7 Subtle Signs A Shy Person Likes You (Even If You Don't Think So)
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Date: 2023-08-20
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The most important thing in any relationship is caring for each other and having a sense of us-ness (sorry couldn't really find a word for it. And when dating someone who is really socially awkward, reserved or just really introverted you just have to take the time and grow into it together. Don't try to rush things or everything will just crash.
I'm with somebody for a year and a half who has social anxiety and is usually the awkward type when it comes to group settings. And here's what I've learned,
Everybody is different, not just a little bit different but radically different! Just because they are a bit awkward doesn't mean they fit every mould in your head.
So, I think we should just forget our expectations and observe people as who they are. And then decide what we like about them and what we don't. Please remember in a healthy relationship any unhealthy behaviour from either person has to be resolved through mutual agreement, communication and patience.
Also, spending quality time is key. Simply doing things both of you enjoy. Don't force yourself or your partner to do something you or they don't like. The former is the mistake I made. Just do simple things, nothing too extravagant. Your goal should be to grow closer, not impress the other person.
And for the awkward silences, in the beginning, you have to get used to asking most of the questions. But remember, not to go too deep too soon just stay on the same wavelength. Soon enough you'll get used to just sitting around, having coffee, just chilling together in silence. Sometimes even saying nothing and just being together can be the greatest gesture of affection!
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The most important thing in any relationship is caring for each other and having a sense of us-ness (sorry couldn't really find a word for it. And when dating someone who is really socially awkward, reserved or just really introverted you just have to take the time and grow into it together. Don't try to rush things or everything will just crash.
I'm with somebody for a year and a half who has social anxiety and is usually the awkward type when it comes to group settings. And here's what I've learned,
Everybody is different, not just a little bit different but radically different! Just because they are a bit awkward doesn't mean they fit every mould in your head.
So, I think we should just forget our expectations and observe people as who they are. And then decide what we like about them and what we don't. Please remember in a healthy relationship any unhealthy behaviour from either person has to be resolved through mutual agreement, communication and patience.
Also, spending quality time is key. Simply doing things both of you enjoy. Don't force yourself or your partner to do something you or they don't like. The former is the mistake I made. Just do simple things, nothing too extravagant. Your goal should be to grow closer, not impress the other person.
And for the awkward silences, in the beginning, you have to get used to asking most of the questions. But remember, not to go too deep too soon just stay on the same wavelength. Soon enough you'll get used to just sitting around, having coffee, just chilling together in silence. Sometimes even saying nothing and just being together can be the greatest gesture of affection!
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LP
Subtle signs that a shy person may like you include:
1)Blushing or Flushed Cheeks: When they are around you, they might blush or have slightly flushed cheeks due to nervousness and excitement.
2)Frequent Glances: If you catch them looking at you often, even if they quickly look away when noticed, it could be a sign of interest.
3)Body Language: Pay attention to their body language. They might fidget, play with their hair, or have closed-off body postures when they are around you.
4)Selective Communication: They may be more talkative or expressive when conversing with you, even if they are generally reserved with others.
5)Attempts to be Near You: They might try to be in your proximity, even if it means being in the same group or hanging out in the same places.
6)Genuine Interest in Your Life: They may ask you questions and show genuine interest in your thoughts, feelings, and activities.
7)Remembering Details: If they remember little details about you or things you've said in past conversations, it could be a sign that they pay attention and care.
8)Nervous Laughter: They might laugh nervously or giggle more around you as a way to cope with their shyness.
Keep in mind that shy individuals may find it challenging to express their feelings openly. If you're interested in them, being patient, understanding, and creating a comfortable environment can help them feel more at ease and possibly open up about their feelings. Communication is key in any relationship, so consider finding opportunities to have open and honest conversations.
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Subtle signs that a shy person may like you include:
1)Blushing or Flushed Cheeks: When they are around you, they might blush or have slightly flushed cheeks due to nervousness and excitement.
2)Frequent Glances: If you catch them looking at you often, even if they quickly look away when noticed, it could be a sign of interest.
3)Body Language: Pay attention to their body language. They might fidget, play with their hair, or have closed-off body postures when they are around you.
4)Selective Communication: They may be more talkative or expressive when conversing with you, even if they are generally reserved with others.
5)Attempts to be Near You: They might try to be in your proximity, even if it means being in the same group or hanging out in the same places.
6)Genuine Interest in Your Life: They may ask you questions and show genuine interest in your thoughts, feelings, and activities.
7)Remembering Details: If they remember little details about you or things you've said in past conversations, it could be a sign that they pay attention and care.
8)Nervous Laughter: They might laugh nervously or giggle more around you as a way to cope with their shyness.
Keep in mind that shy individuals may find it challenging to express their feelings openly. If you're interested in them, being patient, understanding, and creating a comfortable environment can help them feel more at ease and possibly open up about their feelings. Communication is key in any relationship, so consider finding opportunities to have open and honest conversations.
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Ashley
My crush is the cutest guy ever. We go to the same tuition together and we always sit next to each other and study together. Ive watched all these types of videos to look for signs that he likes me back and boy, I feel like he watches these as well. He is a true gentleman to me and showers me with compliments and teasing. With other girls, he is your typical chaotic guy best friend who insults you from time to time. I feel so calm and safe around him whenever I feels stressed at some point in my life. I want to ask him out but I occur as a uptight, smart girl who is very loud. I worry that I may be reading his signals wrong.
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My crush is the cutest guy ever. We go to the same tuition together and we always sit next to each other and study together. Ive watched all these types of videos to look for signs that he likes me back and boy, I feel like he watches these as well. He is a true gentleman to me and showers me with compliments and teasing. With other girls, he is your typical chaotic guy best friend who insults you from time to time. I feel so calm and safe around him whenever I feels stressed at some point in my life. I want to ask him out but I occur as a uptight, smart girl who is very loud. I worry that I may be reading his signals wrong.
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Kadambari
One thing Ive struggled with is trying to reject or say no to a shy person who has displayed these traits. If I didnt feel the same, it feels crushing to me and like Im a bad person for not feeling the same. But its also not fair to string them along and make them more withdrawn to people going forward if their trust is broken. Also, shy people are not immune to hearing what they want to hear or seeing what they want to see. So even when Ive tried to be nice but blunt, they havent seen that Im saying no and then when I do say no some have tried to negotiate and then called me mean. Relationships are complicated.
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One thing Ive struggled with is trying to reject or say no to a shy person who has displayed these traits. If I didnt feel the same, it feels crushing to me and like Im a bad person for not feeling the same. But its also not fair to string them along and make them more withdrawn to people going forward if their trust is broken. Also, shy people are not immune to hearing what they want to hear or seeing what they want to see. So even when Ive tried to be nice but blunt, they havent seen that Im saying no and then when I do say no some have tried to negotiate and then called me mean. Relationships are complicated.
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SilverCHX
I literally show all of these signs towards my crush (minus the social media/texting stuff cause Im too shy to ask her for that. I usually see her like once a week at work for the past 2-3 months. We have a lot of similar interests and shes the person I feel most comfortable talking to. Even then I kind of freeze up a bit, especially when I think about asking her for her number so we can hang out outside of work. Ugh I wish I had more confidence in myself.
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I literally show all of these signs towards my crush (minus the social media/texting stuff cause Im too shy to ask her for that. I usually see her like once a week at work for the past 2-3 months. We have a lot of similar interests and shes the person I feel most comfortable talking to. Even then I kind of freeze up a bit, especially when I think about asking her for her number so we can hang out outside of work. Ugh I wish I had more confidence in myself.
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NIX
This was very helpful. Love is a very hard thing to understand. But it's a normal part of life! Love can end up healthy, negative, or unhealthy. I've never felt love yet. and this helped me understand what love is actually like. Love can start with something small, Like having a conversation at lunch! Thanks for this, It helped me understand a little more! :)
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This was very helpful. Love is a very hard thing to understand. But it's a normal part of life! Love can end up healthy, negative, or unhealthy. I've never felt love yet. and this helped me understand what love is actually like. Love can start with something small, Like having a conversation at lunch! Thanks for this, It helped me understand a little more! :)
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gin. 0_0
what do you do if he stopped talking to you? I hung out with him once and we just stopped talking. I backed off because every time we texted, he would respond dry or with only a couple words. He shows all these signs that he's really shy, but never initiates convo. I stopped talking to him, but how get back to talking to him again?
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what do you do if he stopped talking to you? I hung out with him once and we just stopped talking. I backed off because every time we texted, he would respond dry or with only a couple words. He shows all these signs that he's really shy, but never initiates convo. I stopped talking to him, but how get back to talking to him again?
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Gracie
I noticed some of these in myself mostly because I highly value my friends and want to show them that I care about them but I think its funny because it was a video about how to tell if a shy person likes you and I am not shy nor do I have interest in anyone
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I noticed some of these in myself mostly because I highly value my friends and want to show them that I care about them but I think its funny because it was a video about how to tell if a shy person likes you and I am not shy nor do I have interest in anyone
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Rose
I dont create opportunities to be around someone I like, I create opportunities to get away from them bc Im more awkward in their presence.
I need a video that helps a shy girl talk to her crush n fight that shy voice telling me to hide
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I dont create opportunities to be around someone I like, I create opportunities to get away from them bc Im more awkward in their presence.
I need a video that helps a shy girl talk to her crush n fight that shy voice telling me to hide
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Lis
2: 27 is that me being exposed?
The whole video described me, i didn't even know that I was shy until someone recently told me, and this video really made me finally agree that I am shy. Thanks for the amazing videos!
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2: 27 is that me being exposed?
The whole video described me, i didn't even know that I was shy until someone recently told me, and this video really made me finally agree that I am shy. Thanks for the amazing videos!
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Jamey
I honestly do these a lot more than i actually thought i am a very shy person and when i do like someone i never really realized the things i did i would occassionally but not as much as i thought
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I honestly do these a lot more than i actually thought i am a very shy person and when i do like someone i never really realized the things i did i would occassionally but not as much as i thought
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Yell038
Im pretty shy, but I dont go out of my comfort zone to go to my crush. I feel like im too suspicious and I get really nervous around her. I want to get close to her, Im just too nervous.
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Im pretty shy, but I dont go out of my comfort zone to go to my crush. I feel like im too suspicious and I get really nervous around her. I want to get close to her, Im just too nervous.
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education
As a shy person, I would be so horrified to have someone think I like them and they don't believe me and tell me I do because of this video and because I'm shy I won't know what to do
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As a shy person, I would be so horrified to have someone think I like them and they don't believe me and tell me I do because of this video and because I'm shy I won't know what to do
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Psycho
Im not shy at all until it comes to romantic feelings. Like, Im waaaay to good at hiding my feelings and acting normally, so people dont think Im shy, but can never tell if I like them
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Im not shy at all until it comes to romantic feelings. Like, Im waaaay to good at hiding my feelings and acting normally, so people dont think Im shy, but can never tell if I like them
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Viraj
this is so accurate for me. im constantly struggling with eye contact and i look away as soon as i see him glancing at me. i also stalk his social media but can never talk to him lollll
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this is so accurate for me. im constantly struggling with eye contact and i look away as soon as i see him glancing at me. i also stalk his social media but can never talk to him lollll
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cosmo
as a shy person, ABT THE EYE CONTACT. ill stare into your soul and my heart will be beating fast asf but i wont be able to remove my eyes from you idk whats wrong w me but i just cant
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as a shy person, ABT THE EYE CONTACT. ill stare into your soul and my heart will be beating fast asf but i wont be able to remove my eyes from you idk whats wrong w me but i just cant
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Khoiruunisa
Sorry to say, but people who usually comment or likes often are usually not the ones with genuine intention, mostly behaving like a stalker. Or maybe they are just bots.
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Sorry to say, but people who usually comment or likes often are usually not the ones with genuine intention, mostly behaving like a stalker. Or maybe they are just bots.
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Zena
This is pretty spot on. If I like someone and not even in a romantic I get them little gifts or share my food/snacks so thats how you really know that were cool LOL
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This is pretty spot on. If I like someone and not even in a romantic I get them little gifts or share my food/snacks so thats how you really know that were cool LOL
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Ethan
I have an issue with the eye contact thing, but not to that intensity, and not for that reason. I just have issues with maintaining it, and eye don't know why.
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I have an issue with the eye contact thing, but not to that intensity, and not for that reason. I just have issues with maintaining it, and eye don't know why.
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education
This is me 100% I do this when I have a crush on someone specially the eye contact I cant look them in the eyes it makes me very nervous ahh I cant
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This is me 100% I do this when I have a crush on someone specially the eye contact I cant look them in the eyes it makes me very nervous ahh I cant
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DEVI
Im a very shy person, and the guy I like is also, watching this is to see if its accurate for me and to see if its like how my crush acts
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Im a very shy person, and the guy I like is also, watching this is to see if its accurate for me and to see if its like how my crush acts
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Sketchbook
. this video is me in a nutshell. Now if only my crushes could watch videos like these and actually understand me
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. this video is me in a nutshell. Now if only my crushes could watch videos like these and actually understand me
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flipnotecore
this is all honestly how i act around everybody mutually, its unintentional. especially the eye contact one
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this is all honestly how i act around everybody mutually, its unintentional. especially the eye contact one
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Abby
Me watching this in order to find out more about my crush: huh damn it this is more about me, than it is my crush
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Me watching this in order to find out more about my crush: huh damn it this is more about me, than it is my crush
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Misschil
As a shy or reserved person I can agree with the points made in the video like especially when I was younger
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As a shy or reserved person I can agree with the points made in the video like especially when I was younger
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