5 Signs It's Burnout, not Laziness (Naphia's version)
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Date: 2023-08-20
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augustine
I KNEW I WASN'T LAZY! i used to have motivation to study, to do things i enjoyed. but dude this year has changed so much: ( i think i started feeling unmotivated since mid year exams? i failed so badly for math and science, but its not the failing that made me unmotivated. its the fact that i didn't even study for the exams because i was 'lazy'. i also used to have a passion for music, man i wanted to learn how to play the guitar and piano by myself because its always better for me to learn alone. but ever since my mom told me i could never become good at singing(bc i used to wanna become a singer or whatever LOL)because i was apparently too shy to even sing in front of lots of people, BRUH my dream was crushed i got a new passion, of course, but i can't help but think that its so annoying how my teachers go oh please STUDY and dont be lazy blah blah like yes i dont want to be lazy either but i reaaaally can't bring myself to study anymore. i just want to drop out of school, i can't stand it anymore. i hate everyone in class. and i have a reason to hate everyone, every forty classmates of mine. i just can't, oh my god i cannot deal with it. i cannot deal with school anymore
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I KNEW I WASN'T LAZY! i used to have motivation to study, to do things i enjoyed. but dude this year has changed so much: ( i think i started feeling unmotivated since mid year exams? i failed so badly for math and science, but its not the failing that made me unmotivated. its the fact that i didn't even study for the exams because i was 'lazy'. i also used to have a passion for music, man i wanted to learn how to play the guitar and piano by myself because its always better for me to learn alone. but ever since my mom told me i could never become good at singing(bc i used to wanna become a singer or whatever LOL)because i was apparently too shy to even sing in front of lots of people, BRUH my dream was crushed i got a new passion, of course, but i can't help but think that its so annoying how my teachers go oh please STUDY and dont be lazy blah blah like yes i dont want to be lazy either but i reaaaally can't bring myself to study anymore. i just want to drop out of school, i can't stand it anymore. i hate everyone in class. and i have a reason to hate everyone, every forty classmates of mine. i just can't, oh my god i cannot deal with it. i cannot deal with school anymore
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Urmotherr
Does burnout also happen to minors? For example, me. Im only 13 and will be turning 14 in a few months. When I was younger, I was extremely good at school. Now Im failing every class. Its not that I dont understand, I just stopped trying. School is just so stressful and overwhelming. I also used to be very friendly and I was really affectionate Towards family members. Now I just stay coped up in my room all day, its genuinely a struggle to do ANYTHING. Im just not motivated anymore. Im never in the mood to do anything anymore. I just dont have the energy, physically or mentally. I also dont like socializing that much. I mean- I do, because i know I have to. Recently Ive noticed im more comfortable with friends then with family. Im not sure if that has anything to do with it but whatever. Sorry I ranted a bit- do you think im burnout? Even if I was, my familys is Hispanic and so am I. They would never understand so I just dont even try.
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Does burnout also happen to minors? For example, me. Im only 13 and will be turning 14 in a few months. When I was younger, I was extremely good at school. Now Im failing every class. Its not that I dont understand, I just stopped trying. School is just so stressful and overwhelming. I also used to be very friendly and I was really affectionate Towards family members. Now I just stay coped up in my room all day, its genuinely a struggle to do ANYTHING. Im just not motivated anymore. Im never in the mood to do anything anymore. I just dont have the energy, physically or mentally. I also dont like socializing that much. I mean- I do, because i know I have to. Recently Ive noticed im more comfortable with friends then with family. Im not sure if that has anything to do with it but whatever. Sorry I ranted a bit- do you think im burnout? Even if I was, my familys is Hispanic and so am I. They would never understand so I just dont even try.
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amoldivo
And now everybody uses this excuse and say they have burnouts since early age: / hmmm I had a tough time as a kid but I wouldn't say I had burnouts, even though I was very tired and had to wake up at 4. 40am every morning and school finished at 3. 40pm, 5. 20 pm when there were extracurriculars. Very tiring, but I wouldn't say I had burnouts back then, though now I've been having easier university - part time periods (lot of free time though, I feel like I'm very tired without nothing much to do and feel empty inside. I still hope I can pass these burnouts periods. Young people out there, stop using this as excuses, as what you're saying probably isn't the 'real burnout'.
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And now everybody uses this excuse and say they have burnouts since early age: / hmmm I had a tough time as a kid but I wouldn't say I had burnouts, even though I was very tired and had to wake up at 4. 40am every morning and school finished at 3. 40pm, 5. 20 pm when there were extracurriculars. Very tiring, but I wouldn't say I had burnouts back then, though now I've been having easier university - part time periods (lot of free time though, I feel like I'm very tired without nothing much to do and feel empty inside. I still hope I can pass these burnouts periods. Young people out there, stop using this as excuses, as what you're saying probably isn't the 'real burnout'.
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Migraine
Artistic burnouts are definitely no fun all of it is the same as what you described in this video I suffer from burn out everything was mentioned in here I have the same problem with used to enjoy a lot of things but now I cant be bothered with any of it because Im so wore out and so tired and cant concentrate or focus for a while and having autism even if its self diagnosed its definitely very hard along with all the other mental health disorders that I have like generalized anxiety disorder and major depressive disorder just the name to
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Artistic burnouts are definitely no fun all of it is the same as what you described in this video I suffer from burn out everything was mentioned in here I have the same problem with used to enjoy a lot of things but now I cant be bothered with any of it because Im so wore out and so tired and cant concentrate or focus for a while and having autism even if its self diagnosed its definitely very hard along with all the other mental health disorders that I have like generalized anxiety disorder and major depressive disorder just the name to
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Palm
The first one is what Im experiencing I broke down a month ago and after that I couldnt feel love towards anyone I cant even enjoy drawing, Boxing and now I dont enjoy gaming at all, gaming for me now is turn the console on and then stare at it for a few min then turn it off without loading in a game, I cant think anymore well as much I feel my brain has to think for me and Im constantly tired I know what lazy feels like and this is a total different thing than I dont feel like it
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The first one is what Im experiencing I broke down a month ago and after that I couldnt feel love towards anyone I cant even enjoy drawing, Boxing and now I dont enjoy gaming at all, gaming for me now is turn the console on and then stare at it for a few min then turn it off without loading in a game, I cant think anymore well as much I feel my brain has to think for me and Im constantly tired I know what lazy feels like and this is a total different thing than I dont feel like it
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Celine
I used to do so many things but now I can't get one thing done in a day.
Everything I was passionate about is now just something that I used to do.
Everything started when Corona started or even before that. I'm an introvert and staying home is normally my preference but I noticed that staying home for so long and always getting rejected from places I applied to made me kind of numb. I just don't want to do anything anymore but I try to force myself.
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I used to do so many things but now I can't get one thing done in a day.
Everything I was passionate about is now just something that I used to do.
Everything started when Corona started or even before that. I'm an introvert and staying home is normally my preference but I noticed that staying home for so long and always getting rejected from places I applied to made me kind of numb. I just don't want to do anything anymore but I try to force myself.
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Miss
Yep, 6 for 6, especially today. I knew it already though. Over the last 20 years it's been getting worse. Oh well, until employers who can afford to pay more and stop overworking us, the federal government quits over taxing us, and then acting like they care, I'm not seeing my burnout cease any time soon. Counseling is wonderful for certain issues, but this one is too big, even for Dr. Phil. Thank you so much for these videos!
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Yep, 6 for 6, especially today. I knew it already though. Over the last 20 years it's been getting worse. Oh well, until employers who can afford to pay more and stop overworking us, the federal government quits over taxing us, and then acting like they care, I'm not seeing my burnout cease any time soon. Counseling is wonderful for certain issues, but this one is too big, even for Dr. Phil. Thank you so much for these videos!
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Kert
I definitely had this for 2 years, if not longer on and off. Art is my life and passion, but I couldn't draw anything- even if I was able to start, for about 2 years straight. Although I had a lot of time to myself as I had no school and could've used it, I felt empty, unmotivated and tired.
I'm slightly better since the end of 2020-to now.
But I can still feel it, thank you for this video
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I definitely had this for 2 years, if not longer on and off. Art is my life and passion, but I couldn't draw anything- even if I was able to start, for about 2 years straight. Although I had a lot of time to myself as I had no school and could've used it, I felt empty, unmotivated and tired.
I'm slightly better since the end of 2020-to now.
But I can still feel it, thank you for this video
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Not
I take up 2 to 3 jobs and sleep between 2 to 4 hours a day. Working from Monday to Sunday with no off day or leisure time. After about 6-9months of this I quit all my jobs cause I hate life at that point and do nothing for 3 months while I recover and feel so bad for being a lazy person and ask myself what Im doing with my life. I need to change this system its not serving me
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I take up 2 to 3 jobs and sleep between 2 to 4 hours a day. Working from Monday to Sunday with no off day or leisure time. After about 6-9months of this I quit all my jobs cause I hate life at that point and do nothing for 3 months while I recover and feel so bad for being a lazy person and ask myself what Im doing with my life. I need to change this system its not serving me
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Celestial. dreamer
I had burnout through out this year and it still continues. Sometimes its so hard that I often find myself crying and feeling suicidal. I feel like I already had no talent and whatever little I was good at now I don't know how to do it, I look around my room, my life is a mess. I don't see my life going anywhere or having progress.
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I had burnout through out this year and it still continues. Sometimes its so hard that I often find myself crying and feeling suicidal. I feel like I already had no talent and whatever little I was good at now I don't know how to do it, I look around my room, my life is a mess. I don't see my life going anywhere or having progress.
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Aubrey
Everyone that feels tired on here its someone or something thats making you feel so tired theres only two things to do face it and tackle it head on or either just run away and tackle life somewhere else your choice we all have free will including myself best of luck and prayers to you all I had to learn myself
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Everyone that feels tired on here its someone or something thats making you feel so tired theres only two things to do face it and tackle it head on or either just run away and tackle life somewhere else your choice we all have free will including myself best of luck and prayers to you all I had to learn myself
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Zafar
Im in 7th grade(a new student) and every-time i go to school i always feel embarrassed even tho nothing happened i feel like i shouldnt have said that or done that because i think ppl will think Im weird i always think what will ppl think about-me all the way to how i dress what o eat. what should i do.
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Im in 7th grade(a new student) and every-time i go to school i always feel embarrassed even tho nothing happened i feel like i shouldnt have said that or done that because i think ppl will think Im weird i always think what will ppl think about-me all the way to how i dress what o eat. what should i do.
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Anna
This hit me so hard. 3 years ago I was working 2 jobs and training hard for a marathon. I even qualified for Boston.
Fast forward, I can barely get motivation to do the bare minimum of the day. I exercise but I hate doing it. This happened over time and after a variety of stressful life events.
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This hit me so hard. 3 years ago I was working 2 jobs and training hard for a marathon. I even qualified for Boston.
Fast forward, I can barely get motivation to do the bare minimum of the day. I exercise but I hate doing it. This happened over time and after a variety of stressful life events.
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0236
Omg, i finally find the answer to my mood. My friends always said why last i was so motivative and this week i just want to lie in bed all day, i even dont want to eat. I khow i'm not feeling lazy, i just dont feel doing it. I start to think that i might have bipolar because of my mood swing.
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Omg, i finally find the answer to my mood. My friends always said why last i was so motivative and this week i just want to lie in bed all day, i even dont want to eat. I khow i'm not feeling lazy, i just dont feel doing it. I start to think that i might have bipolar because of my mood swing.
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JamJam
There was a time that i lost motivation to do things that i usually do and felt empty, i couldn't understand myself i wanted to cry but i couldn't bc i was scared to make ppl worry about me and i most likely prefer to cry alone. The feeling was the worse feeling i had ever had in my life
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There was a time that i lost motivation to do things that i usually do and felt empty, i couldn't understand myself i wanted to cry but i couldn't bc i was scared to make ppl worry about me and i most likely prefer to cry alone. The feeling was the worse feeling i had ever had in my life
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Alexia
Omg, I have burnout all this time. Ever since I started shs last 2019, I always feel this way. I thought i just feel tired and lazy because I feel that I deserve to rest every single day. But it's really been a while. Well, burnout it is. Is there anyway to break this?
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Omg, I have burnout all this time. Ever since I started shs last 2019, I always feel this way. I thought i just feel tired and lazy because I feel that I deserve to rest every single day. But it's really been a while. Well, burnout it is. Is there anyway to break this?
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Ghaziyah
Yup that is me now that I am older. Because I've had to fight for everything my entire life now and constantly go hard about everything just to try to stay a float I am now burned out in my 30s.
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Yup that is me now that I am older. Because I've had to fight for everything my entire life now and constantly go hard about everything just to try to stay a float I am now burned out in my 30s.
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MrUnique
Idk if Im lazy or Im getting burn out I say in my room all day doing nothing I dont take care of myself and I dont care about anything else happening in the world so idk
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Idk if Im lazy or Im getting burn out I say in my room all day doing nothing I dont take care of myself and I dont care about anything else happening in the world so idk
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Pamela
The most difficult about experiencing burnout is the tendency to be so hard on oneself. I have to remind myself to be as kind to myself as I would be to someone else.
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The most difficult about experiencing burnout is the tendency to be so hard on oneself. I have to remind myself to be as kind to myself as I would be to someone else.
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Psych2Go
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Cam
A couple years ago I wrote books for fun and hit a huge burnout that I thought would be temporary, it turned out to be permanent up to now.
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A couple years ago I wrote books for fun and hit a huge burnout that I thought would be temporary, it turned out to be permanent up to now.
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Priscila
I totally have all of the signs plus depression, chronical fatigue and another plus is fibromialgy.
And now I can say burnout too.
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I totally have all of the signs plus depression, chronical fatigue and another plus is fibromialgy.
And now I can say burnout too.
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Amanda
I would be really interested in watching a video about the 5 stages in more depth, it would be great if you released a video on that
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I would be really interested in watching a video about the 5 stages in more depth, it would be great if you released a video on that
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Psychotherapist
Please stop dropping depersonalization so quickly when talking about burnout. Lets try not to overly pathologize people.
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Please stop dropping depersonalization so quickly when talking about burnout. Lets try not to overly pathologize people.
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Jarglo33
My cure is milk, because I can't properly digest it and forces me to get. Haha, victory( it us up to you to ignore this.
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My cure is milk, because I can't properly digest it and forces me to get. Haha, victory( it us up to you to ignore this.
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