10 Signs You Lack Self Love
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Beat
Hey guys, as someone who is struggling with self hate, please love yourselves. Looking back, I really am not the monster I created in my head, my face is fine, I accomplished a lot, its not too late to be successful, and its not too late to take care of yourself and others either.
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I love you guys, I believe weve all met on this video for a reason. To realize our potential. If we can change the reality in our minds we can change the reality in the world for the better or worse.
Even though I had an extremely hard time believing this, we deserve love. And we need love in order to function. If you want to love yourself after you change, then youre going to need love to do that, otherwise youre never going to love yourself.
Anyways, I hope you all have a great day and find success whatever that may be to you, and I hope you can love yourself just as I am trying to do right now. Were all in this together, its so funny how self hate makes you feel so alone, yet were all just a bunch of people feeling alone together.
If anyone wants to talk about their story Id love to listen. I like know how other people are getting through this and supporting those who need it, but I understand if you dont want to since Im a stranger.
Anyways, love you all and Goodluck: )
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Hey guys, as someone who is struggling with self hate, please love yourselves. Looking back, I really am not the monster I created in my head, my face is fine, I accomplished a lot, its not too late to be successful, and its not too late to take care of yourself and others either.
So
I love you guys, I believe weve all met on this video for a reason. To realize our potential. If we can change the reality in our minds we can change the reality in the world for the better or worse.
Even though I had an extremely hard time believing this, we deserve love. And we need love in order to function. If you want to love yourself after you change, then youre going to need love to do that, otherwise youre never going to love yourself.
Anyways, I hope you all have a great day and find success whatever that may be to you, and I hope you can love yourself just as I am trying to do right now. Were all in this together, its so funny how self hate makes you feel so alone, yet were all just a bunch of people feeling alone together.
If anyone wants to talk about their story Id love to listen. I like know how other people are getting through this and supporting those who need it, but I understand if you dont want to since Im a stranger.
Anyways, love you all and Goodluck: )
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HailAnts
The image of the graduate hurts. I was a very smart kid my entire life. It defined me. Impressed my parents. But by the time of high school my complete lack of self confidence and self-esteem left me with no friends and made me such a total social outcast that I started skipping school to avoid the criticism of other kids.
Made me feel totally guilty that I was disappointing my family (I was the youngest so they had no idea what was really going on in school. I expected to graduate and go on to college. But it all fell apart around me and I could do nothing to stop it.
I went to a shitty public school so not one administrator noticed that I went from straight A's to skipping weeks at a time. Actually they noticed but never asked me why, just gave me detention and suspensions. Eventually I had completely failed 11th grade and was out of school with nothing to show for it.
To this day when I tell friends that I actually flunked out of high school they look at me in disbelief.
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The image of the graduate hurts. I was a very smart kid my entire life. It defined me. Impressed my parents. But by the time of high school my complete lack of self confidence and self-esteem left me with no friends and made me such a total social outcast that I started skipping school to avoid the criticism of other kids.
Made me feel totally guilty that I was disappointing my family (I was the youngest so they had no idea what was really going on in school. I expected to graduate and go on to college. But it all fell apart around me and I could do nothing to stop it.
I went to a shitty public school so not one administrator noticed that I went from straight A's to skipping weeks at a time. Actually they noticed but never asked me why, just gave me detention and suspensions. Eventually I had completely failed 11th grade and was out of school with nothing to show for it.
To this day when I tell friends that I actually flunked out of high school they look at me in disbelief.
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Stray
I've just discovered recently that pretty much all my 20 years of living in this earth that I've never loved myself. I realised that all my life I've always felt so far away or unattached with myself. I've would feel so 'empty' or 'dull' inside, wanting to be anyone else rather than myself. Never really felt so 'free spirited', whatever that means. I was a very quite kid growing up, didn't have much friends and I've always been told that being the way I am wasn't good, which really crushed my self-esteem. I've been wanting to work on my mental health, does anyone know what I can do to get some help. whoever read this i hope you can understand what I'm saying because its not easy to explain in words. :)
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I've just discovered recently that pretty much all my 20 years of living in this earth that I've never loved myself. I realised that all my life I've always felt so far away or unattached with myself. I've would feel so 'empty' or 'dull' inside, wanting to be anyone else rather than myself. Never really felt so 'free spirited', whatever that means. I was a very quite kid growing up, didn't have much friends and I've always been told that being the way I am wasn't good, which really crushed my self-esteem. I've been wanting to work on my mental health, does anyone know what I can do to get some help. whoever read this i hope you can understand what I'm saying because its not easy to explain in words. :)
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Amy
I feel like it's easy to forget about self love no matter what age you are, and I know I exhibited almost every one of these signs when I was in my early 20's. I know I've come a long way since then, but what stings me the most still sometimes is over-analyzing/overthinking, feelings of inferiority and using them as a means of projection, and being hard on myself. Sometimes, it's just hard to accept that there's only one me on this earth, and I'm not like everybody else.
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I feel like it's easy to forget about self love no matter what age you are, and I know I exhibited almost every one of these signs when I was in my early 20's. I know I've come a long way since then, but what stings me the most still sometimes is over-analyzing/overthinking, feelings of inferiority and using them as a means of projection, and being hard on myself. Sometimes, it's just hard to accept that there's only one me on this earth, and I'm not like everybody else.
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sophie
Is it bad that all of this has happened in the last week? My friend are supportive but i still feel like I need to prove my self.
I have been though so tough advents in my life to do with medical problems. My doctor said it might be wise for my parents to help get me therapy as may problems may have a risen( they have but I feel to suffocate to say them) so I am on a waiting list for therapy.
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Is it bad that all of this has happened in the last week? My friend are supportive but i still feel like I need to prove my self.
I have been though so tough advents in my life to do with medical problems. My doctor said it might be wise for my parents to help get me therapy as may problems may have a risen( they have but I feel to suffocate to say them) so I am on a waiting list for therapy.
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JoAnn
You perfectly described a narcissist. My husbands family is a nest of them. My husband and I have been married for over 40 years. And I am well aware of NPD. My husband tuned into watch this to see if hed see himself. Then he sent it to me. Telling me he didnt relate to any of it. We both know this video is describing a very troubled person that has to hide behind a facade.
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You perfectly described a narcissist. My husbands family is a nest of them. My husband and I have been married for over 40 years. And I am well aware of NPD. My husband tuned into watch this to see if hed see himself. Then he sent it to me. Telling me he didnt relate to any of it. We both know this video is describing a very troubled person that has to hide behind a facade.
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DMTdreamz
A dream my friend, is a. Delirium hallucination
But can one establish paradise? I dont know Because I do not know how to put it into words And yet how simple it is in one day, in one hour everything could be fixed up at once. The main thing is to fck others like yourself, thats the chief thing, nothing else is wanted.
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A dream my friend, is a. Delirium hallucination
But can one establish paradise? I dont know Because I do not know how to put it into words And yet how simple it is in one day, in one hour everything could be fixed up at once. The main thing is to fck others like yourself, thats the chief thing, nothing else is wanted.
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Tom
When i see these videos, wich i relate too, and then read comments, i often wonders what it would be like if all of us who struggle would come together, sit down and talk about whats troubling us. I guess maybe we wouldnt feel so alone and lack of selflove when we see that other people have the same problems. Just a tought.
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When i see these videos, wich i relate too, and then read comments, i often wonders what it would be like if all of us who struggle would come together, sit down and talk about whats troubling us. I guess maybe we wouldnt feel so alone and lack of selflove when we see that other people have the same problems. Just a tought.
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maxx
how do i even approach a situation like this when talking to a mental health professional I feel like I am getting nowhere I don't know what to do and all I am left with is my thoughts as my therapist had to go on a 6 week vacation and now I cant talk or do anything that i can think of to help me improve. (any suggestions)
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how do i even approach a situation like this when talking to a mental health professional I feel like I am getting nowhere I don't know what to do and all I am left with is my thoughts as my therapist had to go on a 6 week vacation and now I cant talk or do anything that i can think of to help me improve. (any suggestions)
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ANK
Everyone is so pretty, healthy, wealthy, happy, have good career
But as me I lack most of the things.
But I'm happy and glad what I have But some of the time I'm clueless about life.
When I see others I get jealous. i don't like that feeling.
I don't know what to do. I hate that. hate everything
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Everyone is so pretty, healthy, wealthy, happy, have good career
But as me I lack most of the things.
But I'm happy and glad what I have But some of the time I'm clueless about life.
When I see others I get jealous. i don't like that feeling.
I don't know what to do. I hate that. hate everything
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Supriti
I have all the 10 points in my behavior. I knew and still now know that i do not love myself. and it is becoming hectic now in my life. Everyone is slowly slowly starting disliking me. Even my parents have become hopeless on me. I don't know what to do.
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I have all the 10 points in my behavior. I knew and still now know that i do not love myself. and it is becoming hectic now in my life. Everyone is slowly slowly starting disliking me. Even my parents have become hopeless on me. I don't know what to do.
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TheWrestleAddict
What if you dont have somebody you can trust? I dont have any friends and my family doesnt care. As long as I go to work and make money they dont care how I feel and what I want from life. Every sign from this video fits 100% to me.
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What if you dont have somebody you can trust? I dont have any friends and my family doesnt care. As long as I go to work and make money they dont care how I feel and what I want from life. Every sign from this video fits 100% to me.
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Mike
4, 6 and 7 are the big ones for me. My mental health was always bad. I'm very hard on myself when I mess up. I hardly ever had any confidence. I'm trying to overcome these things with therapy.
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4, 6 and 7 are the big ones for me. My mental health was always bad. I'm very hard on myself when I mess up. I hardly ever had any confidence. I'm trying to overcome these things with therapy.
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LegionEvo
I always end up crying watching these because I relate to a lot of these but I know that Im not gonna be able to love myself again. Maybe one day but I dont see it.
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I always end up crying watching these because I relate to a lot of these but I know that Im not gonna be able to love myself again. Maybe one day but I dont see it.
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AspieGamer1986
I often find myself repressing my emotions and feel like I'm a shitty worker as much as so many people tell me how speedy I am at my job and how amazing I am.
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I often find myself repressing my emotions and feel like I'm a shitty worker as much as so many people tell me how speedy I am at my job and how amazing I am.
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Prachi
I got 10/10.
Lack lot of self love and still don't know how to overcome it. being hard on myself because of others is just ruining me day by day!
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I got 10/10.
Lack lot of self love and still don't know how to overcome it. being hard on myself because of others is just ruining me day by day!
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SakuraStan
I am sure I hate myself. This video was for prove and confirmation. Please know that what you are doing is helping 10s of thousands of children.
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I am sure I hate myself. This video was for prove and confirmation. Please know that what you are doing is helping 10s of thousands of children.
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Ashen
I always think what others think of me and I always put myself down. I think there is something wrong with me and I won't fit with people around me
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I always think what others think of me and I always put myself down. I think there is something wrong with me and I won't fit with people around me
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slagar
Self love is important. Self acceptance thats a double blade sword sometimes its fine and sometimes it can be dangerous and unhealthy.
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Self love is important. Self acceptance thats a double blade sword sometimes its fine and sometimes it can be dangerous and unhealthy.
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BlxeSoda
My friend told me to value myself more than anyone, but when she sees anyone else valuing themselves the most, she gets disgusted
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My friend told me to value myself more than anyone, but when she sees anyone else valuing themselves the most, she gets disgusted
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Warren
Well this video proved me that i lack a ton of self love even tho i kinda knew it already but it's so hard to love yourself: /
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Well this video proved me that i lack a ton of self love even tho i kinda knew it already but it's so hard to love yourself: /
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Syrath
According to my parents any time I spend relaxing or taking a nap is time wasted, since it could be spent working or cleaning.
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According to my parents any time I spend relaxing or taking a nap is time wasted, since it could be spent working or cleaning.
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Aging
Lack of self love keeps me from being blinded by optimisjmand being obsessed with self love and other narcissistic traits.
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Lack of self love keeps me from being blinded by optimisjmand being obsessed with self love and other narcissistic traits.
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Mary
I don't love myself cause I don't to and there's no need to myself if others can do it for me, so no I will not love myself
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I don't love myself cause I don't to and there's no need to myself if others can do it for me, so no I will not love myself
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Beauty
It's funny how I'm trying to love and be there for everyone else neglecting my own self. Need to work on loving myself.
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It's funny how I'm trying to love and be there for everyone else neglecting my own self. Need to work on loving myself.
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