6 Signs Of People Who Have Been Abused
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Ilovemydogchloe
My older brother choked me a lot when I was younger. Im 13. Whenever he got mad he would choke me. He got mad really easily. Like he would get mad a small things. Like I remember he made a bowl of cereal once and I made one right after he made one and he choked me for copying him I tried telling my parents and they never listened. They always said things like all siblings fight but I knew that it wasnt normal. Even at 5 years old I knew. This went on up til I was like 10. I would keep trying to tell my parents and finally my dad did something about it. But now. Hes 16 and Im 13 and I try to talk to him and hes so mean to me whenever I try to talk to him. He says not to go in his room so I dont. I said ok then u dont go in my room. He just barges into my room and I get mad at him and he says what are you gonna do. But when I just go in his room to tell him something he starts yelling at me. Also question is choking abuse? Like btw it wasnt just like a soft choke. No like I got lifted off the ground when I got choked. It was scary. And I felt helpless. I remember at 7 I tried to teach myself how to fight. I made a entire dojo kinda thing. I set up like punching bags that I made out of stuffed animals. I think its also affected me a lot. Every time my brother is next to me I feel kind of scared. I love my brother but he doesnt love me. I want to have a normal sibling relationship. But no. I guess I cant. Oh and my parents still to this day defend him for a lot of things. And they get mad at me. He also is really manipulative. Also Im a Catholic and yknow he isnt really so he trys to make me feel worried by saying wow thats a sin your gonna go to hell for that. He knows Im kinda scrupulous and so he trys to make me worried. And I end up thinking about that sin all day. I cant stand him. Hes going to collage in 2 years so I guess Ill have to deal with him until then
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My older brother choked me a lot when I was younger. Im 13. Whenever he got mad he would choke me. He got mad really easily. Like he would get mad a small things. Like I remember he made a bowl of cereal once and I made one right after he made one and he choked me for copying him I tried telling my parents and they never listened. They always said things like all siblings fight but I knew that it wasnt normal. Even at 5 years old I knew. This went on up til I was like 10. I would keep trying to tell my parents and finally my dad did something about it. But now. Hes 16 and Im 13 and I try to talk to him and hes so mean to me whenever I try to talk to him. He says not to go in his room so I dont. I said ok then u dont go in my room. He just barges into my room and I get mad at him and he says what are you gonna do. But when I just go in his room to tell him something he starts yelling at me. Also question is choking abuse? Like btw it wasnt just like a soft choke. No like I got lifted off the ground when I got choked. It was scary. And I felt helpless. I remember at 7 I tried to teach myself how to fight. I made a entire dojo kinda thing. I set up like punching bags that I made out of stuffed animals. I think its also affected me a lot. Every time my brother is next to me I feel kind of scared. I love my brother but he doesnt love me. I want to have a normal sibling relationship. But no. I guess I cant. Oh and my parents still to this day defend him for a lot of things. And they get mad at me. He also is really manipulative. Also Im a Catholic and yknow he isnt really so he trys to make me feel worried by saying wow thats a sin your gonna go to hell for that. He knows Im kinda scrupulous and so he trys to make me worried. And I end up thinking about that sin all day. I cant stand him. Hes going to collage in 2 years so I guess Ill have to deal with him until then
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Nikoy
I was mentally, emotionally, end physically abused and neglected as a child. I got hit for waking up in the morning. I was emotionally blackmailed. I was often unable to go to school because i didn't have any transportation. Because of this, and other depressing factors, i barely graduated high school. They also didn't provide me any money for college, despite treating themselves to trips and expensive dinners every night. When they'd go to these dinners they'd neglect to provide me and my younger sister with food. I learned to cook when i was 11 to combat this, but it just made them neglect feeding us even more. I binge eat often because i still fear that someday i won't have food. I never went to a regular doctor and have extensive tooth decay that i deal with even today. I got a full time job right after high school to try funding my escape, but I ended up moving in with an alcoholic roomate who i used all of my savings trying to relocate myself from. I'm now 23 years old and am still desperately trying to get myself back into college through a program at my current job. I should hopefully start again in the fall. Most of my friends from high school are finishing their degrees, whereas im still trying to start mine. Its extremely disheartening but hopefully i can obtain a case worker who'll help me navigate the adult world i was never guided into. My dream is to financially unbind myself from my parents so i can live a stable and happy life ive built with people i care for and trust. I want my life to be a light hearted comedy instead of a tragedy or drama. That's all i want. Hopefully me putting this out there will help me in making it come true. I need all the help i can get so universe, please be kind to me.
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I was mentally, emotionally, end physically abused and neglected as a child. I got hit for waking up in the morning. I was emotionally blackmailed. I was often unable to go to school because i didn't have any transportation. Because of this, and other depressing factors, i barely graduated high school. They also didn't provide me any money for college, despite treating themselves to trips and expensive dinners every night. When they'd go to these dinners they'd neglect to provide me and my younger sister with food. I learned to cook when i was 11 to combat this, but it just made them neglect feeding us even more. I binge eat often because i still fear that someday i won't have food. I never went to a regular doctor and have extensive tooth decay that i deal with even today. I got a full time job right after high school to try funding my escape, but I ended up moving in with an alcoholic roomate who i used all of my savings trying to relocate myself from. I'm now 23 years old and am still desperately trying to get myself back into college through a program at my current job. I should hopefully start again in the fall. Most of my friends from high school are finishing their degrees, whereas im still trying to start mine. Its extremely disheartening but hopefully i can obtain a case worker who'll help me navigate the adult world i was never guided into. My dream is to financially unbind myself from my parents so i can live a stable and happy life ive built with people i care for and trust. I want my life to be a light hearted comedy instead of a tragedy or drama. That's all i want. Hopefully me putting this out there will help me in making it come true. I need all the help i can get so universe, please be kind to me.
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dontsteponsneky
As somebody who endured emotional and physical abuse please do not harm your kids in any case.
It ruined my life, i'm incapable of making connections to others and sometimes i feel like a empty vessel. Do not make anyone else suffer through all of this. A good example to understand how bad things can be are the flashbacks, not sleeping through the night and ruminating about the day you had to escape with a broken eye socket, several fractures and finding yourself in a hospital with no support, lying to everyone when they ask what happened. There are so many stories i can give but the only thing that i'm certain is that this thoughts never leave me alone. It makes you uncapable of doing most jobs, even driving becomes a nightmare at the first sign of hostility.
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As somebody who endured emotional and physical abuse please do not harm your kids in any case.
It ruined my life, i'm incapable of making connections to others and sometimes i feel like a empty vessel. Do not make anyone else suffer through all of this. A good example to understand how bad things can be are the flashbacks, not sleeping through the night and ruminating about the day you had to escape with a broken eye socket, several fractures and finding yourself in a hospital with no support, lying to everyone when they ask what happened. There are so many stories i can give but the only thing that i'm certain is that this thoughts never leave me alone. It makes you uncapable of doing most jobs, even driving becomes a nightmare at the first sign of hostility.
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Debra
What happens if it's your parents and you can do nothing, because they convince the therapists that getting hit with a stick or belt or any weapon is a good idea. I don't think I will ever trust a therapist, or psychologist again. At least psychiatrists have put in some effort. I met so many people that should never have been allowed near children in the first place, let alone be treating them. A therapist, counsellor or religious fanatic are basically monsters. Be very careful about this kind of thing. You need an actual expert, not nonsense pseudo-science
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What happens if it's your parents and you can do nothing, because they convince the therapists that getting hit with a stick or belt or any weapon is a good idea. I don't think I will ever trust a therapist, or psychologist again. At least psychiatrists have put in some effort. I met so many people that should never have been allowed near children in the first place, let alone be treating them. A therapist, counsellor or religious fanatic are basically monsters. Be very careful about this kind of thing. You need an actual expert, not nonsense pseudo-science
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Sam
I dont know if Im being abused about my father or not because I remember things I dont think happened for an example I was at dinner with my dad, 2 older brothers, 1 younger sister, and my 2 younger brothers then all the sudden I remember my dad beating me but I continued eating then that night as I was taking a shower I look in the mirror then I see a bruise on my arm one on my stomach and a few on my knees and legs and little cuts too the things this isnt the first time it has happened and it probably isnt the last anyone have any answers or theories?
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I dont know if Im being abused about my father or not because I remember things I dont think happened for an example I was at dinner with my dad, 2 older brothers, 1 younger sister, and my 2 younger brothers then all the sudden I remember my dad beating me but I continued eating then that night as I was taking a shower I look in the mirror then I see a bruise on my arm one on my stomach and a few on my knees and legs and little cuts too the things this isnt the first time it has happened and it probably isnt the last anyone have any answers or theories?
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JAYDE. moonstone.
Hi. I really need some advice.
My husband just threw (not hard) his phone & the TV remote onto the bed (next to me) I don't think he meant to hurt me. He has NEVER done anything like that before. (Believe me, I know how bad that sounds)
I guess I'm just looking for some advice. I feel like, he may have just made one mistake.
Am I letting him off easy? Idk. Overall he is a wonderful husband. Like, the best. Everyone loves him.
I'm just feeling lost. Any advice would mean so much more than I can express!
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Hi. I really need some advice.
My husband just threw (not hard) his phone & the TV remote onto the bed (next to me) I don't think he meant to hurt me. He has NEVER done anything like that before. (Believe me, I know how bad that sounds)
I guess I'm just looking for some advice. I feel like, he may have just made one mistake.
Am I letting him off easy? Idk. Overall he is a wonderful husband. Like, the best. Everyone loves him.
I'm just feeling lost. Any advice would mean so much more than I can express!
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Sarah
Hehe, I relate to all of these things, I remember each and every time they punished me like it just happened, I have lied for my siblings so that they won't go though the exact things that I did, and it's still happening, and nobody believes me anymore, what do I do, I have tried going to friends, family, police, and everyone that I have thought of, and still, nobody believes me, please, what do I do, I'm suicidal, and think that I'm going crazy, please what can I do?
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Hehe, I relate to all of these things, I remember each and every time they punished me like it just happened, I have lied for my siblings so that they won't go though the exact things that I did, and it's still happening, and nobody believes me anymore, what do I do, I have tried going to friends, family, police, and everyone that I have thought of, and still, nobody believes me, please, what do I do, I'm suicidal, and think that I'm going crazy, please what can I do?
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Amruta
Me and mother were abused in our building by some relative members without any reason. by this incident we were traumatized like hell. we saw hell here the way it happened. after all this mess they done still they are living life of abundance, happiness n we are suffering. I m 35 year old now I had realized god is kind to those people who are abusive, drama creator, show offs queen. law of universe
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Me and mother were abused in our building by some relative members without any reason. by this incident we were traumatized like hell. we saw hell here the way it happened. after all this mess they done still they are living life of abundance, happiness n we are suffering. I m 35 year old now I had realized god is kind to those people who are abusive, drama creator, show offs queen. law of universe
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Versa
You ever have somebody like literally psychologically like waterboarding me a of abuse I went through that multiple times not willingly to the point where literally broke my psyche. many times I was tormented as if I've done something wrong when I know I didn't, like I was supposed to confess my sins that I never did it got to the point where there's a certain torture I didn't don't want done to me.
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You ever have somebody like literally psychologically like waterboarding me a of abuse I went through that multiple times not willingly to the point where literally broke my psyche. many times I was tormented as if I've done something wrong when I know I didn't, like I was supposed to confess my sins that I never did it got to the point where there's a certain torture I didn't don't want done to me.
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education
I was physically abused by my brother and some people say your a attention seeker, its made me scared to talk to new people, Im terrified of my brother and just people in general I just want to tell people but I feel as if I cant its to hard. It happened when I was about 7-9 but not that much when I was 9. It stopped when I was nine after I fought back but I just couldnt get away from the fear.
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I was physically abused by my brother and some people say your a attention seeker, its made me scared to talk to new people, Im terrified of my brother and just people in general I just want to tell people but I feel as if I cant its to hard. It happened when I was about 7-9 but not that much when I was 9. It stopped when I was nine after I fought back but I just couldnt get away from the fear.
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Water
Those nights of trying to sleep through my parents giving death threats to each other, calling police for my father after my mom's mouth was bleeding, even after sticking with my mom i still got emotionally abused by her. I have never shared it to anyone after it occurred, feels new doing it. To anyone who has experienced abuse, I send you strength and a hug, I'm proud of you for being here.
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Those nights of trying to sleep through my parents giving death threats to each other, calling police for my father after my mom's mouth was bleeding, even after sticking with my mom i still got emotionally abused by her. I have never shared it to anyone after it occurred, feels new doing it. To anyone who has experienced abuse, I send you strength and a hug, I'm proud of you for being here.
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Bonnie
I used to be one nice as people you wanna be. I'm becoming nice again but for a while. I was so mean, i'd say get away from me. I would push people away after while I just turned you into a different person. I just got to the point where I fight back. I wouldn't go put up with it. No more being an abuse victim. Usually, they don't want to talk to you about it.
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I used to be one nice as people you wanna be. I'm becoming nice again but for a while. I was so mean, i'd say get away from me. I would push people away after while I just turned you into a different person. I just got to the point where I fight back. I wouldn't go put up with it. No more being an abuse victim. Usually, they don't want to talk to you about it.
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Eating
I've been called names by my own mom and dad and my mom even slaps me, and when I start to cry she just tells me to stop. I keep over-apologizing and she doesnt even care. I'm currently in my bathroom with my phone because I lost it and she told me to give it to her. If I dont reply to any of the comments then you know why.
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I've been called names by my own mom and dad and my mom even slaps me, and when I start to cry she just tells me to stop. I keep over-apologizing and she doesnt even care. I'm currently in my bathroom with my phone because I lost it and she told me to give it to her. If I dont reply to any of the comments then you know why.
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dAniELsTiLLALivE-
I moved to a big city so I went to a family friend's house
Idk if it's real but I remember a person touching my genitalia
We sleep in the same bed and just now I woke up with he's hand near them
And as I slowly moved away his hand moved closer Idk what's really happening
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I moved to a big city so I went to a family friend's house
Idk if it's real but I remember a person touching my genitalia
We sleep in the same bed and just now I woke up with he's hand near them
And as I slowly moved away his hand moved closer Idk what's really happening
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Queen
Im always looking for signs of betrayal or I worry about me myself not being the same anymore, I dont trust men like that, I cant trust my family and I get anxiety when pressured by them or just hearing about them. Im always looking for love in the wrong places
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Im always looking for signs of betrayal or I worry about me myself not being the same anymore, I dont trust men like that, I cant trust my family and I get anxiety when pressured by them or just hearing about them. Im always looking for love in the wrong places
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Hhh
Sure every point on this video resonates with me, and yes I have flashbacks to my mother and I fighting for reasons that continue to confuse me and make me cry then tells me she loves and makes hollow apologies that aren't kept to but I'm totally not abused.
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Sure every point on this video resonates with me, and yes I have flashbacks to my mother and I fighting for reasons that continue to confuse me and make me cry then tells me she loves and makes hollow apologies that aren't kept to but I'm totally not abused.
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Edison
Im hostile towards this video for blah blah reasons. But yknow, self health is a lifelong journey. Exercise and mindful meditation have helped, and Im glad they were mentioned. Abuse is heckin weird. Its a word. Its a word. Idk man its a word.
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Im hostile towards this video for blah blah reasons. But yknow, self health is a lifelong journey. Exercise and mindful meditation have helped, and Im glad they were mentioned. Abuse is heckin weird. Its a word. Its a word. Idk man its a word.
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Mrzl_
Can you experience this without being abused?
I struggle to recognise if I am or have been abused, I feel very confused around relationships and people, so I just try to avoid them all together. Even though I crave them deeply. Thanks!
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Can you experience this without being abused?
I struggle to recognise if I am or have been abused, I feel very confused around relationships and people, so I just try to avoid them all together. Even though I crave them deeply. Thanks!
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psych2go
I have a sister that is being a little abusive to her children
And that scares me and sometimes I just stay in my room and wait my parents come back home and see what the sister did to her children
They'll probably call 911.
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I have a sister that is being a little abusive to her children
And that scares me and sometimes I just stay in my room and wait my parents come back home and see what the sister did to her children
They'll probably call 911.
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7Write4This9Heart7
Well, shit. This vid taught me I might actually have C-PTSD. Wouldn't surprise me in the least considering the emotional abuse/manipulation my mom put all of us through and still does to this day. X'D
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Well, shit. This vid taught me I might actually have C-PTSD. Wouldn't surprise me in the least considering the emotional abuse/manipulation my mom put all of us through and still does to this day. X'D
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WE
I've been so stressed and frustrated thinking about sorting out these long standing toxic relationships but could not help but laugh with joy at those three cartoon characters dancing at the end of the video.
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I've been so stressed and frustrated thinking about sorting out these long standing toxic relationships but could not help but laugh with joy at those three cartoon characters dancing at the end of the video.
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average
So I am watching this video bc I was verbally abused in my past and was wondering do any of these signs apply to me
I am out of the abusive relationships and I am doing much better.
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So I am watching this video bc I was verbally abused in my past and was wondering do any of these signs apply to me
I am out of the abusive relationships and I am doing much better.
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Pen
my brother just hit 4 times and my family wasn't worried, like they didn't care. my head was aching when he hit me just made the pain more worse, this just happened a minute ago.
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my brother just hit 4 times and my family wasn't worried, like they didn't care. my head was aching when he hit me just made the pain more worse, this just happened a minute ago.
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THErandom
Ive been so mentally broken by my mom that Im permanently broken. and I cant even move out yet bc im still 11. I really want to be free from being mentally abused
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Ive been so mentally broken by my mom that Im permanently broken. and I cant even move out yet bc im still 11. I really want to be free from being mentally abused
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Saniya
If I ask do you hate me what would you say, I asked because I just want to hear someone say they love me cause I have never heard it or felt it from anyone
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If I ask do you hate me what would you say, I asked because I just want to hear someone say they love me cause I have never heard it or felt it from anyone
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