8 Signs You're Falling For Your Best Friend
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Kemesi
Recently, i found out that i have this feelings towards to my bestfriend in a romantic form. I've been getting these feelings since then when we were in highschool tho' i did not confront this behavior bcs i might making this on my mind like thinking it just for fun. My behavior also getting weird, when she hold my hand i got this feelings i dont want to express, when she compliment me, when she hugged me, i just dont know what it is. It keeps bothering me, but im telling myself i wouldn't tell this to her and not gonna tolerate this feelings for her since she got a gf. I respect her and her gf, i do support them, i will still give her advice and care for her. But everynight thinking that we cant be tgt makes me cry myself out, getting out of my comfort, confused in everything, hoping that this feelings go fade away and start a new life for another lovelife, yet idk where or what would i do just to stop this cuz it is being difficult to handle this things. I hope she notice and try see me as a another person, not just a friend, not just a talk buddy or a sister but more than that.
Commenting in this is my comfort and relatable to my self. Hope i could move on soon.
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Recently, i found out that i have this feelings towards to my bestfriend in a romantic form. I've been getting these feelings since then when we were in highschool tho' i did not confront this behavior bcs i might making this on my mind like thinking it just for fun. My behavior also getting weird, when she hold my hand i got this feelings i dont want to express, when she compliment me, when she hugged me, i just dont know what it is. It keeps bothering me, but im telling myself i wouldn't tell this to her and not gonna tolerate this feelings for her since she got a gf. I respect her and her gf, i do support them, i will still give her advice and care for her. But everynight thinking that we cant be tgt makes me cry myself out, getting out of my comfort, confused in everything, hoping that this feelings go fade away and start a new life for another lovelife, yet idk where or what would i do just to stop this cuz it is being difficult to handle this things. I hope she notice and try see me as a another person, not just a friend, not just a talk buddy or a sister but more than that.
Commenting in this is my comfort and relatable to my self. Hope i could move on soon.
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Behind
Ok so what do you do if That Happens?
I had Male Friends For a while
Now and Never Fell in love with them. Now Ive had my best friend For like a bit Over a year. We Talk online so we havent met Because we live really far apart. But Plan to meet. We Talk a lot, send pictures and Videos, sometimes I Virtually accompany him to outings. I feel like we dont Talk like normal Friends. Were very close, Talk about everything, he told me he thinks about me every day and we both realise when we didnt Talk a few days. We just get each other, want to move to the Same Area later in life, have the same Religion and compliment each others looks. But hes one of those People who just dont get it when someone is sending hints.
I also think we Should meet First But Im scared That hell meet someone at his university or get closer to the female Friends he has there and now I dont know what to do. I think about him a lot and when we dont write for a few days, it drives me a bit crazy. Of course the feeling is nice But it also freaks me out so what the hell does one do?
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Ok so what do you do if That Happens?
I had Male Friends For a while
Now and Never Fell in love with them. Now Ive had my best friend For like a bit Over a year. We Talk online so we havent met Because we live really far apart. But Plan to meet. We Talk a lot, send pictures and Videos, sometimes I Virtually accompany him to outings. I feel like we dont Talk like normal Friends. Were very close, Talk about everything, he told me he thinks about me every day and we both realise when we didnt Talk a few days. We just get each other, want to move to the Same Area later in life, have the same Religion and compliment each others looks. But hes one of those People who just dont get it when someone is sending hints.
I also think we Should meet First But Im scared That hell meet someone at his university or get closer to the female Friends he has there and now I dont know what to do. I think about him a lot and when we dont write for a few days, it drives me a bit crazy. Of course the feeling is nice But it also freaks me out so what the hell does one do?
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cripple
okay so heres what happend/happening:
Person name: X
Been friends for only a year/my first guy friend in 8/9 years lol
this started like a week ago and i found xs comment in a video related to eds and skipping meals and i am extra sensitive with that topic so i asked x on snap if he was ok cause yeah the comment, and he replied that hes fine and i could tell he was lying and hen after we started talking at night about this topic and few other things and i got rlly comfortable around x, and i think about x alot but i dont feel any crush feeling? but i get really excited when X texts me and disapinted when x leaves me on delivered for a period of time: ( (been friends for 1 year only and already started telling him a few things my og friends dont know about and i dont like that behaviour of me)
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okay so heres what happend/happening:
Person name: X
Been friends for only a year/my first guy friend in 8/9 years lol
this started like a week ago and i found xs comment in a video related to eds and skipping meals and i am extra sensitive with that topic so i asked x on snap if he was ok cause yeah the comment, and he replied that hes fine and i could tell he was lying and hen after we started talking at night about this topic and few other things and i got rlly comfortable around x, and i think about x alot but i dont feel any crush feeling? but i get really excited when X texts me and disapinted when x leaves me on delivered for a period of time: ( (been friends for 1 year only and already started telling him a few things my og friends dont know about and i dont like that behaviour of me)
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Phoenix
While 2 of these signs (the 5th and 8th sign specifically) only match up with me partially, the rest of the signs completely do, except for one. The 6th sign is just not me, I don't feel possessive over him. I'm fine with him being with anyone, I just want him to be happy. Though, if they hurt him, I will not absolutely just standby and let the person get away with it.
But. to be honest, I'm scared of falling in love with my close friend. I don't want to make things even more awkward for the both of us. We can't even interact in or outside of school normally without having our friends bothering us. We both know that they're only joking with shipping us, but it's making us uncomfortable. I've already mentioned this to them, but they just won't stop. Can't they take the hint!
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While 2 of these signs (the 5th and 8th sign specifically) only match up with me partially, the rest of the signs completely do, except for one. The 6th sign is just not me, I don't feel possessive over him. I'm fine with him being with anyone, I just want him to be happy. Though, if they hurt him, I will not absolutely just standby and let the person get away with it.
But. to be honest, I'm scared of falling in love with my close friend. I don't want to make things even more awkward for the both of us. We can't even interact in or outside of school normally without having our friends bothering us. We both know that they're only joking with shipping us, but it's making us uncomfortable. I've already mentioned this to them, but they just won't stop. Can't they take the hint!
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Odessa
I had a dream of him a few days ago ab us meeting up together since we are long distance in different countries. He's my best friend for years now, and I've started to become aware for my feelings for him after thinking my time out how I feel about my best friend. We have face time a lot time to time and watched movies together, he knows my personal problems too more than my ex boyfriend/best friend. I love him and I love to meet up w his family. It feels kind of weird talking ab my feelings for my best friend. He recently found out he is bi w a preference for feminine guys too (we are both dudes.
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I had a dream of him a few days ago ab us meeting up together since we are long distance in different countries. He's my best friend for years now, and I've started to become aware for my feelings for him after thinking my time out how I feel about my best friend. We have face time a lot time to time and watched movies together, he knows my personal problems too more than my ex boyfriend/best friend. I love him and I love to meet up w his family. It feels kind of weird talking ab my feelings for my best friend. He recently found out he is bi w a preference for feminine guys too (we are both dudes.
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Ducky
1. 0: 30 You spend the majority of your time with them
2. 1: 18 You think about them often
3. 1: 54 You care about them deeply
4. 2: 30 You are comfortable being vulnerable around them
5. 3: 20 You care more about your appearance when youre with them
6. 3: 50 You feel possessive over them
7. 4: 21 You dream about them
8. 5: 04 Youre very involved in their life
And personal 9. You were thinking about them right from the title and throughout the video
And yes I'm calling myself out, we're all doomed.
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1. 0: 30 You spend the majority of your time with them
2. 1: 18 You think about them often
3. 1: 54 You care about them deeply
4. 2: 30 You are comfortable being vulnerable around them
5. 3: 20 You care more about your appearance when youre with them
6. 3: 50 You feel possessive over them
7. 4: 21 You dream about them
8. 5: 04 Youre very involved in their life
And personal 9. You were thinking about them right from the title and throughout the video
And yes I'm calling myself out, we're all doomed.
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Jasmine
Hm. Bit confused. I relate to all the Platonic stuff, like feeling deeply about them and being vulnerable with my friends, but whenever quizzes like this ask if Im ever jealous or possessive, Its always a definite no in all honesty. It makes me happy to see them happy with someone else. And I dont really want them to be something else because friendship in my mind just seems to be the best relationship anyone can have. Is that normal? Does anyone else feel the same?
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Hm. Bit confused. I relate to all the Platonic stuff, like feeling deeply about them and being vulnerable with my friends, but whenever quizzes like this ask if Im ever jealous or possessive, Its always a definite no in all honesty. It makes me happy to see them happy with someone else. And I dont really want them to be something else because friendship in my mind just seems to be the best relationship anyone can have. Is that normal? Does anyone else feel the same?
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Ashley
I have an odd thing where I am in a relationship but because of how rocky it is I have feelings for my best friend. I didnt start noticing these feelings till a month or two ago. And honestly I have no idea what he feels because he gives the most mixed feelings I've ever seen someone. I decided since im still in a relationship that I just push it all away and know they are my favorite person lol but sometimes I wonder since we do all these
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I have an odd thing where I am in a relationship but because of how rocky it is I have feelings for my best friend. I didnt start noticing these feelings till a month or two ago. And honestly I have no idea what he feels because he gives the most mixed feelings I've ever seen someone. I decided since im still in a relationship that I just push it all away and know they are my favorite person lol but sometimes I wonder since we do all these
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Feras
Well sh I thought this video would prove me wrong but turns our I'm MADLY in love with him today he should me a picture of a girl and he told me he has a crush on her I felt FURIOUS I wanted to scream and cry so badly but I didn't and I just said wow she's so pretty and skinny I totally regret saying that, can anyone please help me and tell me what to do to make him fall in love with me and if it makes a difference I'm a male
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Well sh I thought this video would prove me wrong but turns our I'm MADLY in love with him today he should me a picture of a girl and he told me he has a crush on her I felt FURIOUS I wanted to scream and cry so badly but I didn't and I just said wow she's so pretty and skinny I totally regret saying that, can anyone please help me and tell me what to do to make him fall in love with me and if it makes a difference I'm a male
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Ibe
guess who watching this video after spent a lot of minutes crying immediately after waking up because she was in my dream but reality kicking in and reminding me that I could never be her 'someone special': ')
it hurts, a lot, to hide this feeling while trying to be the same-as-usual bestfriend to her all this time. damn. I don't even have anyone to share this struggle so here i am rambling nonsense in this comment haha
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guess who watching this video after spent a lot of minutes crying immediately after waking up because she was in my dream but reality kicking in and reminding me that I could never be her 'someone special': ')
it hurts, a lot, to hide this feeling while trying to be the same-as-usual bestfriend to her all this time. damn. I don't even have anyone to share this struggle so here i am rambling nonsense in this comment haha
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Alexa
Me and my best friend are now in a long distance friendship and lately we have been calling way more the last couple months more then we have in the last year and a half since I moved we have been calling even if we don't have anything to talk about we will just do are own things well on call or play games together
We have also been way more open with each other then we used to and I have gotten so much closer to her
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Me and my best friend are now in a long distance friendship and lately we have been calling way more the last couple months more then we have in the last year and a half since I moved we have been calling even if we don't have anything to talk about we will just do are own things well on call or play games together
We have also been way more open with each other then we used to and I have gotten so much closer to her
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Trexolotl
I had a crush on one of my friends in my friend group (still do) and i told everyone in the friend group except for her ( my crush) and then soon they told her I had a crush on someone in the school and she is nosy so she would not leave me alone so I got enough courage to scream YOU and run off.
She then said she was straight and I was pretty sad for the next few days
(We are still friends)
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I had a crush on one of my friends in my friend group (still do) and i told everyone in the friend group except for her ( my crush) and then soon they told her I had a crush on someone in the school and she is nosy so she would not leave me alone so I got enough courage to scream YOU and run off.
She then said she was straight and I was pretty sad for the next few days
(We are still friends)
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Abandoned
i saved my friend from SA. next she told me she had a crush on me, and i stated that i was too young to date or have a crush (although i didn't have feelings for her so i just used that as an excuse to not date her) now i'm having feelings for her. what should i do? should i address it or wait. she said she doesn't have a crush on me before so i'm not sure what to do. can someone help me out?
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i saved my friend from SA. next she told me she had a crush on me, and i stated that i was too young to date or have a crush (although i didn't have feelings for her so i just used that as an excuse to not date her) now i'm having feelings for her. what should i do? should i address it or wait. she said she doesn't have a crush on me before so i'm not sure what to do. can someone help me out?
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FrejsenEmsen
I do think that im in love Whit my best friend i have know her for 6 years and i really care about her im allwase Really worred about if she is okay and who she spend time Whit- i feel somtimes jealousy when she Hangouts Whit ohters. I think about her Alot and i allwase want to check if i do still know her like i did before. Idk what to do this sence i dont know if she loves me back
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I do think that im in love Whit my best friend i have know her for 6 years and i really care about her im allwase Really worred about if she is okay and who she spend time Whit- i feel somtimes jealousy when she Hangouts Whit ohters. I think about her Alot and i allwase want to check if i do still know her like i did before. Idk what to do this sence i dont know if she loves me back
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Chloe
I have a best friend who i have known my whole life, i feel so comfortable around her and i think i have had a crush on her for about a year. She literally refers to us as 'platonic soulmates'. I think she might like me but i honestly dont know. Also she thinks she is straight, but she's not sure. So thats fun.
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I have a best friend who i have known my whole life, i feel so comfortable around her and i think i have had a crush on her for about a year. She literally refers to us as 'platonic soulmates'. I think she might like me but i honestly dont know. Also she thinks she is straight, but she's not sure. So thats fun.
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Lisanne
Everyone around us ship us and we even played along to some extend cuz its funny ya know, but I am starting to realise that they might be more right than Id like them to be. I am also extremely confused because I thought I was aromantic, but I have never felt this way about someone before
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Everyone around us ship us and we even played along to some extend cuz its funny ya know, but I am starting to realise that they might be more right than Id like them to be. I am also extremely confused because I thought I was aromantic, but I have never felt this way about someone before
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Luna
I worry I have a crush on my best online friend
The problem is that we live in different countries, I want hugs all the time, the distance makes it complicated, and I said Id never want another online relationship
Everything is so overwhelming and idk what to do
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I worry I have a crush on my best online friend
The problem is that we live in different countries, I want hugs all the time, the distance makes it complicated, and I said Id never want another online relationship
Everything is so overwhelming and idk what to do
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Komal
These situation in my life right now sucks as the guy friend who I am falling for is in committed long distance relationship, I don't wannna be away from him but I can't stop thinking about him, he is like my only best friend with whom I share my feelings. ..
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These situation in my life right now sucks as the guy friend who I am falling for is in committed long distance relationship, I don't wannna be away from him but I can't stop thinking about him, he is like my only best friend with whom I share my feelings. ..
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Star_Nj
I HAVE ALL THE SIGNS HERE! Yes I do secretly have a crush on my bestie. Its been 4 years since we met. I always remember his birthday and hang out with him everyday. I once dreamed about him and I hanging out and getting married lol
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I HAVE ALL THE SIGNS HERE! Yes I do secretly have a crush on my bestie. Its been 4 years since we met. I always remember his birthday and hang out with him everyday. I once dreamed about him and I hanging out and getting married lol
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Nat
I have this best friend and I'm pretty sure that I love him. I have all these signs. I mean I dream him everynight and everything.
Idk if I should tell him. But actually. I'll tell him. Today. Hope our friendship won't be ruined.
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I have this best friend and I'm pretty sure that I love him. I have all these signs. I mean I dream him everynight and everything.
Idk if I should tell him. But actually. I'll tell him. Today. Hope our friendship won't be ruined.
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Aunica
1yes 2yes 3yes 4yes 5yes 6yes 7yes 8yes I love her so much but I don't think she bi or les though so I think I'm freind zoned she kissed me on the cheek twice but I think she did it for a friend thing tho so she might not like me!
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1yes 2yes 3yes 4yes 5yes 6yes 7yes 8yes I love her so much but I don't think she bi or les though so I think I'm freind zoned she kissed me on the cheek twice but I think she did it for a friend thing tho so she might not like me!
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de4dvo1ce
Even when I dream about him, I'm afraid of touching him, that he could not like / want it, especially because it's me. But there have been some in which we were together, hugging, cuddling and just happy. :(
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Even when I dream about him, I'm afraid of touching him, that he could not like / want it, especially because it's me. But there have been some in which we were together, hugging, cuddling and just happy. :(
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Adriana
I find myself watching these videos because I'm the best friend who didn't reciprocate, I'm positive I didn't like him back but even though I don't regret it, it's still a bit sad that he got away from me.
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I find myself watching these videos because I'm the best friend who didn't reciprocate, I'm positive I didn't like him back but even though I don't regret it, it's still a bit sad that he got away from me.
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MintheFur
Straight, christian person here trying to figure out if ive fallen for my girl best friend.
1. yes
2. not rlly
3. yes
4. kinda
5. kinda
6. a little
7. no
8. mostly
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Straight, christian person here trying to figure out if ive fallen for my girl best friend.
1. yes
2. not rlly
3. yes
4. kinda
5. kinda
6. a little
7. no
8. mostly
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Sandhya
I think i'm falling for my best friend i met online two years ago. I never thought I'd be one to like girls but here I am. But I know this relationship won't work. I'll still love her tho
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I think i'm falling for my best friend i met online two years ago. I never thought I'd be one to like girls but here I am. But I know this relationship won't work. I'll still love her tho
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