7 Fun Secrets About INFJ
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Lucifer
For anyone who seems to be here cause you're dating an INFJ. Please please please run for the hills and find someone normal to date. This whole rare personality is just sales man reverse psychology bs to sell something not that great to you. Trust me. I've dated 3 INFJ and I'm an ENFJ and apparently one of their perfect soul mates. Take it from me. If you want a fulfilling and rewarding relationship, don't date an INFJ. They seek perfection, they read too into situations, they expect too much but are mostly never satisfied. They don't get close to you all the time, which psychologically makes you feel amazing when. They actually are close to you, but that feeling gets real old. Trust me. It's like pulling a secret rare card from a pokemon pack. It's great when you pull a legendary card or w. e, but it sucks when you consider you're wasting your entire paycheck to get that 5 second happiness you get when you finally pull it 2 paychecks later. It's the same feeling. Don't fall for it. It seems rewarding, but is ultimately unhealthy. Toxic. They never trust you completely. They usually have a sad childhood most of the time that molded them into such people, but please don't choose to become Naruto Uzumaki. Fixing someone isn't your job. You have one life. Time is running out each day. Choose yourself. Fix yourself. Prioritize yourself. Don't make the mistake I made. They take things to heart easily. There is never a sense of closeness with them all the time. It's very rare. Yes, they understand everybody, but that also makes then perfectly capable of manipulating everybody if needed. They only do this when you get on their bad side, which is kinda relative easy to land in. They are sensitive people. Can't handle constructive criticism. They never chase you like you would them. If they deem you have done something unforgivable. Rather than to work together and fix the problem, they go for the typical cliche Doorslam that's a popular term among INFJ's. They act is if you're completely dead to them and write you off from their memories. Which, if happens, would leave you in the most mentally unstable situation. It's just not healthy. It's too much work. Everyone who says they're amazing is cause they fall into that 5 second amazing feeling. Like how if your gf spends time with you only when they feel like it rather than all the time, their time gas value. If they do it all the time, it doesn't. Simple as that. Please folks. Think twice before dating an INFJ. They're just too much on your mental health from personal experiences. I'm literally very patient and loyal and a hopeless romantic at heart. They just don't care in the long run. If you do choose to ignore my advice and date them, jl just remember me when they break your heart. They most certainly will unless youre okay with maintaining a distant relationship that is completely on their terms. Unhealthy af!
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For anyone who seems to be here cause you're dating an INFJ. Please please please run for the hills and find someone normal to date. This whole rare personality is just sales man reverse psychology bs to sell something not that great to you. Trust me. I've dated 3 INFJ and I'm an ENFJ and apparently one of their perfect soul mates. Take it from me. If you want a fulfilling and rewarding relationship, don't date an INFJ. They seek perfection, they read too into situations, they expect too much but are mostly never satisfied. They don't get close to you all the time, which psychologically makes you feel amazing when. They actually are close to you, but that feeling gets real old. Trust me. It's like pulling a secret rare card from a pokemon pack. It's great when you pull a legendary card or w. e, but it sucks when you consider you're wasting your entire paycheck to get that 5 second happiness you get when you finally pull it 2 paychecks later. It's the same feeling. Don't fall for it. It seems rewarding, but is ultimately unhealthy. Toxic. They never trust you completely. They usually have a sad childhood most of the time that molded them into such people, but please don't choose to become Naruto Uzumaki. Fixing someone isn't your job. You have one life. Time is running out each day. Choose yourself. Fix yourself. Prioritize yourself. Don't make the mistake I made. They take things to heart easily. There is never a sense of closeness with them all the time. It's very rare. Yes, they understand everybody, but that also makes then perfectly capable of manipulating everybody if needed. They only do this when you get on their bad side, which is kinda relative easy to land in. They are sensitive people. Can't handle constructive criticism. They never chase you like you would them. If they deem you have done something unforgivable. Rather than to work together and fix the problem, they go for the typical cliche Doorslam that's a popular term among INFJ's. They act is if you're completely dead to them and write you off from their memories. Which, if happens, would leave you in the most mentally unstable situation. It's just not healthy. It's too much work. Everyone who says they're amazing is cause they fall into that 5 second amazing feeling. Like how if your gf spends time with you only when they feel like it rather than all the time, their time gas value. If they do it all the time, it doesn't. Simple as that. Please folks. Think twice before dating an INFJ. They're just too much on your mental health from personal experiences. I'm literally very patient and loyal and a hopeless romantic at heart. They just don't care in the long run. If you do choose to ignore my advice and date them, jl just remember me when they break your heart. They most certainly will unless youre okay with maintaining a distant relationship that is completely on their terms. Unhealthy af!
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Abdoul
I recently found the personality test and believe I am an INFJ-A. I am 20 years old and the most helpful kid in the family, or the doormat by other relatives and people, as well as the most misunderstood by everyone in the family because I am always experimenting with new crazy ideas and am the go-to person when in need. Six months ago, my family discovered that indeed I have a friend with whom I communicate. My siblings began to celebrate for me, but internally I know they were laughing at me. When I hang out with small groups of people, I appear to be an energetic extrovert until my therapy service ends and I become drained from it. Because my target group is an introvert like me, it becomes boring and awkward. So, I start a deep relevant topic that is turned into a debate in which I agree with everything they say but they disagree with my nuances as INFJ to further help them elaborate their points and I am misunderstood and wrongfully labeled ahhhh. The other people believe they have won the argument, but I am thinking internally that I should have let them suffer in awkwardness and boredom because I have lot of fun stuff going on my mind. I think it is critical to get idea who you are so that you can suffer less and stop believing there is something wrong with you. By the way, Quilbot is what I use to paraphrase my words so that I can be understood lol. I'll end here, thank you for reading, and I hope you find some comfort, my fellow INFJs.
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I recently found the personality test and believe I am an INFJ-A. I am 20 years old and the most helpful kid in the family, or the doormat by other relatives and people, as well as the most misunderstood by everyone in the family because I am always experimenting with new crazy ideas and am the go-to person when in need. Six months ago, my family discovered that indeed I have a friend with whom I communicate. My siblings began to celebrate for me, but internally I know they were laughing at me. When I hang out with small groups of people, I appear to be an energetic extrovert until my therapy service ends and I become drained from it. Because my target group is an introvert like me, it becomes boring and awkward. So, I start a deep relevant topic that is turned into a debate in which I agree with everything they say but they disagree with my nuances as INFJ to further help them elaborate their points and I am misunderstood and wrongfully labeled ahhhh. The other people believe they have won the argument, but I am thinking internally that I should have let them suffer in awkwardness and boredom because I have lot of fun stuff going on my mind. I think it is critical to get idea who you are so that you can suffer less and stop believing there is something wrong with you. By the way, Quilbot is what I use to paraphrase my words so that I can be understood lol. I'll end here, thank you for reading, and I hope you find some comfort, my fellow INFJs.
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Hehehe
Me: wanna confirm if I'm really an infj. Clicks video. Didn't even know that infj's are rare. Finishes video. Analyzing and remembering all my actions and behaviour. Checks comments.
People in the comment section: arguing about how some people claims to be an infj just to feel unique and special because it's rare and blah blah blah many many more
Me: overthinks and doubts my self even more. Decided to never reveal the personality I got from the test from the people who know me so they won't think that I just want to be unique and cool.
My premonition: (some people might argue with me)
My reply: Yes I said that I will never reveal it to anyone but I commented here. It's because I don't personally know all of you, and y'all don't personally know me and I'm just using a fake account. So I think it's safe to say that it's just ok
Don't worry guys. I'm not in any of those 16 personality types anymore. Because I can just simple identify myself as a random confused monkey
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Me: wanna confirm if I'm really an infj. Clicks video. Didn't even know that infj's are rare. Finishes video. Analyzing and remembering all my actions and behaviour. Checks comments.
People in the comment section: arguing about how some people claims to be an infj just to feel unique and special because it's rare and blah blah blah many many more
Me: overthinks and doubts my self even more. Decided to never reveal the personality I got from the test from the people who know me so they won't think that I just want to be unique and cool.
My premonition: (some people might argue with me)
My reply: Yes I said that I will never reveal it to anyone but I commented here. It's because I don't personally know all of you, and y'all don't personally know me and I'm just using a fake account. So I think it's safe to say that it's just ok
Don't worry guys. I'm not in any of those 16 personality types anymore. Because I can just simple identify myself as a random confused monkey
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lina
well, i liked puzzles as long as i could solve them. if i have no idea what to do with it, ill become extremely aggressive. especially when was younger. i really liked being by myself or with people who were interested in me (sometimes when i was interested in someone.
i have my own aesthetic and my own view on beautiful things. i keen on feeling free, so wear something that fits my ideals.
and i never could normally organise myself. i had tones of dairies with many plans, but never ended them, though.
so these were my behaviours; ) if you have sth in common, ill be extremely happy to hear from you, cause i couldnt understand my personality for soo long and still sometimes feel that im mistaken. thank you:
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well, i liked puzzles as long as i could solve them. if i have no idea what to do with it, ill become extremely aggressive. especially when was younger. i really liked being by myself or with people who were interested in me (sometimes when i was interested in someone.
i have my own aesthetic and my own view on beautiful things. i keen on feeling free, so wear something that fits my ideals.
and i never could normally organise myself. i had tones of dairies with many plans, but never ended them, though.
so these were my behaviours; ) if you have sth in common, ill be extremely happy to hear from you, cause i couldnt understand my personality for soo long and still sometimes feel that im mistaken. thank you:
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TypingCat
As an INFJ with ADHD Inattentive Type, I am not well-organized, however I have found some simple cornerstones of organization that keep my life afloat and avoid too many disasters.
Also, as a frugal person, I don't really identify with the enjoying the finer things of life bit. Although I do want to look good and not too slovenly, I won't drop too much money or time on things I see as superficial, like expensive wine or clothing or shoes.
EDIT: Thinking more, I think the finer things bit is highly individual. I will spend a lot of money on things that I care about, i. e, my niche interests and things where I recognize value. But even there I will apply my frugal values.
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As an INFJ with ADHD Inattentive Type, I am not well-organized, however I have found some simple cornerstones of organization that keep my life afloat and avoid too many disasters.
Also, as a frugal person, I don't really identify with the enjoying the finer things of life bit. Although I do want to look good and not too slovenly, I won't drop too much money or time on things I see as superficial, like expensive wine or clothing or shoes.
EDIT: Thinking more, I think the finer things bit is highly individual. I will spend a lot of money on things that I care about, i. e, my niche interests and things where I recognize value. But even there I will apply my frugal values.
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wewden
That was exceptionally general. I didn't like it. Also if you say that they like the finer things and know how to climb the ranks, then it's evident that they have spare clothes and the few fancy options. It's too broad. Even none infjs can feel like they are similar and you have not even talked about the struggle with figuring out how to not use manipulation, even accidentally and you have ignored the chameleon trait too. Those are much better describing Infjs than their rarity. You didn't even touch it with being good at reading social situations. This feels like homework written during the night before it was due.
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That was exceptionally general. I didn't like it. Also if you say that they like the finer things and know how to climb the ranks, then it's evident that they have spare clothes and the few fancy options. It's too broad. Even none infjs can feel like they are similar and you have not even talked about the struggle with figuring out how to not use manipulation, even accidentally and you have ignored the chameleon trait too. Those are much better describing Infjs than their rarity. You didn't even touch it with being good at reading social situations. This feels like homework written during the night before it was due.
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Earl
I sit and watch the news and remark I've been saying this would happen for decades. Then I wonder, Am I some kind of rocket scientist. No. I just see things before they happen. Like how this country is destroying itself with all the breakdowns in the nuclear families and immorality. I knew all this would happen with China, back when I was a kid in the 60's. I tried to warn a company I was working for, not to do business with China. It bankrupted our company and hundreds of people lost their job. It's sickening to me. And I want to be out in the country away from it all.
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I sit and watch the news and remark I've been saying this would happen for decades. Then I wonder, Am I some kind of rocket scientist. No. I just see things before they happen. Like how this country is destroying itself with all the breakdowns in the nuclear families and immorality. I knew all this would happen with China, back when I was a kid in the 60's. I tried to warn a company I was working for, not to do business with China. It bankrupted our company and hundreds of people lost their job. It's sickening to me. And I want to be out in the country away from it all.
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Kalle
Why always INFJs?
What about me as an INTJ female?
People say INFJ is the rarest mbti but I don't think if that is truth because in my school I have an INFJ classmate he has a lot of friend and once he told me PPL can understand him easily quite often but PPL never can understand me and always misunderstood about me however I think you should make videos about INTJs and other mbtis too if you want to make ppl to understand rare mbtis wich is not always INFJs
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Why always INFJs?
What about me as an INTJ female?
People say INFJ is the rarest mbti but I don't think if that is truth because in my school I have an INFJ classmate he has a lot of friend and once he told me PPL can understand him easily quite often but PPL never can understand me and always misunderstood about me however I think you should make videos about INTJs and other mbtis too if you want to make ppl to understand rare mbtis wich is not always INFJs
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Kalle
Now PPL think that INFJs darkness is not that wild but believe me sometimes they can be very heartless too and don't give a shit about your feelings otherwise I'm not a feeling mbti because I'm an INTJ and I won't be trumatised by INFJs but feeling mbti could be trumatised by INFJs when INFJs express the highest level of thier darkness
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Now PPL think that INFJs darkness is not that wild but believe me sometimes they can be very heartless too and don't give a shit about your feelings otherwise I'm not a feeling mbti because I'm an INTJ and I won't be trumatised by INFJs but feeling mbti could be trumatised by INFJs when INFJs express the highest level of thier darkness
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Lateny
Does anyone else feel like this is kind of wrong? Especially the organized part. While yes we can be organized, it is usually more with our plans than our space. SE is our last function
Were known to be organized but color coded is kind of over the top. Thats usually ISTJ or ISFJ strengths
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Does anyone else feel like this is kind of wrong? Especially the organized part. While yes we can be organized, it is usually more with our plans than our space. SE is our last function
Were known to be organized but color coded is kind of over the top. Thats usually ISTJ or ISFJ strengths
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Enter
Am I the only one who identifies as an INFJ, but I dont relate some of the stereotypes or traits of the infj, and maybe relate more to others, like infp? I guess cause theyre so similar. Like, Im never going to fit exactly into a category of anything, everyone is unique in their own way
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Am I the only one who identifies as an INFJ, but I dont relate some of the stereotypes or traits of the infj, and maybe relate more to others, like infp? I guess cause theyre so similar. Like, Im never going to fit exactly into a category of anything, everyone is unique in their own way
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loneface
Idk if its because of my infj personality but everytime i meet an infp person i get this strong emotional feeling like i have to protect them. For me it hurts the most to see them down or being mistreated. This world doesnt deserve them. Just wanted to put it out there
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Idk if its because of my infj personality but everytime i meet an infp person i get this strong emotional feeling like i have to protect them. For me it hurts the most to see them down or being mistreated. This world doesnt deserve them. Just wanted to put it out there
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ABCD
First you listen. Infjs are rare.
Then you click one of mbti you tube video.
Third. you realise infjs are rare
Fourth. you scroll comments.
Fifth. You realise everyone
is an infj.
Sixth. You realise infjs are not rare anymore!
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First you listen. Infjs are rare.
Then you click one of mbti you tube video.
Third. you realise infjs are rare
Fourth. you scroll comments.
Fifth. You realise everyone
is an infj.
Sixth. You realise infjs are not rare anymore!
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nobodysans
I love reading books but nowadays I replaced e-books to real books because I can't find books that good for me in library but the little prince book that I bought for myself (jk my sister gifted me at my bd and I wondered how can I repay it)
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I love reading books but nowadays I replaced e-books to real books because I can't find books that good for me in library but the little prince book that I bought for myself (jk my sister gifted me at my bd and I wondered how can I repay it)
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Envyy_
Everything counts except for the organising ahead. No matter what I do or plan for the next few days it's either dropped or forgotten. I don't know how to deal with such thing and I wish to find a way that can help me overcome such habit.
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Everything counts except for the organising ahead. No matter what I do or plan for the next few days it's either dropped or forgotten. I don't know how to deal with such thing and I wish to find a way that can help me overcome such habit.
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SLASHER
Im an infj, but I hated reading with a passion, school books always seemed gai and a waste of time to me; when I got older though I did start reading more interesting books: mainly text books, I finished and read a couple of textbooks.
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Im an infj, but I hated reading with a passion, school books always seemed gai and a waste of time to me; when I got older though I did start reading more interesting books: mainly text books, I finished and read a couple of textbooks.
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Ms. nobody
I took the test and it turned out I have that porsinalty. and then i looked at this video and a few others and it was my porsinalty now I don't want to say Oh I'm rare or anything I hope people understand what I mean
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I took the test and it turned out I have that porsinalty. and then i looked at this video and a few others and it was my porsinalty now I don't want to say Oh I'm rare or anything I hope people understand what I mean
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kutsoji
Masters at organising when we want to, but we sometimes burn ourselves doing stuff and eventually not organised at all. I make daily to-dos and clean everything, organise my desk etc but I end up messing everything up
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Masters at organising when we want to, but we sometimes burn ourselves doing stuff and eventually not organised at all. I make daily to-dos and clean everything, organise my desk etc but I end up messing everything up
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mira
INFJ: Don't understand themselves, but put a lot of efforts to understand people around them
INTJ: Understand themselves, know when to stop, what they want and need, but difficult to understand others emotions.
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INFJ: Don't understand themselves, but put a lot of efforts to understand people around them
INTJ: Understand themselves, know when to stop, what they want and need, but difficult to understand others emotions.
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Mel
INFJ here and I don't really care for fancy stuff, specially when I find everything meaningless. However, I do appreciate it, if that makes sense. Also, random: does anyone feel lonely even among other INFJs?
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INFJ here and I don't really care for fancy stuff, specially when I find everything meaningless. However, I do appreciate it, if that makes sense. Also, random: does anyone feel lonely even among other INFJs?
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RL
As I read such wonderful comments of my fellow INFJs. I feel so good. There are such places, moments, people where I can get comfortable now.
Otherwise, Im just a Chameleon from Andromeda!
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As I read such wonderful comments of my fellow INFJs. I feel so good. There are such places, moments, people where I can get comfortable now.
Otherwise, Im just a Chameleon from Andromeda!
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Poor
I'm an infj I took the test numerous times and always get the same result, I agree with these, for like 90 percent of the time, sometimes I am the opposite of these, infj ADHD joys eh lol
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I'm an infj I took the test numerous times and always get the same result, I agree with these, for like 90 percent of the time, sometimes I am the opposite of these, infj ADHD joys eh lol
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Zetsuki
When I try the test I got infj result then I tried another one still the same so I spend reading & watching videos in 3 days about my personality then I found out why.
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When I try the test I got infj result then I tried another one still the same so I spend reading & watching videos in 3 days about my personality then I found out why.
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Nobi
After long time I understand now why I feel like.
And this personality is soo rare that's why I can't Found my personality from website now I understand thanks girl
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After long time I understand now why I feel like.
And this personality is soo rare that's why I can't Found my personality from website now I understand thanks girl
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nobodysans
I'm not a person who say hey I'm rare respect me but it seems I'm the most unlucky person in the earth. Tbh now I have to feel pain for no reason
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I'm not a person who say hey I'm rare respect me but it seems I'm the most unlucky person in the earth. Tbh now I have to feel pain for no reason
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