8 Hurtful Things Parents Tell Children
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Liza
i've been told all of these things still I feel that my mom'feelings are more valid and important than mine as she have suffered a lot of stuff in her life and i lost my dad at the age of 12, she lost her partner who would have supported her and now she's all alone that is the reason i don't want to hurt her
i don't know what to do, I'm helpless, i feel devastated to see others having a patient life and i don't, i never want to hurt my mom but sometimes my emotions overtake me, i have no one to talk to except my mom whom i can't tell how am i feeling.
whenever i try to ask my mom for something its always in front of me but sometimes she just yell at me or say something like you're not meant for anything you're dumb you're not worth it you're USELESS
she starts to say everyone is hurting her, she starts to say that i don't wanna live nobody wants me to be living peacefully everyone who comes in my life hurts me
what do i do i have no one i can talk about. i just don't wanna hurt her. I just want to make my mom feel peaceful feel like 'there's someone she can rely on ' someone what will take care of her and she says i would never be able to live peacefully and dependent on you cause you're useless
what do i do I FEEL HURT BUT STILL I NEVER WANT TO HURT MY MOM.
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i've been told all of these things still I feel that my mom'feelings are more valid and important than mine as she have suffered a lot of stuff in her life and i lost my dad at the age of 12, she lost her partner who would have supported her and now she's all alone that is the reason i don't want to hurt her
i don't know what to do, I'm helpless, i feel devastated to see others having a patient life and i don't, i never want to hurt my mom but sometimes my emotions overtake me, i have no one to talk to except my mom whom i can't tell how am i feeling.
whenever i try to ask my mom for something its always in front of me but sometimes she just yell at me or say something like you're not meant for anything you're dumb you're not worth it you're USELESS
she starts to say everyone is hurting her, she starts to say that i don't wanna live nobody wants me to be living peacefully everyone who comes in my life hurts me
what do i do i have no one i can talk about. i just don't wanna hurt her. I just want to make my mom feel peaceful feel like 'there's someone she can rely on ' someone what will take care of her and she says i would never be able to live peacefully and dependent on you cause you're useless
what do i do I FEEL HURT BUT STILL I NEVER WANT TO HURT MY MOM.
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RobloxianHakimi
My Parents are worse, in 2017, It was 15th August in India (I'm an Indian and It was our independence day. I remember the time still as i'm growing up, my parents told me Do you even know about the freedom fighters? You can't be one of them also. You are just a kid who is just scared and useless to us. You were a mistake and we raised you as a mistaken child. You should be not born here or live infront of us.
Just can't imagine they are trying to even compare me to the freedom fighters.
I know that freedom fighters strugged alot for our independence, but it doesn't mean that they should compare me.
I just hate them and my mind is set to just knowing that my parents are hating and criticizing towards me but not showing me any love or support.
Even one time I said my parents I want to be a footballer as it's my dream.
My parents just ignore it and walk away with loudly telling You were a failure just to us.
I'm a 13 year old person but I still need unconditional love and support to achieve my dreams.
I need that great mindset to be a person I always wanted to be, and I see that my parents don't care about me so, I have to focus and support myself fully.
Thanks to you Psych2go for motivating me!
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My Parents are worse, in 2017, It was 15th August in India (I'm an Indian and It was our independence day. I remember the time still as i'm growing up, my parents told me Do you even know about the freedom fighters? You can't be one of them also. You are just a kid who is just scared and useless to us. You were a mistake and we raised you as a mistaken child. You should be not born here or live infront of us.
Just can't imagine they are trying to even compare me to the freedom fighters.
I know that freedom fighters strugged alot for our independence, but it doesn't mean that they should compare me.
I just hate them and my mind is set to just knowing that my parents are hating and criticizing towards me but not showing me any love or support.
Even one time I said my parents I want to be a footballer as it's my dream.
My parents just ignore it and walk away with loudly telling You were a failure just to us.
I'm a 13 year old person but I still need unconditional love and support to achieve my dreams.
I need that great mindset to be a person I always wanted to be, and I see that my parents don't care about me so, I have to focus and support myself fully.
Thanks to you Psych2go for motivating me!
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Duck
i had none of theses but my i feel unwanted or unloved when people yell at me in a negative way and i keep telling my grandpa but he keeps yelling at me and this has been going on for years and now that i am 11 i have emointal truma and my grandma died 4 years ago and my dad and my mom broke up so it feels like my mom is the only one who cares about i had thepray because of this issue but it didnt help and it feels like my mom is the only one who cares and all my friends got seprated at school and i been getting bullied and some of my friends dont remember me and now that i am older now i am already going threw emontial problems i try to hide this abuse but people always say why are you so soft or why do u act mysterious and these phrases just scar me so i try to stay in my room as much as possible but every day and night my grandpa keeps abuseing me so if any emotinal exprets see this please tell me how i can stop this abuse
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i had none of theses but my i feel unwanted or unloved when people yell at me in a negative way and i keep telling my grandpa but he keeps yelling at me and this has been going on for years and now that i am 11 i have emointal truma and my grandma died 4 years ago and my dad and my mom broke up so it feels like my mom is the only one who cares about i had thepray because of this issue but it didnt help and it feels like my mom is the only one who cares and all my friends got seprated at school and i been getting bullied and some of my friends dont remember me and now that i am older now i am already going threw emontial problems i try to hide this abuse but people always say why are you so soft or why do u act mysterious and these phrases just scar me so i try to stay in my room as much as possible but every day and night my grandpa keeps abuseing me so if any emotinal exprets see this please tell me how i can stop this abuse
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Ray_The_Simp_Gacha
Things i learned growing up with a abusive dad and mental annd emotional abusive mom
1. Don cry in front of them
2. Hide any emotions
3. Don't go anywhere with them
4. Do things when asked or else
5. Never talk back
6. Be good or else
7. Must take parent role to younger siblings
8. Care about them more than yourself
9. Try to avoid them
10. Stay out of the way
11. Don't ask or take anything with out permission
12. If they don't care they will never care
13. Don't be proud of yourself
14. Your better off by yourself
15. Control and bottle up emotions
16. Don't talk about yourself in any good way
17. Don't eat often
18. Hide things
19. Avoid being yelled at
20. Be good enough stay away from parents
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Things i learned growing up with a abusive dad and mental annd emotional abusive mom
1. Don cry in front of them
2. Hide any emotions
3. Don't go anywhere with them
4. Do things when asked or else
5. Never talk back
6. Be good or else
7. Must take parent role to younger siblings
8. Care about them more than yourself
9. Try to avoid them
10. Stay out of the way
11. Don't ask or take anything with out permission
12. If they don't care they will never care
13. Don't be proud of yourself
14. Your better off by yourself
15. Control and bottle up emotions
16. Don't talk about yourself in any good way
17. Don't eat often
18. Hide things
19. Avoid being yelled at
20. Be good enough stay away from parents
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Milania
Well in this vid 3 things u said in this vid have I been thru.
Well sometimes me mah mom argue and when she gets rlly mad she accidentally says: what is wrong with u and no Im not trying to say that she actually said that
Ok on to the second thing and that one was from mah stepdad that said: wow My name ur as small as a stick! Ok let me explain. I dont rlly eat exactly that much but he doesnt have to say something like that to me Im like I have feelings to uk, ok last but not least: )
Me nd mom was talking and she asked why I couldnt be more like mah annoying stepsis but. she also Ames why mah stepsis cant be more like to so I hope ur parents are good, ok that all from me bye! :)
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Well in this vid 3 things u said in this vid have I been thru.
Well sometimes me mah mom argue and when she gets rlly mad she accidentally says: what is wrong with u and no Im not trying to say that she actually said that
Ok on to the second thing and that one was from mah stepdad that said: wow My name ur as small as a stick! Ok let me explain. I dont rlly eat exactly that much but he doesnt have to say something like that to me Im like I have feelings to uk, ok last but not least: )
Me nd mom was talking and she asked why I couldnt be more like mah annoying stepsis but. she also Ames why mah stepsis cant be more like to so I hope ur parents are good, ok that all from me bye! :)
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DrAOblivian
My parents make me feel guilty so they win the argument all the time. I also have a dream that involves buying a lot of Transfiormers toys because they make me really happy as well as it being my favorite toy line. But my parents keep calling this an obsession and that it won't matter in the end because I will just move on to the next thing. Hearing these words have really hurt me and I've been growing resentful towards my parents and seeing them as oppressive and always keeping my $$ on a leash when I make a valid statement or argument. I am suffering and I can't tell my parents because they will make me seem like the bad guy in the end. Please help me. I'm trapped.
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My parents make me feel guilty so they win the argument all the time. I also have a dream that involves buying a lot of Transfiormers toys because they make me really happy as well as it being my favorite toy line. But my parents keep calling this an obsession and that it won't matter in the end because I will just move on to the next thing. Hearing these words have really hurt me and I've been growing resentful towards my parents and seeing them as oppressive and always keeping my $$ on a leash when I make a valid statement or argument. I am suffering and I can't tell my parents because they will make me seem like the bad guy in the end. Please help me. I'm trapped.
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QurrieOnaHogu
as a young child, being said Your a spoiled brat, so I treat you how I think your meant to be treated, and I don't love you makes me think I'm useless, and should NOT exist. So this really hurt me, it left my in severe scars in my heart, and I even cried while making this, I even was given a school therapist that I do not use, I have emotional outbreaks, lack of interest, lack of sleep, even a lack of friends in real life. By this point I may have depression. I think this even made me eat LESS. I even think I am the mistake, and the most worthless child on Earth. Keep in mind I am a Pre-teen now, and these things still happen.
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as a young child, being said Your a spoiled brat, so I treat you how I think your meant to be treated, and I don't love you makes me think I'm useless, and should NOT exist. So this really hurt me, it left my in severe scars in my heart, and I even cried while making this, I even was given a school therapist that I do not use, I have emotional outbreaks, lack of interest, lack of sleep, even a lack of friends in real life. By this point I may have depression. I think this even made me eat LESS. I even think I am the mistake, and the most worthless child on Earth. Keep in mind I am a Pre-teen now, and these things still happen.
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gold
Watching these comments have helped me so much as a parent to my son, who is now 7. I'm always saying hes too dramatic. I'm always thinking he's over reacting to situations and do want him to take things so seriously when in reality they arn't. But I never thought of the other side of this. That I might be sending a subliminal message that his feelings aren't important. I gave birth at 18 and I'm constantly learning more and growing. So these videos are such a blessing because it keeps me thinking about how to address my children and their behaviors and watch what I say to them.
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Watching these comments have helped me so much as a parent to my son, who is now 7. I'm always saying hes too dramatic. I'm always thinking he's over reacting to situations and do want him to take things so seriously when in reality they arn't. But I never thought of the other side of this. That I might be sending a subliminal message that his feelings aren't important. I gave birth at 18 and I'm constantly learning more and growing. So these videos are such a blessing because it keeps me thinking about how to address my children and their behaviors and watch what I say to them.
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Seb
Im only nine but I can still tell what my childhood is like. My real dad abandoned me before I was one then i started getting passed round person to person until I met my new dad on my first birthday he wanted to give me a better life it all went well till I met my sister I was 5 at the time btw. My parents started to argue listened to them arguing for 2 year I cant say this part as it personal. One year later my mom left me and found another man. Im also ortistic which makes my life harder.
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Im only nine but I can still tell what my childhood is like. My real dad abandoned me before I was one then i started getting passed round person to person until I met my new dad on my first birthday he wanted to give me a better life it all went well till I met my sister I was 5 at the time btw. My parents started to argue listened to them arguing for 2 year I cant say this part as it personal. One year later my mom left me and found another man. Im also ortistic which makes my life harder.
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Strawberry_kiwi
This hit hard.
I have had so much trauma from when I was younger, and Im loosing connection with my family members. My sister says Im annoying. My dad says Im a disappointment. My mum says Im the worst. My 2 brothers just make fun of me. The only people who seem to really love me is my oldest brother and my best friend.
Especially my best friend. She has stopped me from hurting myself, and at this point without her, I would have already ended my life.
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This hit hard.
I have had so much trauma from when I was younger, and Im loosing connection with my family members. My sister says Im annoying. My dad says Im a disappointment. My mum says Im the worst. My 2 brothers just make fun of me. The only people who seem to really love me is my oldest brother and my best friend.
Especially my best friend. She has stopped me from hurting myself, and at this point without her, I would have already ended my life.
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QuackityJr
3: 58 - 4: 21 my mom would always say that in any argument we are in and says Im sick of being with you because you are such a selfish person! Im going to be with youth that actually like me or well ___ had this life and they turned out fine, why cant you act like them? And I get jealous when I just see her be so kind and sweet to any other child other then me because that mom to them wasnt there for me on my early parts of childhood: (
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3: 58 - 4: 21 my mom would always say that in any argument we are in and says Im sick of being with you because you are such a selfish person! Im going to be with youth that actually like me or well ___ had this life and they turned out fine, why cant you act like them? And I get jealous when I just see her be so kind and sweet to any other child other then me because that mom to them wasnt there for me on my early parts of childhood: (
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Aadhin
I was told that my school grades mattered more then my mental health. I once came home with a 81% on my test and my mother cancelled my birthday. A few weeks later I made up for it coming home with a 100%. My mom still allowed my birthday but I celebrated it alone, bought cake and candles with my own savings and sang happy birthday quietly. At least I gave myself a small celebration rather than having my birthday cancelled
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I was told that my school grades mattered more then my mental health. I once came home with a 81% on my test and my mother cancelled my birthday. A few weeks later I made up for it coming home with a 100%. My mom still allowed my birthday but I celebrated it alone, bought cake and candles with my own savings and sang happy birthday quietly. At least I gave myself a small celebration rather than having my birthday cancelled
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Lunar
I was always told from my siblings that my mom only wanted three kids not four and how I was a accident, or they told me I had to be pretty big to weigh as much as one of them because of how short I was compared to them here I am now struggling to notice the fact that I'm living by a thread not even living for my family anymore just for my girlfriend and bsf's
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I was always told from my siblings that my mom only wanted three kids not four and how I was a accident, or they told me I had to be pretty big to weigh as much as one of them because of how short I was compared to them here I am now struggling to notice the fact that I'm living by a thread not even living for my family anymore just for my girlfriend and bsf's
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trash
There are two phrases that my mother always repeated: If you can't do something RIGHT, then don't do it AT ALL! and later, when I felt depressed because of that and didn't do anything because I was afraid of making mistakes, she said You're lazy, you won't achieve anything if you keep doing nothing!
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There are two phrases that my mother always repeated: If you can't do something RIGHT, then don't do it AT ALL! and later, when I felt depressed because of that and didn't do anything because I was afraid of making mistakes, she said You're lazy, you won't achieve anything if you keep doing nothing!
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Nerd
Slapped across the face (this was a favorite)
Almost drowned
Yelled at
I was expected to wait on my parents hand and foot and be my moms anger outlet. I would often write as I wasn't allowed to express myself And I learned how to silent cry just so I wouldn't get into trouble.
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Slapped across the face (this was a favorite)
Almost drowned
Yelled at
I was expected to wait on my parents hand and foot and be my moms anger outlet. I would often write as I wasn't allowed to express myself And I learned how to silent cry just so I wouldn't get into trouble.
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Kayla
Asking about my dad (never met him then) when my mom was in her last few months of cancer (so I didn't feel right being upset at her) she said your dad doesn't want you, he never did. As much as I love you & wouldn't trade you for the world, you were a mistake 15yrs later, still hurts
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Asking about my dad (never met him then) when my mom was in her last few months of cancer (so I didn't feel right being upset at her) she said your dad doesn't want you, he never did. As much as I love you & wouldn't trade you for the world, you were a mistake 15yrs later, still hurts
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education
The last one was my mom saying that when I was 11. I still am 11. I asked her again: Mom, how was I born?
My mom replied: Your sister was born with us knowing. You were unknowningly born later on in 2012.
I understood, but that kind of scarred me.
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The last one was my mom saying that when I was 11. I still am 11. I asked her again: Mom, how was I born?
My mom replied: Your sister was born with us knowing. You were unknowningly born later on in 2012.
I understood, but that kind of scarred me.
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Olivia
Now that Im watching this, I just realized when I was younger (Im 10) my dad only acted unloving and uncaring towards me because thats how his mom treated him
(Edit: dont worry me, my mom, and my dad all got therapy and hes a better person now)
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Now that Im watching this, I just realized when I was younger (Im 10) my dad only acted unloving and uncaring towards me because thats how his mom treated him
(Edit: dont worry me, my mom, and my dad all got therapy and hes a better person now)
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education
Me: voluntarily washes a ton of dishes
My mom: You didn't clean the food out of the strainers. You never empty the strainers. (Yes I do. Lots of times. I'm always going behind everybody, I need a break around here. yakity, yakity, yakity.
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Me: voluntarily washes a ton of dishes
My mom: You didn't clean the food out of the strainers. You never empty the strainers. (Yes I do. Lots of times. I'm always going behind everybody, I need a break around here. yakity, yakity, yakity.
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Lexie
My mom asked me to stop waking up, to leave and die. Im not even 12 yet. And my mom said, WHY CANT YOU BE MORE LIKE YOUR SISTER! Im glad Im not like her because she sends picks of her body to twenty year olds as a 12 year old.
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My mom asked me to stop waking up, to leave and die. Im not even 12 yet. And my mom said, WHY CANT YOU BE MORE LIKE YOUR SISTER! Im glad Im not like her because she sends picks of her body to twenty year olds as a 12 year old.
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Maytal
All of these is why I realized what happen to me as a kid and how my mom did damage me entirely. You belong to me. Is bone chilling and scary since I realized my mom's possessive and it scares me.
Thank you for this.
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All of these is why I realized what happen to me as a kid and how my mom did damage me entirely. You belong to me. Is bone chilling and scary since I realized my mom's possessive and it scares me.
Thank you for this.
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education
one day me and my dad were making a toy that i got from my birthday and i was so happy he told me: stop or else we not making it anymore and like any kid i cried and he said sorry BTW we has ADHD so yeah
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one day me and my dad were making a toy that i got from my birthday and i was so happy he told me: stop or else we not making it anymore and like any kid i cried and he said sorry BTW we has ADHD so yeah
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eli
My mom dont let me to do anything and go anything so thats why im on my phone and i always apolyging and its not my fult they always punch me kick me hitting me with a stick and some hurtfull things
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My mom dont let me to do anything and go anything so thats why im on my phone and i always apolyging and its not my fult they always punch me kick me hitting me with a stick and some hurtfull things
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CEO
I feel like even if I send my parents this video theyll agree with all of the topics in the video but still do some of them when I make a simple mistake or whenever I
would just get in trouble
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I feel like even if I send my parents this video theyll agree with all of the topics in the video but still do some of them when I make a simple mistake or whenever I
would just get in trouble
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Chad
its not my parents its my classmates, about 3/8 of these things were things that they said. Your so dramatic UGH Why are you like this. And youre fat and its been bringing my down
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its not my parents its my classmates, about 3/8 of these things were things that they said. Your so dramatic UGH Why are you like this. And youre fat and its been bringing my down
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