6 Signs YOU'RE the Toxic Friend
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Date: 2023-08-20
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A.
I can say that my toxic trait was to rely on my friends for emotional support a little too often, it peaked during quarantine when I was over analyzing the state of the world and how social interactions were a no go. During quarantine I became very depressed and they showed mediocre support, were all experiencing the same social isolation and i felt as though the world was simply ending safe to say anxiety hightened in all some more than others. I may have overreacted in some case, but I expected them to be a little more concerned about my mental health the same way i was concerned for them. Some ghosted me but then wanted to come back into my life which I didnt allow you werent there during my lowest and now you wanna be apart my life again? Um no. I love you but no. Others I had to distance myself from because I was simply getting taken advantage of while I was in a vulnerable space.
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I can say that my toxic trait was to rely on my friends for emotional support a little too often, it peaked during quarantine when I was over analyzing the state of the world and how social interactions were a no go. During quarantine I became very depressed and they showed mediocre support, were all experiencing the same social isolation and i felt as though the world was simply ending safe to say anxiety hightened in all some more than others. I may have overreacted in some case, but I expected them to be a little more concerned about my mental health the same way i was concerned for them. Some ghosted me but then wanted to come back into my life which I didnt allow you werent there during my lowest and now you wanna be apart my life again? Um no. I love you but no. Others I had to distance myself from because I was simply getting taken advantage of while I was in a vulnerable space.
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Michelle
With number 2. what if you try everything to the point where you can't be bothered to help them any more?
My friend and I have had a really up and down relationship, she did and still does so much self destructive stuff and I was always the one that the consequences fell on leading to me being bullied and such. She acts like how a good friend would but then only brings me down somehow.
So I got into the habit of telling her the blunt truth on what to do to fix things but she'd never do it and make it a whole drama, so I just ignore it or brush it off for her to deal with. Idk if that really makes me the toxic one, she sure makes me feel I am that but she's the one who dragged me down so far to be depressed etc.
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With number 2. what if you try everything to the point where you can't be bothered to help them any more?
My friend and I have had a really up and down relationship, she did and still does so much self destructive stuff and I was always the one that the consequences fell on leading to me being bullied and such. She acts like how a good friend would but then only brings me down somehow.
So I got into the habit of telling her the blunt truth on what to do to fix things but she'd never do it and make it a whole drama, so I just ignore it or brush it off for her to deal with. Idk if that really makes me the toxic one, she sure makes me feel I am that but she's the one who dragged me down so far to be depressed etc.
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Alli's
The most complicated thing about friendships is that you cant identify whether your the toxic friend or they are, i was the toxic friend back then since i was so jealous of my friend back then, to the point we got into a arguement during class in the meet chatbox which is embarrassing and i blamed her for being the toxic one, and i wanna change but the thing is not only am i a toxic friend because of jealousy, but also because of my past experiences with friendships and also just hating the person im friends with, right now i wanna change and be a better friend and i wanna find a true friend too
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The most complicated thing about friendships is that you cant identify whether your the toxic friend or they are, i was the toxic friend back then since i was so jealous of my friend back then, to the point we got into a arguement during class in the meet chatbox which is embarrassing and i blamed her for being the toxic one, and i wanna change but the thing is not only am i a toxic friend because of jealousy, but also because of my past experiences with friendships and also just hating the person im friends with, right now i wanna change and be a better friend and i wanna find a true friend too
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Dazai
Am I toxic for not supporting my 14 years old friend to smoke
Like I tried to lead her to the right way but I think I pushed her too much. I am now angry at her and want revenge by telling her mom what she does
I have proof and a lot of stuff that shows her self destructive behaviour.
To be honest I am even scared that she sells her body for weed and cigarettes because of a screenshot I received where she said that she didn't have to pay
I am both worried and wish to revenge making that a perfect plan but I don't know whether it's okay or not
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Am I toxic for not supporting my 14 years old friend to smoke
Like I tried to lead her to the right way but I think I pushed her too much. I am now angry at her and want revenge by telling her mom what she does
I have proof and a lot of stuff that shows her self destructive behaviour.
To be honest I am even scared that she sells her body for weed and cigarettes because of a screenshot I received where she said that she didn't have to pay
I am both worried and wish to revenge making that a perfect plan but I don't know whether it's okay or not
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Harmony
I show none of these signs to my friends but Ive shown a few of these to my younger sister more times than you would think, but the thing is, she acts helpless and pretends she doesnt know how to do things by herself like pouring a glass of milk or changing her own clothes but my entire family has seen her do those types of things multiple times and is just straight up annoying when she does the I dont know how or I cant crap. She only says it bc shes literally sitting on the couch all day and doesnt feel like getting up
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I show none of these signs to my friends but Ive shown a few of these to my younger sister more times than you would think, but the thing is, she acts helpless and pretends she doesnt know how to do things by herself like pouring a glass of milk or changing her own clothes but my entire family has seen her do those types of things multiple times and is just straight up annoying when she does the I dont know how or I cant crap. She only says it bc shes literally sitting on the couch all day and doesnt feel like getting up
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Sundaeoneday
I watched this to see if I was toxic and it turns out that my friend was toxic and I am young and already have a toxic relationship and do not say that I am over exaggerating because I would never feel free doing anything with them and I said my feelings to him and he shrugged it of I wrote three paragraphs of how bad the relationship was and he shrugged it off just saying ok and then sending a meme after it saying get better
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I watched this to see if I was toxic and it turns out that my friend was toxic and I am young and already have a toxic relationship and do not say that I am over exaggerating because I would never feel free doing anything with them and I said my feelings to him and he shrugged it of I wrote three paragraphs of how bad the relationship was and he shrugged it off just saying ok and then sending a meme after it saying get better
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Sidly
The point 4 is smth that my friends do a lot well it wasnt that bad till that one time smth inside my feet ripped and I fell down the stairs and they laughed I mean they asked if I was ok still. it was hurting me and i was about to cry but i laughed it off. And that makes me angry till this day. When I think about it I want that to happan to them too. Well I dont but. idk my feeling are just ohhhh weird right now lol
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The point 4 is smth that my friends do a lot well it wasnt that bad till that one time smth inside my feet ripped and I fell down the stairs and they laughed I mean they asked if I was ok still. it was hurting me and i was about to cry but i laughed it off. And that makes me angry till this day. When I think about it I want that to happan to them too. Well I dont but. idk my feeling are just ohhhh weird right now lol
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Bomber_Pigeon
I always made fun of my friends but I always showed how much I cared about them and how much I loved them.
But when I told them about my period of deep depression they weren't even listening or when I finished all the exams to get into my dream school, they didn't even ask me if I passed it or how I was emotionally after that.
Now: I am the toxic one or they are? It's this karma?
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I always made fun of my friends but I always showed how much I cared about them and how much I loved them.
But when I told them about my period of deep depression they weren't even listening or when I finished all the exams to get into my dream school, they didn't even ask me if I passed it or how I was emotionally after that.
Now: I am the toxic one or they are? It's this karma?
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nvm
just a quick question if I was surprised for having good marks at subjects and said for example
OMG look I have an A in english
like am I being happy for having a good mark or is this arrogance like they don't really look happy when I say such things but this is more like a reaction I never wanted them to feel bad cuz they're not good enough at school
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just a quick question if I was surprised for having good marks at subjects and said for example
OMG look I have an A in english
like am I being happy for having a good mark or is this arrogance like they don't really look happy when I say such things but this is more like a reaction I never wanted them to feel bad cuz they're not good enough at school
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Joshua
I enjoy this video alot, it helps me to self reflect and personal growth. I wish I could also share it to a few of my friends that may benefit them but my intuition tells me that they will be highly offended by it. Nevertheless, keeps the videos coming because I get to learn and grow from it to be a more emotionally intelligent and mentally healthy
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I enjoy this video alot, it helps me to self reflect and personal growth. I wish I could also share it to a few of my friends that may benefit them but my intuition tells me that they will be highly offended by it. Nevertheless, keeps the videos coming because I get to learn and grow from it to be a more emotionally intelligent and mentally healthy
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Diana
I'm very confused because my ex-best friend said I was toxic and I looked at this and didn't see any of the signs in me so I asked my other best friend and they said I wasn't any of the signs. I hope this means that I am a good friend because I hope that I over thought all of it for nothing and didn't hurt anyone.
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I'm very confused because my ex-best friend said I was toxic and I looked at this and didn't see any of the signs in me so I asked my other best friend and they said I wasn't any of the signs. I hope this means that I am a good friend because I hope that I over thought all of it for nothing and didn't hurt anyone.
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runishy
i do the opposite of 9. 5/10 of these things with my friends but i do most these things with my siblings and my sister is so annoying it annoys me how she is tryna be logical with me like i don't care she acts like imma be this rude with strangers like she can cry about it anyways i know i'm a alright friend
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i do the opposite of 9. 5/10 of these things with my friends but i do most these things with my siblings and my sister is so annoying it annoys me how she is tryna be logical with me like i don't care she acts like imma be this rude with strangers like she can cry about it anyways i know i'm a alright friend
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RyeMcFly
I mostly did repeated acts on my ex over and over and I didn't know. Context I have asd and one of my symptoms is something along the lines of robotic interactions and incapable to understand feelings. Am I the jerk for doing it repeatedly even if I have a disability WITH PROOF that I have these symptoms
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I mostly did repeated acts on my ex over and over and I didn't know. Context I have asd and one of my symptoms is something along the lines of robotic interactions and incapable to understand feelings. Am I the jerk for doing it repeatedly even if I have a disability WITH PROOF that I have these symptoms
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Strawberry
I relate to 1-3 of these, but I try to overcome them. I have a friend who I feel relates to more than half, but I'm afraid she's the only friend I have, and I don't think she's really going to change. I think it comes from a place of ignorance rather than maliciousness.
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I relate to 1-3 of these, but I try to overcome them. I have a friend who I feel relates to more than half, but I'm afraid she's the only friend I have, and I don't think she's really going to change. I think it comes from a place of ignorance rather than maliciousness.
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Konspiracy
You could bend over backwards for people abd and save actual lives. But if you have a different set of political beliefs, then you still have no friends anymore. You'd be surprised how fast you end up not being considered human anymore when that Pandora gets opened.
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You could bend over backwards for people abd and save actual lives. But if you have a different set of political beliefs, then you still have no friends anymore. You'd be surprised how fast you end up not being considered human anymore when that Pandora gets opened.
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YourFavMadz
i found out my friend was talkin abt me to this other girl and then the girl called me toxic, and imma see if its just them or if i really am, bc i lost me friend of over 7 years bc of this girl, and i found out that i dont really relate to any of these.
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i found out my friend was talkin abt me to this other girl and then the girl called me toxic, and imma see if its just them or if i really am, bc i lost me friend of over 7 years bc of this girl, and i found out that i dont really relate to any of these.
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Unknooown
he leaves me on read for hours at a time and doesnt reply he left on read since last week and hasent even talked to me once or try to when we would get mad at each other and come back around a week later i was allways the one to send the first text
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he leaves me on read for hours at a time and doesnt reply he left on read since last week and hasent even talked to me once or try to when we would get mad at each other and come back around a week later i was allways the one to send the first text
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Flawless
As someone that has 2 consciousness (one happy energetic) (the other one is depressed angry toxic anxious) its tough to make friends, I only do 3 of these visibly and 2 mentally. Now I have overcome it. If anyone feels this DM me. I can help you
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As someone that has 2 consciousness (one happy energetic) (the other one is depressed angry toxic anxious) its tough to make friends, I only do 3 of these visibly and 2 mentally. Now I have overcome it. If anyone feels this DM me. I can help you
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Steven
My best friend is in a serious relationship with a girl I don't like. I secretly Don't root for his success in their relationship. It's partly envy that he doesn't spend as much time with me as he used to. But his girlfriend is very controlling.
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My best friend is in a serious relationship with a girl I don't like. I secretly Don't root for his success in their relationship. It's partly envy that he doesn't spend as much time with me as he used to. But his girlfriend is very controlling.
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Clara
I love this kind of video, it's a little bit frustrating when we always point fingers to others and call them Toxic but we never see our self first.
I am a toxic person and lost my friends so here I am to heal my self.
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I love this kind of video, it's a little bit frustrating when we always point fingers to others and call them Toxic but we never see our self first.
I am a toxic person and lost my friends so here I am to heal my self.
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education
ill make 10 friends bleed 15 times and never apologize but what they domt know its my way of asking for help because im shy to ask for help so im toxic when i never want to i just feel like im forsed to be mean
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ill make 10 friends bleed 15 times and never apologize but what they domt know its my way of asking for help because im shy to ask for help so im toxic when i never want to i just feel like im forsed to be mean
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ur
I was friends with 3 people like this, had a crush on one for almost a year, I cut them all off gradually once school ended but I'm doing so much better now even though I miss 2 of them sometimes
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I was friends with 3 people like this, had a crush on one for almost a year, I cut them all off gradually once school ended but I'm doing so much better now even though I miss 2 of them sometimes
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Aviii
The worst thing is, after u cut off ur connection with the toxic friends, they think u were the toxic one. Been there and I can tell u, it was the worst mistake to be friends w them.
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The worst thing is, after u cut off ur connection with the toxic friends, they think u were the toxic one. Been there and I can tell u, it was the worst mistake to be friends w them.
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Shia_alp
nothing else more than that describes my friends. now i know i can surely break up the friendship as they just do all the listed things down in this video.
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nothing else more than that describes my friends. now i know i can surely break up the friendship as they just do all the listed things down in this video.
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Shig
A toxic friend gives you advice you didn't ask for, lectures you like you're the student and they're the teacher, and only talks about themselves. So annoying.
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A toxic friend gives you advice you didn't ask for, lectures you like you're the student and they're the teacher, and only talks about themselves. So annoying.
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