6 Signs You're Burnt Out, Not Lazy
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Been stuck in the final stage for almost 2 years now, psychiatric help doesn't exist and if it does, it's a joke and only makes you feel worse. LIFE doesn't stop or care, especially this life format created by the system. They steal our time (literally, they designed EVERYTHING to stress you out and keep you aggravated and hopeless EVERYDAY (and always broke, they take away medication that really helps people even if it was used as a form of off label therapeutic - I don't care if it was a false sense of security, enthusiasm, euphoric outlook or better quality of life perception AT LEAST I FELT BETTER AND GOT THROUGH MY DAY WITH A SMILE AND ACCOMPLISHED MY RESPONSIBILITIES truly I'd rather have a false sense of happiness and optimism than feeling this miserable, physically/mentally/emotional/painful BS EVERYDAY AND NIGHT! My God, WHY won't they let us feel good and happy? It's like it's a crime to be or feel happy, content, euphoric, enthusiastic, productive, energetic, creative, balanced, easy going, laid back, positive, etc. Whether or not it's a natural perception or prescribed perception, they will break you down or make it nearly impossible to get what you need or outright make it illegal. but anything that makes you feel worse, stresses you out, or dumbs you down - they dump it in our drinking water, food, products, news, laws, intentional design and system flaws, etc. I can't take THIS life anymore. Because I KNOW life was better than this. Time was longer than just the few minutes that fly by that we now call a day. There's no time for time anymore and everything is so rushed. Even if I hurry I still can't get one thing done without 2-3 hours passing by and I'm like that's not possible! I can remember getting so much done in a day moving slower and more calmly and still have so much time left. 37 seconds is all there is left in a minute now. I KNOW because I've counted many many times watching a digital clock a couple of months ago. It may be even less now, I don't know because I give up because I already know that there's no time left. We're missing almost 6 hours out of every day. 2, 184 hours missing a year, 91 days a year straight up stolen from you and me.
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Been stuck in the final stage for almost 2 years now, psychiatric help doesn't exist and if it does, it's a joke and only makes you feel worse. LIFE doesn't stop or care, especially this life format created by the system. They steal our time (literally, they designed EVERYTHING to stress you out and keep you aggravated and hopeless EVERYDAY (and always broke, they take away medication that really helps people even if it was used as a form of off label therapeutic - I don't care if it was a false sense of security, enthusiasm, euphoric outlook or better quality of life perception AT LEAST I FELT BETTER AND GOT THROUGH MY DAY WITH A SMILE AND ACCOMPLISHED MY RESPONSIBILITIES truly I'd rather have a false sense of happiness and optimism than feeling this miserable, physically/mentally/emotional/painful BS EVERYDAY AND NIGHT! My God, WHY won't they let us feel good and happy? It's like it's a crime to be or feel happy, content, euphoric, enthusiastic, productive, energetic, creative, balanced, easy going, laid back, positive, etc. Whether or not it's a natural perception or prescribed perception, they will break you down or make it nearly impossible to get what you need or outright make it illegal. but anything that makes you feel worse, stresses you out, or dumbs you down - they dump it in our drinking water, food, products, news, laws, intentional design and system flaws, etc. I can't take THIS life anymore. Because I KNOW life was better than this. Time was longer than just the few minutes that fly by that we now call a day. There's no time for time anymore and everything is so rushed. Even if I hurry I still can't get one thing done without 2-3 hours passing by and I'm like that's not possible! I can remember getting so much done in a day moving slower and more calmly and still have so much time left. 37 seconds is all there is left in a minute now. I KNOW because I've counted many many times watching a digital clock a couple of months ago. It may be even less now, I don't know because I give up because I already know that there's no time left. We're missing almost 6 hours out of every day. 2, 184 hours missing a year, 91 days a year straight up stolen from you and me.
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Daniel
Oh wow, this is the video I never knew that I needed. It has hit me right in the feels and I'm accepting that I'm burnt out. I relate to everything. Following a very traumatic and abusive experience over a year ago, where my partner ultimately walked out on me after we had just got engaged and after inflicting all this abuse, without a word. I have since learnt, that what I went through was narcissistic abuse. I have educated myself on narcissism as much as I can, to hopefully avoid being with the wrong people in the future in order to not have a repeat performance. But back to the point. I've noticed a steady decline in myself. I stopped looking forward to the day, I stopped going to the gym, stopped eating well, stopped wanting to hang out with friends, dropped in my performance and time keeping with work and just generally felt an overwhelming feeling of what's the point and feeling empty and not myself any more. It all makes sense now. I've always heard of people becoming burnt out, but I never knew what it really meant until now. I have been doing a ridiculous amount of overtime between two jobs, as I wanted to constantly keep myself busy and distracted. I'm since learning that this has only made things worse and has lead to my decline.
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Oh wow, this is the video I never knew that I needed. It has hit me right in the feels and I'm accepting that I'm burnt out. I relate to everything. Following a very traumatic and abusive experience over a year ago, where my partner ultimately walked out on me after we had just got engaged and after inflicting all this abuse, without a word. I have since learnt, that what I went through was narcissistic abuse. I have educated myself on narcissism as much as I can, to hopefully avoid being with the wrong people in the future in order to not have a repeat performance. But back to the point. I've noticed a steady decline in myself. I stopped looking forward to the day, I stopped going to the gym, stopped eating well, stopped wanting to hang out with friends, dropped in my performance and time keeping with work and just generally felt an overwhelming feeling of what's the point and feeling empty and not myself any more. It all makes sense now. I've always heard of people becoming burnt out, but I never knew what it really meant until now. I have been doing a ridiculous amount of overtime between two jobs, as I wanted to constantly keep myself busy and distracted. I'm since learning that this has only made things worse and has lead to my decline.
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Joel
I used go to the gym 5 times a week. Had a really good diet and eating habits. Loved drawing, loved making things. Had a shower in the morning and a shower at night. Would go to the beach on weekends. Liked going for bike rides and learning to skate.
Then I decided to expand my business, rented a warehouse, started working a lot more. Havent had a holiday in over 9 years. Stopped going to the beach because I was so busy, slowly stopped going to the gym because I wasnt eating correctly and had low energy. Sometimes I go to bed without having a shower. My own personal projects or passions now sit on a hoist or in the corner of my workshop covered in dust. I have no motivation to work on them. I started drinking and smoking the latter was something I never would have done prior. I dont leave my workshop other than to buy more smokes or another bottle of rum. I dont socialise. My mindset has degraded over time and Ive become more and more negative. And I definitely have become somewhat irritable and difficult to be around. This video outlines everything Im feeling. Think its time to get my priorities sorted.
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I used go to the gym 5 times a week. Had a really good diet and eating habits. Loved drawing, loved making things. Had a shower in the morning and a shower at night. Would go to the beach on weekends. Liked going for bike rides and learning to skate.
Then I decided to expand my business, rented a warehouse, started working a lot more. Havent had a holiday in over 9 years. Stopped going to the beach because I was so busy, slowly stopped going to the gym because I wasnt eating correctly and had low energy. Sometimes I go to bed without having a shower. My own personal projects or passions now sit on a hoist or in the corner of my workshop covered in dust. I have no motivation to work on them. I started drinking and smoking the latter was something I never would have done prior. I dont leave my workshop other than to buy more smokes or another bottle of rum. I dont socialise. My mindset has degraded over time and Ive become more and more negative. And I definitely have become somewhat irritable and difficult to be around. This video outlines everything Im feeling. Think its time to get my priorities sorted.
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Toby
I find I hate myself because I'm not who I used to be.
We change as we age, or suffer from trauma, I know. But the worst part of it all, was realizing I wasn't doing anything for myself, it was for the approval of my parents & peers. Once you hit bottom, & you no longer care for that approval, you suddenly realize this, & it cripples you.
I've been able to rebuild somewhat, but damn it's hard. No matter what I do, it's not as good as before. So I remove myself from my social circle in defense, & it cripples you even further!
Then trying to overcome the shadow of the former addiction that brought you down, just feels meaningless. If they already see me as a failure for not being the superhuman I once was, how can I shake off the stigma of addiction? At least, without removing myself completely from my former life. I'm trying.
But strangely, the one thing I really have conquered, was my addiction! But nobody will believe that, & some people actually want me to fail. They seem to have grown a little too comfortable with the idea that they've become better than me.
Boohoo, I know lol
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I find I hate myself because I'm not who I used to be.
We change as we age, or suffer from trauma, I know. But the worst part of it all, was realizing I wasn't doing anything for myself, it was for the approval of my parents & peers. Once you hit bottom, & you no longer care for that approval, you suddenly realize this, & it cripples you.
I've been able to rebuild somewhat, but damn it's hard. No matter what I do, it's not as good as before. So I remove myself from my social circle in defense, & it cripples you even further!
Then trying to overcome the shadow of the former addiction that brought you down, just feels meaningless. If they already see me as a failure for not being the superhuman I once was, how can I shake off the stigma of addiction? At least, without removing myself completely from my former life. I'm trying.
But strangely, the one thing I really have conquered, was my addiction! But nobody will believe that, & some people actually want me to fail. They seem to have grown a little too comfortable with the idea that they've become better than me.
Boohoo, I know lol
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Adam
Thanks for telling us the what - but here's the why.
We spend 1/2 our waking hours working for a company that, if we're lucky, pays us enough to keep a roof over our head, food on the table and other necessities that the US government lobbyists have essentially centralized (internet, electric, cellular, heat etc. We have enough left over to be able to go on a weekend trip after 3 months of saving.
Family, intimacy, relationships, helping others is not a concern as we don't have enough time to spend on those after exhausting yourself to keep the necessities on.
The problem isn't the human being or the human body/brain - it's the ruling class that causes this deterioration.
Only when you fools wake up that we'll be able to come together and fight back against it.
Stop complying with government SUGGESTIONS. They don't control you. You control you. Take yourself back.
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Thanks for telling us the what - but here's the why.
We spend 1/2 our waking hours working for a company that, if we're lucky, pays us enough to keep a roof over our head, food on the table and other necessities that the US government lobbyists have essentially centralized (internet, electric, cellular, heat etc. We have enough left over to be able to go on a weekend trip after 3 months of saving.
Family, intimacy, relationships, helping others is not a concern as we don't have enough time to spend on those after exhausting yourself to keep the necessities on.
The problem isn't the human being or the human body/brain - it's the ruling class that causes this deterioration.
Only when you fools wake up that we'll be able to come together and fight back against it.
Stop complying with government SUGGESTIONS. They don't control you. You control you. Take yourself back.
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The
Burn out with depression can be deadly, even lead to suicide. I've been burned out for about 2 years. Started with a new job that was starting to get me feeling better, then it totally when down hill. I was having more physical health issues when the mental health issues started to compound and it lead me to have to go on FMLA, but that caused my new employer to start harassing me over it & eventually was let go (but they called it accepting my resignation) even though I had a doctor's note and was under his care when they let me go. It's a long & complicated story, but they are fighting me getting unemployment.
Now my depression is higher than it's ever been, no longer have health insurance, and having to battle to get disability. I feel both useless & the need to do something but physically cannot get employed due to my physical disability.
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Burn out with depression can be deadly, even lead to suicide. I've been burned out for about 2 years. Started with a new job that was starting to get me feeling better, then it totally when down hill. I was having more physical health issues when the mental health issues started to compound and it lead me to have to go on FMLA, but that caused my new employer to start harassing me over it & eventually was let go (but they called it accepting my resignation) even though I had a doctor's note and was under his care when they let me go. It's a long & complicated story, but they are fighting me getting unemployment.
Now my depression is higher than it's ever been, no longer have health insurance, and having to battle to get disability. I feel both useless & the need to do something but physically cannot get employed due to my physical disability.
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Drumf
This is a video designed to make addicts fine with being addicts.
If you are offended enough by my comment to spend time responding in an attempt to argue, then you are using alot of mental energy to do so. But you enjoy it and do it everyday because it's addicting. Unfortunately it's mentally exhausting and eliminates motivation and makes you feel burnt out.
A heroine addicts house may be trashed and gross, they might smell and always feel burnt out because life isn't fair and the government! Simply because their brain makes every excuse in the world, when it's the addiction thats to blame.
Get out of the social media. It's gonna be hard, like quitting smoking. Except that smoking isn't possible 24 hours a day. good luck
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This is a video designed to make addicts fine with being addicts.
If you are offended enough by my comment to spend time responding in an attempt to argue, then you are using alot of mental energy to do so. But you enjoy it and do it everyday because it's addicting. Unfortunately it's mentally exhausting and eliminates motivation and makes you feel burnt out.
A heroine addicts house may be trashed and gross, they might smell and always feel burnt out because life isn't fair and the government! Simply because their brain makes every excuse in the world, when it's the addiction thats to blame.
Get out of the social media. It's gonna be hard, like quitting smoking. Except that smoking isn't possible 24 hours a day. good luck
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HolyPastrami
I know it's not a DSM diagnosis, but can you maybe make a video on Gifted Kid Burnout? It's a specific type of burnout that, as the name suggests, usually occurs in so-called gifted kids. It occurs when a gifted kid rushes through elementary and middle school with no problem, but tanks in high school, because they intelligence alone is no longer enough to carry them, and they don't know how to study because they never learnt it. This usually results in a poor self-image resulting from the stark difference between your actual capabilities and what you've been raised to expect yourself to be capable of.
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I know it's not a DSM diagnosis, but can you maybe make a video on Gifted Kid Burnout? It's a specific type of burnout that, as the name suggests, usually occurs in so-called gifted kids. It occurs when a gifted kid rushes through elementary and middle school with no problem, but tanks in high school, because they intelligence alone is no longer enough to carry them, and they don't know how to study because they never learnt it. This usually results in a poor self-image resulting from the stark difference between your actual capabilities and what you've been raised to expect yourself to be capable of.
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Davesnothere
1) your a Millennial and someone is asking you to get up before 10AM
2) you don't get to spend at least 4 hours a day playing with yourself
3) its soooooo tiring to have to make your own bowl of cereal in the morning.
4) I'm here at work AND you expect me to DO something too. Bruh!
5) your idea of actually accomplishing something ends when you press ENTER on the keyboard.
6) you base your net worth on comments from online friends that don't know you(like this )
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1) your a Millennial and someone is asking you to get up before 10AM
2) you don't get to spend at least 4 hours a day playing with yourself
3) its soooooo tiring to have to make your own bowl of cereal in the morning.
4) I'm here at work AND you expect me to DO something too. Bruh!
5) your idea of actually accomplishing something ends when you press ENTER on the keyboard.
6) you base your net worth on comments from online friends that don't know you(like this )
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Maghnus
Let's be perfectly honest here. The only person that even remotely cares about burnout, is a phycological professional. Why? they are getting paid to care. The pessimist in me says even they don't care. Because if they actually cured burnout, they would decrease the demand for there services. This society is built upon the repetition of digesting resources and that includes people.
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Let's be perfectly honest here. The only person that even remotely cares about burnout, is a phycological professional. Why? they are getting paid to care. The pessimist in me says even they don't care. Because if they actually cured burnout, they would decrease the demand for there services. This society is built upon the repetition of digesting resources and that includes people.
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Doc
Ive been burned out since I was, say 6 years old.
Seriously, I hit the wall around 2002. No one around me, other than my family, cared in the slightest, and I was ragged on because I didnt carry my weight. In the healthcare field it has only gotten worse, hence the Great Resignation. It took me about a year after retirement before I was detoxed.
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Ive been burned out since I was, say 6 years old.
Seriously, I hit the wall around 2002. No one around me, other than my family, cared in the slightest, and I was ragged on because I didnt carry my weight. In the healthcare field it has only gotten worse, hence the Great Resignation. It took me about a year after retirement before I was detoxed.
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tehf00n
I worked as a game dev for 10 years and burned out. I haven't done a scrap of work in a year. I've burned out before and it only lasted a couple of months but this is serious. In my mind I want to work, I have motivation to work, but I can't seem to start back to work. I've become suicidal. Burn out is serious folks. Take care.
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I worked as a game dev for 10 years and burned out. I haven't done a scrap of work in a year. I've burned out before and it only lasted a couple of months but this is serious. In my mind I want to work, I have motivation to work, but I can't seem to start back to work. I've become suicidal. Burn out is serious folks. Take care.
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semantechx
To anyone here who relates, maybe try looking into the Enneagram. Specifically, you might be an Enneagram 9 like myself.
Sometimes life itself burns you out and drains you. If that sentence resonates with you, you might be a 9.
I hope everything gets better for all of you. Best of luck on your journey!
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To anyone here who relates, maybe try looking into the Enneagram. Specifically, you might be an Enneagram 9 like myself.
Sometimes life itself burns you out and drains you. If that sentence resonates with you, you might be a 9.
I hope everything gets better for all of you. Best of luck on your journey!
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Jacob
Emotional burn out is definitely me. I used to constantly hit the gyms, travel, and do activities. The army just keeps on taking things away. Such as the gym and forcing me to put up with this awful life style. When I was in college I was free and motivated. I didn't realize my mental burnout until I saw this
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Emotional burn out is definitely me. I used to constantly hit the gyms, travel, and do activities. The army just keeps on taking things away. Such as the gym and forcing me to put up with this awful life style. When I was in college I was free and motivated. I didn't realize my mental burnout until I saw this
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R.
If you are a nurse, you have no choice but to be burned out. A schedule that does not rely on regular hours of work but an unknown number of hours to work. Always more than you want or need. Working long hours relies on other peoples problems, not your own. Total burnout
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If you are a nurse, you have no choice but to be burned out. A schedule that does not rely on regular hours of work but an unknown number of hours to work. Always more than you want or need. Working long hours relies on other peoples problems, not your own. Total burnout
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Fopeano
Halfway through, It's already clear that I'm not burnt out or lazy. I just think I'm lazy. Every friend I talk to says I'm not, but I always feel like I could be doing so much more. This is constant whether I'm relaxing or in the act of accomplishing goals.
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Halfway through, It's already clear that I'm not burnt out or lazy. I just think I'm lazy. Every friend I talk to says I'm not, but I always feel like I could be doing so much more. This is constant whether I'm relaxing or in the act of accomplishing goals.
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Mundo
I can relate to the sign number 4, although it is way less intense. like my brain is overloaded or something like that. I have reasons to be moodier that i didn't think i would believe it was that, unlike burnout. I can't relate to any other signs
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I can relate to the sign number 4, although it is way less intense. like my brain is overloaded or something like that. I have reasons to be moodier that i didn't think i would believe it was that, unlike burnout. I can't relate to any other signs
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Alifeby
It's like you have been watching me! I feel so tired all the time and lack the enthusiasm, optimism and passion I used to have so much of, that people used to comment on it. Thanks for showing up in my life, I really needed the nudge.
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It's like you have been watching me! I feel so tired all the time and lack the enthusiasm, optimism and passion I used to have so much of, that people used to comment on it. Thanks for showing up in my life, I really needed the nudge.
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Frank
You work towards a goal, and barely make or usually dont, life keeps beating you down and constantly changing. You cant keep up, you do everything on your own basically, because you only know how to rely on yourself. Its exhausting
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You work towards a goal, and barely make or usually dont, life keeps beating you down and constantly changing. You cant keep up, you do everything on your own basically, because you only know how to rely on yourself. Its exhausting
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Shattered
I really wish I could show this to my mom but she would probably brush it off and say dont be so dramatic. I felt burned out for so long now but I cant do anything until Im out of the house. Until then I just have to wait.
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I really wish I could show this to my mom but she would probably brush it off and say dont be so dramatic. I felt burned out for so long now but I cant do anything until Im out of the house. Until then I just have to wait.
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Aki
welp looks like ive been burnt out for about 7 years. because of school(im in 8th grade) i mean first grade was fine but it got worse each year and now im fighting for my life just to pass the guarter
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welp looks like ive been burnt out for about 7 years. because of school(im in 8th grade) i mean first grade was fine but it got worse each year and now im fighting for my life just to pass the guarter
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Treasure
I'm so burned out from stocking the shelves for the last 7 years straight ima let them fire me over the vaccine mandate, I need a 3 year gaming holiday at my mother's house to clear my head man.
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I'm so burned out from stocking the shelves for the last 7 years straight ima let them fire me over the vaccine mandate, I need a 3 year gaming holiday at my mother's house to clear my head man.
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oscardaone
I hate burnout. Speaking from personal experience.
Take care of yourself no matter what and take a vacation to release your stress.
Especially if you live in the states.
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I hate burnout. Speaking from personal experience.
Take care of yourself no matter what and take a vacation to release your stress.
Especially if you live in the states.
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astrogeek1230
This was a huge help to me in understanding why I'm feeling the way I do. To say that I'm burned out, now, is an understatement. Time to get my head screwed on straight.
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This was a huge help to me in understanding why I'm feeling the way I do. To say that I'm burned out, now, is an understatement. Time to get my head screwed on straight.
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MrPeterpok
I dont remember when was the last time I had time to stay in bed. NY life. No one cares. Better dont show it at work, or you will get fired the next day.
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I dont remember when was the last time I had time to stay in bed. NY life. No one cares. Better dont show it at work, or you will get fired the next day.
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