Signs You are Bi-Curious
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Adelia
Thanks for addressing the topic! I've been super confused for the last couple of years. As a child, I've always had this idea of a prince on a white horse in my head, and I really only had male crushes back then. I identified as someone who's super straight and never really questioned that. Never knew there was an option (you know how it is with conservative parents. Weirdly enough, I did have some minor fantasies about women, I just ignored them, didn't consider them serious. I didn't have any boys available, so that's where my experiences started.
Things changed when the queer support movements came in. I'm super liberal towards anything new, so that enabled my curiosity, and I made room in my mind for what was unimaginable before. Kissed a bunch of women at parties, felt nothing compared to my experience with men. But I also had something that felt like a crush on my female friend once as an adult, and recently my fantasies have been driving me crazy! I quite literally dream about women every night. I'm beginning to think I'd even date one, just never got the chemistry right. (and kissing sweaty drunk people at parties really isn't that arousing regardless of gender lol)
Is this just some peak seeking madness or am I bi?
I got no idea what I'm supposed to feel about this. What if it's all fake and I just programmed myself into that to fit in? What if I just want to advertise myself as someone with an unusual personality? Still not getting it to this day. Time to call up my therapist probably lol
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Thanks for addressing the topic! I've been super confused for the last couple of years. As a child, I've always had this idea of a prince on a white horse in my head, and I really only had male crushes back then. I identified as someone who's super straight and never really questioned that. Never knew there was an option (you know how it is with conservative parents. Weirdly enough, I did have some minor fantasies about women, I just ignored them, didn't consider them serious. I didn't have any boys available, so that's where my experiences started.
Things changed when the queer support movements came in. I'm super liberal towards anything new, so that enabled my curiosity, and I made room in my mind for what was unimaginable before. Kissed a bunch of women at parties, felt nothing compared to my experience with men. But I also had something that felt like a crush on my female friend once as an adult, and recently my fantasies have been driving me crazy! I quite literally dream about women every night. I'm beginning to think I'd even date one, just never got the chemistry right. (and kissing sweaty drunk people at parties really isn't that arousing regardless of gender lol)
Is this just some peak seeking madness or am I bi?
I got no idea what I'm supposed to feel about this. What if it's all fake and I just programmed myself into that to fit in? What if I just want to advertise myself as someone with an unusual personality? Still not getting it to this day. Time to call up my therapist probably lol
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Haileespamaccount
To be honest Im not sure what I am. I feel confident in being ace (about having little to no Intimate attraction) but Im kinda a serial romantic person with low intimate attraction. If one of my best friends liked me I would probably date them(ima girl there a girl that is bi)
But not in a kissing way. i dont know if I actually would like them like that or am I just would like them platonically. I know they used to have a crush on me I think at least. to be honest, I think I was just so excited to be with them and to be their friend. I dont know if I have REAL feelings for girls or am I just trying to fit in with people at my school that know who they are. I think I might be a straight-ace. but Im not sure, for right now I am probably going to identify with this for the time being, but if something changes it changes, if it doesnt it doesnt.
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To be honest Im not sure what I am. I feel confident in being ace (about having little to no Intimate attraction) but Im kinda a serial romantic person with low intimate attraction. If one of my best friends liked me I would probably date them(ima girl there a girl that is bi)
But not in a kissing way. i dont know if I actually would like them like that or am I just would like them platonically. I know they used to have a crush on me I think at least. to be honest, I think I was just so excited to be with them and to be their friend. I dont know if I have REAL feelings for girls or am I just trying to fit in with people at my school that know who they are. I think I might be a straight-ace. but Im not sure, for right now I am probably going to identify with this for the time being, but if something changes it changes, if it doesnt it doesnt.
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Cursed
and what if im never gonna be sure?
or that I feel the urge to date those I'm less attracted to in the gender sense but more in an aesthetic or emotional sense.
Those I am more attracted to in the gender sense, however, make me feel uncomfortable and distressed when i know they like me.
maybe I'm just insecure
or maybe deep down I know I cant feel the sorta feeling for someone as other people can. but I still feel the desire to date, someone, regardless of feelings.
idk, but even then I'm not sure i feel comfortable dating someone if i know they like me romanticly a heck of a lot more than il ever like them. it feels like i'd be hurting them
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would that still make me bi-curious tho
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and what if im never gonna be sure?
or that I feel the urge to date those I'm less attracted to in the gender sense but more in an aesthetic or emotional sense.
Those I am more attracted to in the gender sense, however, make me feel uncomfortable and distressed when i know they like me.
maybe I'm just insecure
or maybe deep down I know I cant feel the sorta feeling for someone as other people can. but I still feel the desire to date, someone, regardless of feelings.
idk, but even then I'm not sure i feel comfortable dating someone if i know they like me romanticly a heck of a lot more than il ever like them. it feels like i'd be hurting them
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would that still make me bi-curious tho
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Copy-
Ummm. I've been watcing psych 2 go for a while now and i Know i have symptoms of severe depression and also PTSD. But in our country going to pychiatris is not normal or encouraged. it is considered unacceptable and opening to parents is nearly impossible. As traditional we r, depression is considered mood or excuse. I don't know how to cope or what to do.
My own best friend whom i told it as a first person, she said that depression is nothing. I don't know what to do. I Know I'm ill. I get physical pains. I jave social anxiety. yet no one believes me
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Ummm. I've been watcing psych 2 go for a while now and i Know i have symptoms of severe depression and also PTSD. But in our country going to pychiatris is not normal or encouraged. it is considered unacceptable and opening to parents is nearly impossible. As traditional we r, depression is considered mood or excuse. I don't know how to cope or what to do.
My own best friend whom i told it as a first person, she said that depression is nothing. I don't know what to do. I Know I'm ill. I get physical pains. I jave social anxiety. yet no one believes me
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Raj
If you are free help me out:
Its been quite some time since I'm confused about my preferences. I have always been attracted to boys. but in girl's case I'm specifically attracted to tomboy girls only. I wonder is that just because tomboys look like boys and have masculine energy or am I actually attracted to girls. cause also I am not attracted to feminine girls at all.
I'm so confused. anyone of you got some advise to overcome this confusion?
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If you are free help me out:
Its been quite some time since I'm confused about my preferences. I have always been attracted to boys. but in girl's case I'm specifically attracted to tomboy girls only. I wonder is that just because tomboys look like boys and have masculine energy or am I actually attracted to girls. cause also I am not attracted to feminine girls at all.
I'm so confused. anyone of you got some advise to overcome this confusion?
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education
I have not heard the term before. But I came looking for answers. It is confusing. And none of us are alone! My biggest problem is feeling pressure to decide one way or another. Im also scared id subconsiously be coming out only for attention and I dont want to be that type of person. I want to find the truth within myself before I share with others. Im little scared bout it. I dont want to make the wrong decision. I like the term though.
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I have not heard the term before. But I came looking for answers. It is confusing. And none of us are alone! My biggest problem is feeling pressure to decide one way or another. Im also scared id subconsiously be coming out only for attention and I dont want to be that type of person. I want to find the truth within myself before I share with others. Im little scared bout it. I dont want to make the wrong decision. I like the term though.
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education
It might be because I'm new to this, but I've only had real attraction to boys, I've had an, oh shes kinda hot but it was only once and it wasnt even a real person. I dont know what I am. I think I'm bicurious. I'm simply curious about what it feels like to be with another girl. I've never felt attraction to a real girl, but I bond with girls better.
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It might be because I'm new to this, but I've only had real attraction to boys, I've had an, oh shes kinda hot but it was only once and it wasnt even a real person. I dont know what I am. I think I'm bicurious. I'm simply curious about what it feels like to be with another girl. I've never felt attraction to a real girl, but I bond with girls better.
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bear
I think Im bi.
But I might be bicurious
She talks about testing the waters
But what if I havent ever been with someone, and no one is interested in me?
Thats what my life is like right now, and honestly it discourages me a lot. Im 14 and I havent dated anyone ever.
So I need more help than what this video or my experience could give
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I think Im bi.
But I might be bicurious
She talks about testing the waters
But what if I havent ever been with someone, and no one is interested in me?
Thats what my life is like right now, and honestly it discourages me a lot. Im 14 and I havent dated anyone ever.
So I need more help than what this video or my experience could give
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Emmy
I have never been attracted to a woman my whole life, but I met a girl and I am head over heels. Im still confused and honestly a little scared. I told some of my friends and their main advice to me was to try not to focus too hard on what you are. You dig who you dig and experiment. I wish everyone the best of luck on their journeys.
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I have never been attracted to a woman my whole life, but I met a girl and I am head over heels. Im still confused and honestly a little scared. I told some of my friends and their main advice to me was to try not to focus too hard on what you are. You dig who you dig and experiment. I wish everyone the best of luck on their journeys.
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Random
Ive been crushing on guys all my life but recently I started catching feeling for a girl ( Im a girl ) and I am still a bit confused ab it but I ended up kissing her yesterday when she came over and she didnt seem to mind she told me that shes happy for me that I am finally trying to figure out and that really hit me hard: )
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Ive been crushing on guys all my life but recently I started catching feeling for a girl ( Im a girl ) and I am still a bit confused ab it but I ended up kissing her yesterday when she came over and she didnt seem to mind she told me that shes happy for me that I am finally trying to figure out and that really hit me hard: )
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Nik
I came to the realization that I am curious. Ive always slept with women and i love sleeping with women. But i am curious about what its like with a guy, but my biggest fear is what if i dont like it? What does that mean? Am I still straight? Am I bi because I did experiment with a guy?
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I came to the realization that I am curious. Ive always slept with women and i love sleeping with women. But i am curious about what its like with a guy, but my biggest fear is what if i dont like it? What does that mean? Am I still straight? Am I bi because I did experiment with a guy?
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Ned
Being curious about life is good after all, but the most important is to be self-assured when choosing a path, for these kind of decisions are one-way ones, there is no turning back once one has made one's own choice, the chosen path must be followed till life's end.
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Being curious about life is good after all, but the most important is to be self-assured when choosing a path, for these kind of decisions are one-way ones, there is no turning back once one has made one's own choice, the chosen path must be followed till life's end.
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Davonte
i dont really know for sure but i think i might be in love with a guy im just scared because i never felt this why before and i dont know how to control my feelings i dont know if im bi or state all i no is that that i really like him and im scared
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i dont really know for sure but i think i might be in love with a guy im just scared because i never felt this why before and i dont know how to control my feelings i dont know if im bi or state all i no is that that i really like him and im scared
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ЅєzуЅт420
I love that I can be 'bi-curious'.
No one does/did Masc4masc better than I did. I would even refuse any role than 'Power Top'.
Now, I've chilled out. it's like, it's okay. I _do honestly enjoy bottoming. _
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I love that I can be 'bi-curious'.
No one does/did Masc4masc better than I did. I would even refuse any role than 'Power Top'.
Now, I've chilled out. it's like, it's okay. I _do honestly enjoy bottoming. _
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OPLoppyThe3rd
This 1 guy I met. He's super sweet and very hot. So I'm a guy who thought I like women and only women. Until I met this guy. And now I want him to pound my ass. So yea I'm pretty sure I'm Bi-curious.
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This 1 guy I met. He's super sweet and very hot. So I'm a guy who thought I like women and only women. Until I met this guy. And now I want him to pound my ass. So yea I'm pretty sure I'm Bi-curious.
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Sweety
There should only be two genders boy and girl not 100 video sucks I almost ascribed I don't get people these days God made two genders we stick with two genders.
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There should only be two genders boy and girl not 100 video sucks I almost ascribed I don't get people these days God made two genders we stick with two genders.
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Just_Valerie!
How do you tell if your LGBTQ or not? I mean I just dont know how to accept myself if I am. I am not homophobic but its a bit shocking
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How do you tell if your LGBTQ or not? I mean I just dont know how to accept myself if I am. I am not homophobic but its a bit shocking
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Dawood
I am seeing a straight cuckold couple for 4 years. Recently he became orally bi, the best experience I ever had. They both love chocolate now.
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I am seeing a straight cuckold couple for 4 years. Recently he became orally bi, the best experience I ever had. They both love chocolate now.
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Tritie
Seriously this helps me a lot I've been thinking I'm Bi for a some time now but I need some help and advice like this. This is all I needed.
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Seriously this helps me a lot I've been thinking I'm Bi for a some time now but I need some help and advice like this. This is all I needed.
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Davonte
i dont no how these feelings started all i no is we just have a lot in common like for one were both vampire goths and we love vampires
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i dont no how these feelings started all i no is we just have a lot in common like for one were both vampire goths and we love vampires
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AgentGuy
The main problem i have is that im muslim and im so scared my parents are ashamed of me, neglect me or even kick me out. ..
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The main problem i have is that im muslim and im so scared my parents are ashamed of me, neglect me or even kick me out. ..
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Michael
I am a 12 year old boy this is helping me, I have been thinking about this for a while thank you for helping me.
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I am a 12 year old boy this is helping me, I have been thinking about this for a while thank you for helping me.
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education
This is wonderful. You are the best at explaining things that other people might struggle with. Thank you
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This is wonderful. You are the best at explaining things that other people might struggle with. Thank you
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Dellos
What if u want to do therapy but ur just a kid and also don't want ur parents to know? :/
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What if u want to do therapy but ur just a kid and also don't want ur parents to know? :/
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