myself acting happy or normal.
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I went through a lot last and this year. I got thrown out from my parents, lived in a womens shelter meanwhile I was trying to get my graduation from high school and last literally my last nerve. I changed so hard that the people around me started to critize me for letting myself go and staying silent all the time. I lost all my friends because they couldnt handle the change or even the fact that my family is so broken. I cant talk to anyone because I dont want to be vulnerable but I cant force myself acting happy or normal.
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Arsen
What about this?
I'm blind, going to my freshmen year at high school, in distance lerning mode for a year, can't make any friends at school because of the restrictions, can't speak to my best friends back in Armenia because of the 12 hour difference, can't go out much, have a lot of pointless homework and some shitty teachers, and because of not having many friends at school feeling like a piece of shit.
I mean if that kind girl at my science class didn't notice my presence then I wouldn't know what to do.
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What about this?
I'm blind, going to my freshmen year at high school, in distance lerning mode for a year, can't make any friends at school because of the restrictions, can't speak to my best friends back in Armenia because of the 12 hour difference, can't go out much, have a lot of pointless homework and some shitty teachers, and because of not having many friends at school feeling like a piece of shit.
I mean if that kind girl at my science class didn't notice my presence then I wouldn't know what to do.
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Make
Being someone who has been getting through the deepest grief and depression after my brother passing away, changing my environment has helped immensely, and almost immediately! Yes, I downgraded and Im living at a new roommates place at nearly 40, but Im glad for the adventure. I needed a change. Dont be afraid. It can be the thing that lifts you out of the sadness. I had no reason to live for years. Im so glad I made one last change. Nothing is permanent. Youve got this
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Being someone who has been getting through the deepest grief and depression after my brother passing away, changing my environment has helped immensely, and almost immediately! Yes, I downgraded and Im living at a new roommates place at nearly 40, but Im glad for the adventure. I needed a change. Dont be afraid. It can be the thing that lifts you out of the sadness. I had no reason to live for years. Im so glad I made one last change. Nothing is permanent. Youve got this
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Cade
Damn. I'm a college student in engineering, diagnosed with depression, just went through not only a breakup last week, but the death of my grandmother. On top of that, I'm a guy, and have childhood PTSD.
I really wish God would just take me up to heaven. I want to sit at a table with my closest friends, eating and laughing, sitting next to a girl I love. I want my life to mean something. I want community. Why is it so hard to connect to others?
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Damn. I'm a college student in engineering, diagnosed with depression, just went through not only a breakup last week, but the death of my grandmother. On top of that, I'm a guy, and have childhood PTSD.
I really wish God would just take me up to heaven. I want to sit at a table with my closest friends, eating and laughing, sitting next to a girl I love. I want my life to mean something. I want community. Why is it so hard to connect to others?
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nintendy
Except the example of childhood trauma, all these examples of loneliness are pretty much self-inflicted. How about those of us who are GENUINELY lonely - because they have no friends or family they could connect with? All these types of Videos, merely cater for those who are lonely through 'reasons' they can control, and have no practical use or information, or help for those of us dealing with the true meaning of loneness.
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Except the example of childhood trauma, all these examples of loneliness are pretty much self-inflicted. How about those of us who are GENUINELY lonely - because they have no friends or family they could connect with? All these types of Videos, merely cater for those who are lonely through 'reasons' they can control, and have no practical use or information, or help for those of us dealing with the true meaning of loneness.
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Rashmi
I am so happy when ever I am with my friends but every day with friends not possible. I dont think I have depression but, I feel that my husband doesnt care about me. I want to talk with me but he doesnt have time for me. He feels always irritated with me. I am crying by my self he doesnt notice. I felt something burning inside of me. this feels so hell with out any reason. am I in depression?
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I am so happy when ever I am with my friends but every day with friends not possible. I dont think I have depression but, I feel that my husband doesnt care about me. I want to talk with me but he doesnt have time for me. He feels always irritated with me. I am crying by my self he doesnt notice. I felt something burning inside of me. this feels so hell with out any reason. am I in depression?
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matt
I have social anxiety and its so alienating to be the only one not talking to people it makes me feel so alone that I cant connect with anyone or no one wants to be around me because of awkwardness caused by anxiety its very painful especially when you want to socialize but cant because Im frozen in fear and nervousness
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I have social anxiety and its so alienating to be the only one not talking to people it makes me feel so alone that I cant connect with anyone or no one wants to be around me because of awkwardness caused by anxiety its very painful especially when you want to socialize but cant because Im frozen in fear and nervousness
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C'mon
PLEASE I DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M FEELING I can't figured it out. And I can't tell my parents because if they ask how do I feel, I can't answer them because I also don't know. I just feel lonely, empty or whaterverrr IDK why. I feel like crying please tell me I'm not the only one, what do I do?
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PLEASE I DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M FEELING I can't figured it out. And I can't tell my parents because if they ask how do I feel, I can't answer them because I also don't know. I just feel lonely, empty or whaterverrr IDK why. I feel like crying please tell me I'm not the only one, what do I do?
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TILE-
I feel lonely because I don't have my life together, which causes me to believe that I am maleficent in giving attention to people I want to like friends and family. One thing that comes up in my mind is, Why would I talk to anyone if I can't hold up my end of the deal? So I save energy.
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I feel lonely because I don't have my life together, which causes me to believe that I am maleficent in giving attention to people I want to like friends and family. One thing that comes up in my mind is, Why would I talk to anyone if I can't hold up my end of the deal? So I save energy.
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GnopKing
In my life I had only one true deep friend that has sticked with me for decades, no matters the distance and life changes, he always got my back as I got his.
Yet many times I feel alone, but I'm done blaming myself for it.
I can't be the only wrong person in this world.
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In my life I had only one true deep friend that has sticked with me for decades, no matters the distance and life changes, he always got my back as I got his.
Yet many times I feel alone, but I'm done blaming myself for it.
I can't be the only wrong person in this world.
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Ray
I've been going down a Psych2Go rabbit hole lately. Mental health has been getting bad, so I've been trying to sort out my confusion. Last week, I was watching videos about how I might be connecting with someone. This week, I'm watching videos about feeling alone. I'm a mess, lol.
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I've been going down a Psych2Go rabbit hole lately. Mental health has been getting bad, so I've been trying to sort out my confusion. Last week, I was watching videos about how I might be connecting with someone. This week, I'm watching videos about feeling alone. I'm a mess, lol.
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yoshigirl
urgh i feel like no one will ever understand i was sick when i was little & im dealing with the aftermath im mentally behind i have hering loss is it wrong 2 fell cunfused i dont relly know who i am i feel like peopple mostly my parents r teling me im parinoid
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urgh i feel like no one will ever understand i was sick when i was little & im dealing with the aftermath im mentally behind i have hering loss is it wrong 2 fell cunfused i dont relly know who i am i feel like peopple mostly my parents r teling me im parinoid
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Remco
Having no-one to go home to, can also cause extreme lonelyness. Knowing you're not missed and/or will be missed to. Or the fact everything is so, platonic, like you are there, people seem to be interested in you, but they really aren't at all.
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Having no-one to go home to, can also cause extreme lonelyness. Knowing you're not missed and/or will be missed to. Or the fact everything is so, platonic, like you are there, people seem to be interested in you, but they really aren't at all.
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Lin
Ive felt alone for years. I dont have any friends, more like acquaintances. I dont feel connected to anybody. I cant meet new people because of my anxiety and lack of self esteem. I have accepted that some people are meant to be alone.
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Ive felt alone for years. I dont have any friends, more like acquaintances. I dont feel connected to anybody. I cant meet new people because of my anxiety and lack of self esteem. I have accepted that some people are meant to be alone.
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Obama
nothing helps man. i'm 20 now, and i've never felt so alone. i don't know if this is some kind of edgy phase and cringe stuff like that. i just feel like everyone i know starts to distance away from me.
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nothing helps man. i'm 20 now, and i've never felt so alone. i don't know if this is some kind of edgy phase and cringe stuff like that. i just feel like everyone i know starts to distance away from me.
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qwid
but what if i didn't find any friend yet? I mean, i don't have a single friend or a single person that speaks with me so how can i spend time with loved ones if i don't have? Family doesen't count
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but what if i didn't find any friend yet? I mean, i don't have a single friend or a single person that speaks with me so how can i spend time with loved ones if i don't have? Family doesen't count
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Josephine
( To me. this person's voice as well as these animated little ones with leaves/flowers on their heads are the BEST of all previous video's. Voice so soothing, animated not frightening etc )
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( To me. this person's voice as well as these animated little ones with leaves/flowers on their heads are the BEST of all previous video's. Voice so soothing, animated not frightening etc )
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Beeresh
Loved once?
There are none loved ones
all ignore me because I doesn't match their standards in all aspects
Why.
I just want friend who just ask me
How does I feel
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Loved once?
There are none loved ones
all ignore me because I doesn't match their standards in all aspects
Why.
I just want friend who just ask me
How does I feel
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min
From crying over donghua/manhua/novel, stressing over exams, studying while crying, to the happiest day after a long time today but yet the loneliness I feel is taunting me. I want to sleep
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From crying over donghua/manhua/novel, stressing over exams, studying while crying, to the happiest day after a long time today but yet the loneliness I feel is taunting me. I want to sleep
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Torchens
If I showed this to my parents, they'd get to 3: 52 and just be like, aha, that's it. See, that's all it is, now get off your technology and play with the dog since no one else does.
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If I showed this to my parents, they'd get to 3: 52 and just be like, aha, that's it. See, that's all it is, now get off your technology and play with the dog since no one else does.
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