8 Signs Someone Isnt Meant For You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Otangaku
I am sorry, but had to stop in the middle just to write this comment; just hearing some stuff like this enrages me, it makes my blood boil, it irks me.
When you meet that person, there is no such thing as rules, you and your damn rules will be turned off, they do not exist anymore in the interest's life.
I will talk about myself here, if you think some freaking differnces are gonna draw some illusional lines between ME and MY girl, you are delusional my friend.
I am ready to fight the world if I have to, enough of this BS. I am proud to say if I fall for someone, I make sure I fall on my head first and fully, I never did things half-way apart, it is either you honor this love or enjoy your netflix show at home (depends on what every person does, I do not watch netflix, it is just a metaphore)
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I am sorry, but had to stop in the middle just to write this comment; just hearing some stuff like this enrages me, it makes my blood boil, it irks me.
When you meet that person, there is no such thing as rules, you and your damn rules will be turned off, they do not exist anymore in the interest's life.
I will talk about myself here, if you think some freaking differnces are gonna draw some illusional lines between ME and MY girl, you are delusional my friend.
I am ready to fight the world if I have to, enough of this BS. I am proud to say if I fall for someone, I make sure I fall on my head first and fully, I never did things half-way apart, it is either you honor this love or enjoy your netflix show at home (depends on what every person does, I do not watch netflix, it is just a metaphore)
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kiwi8476
This is hard to hear. I love my ex but I kept breaking it off and well, I was untrustworthy. But like all these points are valid. Shared interests weren't there, our social circles were different, I wanted different things than her, and it was hard for me to talk to her about things (I couldn't be honest with her) And self doubt. We didn't have much in common. I regret getting involved but I feel it would be a great and wonderful friendship. I would honestly love to be friends with her down the road but I don't know if that will work. I feel I cherished the friendship, just not the emotional aspect of the relationship. Maybe it's more I'm not sure what I want but I do want some help with myself.
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This is hard to hear. I love my ex but I kept breaking it off and well, I was untrustworthy. But like all these points are valid. Shared interests weren't there, our social circles were different, I wanted different things than her, and it was hard for me to talk to her about things (I couldn't be honest with her) And self doubt. We didn't have much in common. I regret getting involved but I feel it would be a great and wonderful friendship. I would honestly love to be friends with her down the road but I don't know if that will work. I feel I cherished the friendship, just not the emotional aspect of the relationship. Maybe it's more I'm not sure what I want but I do want some help with myself.
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ayumiichie
I love my parnter but I am the one who wants to communicate and has a short temper. While he always withdraws during bigger fights. I hate the stone walling. I'm also dealing with borderline and sometimes it gets very hard for me. He knows what I want, what I need but he always makes false promises and ignores my needs. How can someone be so sweet and kind and yet be such an asshole to me? Fully aware of my illness but still leaving me alone when things get tough. I'm trying to figure out right now wether I want to work on this or break up. I feel like I'm running after him and its getting harder to apologize for my behavior because he triggers and hurts me so much with it.
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I love my parnter but I am the one who wants to communicate and has a short temper. While he always withdraws during bigger fights. I hate the stone walling. I'm also dealing with borderline and sometimes it gets very hard for me. He knows what I want, what I need but he always makes false promises and ignores my needs. How can someone be so sweet and kind and yet be such an asshole to me? Fully aware of my illness but still leaving me alone when things get tough. I'm trying to figure out right now wether I want to work on this or break up. I feel like I'm running after him and its getting harder to apologize for my behavior because he triggers and hurts me so much with it.
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t0fu_b0fu
I feel like our relationship wont work out, but they need me. sometimes I wake up to them showing me blood drips on the floor and saying its from their cuts. I dont wanna tell them that I dont feel the relationship will work out and wake up to hear that they kicked the bucket, Im honestly scared to go to sleep because I dont know what happens when Im not with them. On the other hand, they do things that trigger me, we dont have any mutual interests or personalitys, we cant work with each others love language, and sometimes I feel the need to lie because I dont even want to hang out with them. What should I do?
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I feel like our relationship wont work out, but they need me. sometimes I wake up to them showing me blood drips on the floor and saying its from their cuts. I dont wanna tell them that I dont feel the relationship will work out and wake up to hear that they kicked the bucket, Im honestly scared to go to sleep because I dont know what happens when Im not with them. On the other hand, they do things that trigger me, we dont have any mutual interests or personalitys, we cant work with each others love language, and sometimes I feel the need to lie because I dont even want to hang out with them. What should I do?
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Le
I dedicated myself a lot to him trying to make the relationship work. I was the one who wanted him badly but I didn't feel understood. We were able to stick together for 11 months but his priorities were different than mine. I wish things were different, I still keep missing him everyday. I trusted him and told him everything but he was not like that. He was closing to himself and didn't talk to me. It was probably meant to end. I don't know but I'm willing to risk it another time
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I dedicated myself a lot to him trying to make the relationship work. I was the one who wanted him badly but I didn't feel understood. We were able to stick together for 11 months but his priorities were different than mine. I wish things were different, I still keep missing him everyday. I trusted him and told him everything but he was not like that. He was closing to himself and didn't talk to me. It was probably meant to end. I don't know but I'm willing to risk it another time
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Thao
my partner doesn't even give me time to try, his love just fade away so fast that makes me doubt myself, still don't know is it my fault or he just falling out of love with me, or he have reasons to not keep love me anymore. So frustrated. Is it worth fighting for this love? I don't know, maybe it's only me being not accepted the situation, maybe it's just me wondering if I'm so easy to let go to, if I'm not good enough.
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my partner doesn't even give me time to try, his love just fade away so fast that makes me doubt myself, still don't know is it my fault or he just falling out of love with me, or he have reasons to not keep love me anymore. So frustrated. Is it worth fighting for this love? I don't know, maybe it's only me being not accepted the situation, maybe it's just me wondering if I'm so easy to let go to, if I'm not good enough.
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GnopKing
Sometimes love isn't enough.
A lot of aspects must match to let a relationship go on.
Sometimes love can also be a problem because it doesn't allow people to break impossible and emotionally draining relationships. they can't quit because despite all, they love each other, but for some or many reasons they can't be together and can't live their love
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Sometimes love isn't enough.
A lot of aspects must match to let a relationship go on.
Sometimes love can also be a problem because it doesn't allow people to break impossible and emotionally draining relationships. they can't quit because despite all, they love each other, but for some or many reasons they can't be together and can't live their love
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BlurredWolf
Ivm trying to get over my onesided loce for a friend. I know we aren't meant to be, I can't force them to like me back and I donvt want to be in relationship with them, because I'm so afraid I will fall out of love again. Happened to me before with a partner, and it's hell. I'm so bitter to myself about it, because he really was a wonderful person.
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Ivm trying to get over my onesided loce for a friend. I know we aren't meant to be, I can't force them to like me back and I donvt want to be in relationship with them, because I'm so afraid I will fall out of love again. Happened to me before with a partner, and it's hell. I'm so bitter to myself about it, because he really was a wonderful person.
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squeak
Wanted to ask but is number 3 really necessary? This is because me and my partner do not have much shared interest tho not sure is it a good sign
But I saw some people are able to make the relationship work without number 3 but some can't. My parents also mentioned number 3 is important, but I'm still not sure. Anyone can give advice on this?
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Wanted to ask but is number 3 really necessary? This is because me and my partner do not have much shared interest tho not sure is it a good sign
But I saw some people are able to make the relationship work without number 3 but some can't. My parents also mentioned number 3 is important, but I'm still not sure. Anyone can give advice on this?
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Coronilla
All the signs are correct except the one that say u dont put ur relationship first. In my case, that s what I want, just a simple relationship that wont be first in my life but complete it. I dont think it s a toxic thing but a mindset! Some people ara soo into their relationship but other are simply not. The world is different.
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All the signs are correct except the one that say u dont put ur relationship first. In my case, that s what I want, just a simple relationship that wont be first in my life but complete it. I dont think it s a toxic thing but a mindset! Some people ara soo into their relationship but other are simply not. The world is different.
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Joel
So God is out here helping yall with relationships but letting kids starve, ppl die, and other evil things go on? And why does every human speak for this God? All this is very self centered and egotistic. No God, creator or whatever u want to call cares about ur personal wants and needs. The only purpose we have in life is to live.
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So God is out here helping yall with relationships but letting kids starve, ppl die, and other evil things go on? And why does every human speak for this God? All this is very self centered and egotistic. No God, creator or whatever u want to call cares about ur personal wants and needs. The only purpose we have in life is to live.
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James
SMH. for those who keep bringing it up, can we PLEASE leave religion out of these discussions? SMH
Relationships work because both people are willing to put the time, energy, and effort into making them work. not because it was god's plan.
This puts a very unrealistic pressure on people, and can be extremely damaging.
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SMH. for those who keep bringing it up, can we PLEASE leave religion out of these discussions? SMH
Relationships work because both people are willing to put the time, energy, and effort into making them work. not because it was god's plan.
This puts a very unrealistic pressure on people, and can be extremely damaging.
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Lavenderrose73
Also, if there's no chemistry or no attraction. I almost married someone I was not in love with or attracted to because he was in love with me and I thought I could grow to love him. I tried like anyting for his sake, for the sake of giving him a chance. Now I know it's either there or it's not.
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Also, if there's no chemistry or no attraction. I almost married someone I was not in love with or attracted to because he was in love with me and I thought I could grow to love him. I tried like anyting for his sake, for the sake of giving him a chance. Now I know it's either there or it's not.
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MsStephanieJane31
I personally believe it comes down to both partners bring open minded with different interests. Just because theyre very different doesnt mean they shouldnt or cant be together; I believe they should use this as an opportunity to truly learn about each other and even from one another
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I personally believe it comes down to both partners bring open minded with different interests. Just because theyre very different doesnt mean they shouldnt or cant be together; I believe they should use this as an opportunity to truly learn about each other and even from one another
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JC
I needed to hear this. As someone who feels that Im running out of time to find love, despite being 16 I overthink a lot of things in my past relationships. I may be young but I feel I need to be able to distinguish what I want to do in this life. I have some time before I go to college
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I needed to hear this. As someone who feels that Im running out of time to find love, despite being 16 I overthink a lot of things in my past relationships. I may be young but I feel I need to be able to distinguish what I want to do in this life. I have some time before I go to college
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Killbottom
I do not know how you think, but it is not right to set priorities in this context! Think for yourself, suddenly a choice will arise between parents and the other half and both sides want to help, what then to do? What is the priority to set?
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I do not know how you think, but it is not right to set priorities in this context! Think for yourself, suddenly a choice will arise between parents and the other half and both sides want to help, what then to do? What is the priority to set?
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d3dass_777
I could literally realate to all of them
, we're literally on n off soo much idk how he feels about this, I need an advice what m I suppose to do, I m at a pointof lyf where I feel nobody really cares and I guess he too feel no right
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I could literally realate to all of them
, we're literally on n off soo much idk how he feels about this, I need an advice what m I suppose to do, I m at a pointof lyf where I feel nobody really cares and I guess he too feel no right
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Nikec
6th point: they've come to my house that's 4km away from theirs and waited outside from 4am till 7am because I wanted to do suicide, I don't have the heart to break up with them because you hardly find someone that'll do this much for you.
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6th point: they've come to my house that's 4km away from theirs and waited outside from 4am till 7am because I wanted to do suicide, I don't have the heart to break up with them because you hardly find someone that'll do this much for you.
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Nidal
Usually it's because after you ask someone hey I'm interested in getting to know you, we should go out and the person isn't willing. THEY DON'T WANT YOU SO LEAVE THEM ALONE AND GO FIND SOMEONE ELSE
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Usually it's because after you ask someone hey I'm interested in getting to know you, we should go out and the person isn't willing. THEY DON'T WANT YOU SO LEAVE THEM ALONE AND GO FIND SOMEONE ELSE
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Cory
it sucks, she's such a wonderful person. so many traits I want. but I have that last feeling described. too many doubts she isn't the one. not feeling that for someone so good really just sucks.
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it sucks, she's such a wonderful person. so many traits I want. but I have that last feeling described. too many doubts she isn't the one. not feeling that for someone so good really just sucks.
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Psych2Go
Happy Mother Day to all the wonderful moms and single dads out there! Were based in Canada so its Mothers Day here. If youre somewhere else, feel free to share when it is Mothers Day there!
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Happy Mother Day to all the wonderful moms and single dads out there! Were based in Canada so its Mothers Day here. If youre somewhere else, feel free to share when it is Mothers Day there!
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Latoya
i was heart broken not until i was recommended to Dr Danja The Spell Caster who helped me restore my relationship i can't still believe it that we are now together again.
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i was heart broken not until i was recommended to Dr Danja The Spell Caster who helped me restore my relationship i can't still believe it that we are now together again.
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Latoya
i was heart broken not until i was recommended to Dr Danja The Spell Caster who helped me restore my relationship i can't still believe it that we are now together again.
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i was heart broken not until i was recommended to Dr Danja The Spell Caster who helped me restore my relationship i can't still believe it that we are now together again.
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Elaina
So many of these things resonant in my current relationship. We need to end it for good but we're both codependent. It's just so hard, especially during the holidays.
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So many of these things resonant in my current relationship. We need to end it for good but we're both codependent. It's just so hard, especially during the holidays.
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RedFox
I dont believe that their is only one soul mate for everyone. I believe their is many different people that have the potential to be the one you end up settling with.
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I dont believe that their is only one soul mate for everyone. I believe their is many different people that have the potential to be the one you end up settling with.
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