6 Struggles Only Introverts Could Relate To
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Susan
I'm old. I've known that I'm an introvert for about 50 of my 73 years.
One problem was being an introvert but trying to force myself to be something I'm not.
I have learned how to adapt in such a way to take care of myself.
I knew that I wanted to be a teacher when I was 14.
But I knew that getting up in front of the class made me nervous.
So I took speech class and drama class.
That did not turn me into an extrovert; it allowed me to see what parts of those activities allowed for my boundaries.
When I was a classroom teacher (teaching freshman composition at a college, I made sure that I planned out everything that I wanted to say and was very organized. I learned to time the lessons to the minute.
It was never a case of not having something to say; it was just a case that I was saving my energy.
When a student asked questions, I looked at just that individual, like I was talking to one person at a time.
But after class, I would go to my office, turn off the goddam flourescent lights, and read quietly for a while.
Because the commonality of most of my introversion was the fact that the various types of socializing discussed in this video had mainly to do with having my energy sapped.
I was not shy. I did not lack confidence.
Talking to a lot of people took up a lot of energy; I knew that, so I set aside time to recharge my batteries.
I also determined which parts of the teaching job fit who I am.
Reading and marking essays and writing notes to the students -- piece of cake. I sat quietly in my room at home and set aside hours at a time to do just that.
Solo reading and writing can be an introvert's godsend.
I learned that meeting one on one with individual students (by appointment) to go over their papers was a less taxing part of the job. The student would open up about things that were meaningful and they would ask about their writing or academic topics.
I'd still need to recharge afterwards, but it didn't wipe me out.
I had other jobs, but I tended to get the ones where I worked alone in a back room doing varying types of paper work or computer work (when I got older. And as long as I was obviously working and getting things done, I was let be.
But early in life (in my 20s especially), there were PARTIES. That was a challenge.
The parties I went to were held by people I already knew and they were the milling about types of parties, usually.
Well, of course, I hung out in the kitchen!
People would wander in a few at a time, or sometimes one at a time. I could chat briefly with them. They already knew me and knew what topics I was into, so that was ok.
Less ok was using my energy to talk to strangers. But they usually came into the kitchen with someone I knew. The someones I knew were buffers. I could observe, eat munchies, and listen to music. Smiling and nodding took very little effort.
Of course, eventually I had to leave the bright lights of the kitchen.
But often there was a room with very low lights.
(Oh I forgot to say, my friends were semi-hippies, so sitting in a corner being mellow was acceptable behaviour.
No pushing)
Occasionally men I didn't know would try to hit on me, but I could say 'not interested. ' I didn't care if they didn't like that; my boundaries were important.
Later in the evening, the music would be softer. That helped.
I was adapting to the foreign environment.
But I still knew that I needed to go home and spend the next day being quiet, to recharge.
If I was allowed to have my alone time, or if I allowed myself the alone time, I could handle the occasional (and I mean OCCASIONAL) party.
Visiting my parents was also a challenge. I figured out that I could take one close friend with me, who could be a buffer.
My parents spent most of their time 'interviewing' them, and I could relax and listen.
I think the biggest challenge were anti-war demonstrations.
Back during the time just before the US was going to go into Iraq and Afghanistan,
I joined a 'march' in San Francisco (where I lived.
OMG! So many people!
It was a planned 'march' with permits and all.
The downtown main street was closed to traffic and we all marched from the bay, up Market Street, to about City Hall (IIRC.
You might be wondering why I use quotation marks around 'march. '
There were so many people filling Market Street from sidewalk to sidewalk and in close rows -- that you couldn't really call it a march.
It was slow going.
I wrote to my parents afterwards explaining that it wasn't really a march for peace.
It was more of a WALK for peace, or a SHUFFLE for peace or just SLOGGING along for peace.
The introverts here can probably relate to how the crowds felt to me.
Didn't matter that the people were friendly and non-violent. There were just A LOT of people!
So when we finally got to the endpoint of the planned route, I decided to just go home.
Later, I wrote home saying that going to that event had wiped me out, that I think I slept for 2 days afterwards. But that it was still important for me to have done it.
If you've read this whole thing, you can probably see that I'm not shy, not without thoughts, not without confidence.
I think one of the points of the video was that those ideas are misconceptions OTHER people have about us.
And hearing other people express those misconceptions often can wear us down.
And that's where being self-aware and taking care of who you are becomes very important.
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I'm old. I've known that I'm an introvert for about 50 of my 73 years.
One problem was being an introvert but trying to force myself to be something I'm not.
I have learned how to adapt in such a way to take care of myself.
I knew that I wanted to be a teacher when I was 14.
But I knew that getting up in front of the class made me nervous.
So I took speech class and drama class.
That did not turn me into an extrovert; it allowed me to see what parts of those activities allowed for my boundaries.
When I was a classroom teacher (teaching freshman composition at a college, I made sure that I planned out everything that I wanted to say and was very organized. I learned to time the lessons to the minute.
It was never a case of not having something to say; it was just a case that I was saving my energy.
When a student asked questions, I looked at just that individual, like I was talking to one person at a time.
But after class, I would go to my office, turn off the goddam flourescent lights, and read quietly for a while.
Because the commonality of most of my introversion was the fact that the various types of socializing discussed in this video had mainly to do with having my energy sapped.
I was not shy. I did not lack confidence.
Talking to a lot of people took up a lot of energy; I knew that, so I set aside time to recharge my batteries.
I also determined which parts of the teaching job fit who I am.
Reading and marking essays and writing notes to the students -- piece of cake. I sat quietly in my room at home and set aside hours at a time to do just that.
Solo reading and writing can be an introvert's godsend.
I learned that meeting one on one with individual students (by appointment) to go over their papers was a less taxing part of the job. The student would open up about things that were meaningful and they would ask about their writing or academic topics.
I'd still need to recharge afterwards, but it didn't wipe me out.
I had other jobs, but I tended to get the ones where I worked alone in a back room doing varying types of paper work or computer work (when I got older. And as long as I was obviously working and getting things done, I was let be.
But early in life (in my 20s especially), there were PARTIES. That was a challenge.
The parties I went to were held by people I already knew and they were the milling about types of parties, usually.
Well, of course, I hung out in the kitchen!
People would wander in a few at a time, or sometimes one at a time. I could chat briefly with them. They already knew me and knew what topics I was into, so that was ok.
Less ok was using my energy to talk to strangers. But they usually came into the kitchen with someone I knew. The someones I knew were buffers. I could observe, eat munchies, and listen to music. Smiling and nodding took very little effort.
Of course, eventually I had to leave the bright lights of the kitchen.
But often there was a room with very low lights.
(Oh I forgot to say, my friends were semi-hippies, so sitting in a corner being mellow was acceptable behaviour.
No pushing)
Occasionally men I didn't know would try to hit on me, but I could say 'not interested. ' I didn't care if they didn't like that; my boundaries were important.
Later in the evening, the music would be softer. That helped.
I was adapting to the foreign environment.
But I still knew that I needed to go home and spend the next day being quiet, to recharge.
If I was allowed to have my alone time, or if I allowed myself the alone time, I could handle the occasional (and I mean OCCASIONAL) party.
Visiting my parents was also a challenge. I figured out that I could take one close friend with me, who could be a buffer.
My parents spent most of their time 'interviewing' them, and I could relax and listen.
I think the biggest challenge were anti-war demonstrations.
Back during the time just before the US was going to go into Iraq and Afghanistan,
I joined a 'march' in San Francisco (where I lived.
OMG! So many people!
It was a planned 'march' with permits and all.
The downtown main street was closed to traffic and we all marched from the bay, up Market Street, to about City Hall (IIRC.
You might be wondering why I use quotation marks around 'march. '
There were so many people filling Market Street from sidewalk to sidewalk and in close rows -- that you couldn't really call it a march.
It was slow going.
I wrote to my parents afterwards explaining that it wasn't really a march for peace.
It was more of a WALK for peace, or a SHUFFLE for peace or just SLOGGING along for peace.
The introverts here can probably relate to how the crowds felt to me.
Didn't matter that the people were friendly and non-violent. There were just A LOT of people!
So when we finally got to the endpoint of the planned route, I decided to just go home.
Later, I wrote home saying that going to that event had wiped me out, that I think I slept for 2 days afterwards. But that it was still important for me to have done it.
If you've read this whole thing, you can probably see that I'm not shy, not without thoughts, not without confidence.
I think one of the points of the video was that those ideas are misconceptions OTHER people have about us.
And hearing other people express those misconceptions often can wear us down.
And that's where being self-aware and taking care of who you are becomes very important.
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Anna
i think there's too much confusion about social introversion vs. personality in this video.
i'm an introvert, i like being with my friends, dressing up and being at the center stage, but afterwards i need a month to recharge. it's not like introverts are shy, it's just that it takes our energy, it takes a toll to go out and socialize. so i would try and skip 3 out of 4 events, since i only have energy for 1.
in the video you seem to mix introversion with shyness or overlap these two, which is quite far away from reality.
it's also true that due to lack of non-stop social interactions we are less visible in the office, but again this has nothing to do with shyness or avoiding teamwork. it is rather that extraverts should be more often encouraged to stop, think and go work rather than having a chat every 30 minutes with a passing colleague. also all work-related social events should take place during work, not afterwards (with perhaps 1-2 exceptions throughout the year. It is high-time that the work and world recognizes that since introverts spend more time working - they are more valuable to the company in terms of productivity. extraverts on the other hand are very valuable to establishing connections with other companies, linkages with business investors, etc. both should be recognized and valued for their strength. extraverts help attract the customers, but introverts keep things running.
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i think there's too much confusion about social introversion vs. personality in this video.
i'm an introvert, i like being with my friends, dressing up and being at the center stage, but afterwards i need a month to recharge. it's not like introverts are shy, it's just that it takes our energy, it takes a toll to go out and socialize. so i would try and skip 3 out of 4 events, since i only have energy for 1.
in the video you seem to mix introversion with shyness or overlap these two, which is quite far away from reality.
it's also true that due to lack of non-stop social interactions we are less visible in the office, but again this has nothing to do with shyness or avoiding teamwork. it is rather that extraverts should be more often encouraged to stop, think and go work rather than having a chat every 30 minutes with a passing colleague. also all work-related social events should take place during work, not afterwards (with perhaps 1-2 exceptions throughout the year. It is high-time that the work and world recognizes that since introverts spend more time working - they are more valuable to the company in terms of productivity. extraverts on the other hand are very valuable to establishing connections with other companies, linkages with business investors, etc. both should be recognized and valued for their strength. extraverts help attract the customers, but introverts keep things running.
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ANEMO
As an introvert I know how it feels. Even when I went to my friends birthday party I didnt really talk more than I needed too. I always find it annoying when someone says you should socialize more and when I finally muster up the courage to say something, I just get talked over. A lot of the time its the same person who told me to talk more in the first place! I wish we lived in a society that didnt label any difference in people as a weakness or bad personality trait. If you just stop judging youll find that I am pretty sociable with my friends. Most of my conversations with friends are about things that actually interest me, not just a whats the time? kind of conversation. I often feel lonelier in a large group than by myself reading or listening to music, and it feels awful because youre surrounded by people but still feel invisible and left out. Sometimes, when Im in a bad mood I feel like Im the only person who knows how it feels being an introvert, but its good to know Im not. Great video, it really covered the problem lots of introverts have.
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As an introvert I know how it feels. Even when I went to my friends birthday party I didnt really talk more than I needed too. I always find it annoying when someone says you should socialize more and when I finally muster up the courage to say something, I just get talked over. A lot of the time its the same person who told me to talk more in the first place! I wish we lived in a society that didnt label any difference in people as a weakness or bad personality trait. If you just stop judging youll find that I am pretty sociable with my friends. Most of my conversations with friends are about things that actually interest me, not just a whats the time? kind of conversation. I often feel lonelier in a large group than by myself reading or listening to music, and it feels awful because youre surrounded by people but still feel invisible and left out. Sometimes, when Im in a bad mood I feel like Im the only person who knows how it feels being an introvert, but its good to know Im not. Great video, it really covered the problem lots of introverts have.
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iggigi
I have a question. I dont know if im an introvert or extrovert. Like i DO like to socialize and i do it a lot and people take me for a friendly social butterfly and thats because i am slowly getting rid of my shyness and social anxiety. I also dont mind being in the spotlight or being not heard or accidentally ignored anymore like before. Does that make me an extrovert? I also feel energized and excited when a hangout with fun and interesting people. However after some hours of socializing in the school and i come home, so im not longer socializing except with family and so and i have nothing to do so i suddenly feel tired and always go to sleep. And i CAN feel drained and tired when around others and everything is boring and theres nothing todo and i have no one to talk to. Does THAT make me an introvert? Like im so confused and been trying to figure this out for awhile now, since im not sure and feel like i dont know myself very well yet. Maybe im an ambivert but is that even actually possible?
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I have a question. I dont know if im an introvert or extrovert. Like i DO like to socialize and i do it a lot and people take me for a friendly social butterfly and thats because i am slowly getting rid of my shyness and social anxiety. I also dont mind being in the spotlight or being not heard or accidentally ignored anymore like before. Does that make me an extrovert? I also feel energized and excited when a hangout with fun and interesting people. However after some hours of socializing in the school and i come home, so im not longer socializing except with family and so and i have nothing to do so i suddenly feel tired and always go to sleep. And i CAN feel drained and tired when around others and everything is boring and theres nothing todo and i have no one to talk to. Does THAT make me an introvert? Like im so confused and been trying to figure this out for awhile now, since im not sure and feel like i dont know myself very well yet. Maybe im an ambivert but is that even actually possible?
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bri
As an introvert, I wanna feel included and have things in common with extroverts, while at the same time, I hide during parties bc of too many ppl. I hate being ignored bc I feel left out or lonely. Its not so bad I cant talk in front of ppl ik, but even extended family gives me anxiety
Ive tried to fight this bc I wish to be extroverted but idk if thats possible. I hide under a mask as a social butterfly
(I sound like a freaking poet)
Ppl say Im depressed or not confident in my looks, but in reality Im pretty happy with my life other than my biggest fear: afraid ppl dont wanna hang out w me bc Im boring (this fear comes w introversion)
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As an introvert, I wanna feel included and have things in common with extroverts, while at the same time, I hide during parties bc of too many ppl. I hate being ignored bc I feel left out or lonely. Its not so bad I cant talk in front of ppl ik, but even extended family gives me anxiety
Ive tried to fight this bc I wish to be extroverted but idk if thats possible. I hide under a mask as a social butterfly
(I sound like a freaking poet)
Ppl say Im depressed or not confident in my looks, but in reality Im pretty happy with my life other than my biggest fear: afraid ppl dont wanna hang out w me bc Im boring (this fear comes w introversion)
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LovePsychos
Something that extroverts will never understand is that we can be highly intuitive. If we feel the other person be judgy and see us as a threat how are we supposed to be social? I notice with myself that I was much more social with people that didn't make me feel self conscious. Of course they started the conversation but I felt more comfortable with them than the others. The struggle is that you can't say that to an extrovert. Most of them see us as the problem and they will never admit that they make us feel uncomfortable because they are social. You can't win if you're an introvert.
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Something that extroverts will never understand is that we can be highly intuitive. If we feel the other person be judgy and see us as a threat how are we supposed to be social? I notice with myself that I was much more social with people that didn't make me feel self conscious. Of course they started the conversation but I felt more comfortable with them than the others. The struggle is that you can't say that to an extrovert. Most of them see us as the problem and they will never admit that they make us feel uncomfortable because they are social. You can't win if you're an introvert.
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Rabiy
My journey was so much harder. I'm 3rd child of the family so it's obvious sometimes you get compair to your siblings but my second sister who is 2 years older than me was always people favourite and extrovert. i struggled with introvert problems even before i knew the words. even if i would like someone or try to talk to someone in family events or stuff they would give me vibe like uninterested or they would just constantly compair how i talk vs how my sister talks to people. From young age people are quick to judge often called rude too
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My journey was so much harder. I'm 3rd child of the family so it's obvious sometimes you get compair to your siblings but my second sister who is 2 years older than me was always people favourite and extrovert. i struggled with introvert problems even before i knew the words. even if i would like someone or try to talk to someone in family events or stuff they would give me vibe like uninterested or they would just constantly compair how i talk vs how my sister talks to people. From young age people are quick to judge often called rude too
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fauzia
I recently lost my mom and everything has changed including the fact that most of my relatives want me to go to their homes and they keep coming home and i don't want to talk to anyone. It's not because am rude but i just want to be alone. Mom was the only person who understood my personality but now she's dead. Away from those people, can anyone help me get somewhere to live coz am tired of staying in the same house since everything reminds me of mum. Please help me even if it means taking me abroad coz i'm in Uganda
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I recently lost my mom and everything has changed including the fact that most of my relatives want me to go to their homes and they keep coming home and i don't want to talk to anyone. It's not because am rude but i just want to be alone. Mom was the only person who understood my personality but now she's dead. Away from those people, can anyone help me get somewhere to live coz am tired of staying in the same house since everything reminds me of mum. Please help me even if it means taking me abroad coz i'm in Uganda
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exsepshunalkids
This describes me in most aspects. The only difference for me is when I am passionate about something I am able to speak in front of a group or because it was my job - which I was passionate about. But normally no, I cannot speak in front of a group. Is this abnormal for an introvert? Please explain. I agree with a lot of those who wrote below, lock down was a blessing, people think I'm rude, being told I need to socialize and being home alone is unhealthy.
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This describes me in most aspects. The only difference for me is when I am passionate about something I am able to speak in front of a group or because it was my job - which I was passionate about. But normally no, I cannot speak in front of a group. Is this abnormal for an introvert? Please explain. I agree with a lot of those who wrote below, lock down was a blessing, people think I'm rude, being told I need to socialize and being home alone is unhealthy.
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Dave
Why arent you smiling? Its not that bad? This one never fails to annoy me intensely. I didnt realise its a job requirement. As if always displaying an idiot grin makes for capability. Im usually completely happy while processing complex situations in my head and not engaging with the crowd. The number of times meetings go around in circles only to arrive at the same conclusions Ive already arrived at is legion. The rest of the time Im actually listening.
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Why arent you smiling? Its not that bad? This one never fails to annoy me intensely. I didnt realise its a job requirement. As if always displaying an idiot grin makes for capability. Im usually completely happy while processing complex situations in my head and not engaging with the crowd. The number of times meetings go around in circles only to arrive at the same conclusions Ive already arrived at is legion. The rest of the time Im actually listening.
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Just
As an introvert, it is a torture solo reporting at the front of my classmates. It's hell, tho I am trying to adapt with my observation on how they react with certain sentences and reactions. I literally prepare how to react to certain circumstances so I won't get teased. It's really helped me get by everyday at school. Also thanks to lockdown the classes became online, and people started using face masks. I am not saying I'm happy about the virus tho.
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As an introvert, it is a torture solo reporting at the front of my classmates. It's hell, tho I am trying to adapt with my observation on how they react with certain sentences and reactions. I literally prepare how to react to certain circumstances so I won't get teased. It's really helped me get by everyday at school. Also thanks to lockdown the classes became online, and people started using face masks. I am not saying I'm happy about the virus tho.
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T.
If only us introverts could get together and swap stories about the best kind of work for our type because I find that every job has caused mental drain after a short period of time but working with things or the possibility of being my own boss thoroughly excites me! Id love to know how many have succeeded in finding work that was based on extroversion and spending large portions of the work day interacting with other people.
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If only us introverts could get together and swap stories about the best kind of work for our type because I find that every job has caused mental drain after a short period of time but working with things or the possibility of being my own boss thoroughly excites me! Id love to know how many have succeeded in finding work that was based on extroversion and spending large portions of the work day interacting with other people.
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Lillian
Thanks for these insights, I've got some of the mentioned issues but have learner to cope with it, even with the overly noisy talkers, those who talk too much and don't give you a chance to speak it's actually very funny when you take a closer and deeper look at their personality traits, I like being by myself & completing tasks but if I need help I will always ask I've learnt to ask rather than struggling with the issue.
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Thanks for these insights, I've got some of the mentioned issues but have learner to cope with it, even with the overly noisy talkers, those who talk too much and don't give you a chance to speak it's actually very funny when you take a closer and deeper look at their personality traits, I like being by myself & completing tasks but if I need help I will always ask I've learnt to ask rather than struggling with the issue.
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Cosmic
One part of being introvert is people think you are untalented because you don't have uproot confidence like extroverts who love to express what they got.
I find it very harsh people judge me from their perspective of me being shy and timid. When I can show alot of potential if they don't think being expressive is all there is
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One part of being introvert is people think you are untalented because you don't have uproot confidence like extroverts who love to express what they got.
I find it very harsh people judge me from their perspective of me being shy and timid. When I can show alot of potential if they don't think being expressive is all there is
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Cosmic
One part of being introvert is people think you are untalented because you don't have uproot confidence like extroverts who love to express what they got.
I find it very harsh people judge me from their perspective of me being shy and timid. When I can show alot of potential if they don't think being expressive is all there is
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One part of being introvert is people think you are untalented because you don't have uproot confidence like extroverts who love to express what they got.
I find it very harsh people judge me from their perspective of me being shy and timid. When I can show alot of potential if they don't think being expressive is all there is
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Sham
I i, m a intervort since 3rd grade on time in 4rd EVERY SINGLE ONE HAD TO TALK INFRONT OF CLASS when it was my turn i stood up and 4 secondes later i started crying even tho nobody moke fun of me i Was bursting in tears and the word trust is the only one word 7 dont trust really thank you for telling me i, m not alone
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I i, m a intervort since 3rd grade on time in 4rd EVERY SINGLE ONE HAD TO TALK INFRONT OF CLASS when it was my turn i stood up and 4 secondes later i started crying even tho nobody moke fun of me i Was bursting in tears and the word trust is the only one word 7 dont trust really thank you for telling me i, m not alone
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Luis
I only found this video today.
The thing is. In an arguement, people wants you to explain your side. If that's the cae, why would they cut you off - or rather, talk over you right in the middle?
Don't you feel disrespected with this? I interpret this scenario as me being looked down on.
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I only found this video today.
The thing is. In an arguement, people wants you to explain your side. If that's the cae, why would they cut you off - or rather, talk over you right in the middle?
Don't you feel disrespected with this? I interpret this scenario as me being looked down on.
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I'm
I'm literally an introvert. Sometimes have no clue that I have spent too much time to find the answer or the way to do something, it's easier when I ask someone, though. But I don't. It ain't self-esteem or something else, it's just I don't want. Totally fine when I do it by my own self.
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I'm literally an introvert. Sometimes have no clue that I have spent too much time to find the answer or the way to do something, it's easier when I ask someone, though. But I don't. It ain't self-esteem or something else, it's just I don't want. Totally fine when I do it by my own self.
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Kelton
At my birthday party 7 years ago, my friends talked to me a lot and I can just shyly smile and saying nothing. Me, as the centre attraction, made me even uncomfortable when people wanted to play group games with me. Fun fact: I never asked any questions during class (even for toilet)
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At my birthday party 7 years ago, my friends talked to me a lot and I can just shyly smile and saying nothing. Me, as the centre attraction, made me even uncomfortable when people wanted to play group games with me. Fun fact: I never asked any questions during class (even for toilet)
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ContagiousPete
One key objection a lot of introverts would have: Us being quiet doesn't mean we don't have anything to say. It usually means We don't think you would listen (at least not to enough of the context to actually get a thorough grasp of what we're trying to contemplate.
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One key objection a lot of introverts would have: Us being quiet doesn't mean we don't have anything to say. It usually means We don't think you would listen (at least not to enough of the context to actually get a thorough grasp of what we're trying to contemplate.
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Mary
I'm an introverted person and I'm learning how to be confident without thinking about what other people say. What annoys me the most is when people what me to talk more and that exhausts me so will then tell them that I wasn't talking to you I was talking to myself
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I'm an introverted person and I'm learning how to be confident without thinking about what other people say. What annoys me the most is when people what me to talk more and that exhausts me so will then tell them that I wasn't talking to you I was talking to myself
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beepbop
Extroverts annoy me. They never stop talking, and they don't listen to each other -- so everyone is just babbling, nobody is listening, all the while they have the TV on because they need background noise.
Introverts appreciate silence.
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Extroverts annoy me. They never stop talking, and they don't listen to each other -- so everyone is just babbling, nobody is listening, all the while they have the TV on because they need background noise.
Introverts appreciate silence.
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Lil'
I luve in a town of 200 some people and I only talk to 3 people. Their elderly people and I only talk to them once a month, but my parents make fun of me when I return and need to recharge my battery.
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I luve in a town of 200 some people and I only talk to 3 people. Their elderly people and I only talk to them once a month, but my parents make fun of me when I return and need to recharge my battery.
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Ben
I am a big introvert and I'm usually underestimated, undermined, misunderstood, even by my own family members but as long as I know what I am and what I'm capable of, I just smile about it.
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I am a big introvert and I'm usually underestimated, undermined, misunderstood, even by my own family members but as long as I know what I am and what I'm capable of, I just smile about it.
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Zul
Hello fellow introverts. Just another introvert feeling down after a big fight with my mother because I don't feel like going to a family gathering and being called anti-social. Sigh.
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Hello fellow introverts. Just another introvert feeling down after a big fight with my mother because I don't feel like going to a family gathering and being called anti-social. Sigh.
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