
Do You Have Emotional Wound? Here are 7 Signs
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Date: 2023-08-20
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I remember when the time that really shattered my heart
(I bit of a backstory)
When I was a kid my parents left me in the province to leave me there for life until 3 years later they wanted me back my grandma fought with them but they ended up with the upper hand and left with me now I still remember my grandma crying it breaks my heart and I started crying too my parents would force to shut me up and since they left me there they have no experience with babysitting so they just shouted at me and I would get scared and shut up
9 years later Im going to the province after 9 years I can't wait I spent 1 and a half year there because it was lock down in the country I lived in my grandma was super excited to see me we hugged and cried after so long we met each other but 7 months later I came to find that my grandma has cancer I tried to cheer her up but inside my heart I was shattered but slowly the cancer became worst and my aunt said you know that she is not breathing anymore the oxygen is the only thing keeping her alive and that broke my heart so severely that I thought of suicide after she died I became angry hot headed after the lockdown I have a chance to go back to my parents at that point I was angry at my family in the province so I got back and found out that I have a sister and 1 month later I got a chance to go back to my hometown but I rejected it because at my anger at my family but I didn't expect what I was gonna go through
(past forward to today) I got a chance to go to my grandma's funeral when we got there I told to my dad that Id like to stay but he treatments to beat me up and the fact that he said they don't even look after you
Made me more angry at him the fact that he left me there for years and didn't even take care of me when I was a child
And he had the audacity to say that they don't take care of me.
1 year after that all happened
I was in a room after a fight with my parents they were angry at my 3 year old sister because she broke 5 plates when they were gone mind you I was sick at this time so I got the day off I thought that they would take her with them I putted my headphones on max listening to some music and then hours later I hear spanking and crying outside
I rushed outside to see my parents beating my 3 year old sister I quickly grabbed my sisters hand and went to my room locked the doors and confronted them they said move or we will spank you too
Spank me but don't even lay a finger on my sister after the climax I said to my parent's that I'm leaving they threaten to beat me up but with all my anger I just punched them both super hard that I thought they were asleep I sneaked outside and went to my aunt's house and said all that happened and she gladly agreed to take me and my sister to the province they talked me and sister out they had my parents banned from seeing us again.
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I remember when the time that really shattered my heart
(I bit of a backstory)
When I was a kid my parents left me in the province to leave me there for life until 3 years later they wanted me back my grandma fought with them but they ended up with the upper hand and left with me now I still remember my grandma crying it breaks my heart and I started crying too my parents would force to shut me up and since they left me there they have no experience with babysitting so they just shouted at me and I would get scared and shut up
9 years later Im going to the province after 9 years I can't wait I spent 1 and a half year there because it was lock down in the country I lived in my grandma was super excited to see me we hugged and cried after so long we met each other but 7 months later I came to find that my grandma has cancer I tried to cheer her up but inside my heart I was shattered but slowly the cancer became worst and my aunt said you know that she is not breathing anymore the oxygen is the only thing keeping her alive and that broke my heart so severely that I thought of suicide after she died I became angry hot headed after the lockdown I have a chance to go back to my parents at that point I was angry at my family in the province so I got back and found out that I have a sister and 1 month later I got a chance to go back to my hometown but I rejected it because at my anger at my family but I didn't expect what I was gonna go through
(past forward to today) I got a chance to go to my grandma's funeral when we got there I told to my dad that Id like to stay but he treatments to beat me up and the fact that he said they don't even look after you
Made me more angry at him the fact that he left me there for years and didn't even take care of me when I was a child
And he had the audacity to say that they don't take care of me.
1 year after that all happened
I was in a room after a fight with my parents they were angry at my 3 year old sister because she broke 5 plates when they were gone mind you I was sick at this time so I got the day off I thought that they would take her with them I putted my headphones on max listening to some music and then hours later I hear spanking and crying outside
I rushed outside to see my parents beating my 3 year old sister I quickly grabbed my sisters hand and went to my room locked the doors and confronted them they said move or we will spank you too
Spank me but don't even lay a finger on my sister after the climax I said to my parent's that I'm leaving they threaten to beat me up but with all my anger I just punched them both super hard that I thought they were asleep I sneaked outside and went to my aunt's house and said all that happened and she gladly agreed to take me and my sister to the province they talked me and sister out they had my parents banned from seeing us again.
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Yang
Im the kind of person that doesnt really want to open up mainly because I think no one wants to hear my shitty problemsAnd also because I dont want to connect with anybody and that I dont really like to go outside I becaus im always in my parents house burned out homework juggling learning languages juggling four tests a week and juggling also other two test for the other language down learning juggling homework and also that lesson learning or whatever that language learning well that is just five hours of my life every day of the summer break just 80% of the summer break I just didnt do nothing stayed at home runs out every day wake up at 8 PM or a. m. learning until well 17: 00 and also studying for exams every day every night I just wish I had a better life no stress but not everybody can have what they want and also that every night I used to I used to all right I used to cry every night and I also get tantrums very very often only because every time I come back home from school at 14: 00 I I have im only one or two hours to study for the exams before exams and I have been the other three hours or four hours of my life wasted Im learning a new language in this setting and then after I study even more for Exams for the language Just thank you thank you very much help me to open my eyes that I am burnt out
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Im the kind of person that doesnt really want to open up mainly because I think no one wants to hear my shitty problemsAnd also because I dont want to connect with anybody and that I dont really like to go outside I becaus im always in my parents house burned out homework juggling learning languages juggling four tests a week and juggling also other two test for the other language down learning juggling homework and also that lesson learning or whatever that language learning well that is just five hours of my life every day of the summer break just 80% of the summer break I just didnt do nothing stayed at home runs out every day wake up at 8 PM or a. m. learning until well 17: 00 and also studying for exams every day every night I just wish I had a better life no stress but not everybody can have what they want and also that every night I used to I used to all right I used to cry every night and I also get tantrums very very often only because every time I come back home from school at 14: 00 I I have im only one or two hours to study for the exams before exams and I have been the other three hours or four hours of my life wasted Im learning a new language in this setting and then after I study even more for Exams for the language Just thank you thank you very much help me to open my eyes that I am burnt out
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K. A. R. D
I do cry for small things by thinking why everyone yells at me.
Im intrested in music and dancing my parents doesnt let me do it because they want me to study 24 hours im waking at 4am to study. I feel soo depressed when i does it too much.
I does my sister always tell me to tell my emotions to her because she knows i doesnt tell anyone i feel sooo annoyed and i get angry easily when someone ask me to tell it.
There are lots of times i feel hopeless and worthless when i go to bed i just think how hopeless i am it drops tears while thinking like that.
We're parents meeting every time to tell our parents about our marks even before that day i think about the whole bad memories like my mom yelled at me last year and my father yelled like super hard last year and when i think about the future i think that my parents will yell at me as usual on that day. Even tho i study hard if i doesnt score the marks they wanted they dont even appreciate i studied hard for that exam.
I feel clueless specialy while im studying. I feel how clueless i am while others are even better than me we just hurts ourselves by thinking those.
actually i didnt knew i had a Emotional Wound till now. Thanks for the video
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I do cry for small things by thinking why everyone yells at me.
Im intrested in music and dancing my parents doesnt let me do it because they want me to study 24 hours im waking at 4am to study. I feel soo depressed when i does it too much.
I does my sister always tell me to tell my emotions to her because she knows i doesnt tell anyone i feel sooo annoyed and i get angry easily when someone ask me to tell it.
There are lots of times i feel hopeless and worthless when i go to bed i just think how hopeless i am it drops tears while thinking like that.
We're parents meeting every time to tell our parents about our marks even before that day i think about the whole bad memories like my mom yelled at me last year and my father yelled like super hard last year and when i think about the future i think that my parents will yell at me as usual on that day. Even tho i study hard if i doesnt score the marks they wanted they dont even appreciate i studied hard for that exam.
I feel clueless specialy while im studying. I feel how clueless i am while others are even better than me we just hurts ourselves by thinking those.
actually i didnt knew i had a Emotional Wound till now. Thanks for the video
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EyeSeeYou
I'm not sure I understand what cry over the small things really means, though.
Some people regard loss of an animal companion as an inferior situation compared with the death of another human.
Who is to really judge that, though?
If someone feels much greater and more profound distress and grief when a beloved creature perishes versus a human loss, merely because the deceased is a human, is the former a small thing and the latter a big thing, but depending upon the individual?
I ask this because there are people who insist there is something wrong with a person who feels exponentially more distressed over the loss of a companion animal than over a human.
Yet it's been acknowledged that eco-anxiety and eco-depression is real as well, and many scientific occupations working towards habitat and wildlife preservation have developed this condition (I am in one of those occupations.
Is this my own confusion over whether the small things are more akin to spontaneous or delayed crying as an outlet, or the social ranking of what is expected to cause grief and distress, and the level or degree of it?
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I'm not sure I understand what cry over the small things really means, though.
Some people regard loss of an animal companion as an inferior situation compared with the death of another human.
Who is to really judge that, though?
If someone feels much greater and more profound distress and grief when a beloved creature perishes versus a human loss, merely because the deceased is a human, is the former a small thing and the latter a big thing, but depending upon the individual?
I ask this because there are people who insist there is something wrong with a person who feels exponentially more distressed over the loss of a companion animal than over a human.
Yet it's been acknowledged that eco-anxiety and eco-depression is real as well, and many scientific occupations working towards habitat and wildlife preservation have developed this condition (I am in one of those occupations.
Is this my own confusion over whether the small things are more akin to spontaneous or delayed crying as an outlet, or the social ranking of what is expected to cause grief and distress, and the level or degree of it?
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jin
I love my sister but why I am so insecure of her? I mean she cooks very well, looks beautiful, have a slim figure, good in studies, can express her emotions to her loved ones, can handle kids very well like a mothery figure, everyone loves her, while me I may get good grades in class, my teachers praise me, I cook food really well but I cant handle kids, I am more ambitious, I love my family but I dont know how to express my emotions Thats why they only know my angry and silent emotion not the one i care for them, I dont have a good physique, I sometimes get mocked at school by my toxic friends, I dont have anyone to share my problems. The only person is my that cousin sister only and how I wil face if she got to know that her own beloved sister is insecure of her?
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I love my sister but why I am so insecure of her? I mean she cooks very well, looks beautiful, have a slim figure, good in studies, can express her emotions to her loved ones, can handle kids very well like a mothery figure, everyone loves her, while me I may get good grades in class, my teachers praise me, I cook food really well but I cant handle kids, I am more ambitious, I love my family but I dont know how to express my emotions Thats why they only know my angry and silent emotion not the one i care for them, I dont have a good physique, I sometimes get mocked at school by my toxic friends, I dont have anyone to share my problems. The only person is my that cousin sister only and how I wil face if she got to know that her own beloved sister is insecure of her?
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education
I have an emotional wound (a big one) from almost 11 years ago.
It was so traumatic for me I still remember it to this day and every time theres silence (meaning, nothing is distracting me) and im alone with my thoughts that one part of my past comes back and haunts me, making me feel guilty for everything that happened.
Because in a way I am, I am the cause of what happened to me and my family and I can never take it back even though I wish I could.
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I have an emotional wound (a big one) from almost 11 years ago.
It was so traumatic for me I still remember it to this day and every time theres silence (meaning, nothing is distracting me) and im alone with my thoughts that one part of my past comes back and haunts me, making me feel guilty for everything that happened.
Because in a way I am, I am the cause of what happened to me and my family and I can never take it back even though I wish I could.
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Simon
Besides 1 and 4, you described me. I dont replay the same bad memory in my head though, its always either a daydream or dream following the same premises as all of those horrible memories, but in a different style. Thank you for this, Im only 12 and Ive been through way to much then I needed. Ive been through a lot of horrific things, so when you said the stuff about apathy I thought you were stalking me.
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Besides 1 and 4, you described me. I dont replay the same bad memory in my head though, its always either a daydream or dream following the same premises as all of those horrible memories, but in a different style. Thank you for this, Im only 12 and Ive been through way to much then I needed. Ive been through a lot of horrific things, so when you said the stuff about apathy I thought you were stalking me.
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Brohalpmii
My grandpa died in 2017 when I was 5 and I was instantly wounded when I heard about his death. He was on of the best persons in my family and I still have a ton of memories of me with him. I temporarily gorget about him for about a month or shorter before I remember him, and when I remember him I go To an adult so they can confort me.
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My grandpa died in 2017 when I was 5 and I was instantly wounded when I heard about his death. He was on of the best persons in my family and I still have a ton of memories of me with him. I temporarily gorget about him for about a month or shorter before I remember him, and when I remember him I go To an adult so they can confort me.
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Mary
My mental and emotional state is stuck at the ages of my late teens to early 20's even though I turn 43.
By I agree with numbers 2 and 4 I think.
I am incredibly shy passive timid and extremely nervous.
I think I've lost my ability to feel happiness anymore and I extremely depressed.
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My mental and emotional state is stuck at the ages of my late teens to early 20's even though I turn 43.
By I agree with numbers 2 and 4 I think.
I am incredibly shy passive timid and extremely nervous.
I think I've lost my ability to feel happiness anymore and I extremely depressed.
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+The
Sick Of Crying Tired of Trying but Inside I'm Dying, The Hardest Part Is Waking Up in The Morning Remembering What You Were Trying to Forget Last Night, People Always Ask Am i Okay? And i Say I'm Tired but They Don't Get What I Mean T-Torn + I-Insecure + R-Ruined + E-Emotional + D-Depressed
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Sick Of Crying Tired of Trying but Inside I'm Dying, The Hardest Part Is Waking Up in The Morning Remembering What You Were Trying to Forget Last Night, People Always Ask Am i Okay? And i Say I'm Tired but They Don't Get What I Mean T-Torn + I-Insecure + R-Ruined + E-Emotional + D-Depressed
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nerdy
I recognise this symptoms very well. I cry hard about books or movies and my passive-aggressivness only screams to hold me tight without any comment. I sure have to apologise to my husband for this.
Please share a video how to be more aware of such situations and what to do
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I recognise this symptoms very well. I cry hard about books or movies and my passive-aggressivness only screams to hold me tight without any comment. I sure have to apologise to my husband for this.
Please share a video how to be more aware of such situations and what to do
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Try
while for me im normally numb when talking to a person even when they include death of their family i normally respond with oh to act shocked but really im not, while on the internet like talking with people i tend to be more emotional
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while for me im normally numb when talking to a person even when they include death of their family i normally respond with oh to act shocked but really im not, while on the internet like talking with people i tend to be more emotional
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Amy
Apathy is me. only yesterday listening to my voice note my friend was like bro why you sound so low I was like no I just care less abt life. after listening to me she was like bro u have become a zombie now, me too. haha funny story: )
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Apathy is me. only yesterday listening to my voice note my friend was like bro why you sound so low I was like no I just care less abt life. after listening to me she was like bro u have become a zombie now, me too. haha funny story: )
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Ann_
i lost too many friends in the past 5 years, i've been bullied too. i now keep isolating myself which is just not helping. but some wounds are too hard to heal. i'm always scared that these things will happen again.
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i lost too many friends in the past 5 years, i've been bullied too. i now keep isolating myself which is just not helping. but some wounds are too hard to heal. i'm always scared that these things will happen again.
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Stolas
I have or do everything except for the second one sort of. I do tend to lose interest in the things I enjoy, but it lasts for a few days to 2 weeks then I get back into it but not as enthusiastically as before.
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I have or do everything except for the second one sort of. I do tend to lose interest in the things I enjoy, but it lasts for a few days to 2 weeks then I get back into it but not as enthusiastically as before.
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TheEliminator
I'm 31. By this point, I don't care anymore. What's the point of being alive while carrying all of this weight? Being purposeless? Alone? I don't want to be here anymore, any longer.
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I'm 31. By this point, I don't care anymore. What's the point of being alive while carrying all of this weight? Being purposeless? Alone? I don't want to be here anymore, any longer.
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education
What if the wound hurt you to the point where you dont cry anymore, dont get sad anymore, but just feeling that theres something wrong all the time? Does anyone else feel that way?
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What if the wound hurt you to the point where you dont cry anymore, dont get sad anymore, but just feeling that theres something wrong all the time? Does anyone else feel that way?
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PaliXar
1: 28 um i dont usually cry even on Funeral i just don't feel like it even when my dog died or when my grandpa died of cancer i didn't cry and i just feel something is wrong with me.
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1: 28 um i dont usually cry even on Funeral i just don't feel like it even when my dog died or when my grandpa died of cancer i didn't cry and i just feel something is wrong with me.
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Random
I thought I was only sensitive, had anger issues, is just was a over thinker, was going throught a phase, and had a early life crisis
Turns out I need to talk to my therapist
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I thought I was only sensitive, had anger issues, is just was a over thinker, was going throught a phase, and had a early life crisis
Turns out I need to talk to my therapist
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This
this is the thing i need because i just got slammed into a crisis and loss of social contact with the few i can trust and have tried to have a true friendship with
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this is the thing i need because i just got slammed into a crisis and loss of social contact with the few i can trust and have tried to have a true friendship with
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Edward
I've heard that being unable to cry can also be associated with depression. A lot of symptoms of depression seem to be one extreme or the other.
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I've heard that being unable to cry can also be associated with depression. A lot of symptoms of depression seem to be one extreme or the other.
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Kendal
I was having tearfulness for these past months over the summer often. But I did have a few breakdowns. One night, I had aniexy during my bedtime
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I was having tearfulness for these past months over the summer often. But I did have a few breakdowns. One night, I had aniexy during my bedtime
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lee
My emotional wound is larger than my actual wounds. I don't know what to do.
Edit: could I get some advice, and I know the source, my friends.
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My emotional wound is larger than my actual wounds. I don't know what to do.
Edit: could I get some advice, and I know the source, my friends.
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education
I have a ton of these things and I'm telling you it's really bad it's like adhd but emotionally bad like it happens really fast
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I have a ton of these things and I'm telling you it's really bad it's like adhd but emotionally bad like it happens really fast
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OHIO_BANDIT
wow i never relized how bad ive been affected by not living with my parents and how it really is damaging my metal heath
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wow i never relized how bad ive been affected by not living with my parents and how it really is damaging my metal heath
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