How Did Your Parents Mess You Up? ( Parenting MISTAKES)
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Yes my parents were emotionally neglectful and it had affected my personality tremendously. I became distrusting and distant from people not to mention avoidant to confrontations not really voicing my thoughts and needs. And to make matters worse I got into a narcissistic relationship with my ex that lasted longer than it should be and didn't ask for guidince on how to end it, I ended it when I self-educated on matters of narcissism enough to cut her off from my life once and for all. I feared my mom more than loved her in my childhood cuz she used to beat me up hard when I did something wrong or embarrassing to her, and I still feel weary of her because she believes in her religion and I don't believe in any, but I can't tell her that nor do I trust her on anything for that matter and she keeps forcing me and my sister to their rituals and practices. As for my late dad; he was the same and got worse over the years on many respects, he became judgmental and rigid minded that I cannot sit with him in one room without him trying to force his beliefs and propagate them as righteous every time and he's ALWAYS right. And I couldn't voice my opinions freely without him laughing at me. As for my childhood; he was dissmissive and beat me sometimes, but he used to tell my sister and I bedtime stories and helped with homework him and my mom. They did good deeds too but it doesn't make up for the fact that I NEVER felt safe, unconditionally loved, or at home by any means. I still don't. And mom has become a stranger to me.
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Yes my parents were emotionally neglectful and it had affected my personality tremendously. I became distrusting and distant from people not to mention avoidant to confrontations not really voicing my thoughts and needs. And to make matters worse I got into a narcissistic relationship with my ex that lasted longer than it should be and didn't ask for guidince on how to end it, I ended it when I self-educated on matters of narcissism enough to cut her off from my life once and for all. I feared my mom more than loved her in my childhood cuz she used to beat me up hard when I did something wrong or embarrassing to her, and I still feel weary of her because she believes in her religion and I don't believe in any, but I can't tell her that nor do I trust her on anything for that matter and she keeps forcing me and my sister to their rituals and practices. As for my late dad; he was the same and got worse over the years on many respects, he became judgmental and rigid minded that I cannot sit with him in one room without him trying to force his beliefs and propagate them as righteous every time and he's ALWAYS right. And I couldn't voice my opinions freely without him laughing at me. As for my childhood; he was dissmissive and beat me sometimes, but he used to tell my sister and I bedtime stories and helped with homework him and my mom. They did good deeds too but it doesn't make up for the fact that I NEVER felt safe, unconditionally loved, or at home by any means. I still don't. And mom has become a stranger to me.
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Ellie-bo-bellie
I have a sibling, people always come up to me and say Oh your ______ sister right? They never know me. Im a bit of a cautious person and my sister isnt, Im more of a follow the rules kid but my sister isnt so my parents will say stuff likepft okay loser or _____ more fun to hang out with they mean it as a joke but it hurts. like quite a lot. I try to impress them Ive won two second overalls in gymnastics but then i quit and my parents wont put me back in now because they think its a waste of money and i wont do anything (my sibling also did gymnastics but she did it before me so my parents would talk to her about her one instead of watching me) I also kind of feel like i missed out on a normal childhood, I saw the scream series WHEN I WAS ONLY 6 OR 7 i started to cry and my mum said Just leave the room if your scared just leave i couldnt I wanted her because i was scared but she just wouldnt turn it off, OH AND DONT GET ME STARTED ON THE M74$34 PODCASTS. I lost my only friends when i was 5, turns out they were using me for popular with the teachers and students and it worked. I was stuck with a toxic friend for over 6 years, and now it feels like Im just TRYING to make people proud and people like me. idk what wrong with me sometimes, i will have mental break downs then just let it all spew out and act like it never happened or Ill say to myself oh I need to do the washing, but i never will. Ill try to get up and motivated to get working but i cant.
Anyways that was my vent
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I have a sibling, people always come up to me and say Oh your ______ sister right? They never know me. Im a bit of a cautious person and my sister isnt, Im more of a follow the rules kid but my sister isnt so my parents will say stuff likepft okay loser or _____ more fun to hang out with they mean it as a joke but it hurts. like quite a lot. I try to impress them Ive won two second overalls in gymnastics but then i quit and my parents wont put me back in now because they think its a waste of money and i wont do anything (my sibling also did gymnastics but she did it before me so my parents would talk to her about her one instead of watching me) I also kind of feel like i missed out on a normal childhood, I saw the scream series WHEN I WAS ONLY 6 OR 7 i started to cry and my mum said Just leave the room if your scared just leave i couldnt I wanted her because i was scared but she just wouldnt turn it off, OH AND DONT GET ME STARTED ON THE M74$34 PODCASTS. I lost my only friends when i was 5, turns out they were using me for popular with the teachers and students and it worked. I was stuck with a toxic friend for over 6 years, and now it feels like Im just TRYING to make people proud and people like me. idk what wrong with me sometimes, i will have mental break downs then just let it all spew out and act like it never happened or Ill say to myself oh I need to do the washing, but i never will. Ill try to get up and motivated to get working but i cant.
Anyways that was my vent
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NotPockyBoba
I feel like I have to be perfect around my mom or if I dont, I get grounded, or teared up. I was raised to get beaten if I ever made a mistake, I was tought that parents that dont hit there kids when they make mistakes is bad parenting. I always feel unheard from my mom and I never had a dad to be there either bc my mom divorced him when I was a baby. I feel like I cant even talk to my mom cuz everytime I do I feel like ill be yelled at or if I talk about things that are between us the next thing I know is her telling other family members or her friends. One time I stood up and told my mom But arent we humans? We all make mistakes. and she just said Oh, then dont, and if you cant, thats your fault. Like what? My moms very two faced, we went to see family for fourth of july, and at home I was crying about something personal and my mom lashed out at me and said she would tear me up, but when we went with family and I was crying, she hugged me infront of everyone and said It will be okay. I was so confused I thought id get snatched infront of everyone- and I feel bad for literally anything even people at school were like Why are you saying sorry? Its not a big deal. or why do you feel bad? Its not even something to feel bad about. I dont even have anyone to vent to like most people do- At this point I dont even know what bad parenting is
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I feel like I have to be perfect around my mom or if I dont, I get grounded, or teared up. I was raised to get beaten if I ever made a mistake, I was tought that parents that dont hit there kids when they make mistakes is bad parenting. I always feel unheard from my mom and I never had a dad to be there either bc my mom divorced him when I was a baby. I feel like I cant even talk to my mom cuz everytime I do I feel like ill be yelled at or if I talk about things that are between us the next thing I know is her telling other family members or her friends. One time I stood up and told my mom But arent we humans? We all make mistakes. and she just said Oh, then dont, and if you cant, thats your fault. Like what? My moms very two faced, we went to see family for fourth of july, and at home I was crying about something personal and my mom lashed out at me and said she would tear me up, but when we went with family and I was crying, she hugged me infront of everyone and said It will be okay. I was so confused I thought id get snatched infront of everyone- and I feel bad for literally anything even people at school were like Why are you saying sorry? Its not a big deal. or why do you feel bad? Its not even something to feel bad about. I dont even have anyone to vent to like most people do- At this point I dont even know what bad parenting is
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BetterEveryDay
My parents were extremely strict, at 16 I still had to go to bed at 9 with everything off and phone in there room. After that I would stay up with just my thoughts, my room is the cleanest 16 year old room you'll ever see, but probably because it's almost empty, for the longest time I wasn't allowed to have posters or anything like that. Id make my bed every single morning and I would just hear complaints that the tag was on the wrong side, always scared to go downstairs and get a glass of water, never allowed in the house alone even though I did absolutely nothing to make it that way and I can say it with 100% certainty, I can go on and on. One thing I've learned is the human brain is the most dangerous thing on this planet and when it's left alone in complete isolation things don't go very well for your mind or body
But then I realized the way out
Be different
Be better but humble
It bothered me for so long how I didn't fit in. But in time I realized I didn't have to, some people aren't ment for greatness. Especially in this generation. I never needed my parents to tell me I could be something in life. This generation is so lazy. I need change, this life of instant gratification and tiktok isn't for me, it only leads to depression anxiety and more. The only happiness I need is from bettering myself
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My parents were extremely strict, at 16 I still had to go to bed at 9 with everything off and phone in there room. After that I would stay up with just my thoughts, my room is the cleanest 16 year old room you'll ever see, but probably because it's almost empty, for the longest time I wasn't allowed to have posters or anything like that. Id make my bed every single morning and I would just hear complaints that the tag was on the wrong side, always scared to go downstairs and get a glass of water, never allowed in the house alone even though I did absolutely nothing to make it that way and I can say it with 100% certainty, I can go on and on. One thing I've learned is the human brain is the most dangerous thing on this planet and when it's left alone in complete isolation things don't go very well for your mind or body
But then I realized the way out
Be different
Be better but humble
It bothered me for so long how I didn't fit in. But in time I realized I didn't have to, some people aren't ment for greatness. Especially in this generation. I never needed my parents to tell me I could be something in life. This generation is so lazy. I need change, this life of instant gratification and tiktok isn't for me, it only leads to depression anxiety and more. The only happiness I need is from bettering myself
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nabila
My parents fought in front of us from a young age but not much, recently they have started fighting a lot more because my father maybe cheating, and sometimes they have even resorted to violence, I am the oldest sibling so it's my responsibility to care for my youngers
Although not as much as my younger brother, corporal punishment is quite common in our household
My father's favorite child is the middle child (yes) who happens not to be me, although the youngest is still very young and does not understand this but I'm sure he will start to feel it too once he grows
Emotional neglect, this is something that I will always relate to, my parents are NOT understanding and I envy those people who are, but I'm also kinda happy for them
I got a 98% in my last finals, the highest in my class, everyone congratulated me, my teachers, my friends, my classmates, everyone.
I came home in high spirits and showed my mother my report card, she looked at me disgusted.
Told me if this was all I was capable of, then she was merely wasting money on me
I showed my father, he told me he didn't care for my grades
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My parents fought in front of us from a young age but not much, recently they have started fighting a lot more because my father maybe cheating, and sometimes they have even resorted to violence, I am the oldest sibling so it's my responsibility to care for my youngers
Although not as much as my younger brother, corporal punishment is quite common in our household
My father's favorite child is the middle child (yes) who happens not to be me, although the youngest is still very young and does not understand this but I'm sure he will start to feel it too once he grows
Emotional neglect, this is something that I will always relate to, my parents are NOT understanding and I envy those people who are, but I'm also kinda happy for them
I got a 98% in my last finals, the highest in my class, everyone congratulated me, my teachers, my friends, my classmates, everyone.
I came home in high spirits and showed my mother my report card, she looked at me disgusted.
Told me if this was all I was capable of, then she was merely wasting money on me
I showed my father, he told me he didn't care for my grades
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I_Am_Lazy
I know my parents love me to death but DEAR GOD they are pretty toxic when I notice something with them
My father (and sometime my mother) often emotional neglected me a lot but they weren't doing it on purpose and didn't realize that I have very broken heart.
My mother always pick favorite and she always say that I am her favorite just because I do what she told me to do unlike my older brother and my little brother. (I don't like being the favorite at all)
My father is always putting high expectations on me having a really good grades, all because of my step-mother (who I also really love because she is actually more chill going.
However, I still love my parents and step-parents because they are trying their best to do everything for me and my siblings. I just wish that they can try to recognize these problems so that they can improve a bit better.
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I know my parents love me to death but DEAR GOD they are pretty toxic when I notice something with them
My father (and sometime my mother) often emotional neglected me a lot but they weren't doing it on purpose and didn't realize that I have very broken heart.
My mother always pick favorite and she always say that I am her favorite just because I do what she told me to do unlike my older brother and my little brother. (I don't like being the favorite at all)
My father is always putting high expectations on me having a really good grades, all because of my step-mother (who I also really love because she is actually more chill going.
However, I still love my parents and step-parents because they are trying their best to do everything for me and my siblings. I just wish that they can try to recognize these problems so that they can improve a bit better.
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De_Angel
To be honest I've experienced all of this and that's why I'm more happier with my friends in a world without my parents. I was raised by my grandparents till 16 they chased me out to go stay elsewhere so I went to my father's side of the family. My mom got favoritism she never cared or do anything for me. She always says she can't help me, she always mention money issues but she does everything for my siblings. So I decided to live on my own, I no longer set my foot at my grandparents and I no longer ask for anything from my mom. As a student I depend on my student loan but currently staying with my dad and step mom. It's a depressing background coz I got a toddler so I'm planning to get my own house, job and be financially independent as soon as possible.
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To be honest I've experienced all of this and that's why I'm more happier with my friends in a world without my parents. I was raised by my grandparents till 16 they chased me out to go stay elsewhere so I went to my father's side of the family. My mom got favoritism she never cared or do anything for me. She always says she can't help me, she always mention money issues but she does everything for my siblings. So I decided to live on my own, I no longer set my foot at my grandparents and I no longer ask for anything from my mom. As a student I depend on my student loan but currently staying with my dad and step mom. It's a depressing background coz I got a toddler so I'm planning to get my own house, job and be financially independent as soon as possible.
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Puzzle
My father just wanted to hurt me because I wanted to build up a tent with him while I was angry from my drive with my increasingly toxic mother. He literally pulled me away from the tent although I wasnt aggressive. After calming down (half hour later, I tried to work further. He meanwhile had talked to my mother and wanted me to go inside, because I seemed to have a psychological madness attack or something. I dont take accusations like this lightly as I am autistic and dont like to ve called broken or mad. I wanted to help him as he is usually a great dad. He then first put me on a few forbids, as if he could, I am 20, and then threatened to call the cops and whatnot. Just laying in my room now, still fuming a bit. Nothing physically happened.
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My father just wanted to hurt me because I wanted to build up a tent with him while I was angry from my drive with my increasingly toxic mother. He literally pulled me away from the tent although I wasnt aggressive. After calming down (half hour later, I tried to work further. He meanwhile had talked to my mother and wanted me to go inside, because I seemed to have a psychological madness attack or something. I dont take accusations like this lightly as I am autistic and dont like to ve called broken or mad. I wanted to help him as he is usually a great dad. He then first put me on a few forbids, as if he could, I am 20, and then threatened to call the cops and whatnot. Just laying in my room now, still fuming a bit. Nothing physically happened.
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ac_man240
I think overly teasing your children is really bad too. You may think of it as a joke, but it can leave you really mentally scarred. I'm 14, and whenever I would bring up a slightly more intimate topic, I just get teased for it by my parents. This has made me develop social anxiety, low self esteem, and I'm afraid to open up to anyone. I am slowly gaining back my confidence now, thanks to my close buddies, who I know I can vent to with my problems, but the damage has already been done. Parents, please don't do this to your children, especially in front of your friends to make yourself seem funny. It will hurt your relationship with your child, and your child itself.
Thank you.
(Sorry for bad english, it is not my first language)
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I think overly teasing your children is really bad too. You may think of it as a joke, but it can leave you really mentally scarred. I'm 14, and whenever I would bring up a slightly more intimate topic, I just get teased for it by my parents. This has made me develop social anxiety, low self esteem, and I'm afraid to open up to anyone. I am slowly gaining back my confidence now, thanks to my close buddies, who I know I can vent to with my problems, but the damage has already been done. Parents, please don't do this to your children, especially in front of your friends to make yourself seem funny. It will hurt your relationship with your child, and your child itself.
Thank you.
(Sorry for bad english, it is not my first language)
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Alucia
My parents honestly did their best. They weren't perfect, they made mistakes but they were fantastic parents. I love my parents dearly and I will bend over backwards to help them as they get older.
There is only one thing that I do feel that they handled poorly though and it has negatively affected me into my adult years. They didn't do it intentionally or to cause pain but out of fear for me suffering. Their fear has led to pain, pain that I am only now in my 30s finally addressing.
Despite that I don't have any negative feelings towards them at all. I love my parents very much and I am very thankful for everything they have done over the years.
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My parents honestly did their best. They weren't perfect, they made mistakes but they were fantastic parents. I love my parents dearly and I will bend over backwards to help them as they get older.
There is only one thing that I do feel that they handled poorly though and it has negatively affected me into my adult years. They didn't do it intentionally or to cause pain but out of fear for me suffering. Their fear has led to pain, pain that I am only now in my 30s finally addressing.
Despite that I don't have any negative feelings towards them at all. I love my parents very much and I am very thankful for everything they have done over the years.
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twitchell
They fight and you're confused, but they wont talk about it bc it's not your problem. B4 ya know it you're 45 with no friends bc every time there is an issue you retreat so everyone else can get on with their good lives. And now if you try to talk about it, your the a hole for bringing it up. Attacking your parents/ not honoring them. And you yell them they are victim blaming and they look at you blankly; and you can watch the cartwheels in their head like how can I avoid taking responsibility here. Sure I understand you did your best, but now you refuse to even try. If you think parenting is done when they leave the house; well, I guess it can be.
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They fight and you're confused, but they wont talk about it bc it's not your problem. B4 ya know it you're 45 with no friends bc every time there is an issue you retreat so everyone else can get on with their good lives. And now if you try to talk about it, your the a hole for bringing it up. Attacking your parents/ not honoring them. And you yell them they are victim blaming and they look at you blankly; and you can watch the cartwheels in their head like how can I avoid taking responsibility here. Sure I understand you did your best, but now you refuse to even try. If you think parenting is done when they leave the house; well, I guess it can be.
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Donovan
Everything until about 5 even leaning into 5 is everything Ive experienced, the firs one until, I was 14-15 everything else (except no2) during the entire time. It sucked, once they fought so hard I had a physical reaction. I vomited. They didnt believe in therapy, Im autistic so my road to retribution is through understanding things around me and understanding why things happen so I can find why I reacted this specific way, my parents thought I was just asking science questions. No, I was asking how things work so instead of wondering and dreading the existential threat I can Focus on the now.
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Everything until about 5 even leaning into 5 is everything Ive experienced, the firs one until, I was 14-15 everything else (except no2) during the entire time. It sucked, once they fought so hard I had a physical reaction. I vomited. They didnt believe in therapy, Im autistic so my road to retribution is through understanding things around me and understanding why things happen so I can find why I reacted this specific way, my parents thought I was just asking science questions. No, I was asking how things work so instead of wondering and dreading the existential threat I can Focus on the now.
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GaleNeonToaster
Okay, I suffered from mostly all of these mentioned in the video. No wonder why i act the way I do currently. ESPECIALLY the good grades one. When i didnt get anything higher than a D, its considered failing (even though Ds are passing as far as i know) It forged me to believe oh, if i do this well then people would like me better. Now that im an All-A student, i feel as if all the praise i get is because of how i got the good grades and not my efforts alone. Part of me believes that at least.
I never physically watched my parents fight, but I surely heard it.
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Okay, I suffered from mostly all of these mentioned in the video. No wonder why i act the way I do currently. ESPECIALLY the good grades one. When i didnt get anything higher than a D, its considered failing (even though Ds are passing as far as i know) It forged me to believe oh, if i do this well then people would like me better. Now that im an All-A student, i feel as if all the praise i get is because of how i got the good grades and not my efforts alone. Part of me believes that at least.
I never physically watched my parents fight, but I surely heard it.
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Girl
My first memory is my parents fighting. I can tell without a doubt because I remember that I was my father's fault. He didn't care that all 3 of his kids could hear and knew he was get mad and loud over nothing. I know because we were on holidays and I knew during the day you spend time with your kids and that what she did. I also remember that someone how my mum got my older sister to get us away to were ever my aunty was. I also falled French. I would never tell my dad but my mum saw and that was that. She knew like me I was never going to pass
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My first memory is my parents fighting. I can tell without a doubt because I remember that I was my father's fault. He didn't care that all 3 of his kids could hear and knew he was get mad and loud over nothing. I know because we were on holidays and I knew during the day you spend time with your kids and that what she did. I also remember that someone how my mum got my older sister to get us away to were ever my aunty was. I also falled French. I would never tell my dad but my mum saw and that was that. She knew like me I was never going to pass
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vvonschweetz
I'm 16 and my dad has tried to kill my mum in their fights that I've been seeing since I was six. They had one about three weeks ago and now I can't leave them in the house on their own. Right now I'm writing after I just woke up from one of my various nightmares depicting worst case scenarios. I can't even go to my friend's places because I have a little brother I can't carry around with me and maybe he might kill her infront of him. I hate it here.
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I'm 16 and my dad has tried to kill my mum in their fights that I've been seeing since I was six. They had one about three weeks ago and now I can't leave them in the house on their own. Right now I'm writing after I just woke up from one of my various nightmares depicting worst case scenarios. I can't even go to my friend's places because I have a little brother I can't carry around with me and maybe he might kill her infront of him. I hate it here.
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Yogita
My father is a sports player
I am not so good at sports
Actually I don't like sports
I am fat even he hates me because I am fat and he tells me that you are such a bad person because of I am fat.
Not even that he hits me for my fatness I am trying my best but will be I eat noodles and he hit Mein because I eat it and I am growing fat because of it pulled my hairs and throat me on the ground.
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My father is a sports player
I am not so good at sports
Actually I don't like sports
I am fat even he hates me because I am fat and he tells me that you are such a bad person because of I am fat.
Not even that he hits me for my fatness I am trying my best but will be I eat noodles and he hit Mein because I eat it and I am growing fat because of it pulled my hairs and throat me on the ground.
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BoomGirl
I had Fighting in front of kids and emotion neglect
Both were pretty much my dads fault since he would always start yelling maliciously during their arguments. And he would always leave the emotional stuff to my mom or sisters, but when they werent around and it was just him, he would never listen to my feelings very well, and would always only ask to see me if he had a job for me.
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I had Fighting in front of kids and emotion neglect
Both were pretty much my dads fault since he would always start yelling maliciously during their arguments. And he would always leave the emotional stuff to my mom or sisters, but when they werent around and it was just him, he would never listen to my feelings very well, and would always only ask to see me if he had a job for me.
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Daze
my dad used to spank me as a child which i absolutely hated and often told him. as a female, it made me uncomfortable for him to be doing so. also, it hurt like hell. i told him as much and he told me it was completely normal and was common and i was whining and being disrespectful and selfish and disobedient. i believed him, this opened my eyes, now i know what he was doing is wrong.
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my dad used to spank me as a child which i absolutely hated and often told him. as a female, it made me uncomfortable for him to be doing so. also, it hurt like hell. i told him as much and he told me it was completely normal and was common and i was whining and being disrespectful and selfish and disobedient. i believed him, this opened my eyes, now i know what he was doing is wrong.
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education
My parents split up and they fought in front of me when they did that. when i was 6-7 i saw a fight with my mom and my grandma my favorite grandma and they were throwing things and my grandma (other one) was the only one that played with me i lived with my dad he barely played with me and still we only play digital games. I now have anxiety and may be developing depression.
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My parents split up and they fought in front of me when they did that. when i was 6-7 i saw a fight with my mom and my grandma my favorite grandma and they were throwing things and my grandma (other one) was the only one that played with me i lived with my dad he barely played with me and still we only play digital games. I now have anxiety and may be developing depression.
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LinkinMuseCold
I only have the emotional neglect thing. My parents always scold me angrily to stop crying when I cry and scold me when I'm angry. So I always hide it from people when I'm having these emotions. It's unfair, why they can be free to be angry at me while I'm not allowed to be angry at anyone. I grew up become an emotionally unavailable person because of it.
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I only have the emotional neglect thing. My parents always scold me angrily to stop crying when I cry and scold me when I'm angry. So I always hide it from people when I'm having these emotions. It's unfair, why they can be free to be angry at me while I'm not allowed to be angry at anyone. I grew up become an emotionally unavailable person because of it.
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Patrick
4 & 5 where big ones for me, especially since non-physical abuse/emotional neglect is often disregarded by others. Which furthers ones feeling of insignificance or entrapment. Its leaves u constantly questioning yourself and wondering why your not good enough. Especially when thy constantly remind u how they are the reason your not homeless and starving.
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4 & 5 where big ones for me, especially since non-physical abuse/emotional neglect is often disregarded by others. Which furthers ones feeling of insignificance or entrapment. Its leaves u constantly questioning yourself and wondering why your not good enough. Especially when thy constantly remind u how they are the reason your not homeless and starving.
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Janizha
You know not all parents are perfect. In their part it's kinda hard to be a parent. Sometimes you have to cut them some slack and try to figure out on your own on how to improve yourself instead of thinking negatively about your parents. At the very least be thankful of the small things they do to you and be thankful that you exist because of them.
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You know not all parents are perfect. In their part it's kinda hard to be a parent. Sometimes you have to cut them some slack and try to figure out on your own on how to improve yourself instead of thinking negatively about your parents. At the very least be thankful of the small things they do to you and be thankful that you exist because of them.
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PufferXD
When I was young, I got spanked with a wooden cooking spoon and when I did I thought of my children when I grow up I would never do those corporal punishment to my own child, instead I'll just talk about it.
Parents should definitely talk to their child in an SUPPORTIVE way.
Instead of not talking about themselves all the time.
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When I was young, I got spanked with a wooden cooking spoon and when I did I thought of my children when I grow up I would never do those corporal punishment to my own child, instead I'll just talk about it.
Parents should definitely talk to their child in an SUPPORTIVE way.
Instead of not talking about themselves all the time.
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Ok, so. neither of them are normal? but I told a family memeber about it and they were like Nah, you're fine. (Well, after all, I live in a country where physical punishment was legal until 20-30 years ago, even teachers were allowed and the parents were like if the teacher did it then my kid must've deserved it )
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Ok, so. neither of them are normal? but I told a family memeber about it and they were like Nah, you're fine. (Well, after all, I live in a country where physical punishment was legal until 20-30 years ago, even teachers were allowed and the parents were like if the teacher did it then my kid must've deserved it )
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ian4serena
my parents where and still are very adbusive to me. they would always fight in front of me my dad would hit me quite offten too. he would always put me down telling me how usless i am how i am a mistake etc. i truly only will be free from there abuse when they pass away just waiting for that to happen
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my parents where and still are very adbusive to me. they would always fight in front of me my dad would hit me quite offten too. he would always put me down telling me how usless i am how i am a mistake etc. i truly only will be free from there abuse when they pass away just waiting for that to happen
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