9 Things Not to Be Ashamed Of
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Suzrain
Hi Psych to go family, I have been driving myself to understand and become a better person since two years ago. I have lost a bestfriend to all the things that I thought are necessary to have a good friendship. I talked things out and I even apologized for all the big and small mistakes I commited.
I want to know that, am I still the bad person for her. Even before we were friends I tried to understand her personality by coming here and now when she is just gone I am still trying to figure out the things I did wrong. Some people tell me I am holding onto this way too much. But I do this because it meant a lot to me. Am I wrong?
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Hi Psych to go family, I have been driving myself to understand and become a better person since two years ago. I have lost a bestfriend to all the things that I thought are necessary to have a good friendship. I talked things out and I even apologized for all the big and small mistakes I commited.
I want to know that, am I still the bad person for her. Even before we were friends I tried to understand her personality by coming here and now when she is just gone I am still trying to figure out the things I did wrong. Some people tell me I am holding onto this way too much. But I do this because it meant a lot to me. Am I wrong?
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Chickaqee
I just thought of this way of challenging failures, maybe it can help others.
Thought: I got a 70 on the math test, I'm a failure.
Rebuttal: Why does that make me a failure?
Thought: Because it means I'm bad at math.
Rebuttal: But why does that mean you're a failure?
Thought: Well, I guess it doesn't mean I am a failure, just that I did poorly in math. I have a lot of areas that I'm good at, like how I try to be a good person, try to be there for my friends. There's dozens of other areas that I'm good at, so logically the entirety of me cannot be a failure because I just disproved that.
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I just thought of this way of challenging failures, maybe it can help others.
Thought: I got a 70 on the math test, I'm a failure.
Rebuttal: Why does that make me a failure?
Thought: Because it means I'm bad at math.
Rebuttal: But why does that mean you're a failure?
Thought: Well, I guess it doesn't mean I am a failure, just that I did poorly in math. I have a lot of areas that I'm good at, like how I try to be a good person, try to be there for my friends. There's dozens of other areas that I'm good at, so logically the entirety of me cannot be a failure because I just disproved that.
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Emmaculate
I like to think I know myself and trust myself and that Im confident. But for instance, today I called the fire depf because I heard a fire alarm going off for a while at my apartments. They heard it too when they arrived but they didnt find the location. I have been feeling so embarrassed and like I wasted their time. I caused this huge scene. but then I remind myself I also could have saved someones life. But yeah the shame I feel for causing the scene literally makes me want to disappear and move
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I like to think I know myself and trust myself and that Im confident. But for instance, today I called the fire depf because I heard a fire alarm going off for a while at my apartments. They heard it too when they arrived but they didnt find the location. I have been feeling so embarrassed and like I wasted their time. I caused this huge scene. but then I remind myself I also could have saved someones life. But yeah the shame I feel for causing the scene literally makes me want to disappear and move
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Eric
Today i fell ashamed because i lost at basket, and even had a crush witness my defeat( i looked at her face, and she looked little disappointed) it even seemed like some people tried to avoid me because i lost. To be honest, it fells like no one wants to be with me when im unimpressive ( because im kind of do terrible at everything, often.
I dont want people to remember my defeats when they see me.
Someone else who experience similar stuff?
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Today i fell ashamed because i lost at basket, and even had a crush witness my defeat( i looked at her face, and she looked little disappointed) it even seemed like some people tried to avoid me because i lost. To be honest, it fells like no one wants to be with me when im unimpressive ( because im kind of do terrible at everything, often.
I dont want people to remember my defeats when they see me.
Someone else who experience similar stuff?
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Niel
I went to a party but at some point, many people came and I had nobody to talk with anymore. Then I left at 11 p. m. while te party started at 9 p. m. and now I feel ashamed of myself because it was also too loud and too busy. It was my first party and I was so excited for it but it was disappointing because of the loud music and too many people and I had nobody to talk with at some point. Now I feel very ashamed of myself.
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I went to a party but at some point, many people came and I had nobody to talk with anymore. Then I left at 11 p. m. while te party started at 9 p. m. and now I feel ashamed of myself because it was also too loud and too busy. It was my first party and I was so excited for it but it was disappointing because of the loud music and too many people and I had nobody to talk with at some point. Now I feel very ashamed of myself.
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Beau
Every time i study the darkest and shameful memories draw back to me. That is past i know and it's been a year now but they keep on haunting me. A year ago i was depressed for months was at the lowest i have ever been. Now I'm at last in academy and my personality switch to a quiet withdrawn person. I kinda dislike the fact that I'm so weak to be still affected by thing done a year ago.
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Every time i study the darkest and shameful memories draw back to me. That is past i know and it's been a year now but they keep on haunting me. A year ago i was depressed for months was at the lowest i have ever been. Now I'm at last in academy and my personality switch to a quiet withdrawn person. I kinda dislike the fact that I'm so weak to be still affected by thing done a year ago.
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Angela
The world is huge. dnt try to avcommodate everybody or their so cslled standrdds. if a place makes u feel inferioir, confused, small, ignorant. its nt the place fr u. u dnt need these ppl to grow up. life is already a lesson. bt genral guidelines is ok. If u do yr part best, take advise. pray. u already good. Freedom is precious.
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The world is huge. dnt try to avcommodate everybody or their so cslled standrdds. if a place makes u feel inferioir, confused, small, ignorant. its nt the place fr u. u dnt need these ppl to grow up. life is already a lesson. bt genral guidelines is ok. If u do yr part best, take advise. pray. u already good. Freedom is precious.
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Leah
Thank you for making this video I have a mild mental disability and anxiety disorder as much as people care sometimes they dont understand that I cant help not pay attention or need more rest so really feel like I have to be good at everything but this video reminds me that I am doing my best and the is enough
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Thank you for making this video I have a mild mental disability and anxiety disorder as much as people care sometimes they dont understand that I cant help not pay attention or need more rest so really feel like I have to be good at everything but this video reminds me that I am doing my best and the is enough
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1-800-charmiities
I need a advice I am a teen and my family is very conservative I cannot wear what I want without being judged besides I cannot pick my career what I want to do in my life can someone please give me advice for this lately I ve going through a lot just because I am not matching my family's standard
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I need a advice I am a teen and my family is very conservative I cannot wear what I want without being judged besides I cannot pick my career what I want to do in my life can someone please give me advice for this lately I ve going through a lot just because I am not matching my family's standard
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Syrollesse
Shame is so hard to get rid of. I try so hard to not feel shame for who I am. But I constantly overanalyse my actions and feel like a horrible person. I can't seem to stop I feel like it's ingrained in me and it's a feeling that I've had my whole life
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Shame is so hard to get rid of. I try so hard to not feel shame for who I am. But I constantly overanalyse my actions and feel like a horrible person. I can't seem to stop I feel like it's ingrained in me and it's a feeling that I've had my whole life
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Miraloshini
Am I the only one who feels disgusted at myself when I start feeling confident? Like, when I try to tell myself that I do look good, my brain automatically says Did you just think of yourself as good-looking? You're ugly and you know that!
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Am I the only one who feels disgusted at myself when I start feeling confident? Like, when I try to tell myself that I do look good, my brain automatically says Did you just think of yourself as good-looking? You're ugly and you know that!
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Interesting
Many accuse me of selfishness because I won't commit to something that they want. Wrong! True selfishness is making a commitment that one cannot keep. There's no shame in saying no. The shame is in saying yes, but not following through.
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Many accuse me of selfishness because I won't commit to something that they want. Wrong! True selfishness is making a commitment that one cannot keep. There's no shame in saying no. The shame is in saying yes, but not following through.
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Ze
i belong in the trash, im ashamed of everything, losing in a game, i blame it on my self.
not getting a good grade even though my mom is okay with is unless i didnt try or be care full.
if my cousin gets hurt, i blame it on my self.
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i belong in the trash, im ashamed of everything, losing in a game, i blame it on my self.
not getting a good grade even though my mom is okay with is unless i didnt try or be care full.
if my cousin gets hurt, i blame it on my self.
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Diamond
I need to stop blaming myself for others decisions and I need to stop giving into others standards. I need to accept how I was. I need to stop being ashamed and afraid of my layers. I need to learn to say no.
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I need to stop blaming myself for others decisions and I need to stop giving into others standards. I need to accept how I was. I need to stop being ashamed and afraid of my layers. I need to learn to say no.
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Lunar
Depression may suck but my adhd is horrible
I literally just cant brush my teeth somehow and probably have gingivitis now
And I cant do homework without like so much help I dont have to think
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Depression may suck but my adhd is horrible
I literally just cant brush my teeth somehow and probably have gingivitis now
And I cant do homework without like so much help I dont have to think
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Devashri
Yeah Ig I'm ashamed of failure. I always wanna learn new things in one-go without messing but when I do, I feel so ashamed. My heart beats faster if Ik I've messed up. I'm scared of messing up.
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Yeah Ig I'm ashamed of failure. I always wanna learn new things in one-go without messing but when I do, I feel so ashamed. My heart beats faster if Ik I've messed up. I'm scared of messing up.
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education
Congratulations on your 9 Things Not To Be Ahamed Of inspirational thanks for sharing. I am ashamed of what Experian, Equifax, Call Credit & Transunion are saying about me behind my back.
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Congratulations on your 9 Things Not To Be Ahamed Of inspirational thanks for sharing. I am ashamed of what Experian, Equifax, Call Credit & Transunion are saying about me behind my back.
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Danielle
I don't feel ashamed now when Psyche2Go mentioned about asking for help and putting myself first for the things that I shouldn't be ashamed of. By the way, the cat is cute.
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I don't feel ashamed now when Psyche2Go mentioned about asking for help and putting myself first for the things that I shouldn't be ashamed of. By the way, the cat is cute.
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Selvaraj
I felt ashamed of myself today. I'm sad coz today in my online cls I told wrong answer and my teacher scold me before all the other students I felt ashamed today
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I felt ashamed of myself today. I'm sad coz today in my online cls I told wrong answer and my teacher scold me before all the other students I felt ashamed today
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Jessica
i agree! you have emotions for a reason. why the hell do we have them if other people tell you that you are wrong? this i do not understand.
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i agree! you have emotions for a reason. why the hell do we have them if other people tell you that you are wrong? this i do not understand.
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Amirah
My anxiety n depression side be like see? You always blame yourself too much so it is your fault for blaming yourself. You are terrible
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My anxiety n depression side be like see? You always blame yourself too much so it is your fault for blaming yourself. You are terrible
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Kitty
Im in my 70s so much of your content isnt relatable to me. I would like to see some content for older people - we need help, too.
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Im in my 70s so much of your content isnt relatable to me. I would like to see some content for older people - we need help, too.
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TohoSeiwa
Do we say YOLO nowadays? not trying to be mean or anything but like. I thought it was something from 2010 or something idk
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Do we say YOLO nowadays? not trying to be mean or anything but like. I thought it was something from 2010 or something idk
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education
I feel like i need to create a super hero alter ego in order to feel confident and unashamed in public or near any humans.
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I feel like i need to create a super hero alter ego in order to feel confident and unashamed in public or near any humans.
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Zay
Everything was so beautifully said!
I honestly thought that some of the things I was feeling were shameful.
Thank you!
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Everything was so beautifully said!
I honestly thought that some of the things I was feeling were shameful.
Thank you!
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