The 4 Signs of Immature Love
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Date: 2023-08-20
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pokemonstrosity
I'm 23 and I met this girl recently whom I really like and luckily Iv gone about it the most mature way I have ever gone about liking someone and I even made sure to not fall head over heals for this person we have been on several dates and they have been spectacular she's one hell of a girl but we both have alot of our own issues that's we are trying to better ourselves at (which is ok neither of us seem ready for commitment rn) the problem is she hasn't opened my message in the past week and it has me so bummed and I can't stop just pondering all the reasons she stopped talking to me but at the same time don't wanna over message her and seem clingy in all honesty I just wanna know if she's doing ok I'm not trying to push anything on someone who I truly admire idk haha maybe I should be patient and see if she ever messages me back again
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I'm 23 and I met this girl recently whom I really like and luckily Iv gone about it the most mature way I have ever gone about liking someone and I even made sure to not fall head over heals for this person we have been on several dates and they have been spectacular she's one hell of a girl but we both have alot of our own issues that's we are trying to better ourselves at (which is ok neither of us seem ready for commitment rn) the problem is she hasn't opened my message in the past week and it has me so bummed and I can't stop just pondering all the reasons she stopped talking to me but at the same time don't wanna over message her and seem clingy in all honesty I just wanna know if she's doing ok I'm not trying to push anything on someone who I truly admire idk haha maybe I should be patient and see if she ever messages me back again
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Titanicul
I have been in a relationship for 8 months, when things took a difficult end which came from the other side. It seems the other person Wasnt ready to accept some of my flaws which i was trying to work on. Unfortunatly things took an ugly turn after the relationship and i grew to highly dislike that person and i think i got an emotional wound regarding this person, although time proved to heal it bit by bit. I haven't been able to find someone else and i am struggling with a depressive episode which makes my life difficult sometimes, including the fact i constantly go betwenn i want to have a lover and i don't want. All of this makes me question my self worth sometimes. but i try to carry on and sometimes i struggle to do some things because they remind me of that person.
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I have been in a relationship for 8 months, when things took a difficult end which came from the other side. It seems the other person Wasnt ready to accept some of my flaws which i was trying to work on. Unfortunatly things took an ugly turn after the relationship and i grew to highly dislike that person and i think i got an emotional wound regarding this person, although time proved to heal it bit by bit. I haven't been able to find someone else and i am struggling with a depressive episode which makes my life difficult sometimes, including the fact i constantly go betwenn i want to have a lover and i don't want. All of this makes me question my self worth sometimes. but i try to carry on and sometimes i struggle to do some things because they remind me of that person.
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education
I had a girlfriend, and it wasnt the best. I was having panic attacks every day hyping myself up to break up with her. It went over pretty well, but even though the relationship wasnt all that good, I still learned a lot about what I want out of a partner, which were things she wasnt providing. Especially when youre first dating, it can feel scary, and theres a fraction of a fraction that youre gonna find the one on your first try. But you have to go out with not so good people to figure out what defines not so bad people, and putting yourself out there early can be really beneficial to figure that out. And who knows! Maybe youre not attracted to anyone! Thats ok! Experimentation is key.
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I had a girlfriend, and it wasnt the best. I was having panic attacks every day hyping myself up to break up with her. It went over pretty well, but even though the relationship wasnt all that good, I still learned a lot about what I want out of a partner, which were things she wasnt providing. Especially when youre first dating, it can feel scary, and theres a fraction of a fraction that youre gonna find the one on your first try. But you have to go out with not so good people to figure out what defines not so bad people, and putting yourself out there early can be really beneficial to figure that out. And who knows! Maybe youre not attracted to anyone! Thats ok! Experimentation is key.
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Ink
I have a mixer of all these things at once
Support is difficult to keep at the beginning of a relationship, but it does grow through and that only if the stability is well stable
Stability is also hard. Because Idk if I will like the person or not later in future, but again its a good old roll the dice game when it add with time as thats what I need in a future relationship.
Accept vs ideal this is a back and front. I maybe be blinded by ideals at first, but I will accept a person if given time.
And jealous the main reason why I should not be rushed or underestimate. Now it can harmless if my feelings dont hurt, but if my heartbroken then I will not be the same person again
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I have a mixer of all these things at once
Support is difficult to keep at the beginning of a relationship, but it does grow through and that only if the stability is well stable
Stability is also hard. Because Idk if I will like the person or not later in future, but again its a good old roll the dice game when it add with time as thats what I need in a future relationship.
Accept vs ideal this is a back and front. I maybe be blinded by ideals at first, but I will accept a person if given time.
And jealous the main reason why I should not be rushed or underestimate. Now it can harmless if my feelings dont hurt, but if my heartbroken then I will not be the same person again
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Rafael
Considering that we both are 14 years old, it is very mature, of course isnt so high like adults is but comparing with other people near my age I see has a diference. Maybe because we approached to each other because of our mental health, both have horrible ones, so we use to support each other when nedded.
The only problem is that my family doesnt aprove me to have a girlfriend, but I understand they perfectly and recommend it for other people, but I cant explain that she and I is a little diferent to other teenagers when have a partner, because is too young/immature for it.
(Sorry if I messed up something, I'm brazillian)
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Considering that we both are 14 years old, it is very mature, of course isnt so high like adults is but comparing with other people near my age I see has a diference. Maybe because we approached to each other because of our mental health, both have horrible ones, so we use to support each other when nedded.
The only problem is that my family doesnt aprove me to have a girlfriend, but I understand they perfectly and recommend it for other people, but I cant explain that she and I is a little diferent to other teenagers when have a partner, because is too young/immature for it.
(Sorry if I messed up something, I'm brazillian)
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Hera101
Due to some events i currently live with a quite severe depression and on the course of my life i had several attempts at my owm life. I went to countless doctors and tried many types of medication. None worked. I met my current partner 10 years ago, and he helps me more than anyone or anything. He accepted my demons and is constantly doing all he can to make me get better. We accepted eachother with good and bad, and we openly communicate on it. I can say it's a truly tremendous way to keep our relantionship stable and healthy, we overcame some less fortunate moments and it made us stronger and wiser.
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Due to some events i currently live with a quite severe depression and on the course of my life i had several attempts at my owm life. I went to countless doctors and tried many types of medication. None worked. I met my current partner 10 years ago, and he helps me more than anyone or anything. He accepted my demons and is constantly doing all he can to make me get better. We accepted eachother with good and bad, and we openly communicate on it. I can say it's a truly tremendous way to keep our relantionship stable and healthy, we overcame some less fortunate moments and it made us stronger and wiser.
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pagadinaxcute
recently i ended my first relationship. my girlfriend wasn't mature to handle it even though she was the one that wanted a serious relationship. because of our psychological problems (me abandonment issues and her jealousy and possessiveness issues) we weren't this able to communicate. plus she used to forget my existence everyday like no reply's to my messages or once she didn't tell me that she was leaving the city for a whole week. at the end we argued and she ended up blaming me but i don't care because she was the immature one and i will be better for sure. hoping the best for you all: )
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recently i ended my first relationship. my girlfriend wasn't mature to handle it even though she was the one that wanted a serious relationship. because of our psychological problems (me abandonment issues and her jealousy and possessiveness issues) we weren't this able to communicate. plus she used to forget my existence everyday like no reply's to my messages or once she didn't tell me that she was leaving the city for a whole week. at the end we argued and she ended up blaming me but i don't care because she was the immature one and i will be better for sure. hoping the best for you all: )
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Magic_Shop
It's a genuine question and I really hope someone can clear it for me. How do I differentiate between jealousy and over-possessiveness? My last relationship did not work because my partner was always jealous and insecure. And they never tried to hide that they are jealous. I even tried to make them realize that I can't keep myself within 4 walls and not socialize. I ended it but sometimes I feel guilty that maybe I overreacted and that they have all the right to be jealous. But I truly felt suffocated. Was I wrong to end things?
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It's a genuine question and I really hope someone can clear it for me. How do I differentiate between jealousy and over-possessiveness? My last relationship did not work because my partner was always jealous and insecure. And they never tried to hide that they are jealous. I even tried to make them realize that I can't keep myself within 4 walls and not socialize. I ended it but sometimes I feel guilty that maybe I overreacted and that they have all the right to be jealous. But I truly felt suffocated. Was I wrong to end things?
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Buwan
Thank you psych2go, i really needed this. I legit had a breakdown yesterday thinking i wasnt good enough for him. Weve been friends for 2-3 years and he recently confessed to me. Weve been dating now and i realized how selfish i really am. I thought that when he was talking to other girls i felt really jealous. I realized how selfish i am to think i can be the only girl he talks to then i thought about how he deserves someone better. But it hit me, he loves me for me. Ill try my hardest to be a better person for him.
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Thank you psych2go, i really needed this. I legit had a breakdown yesterday thinking i wasnt good enough for him. Weve been friends for 2-3 years and he recently confessed to me. Weve been dating now and i realized how selfish i really am. I thought that when he was talking to other girls i felt really jealous. I realized how selfish i am to think i can be the only girl he talks to then i thought about how he deserves someone better. But it hit me, he loves me for me. Ill try my hardest to be a better person for him.
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Maximus
So my crush is a teasy type of person and the other day we did something at school and I got second and she hugged me from behind. I got out of the hug because I didn't want rumors starting and she asked can I have a hug back and I was like nah again because I didn't want rumors starting. Then she just left. How do I know if she likes me back or was just teasing me.
Edit: Also I barely talk to her cause I get nervous and try to sneak out of the conversation.
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So my crush is a teasy type of person and the other day we did something at school and I got second and she hugged me from behind. I got out of the hug because I didn't want rumors starting and she asked can I have a hug back and I was like nah again because I didn't want rumors starting. Then she just left. How do I know if she likes me back or was just teasing me.
Edit: Also I barely talk to her cause I get nervous and try to sneak out of the conversation.
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kelly
This! Ive only been in 2 relationships so far (Im 20, One lasting several months and one lasting several years. Both ended very badly, and Im honestly not looking to be with someone again after those experiences, even though people will say how it doesnt make sense, its whats best for my mental health and my self esteem, being when Im not involved with someone romantically I find myself a lot more happy, funny, and all around beautiful.
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This! Ive only been in 2 relationships so far (Im 20, One lasting several months and one lasting several years. Both ended very badly, and Im honestly not looking to be with someone again after those experiences, even though people will say how it doesnt make sense, its whats best for my mental health and my self esteem, being when Im not involved with someone romantically I find myself a lot more happy, funny, and all around beautiful.
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roy
I ended my relationship cause of a money issue i feared that I'll be bank robbed if I keep giving her money for rent and I didn't want that happening to me again so i called it off and let her down easy since then I'm a person with much to give in this world just like the rest of you and with all this knowledge I'm learning i fear no pain when I'm with my friends i feel strength and wisdom
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I ended my relationship cause of a money issue i feared that I'll be bank robbed if I keep giving her money for rent and I didn't want that happening to me again so i called it off and let her down easy since then I'm a person with much to give in this world just like the rest of you and with all this knowledge I'm learning i fear no pain when I'm with my friends i feel strength and wisdom
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Ladyspiderwick
I would definitely say that I'm more of a supportive and stable type of love style. The SO can have same- gender friends but also be in a relationship as long as there is that trust and knowing that they are faithful. My ex was immature preferring to not do much and kind of expected me to do a lot and it took a difficult point in my life to realise that.
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I would definitely say that I'm more of a supportive and stable type of love style. The SO can have same- gender friends but also be in a relationship as long as there is that trust and knowing that they are faithful. My ex was immature preferring to not do much and kind of expected me to do a lot and it took a difficult point in my life to realise that.
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YT
I don't think I've even gotten to the immature stage yet because I've only had a crush and it would only last maybe a few days till I find deal breaker parts like: differing political views, kids/no kids, Religious/non-religious, or if she's married or already has a bf.
If anything I've grown to be a bit envious of people who are married.
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I don't think I've even gotten to the immature stage yet because I've only had a crush and it would only last maybe a few days till I find deal breaker parts like: differing political views, kids/no kids, Religious/non-religious, or if she's married or already has a bf.
If anything I've grown to be a bit envious of people who are married.
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nomnom
When you see a beautiful flower:
- there are people who pluck it
- there are people who water it
Can you see the difference between [want] vs [love]?
Can you see the attachment of [ego] disguised as what most pple call 'love', which is actually [want]?
If you can see, your love is a lot more mature than most.
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When you see a beautiful flower:
- there are people who pluck it
- there are people who water it
Can you see the difference between [want] vs [love]?
Can you see the attachment of [ego] disguised as what most pple call 'love', which is actually [want]?
If you can see, your love is a lot more mature than most.
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Nick
It was my first and last relationship whom I dated.
I won't blame them. I was immature or may be you can call an idiot who fell for them.
Ever since I have groomed. I am realising a sense of attractiveness. The way people are pulled towards me makes me fear that they do not fall for me.
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It was my first and last relationship whom I dated.
I won't blame them. I was immature or may be you can call an idiot who fell for them.
Ever since I have groomed. I am realising a sense of attractiveness. The way people are pulled towards me makes me fear that they do not fall for me.
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Xarton
Me and my cousin Are both 12. she always mirroring my behavior and trying to sleep with me and she hugs me. And I Have Crush on her too. Help me Confess her(remember: we Met Together 17 days per year when my parents decide to travel and It depends on my parents' decision
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Me and my cousin Are both 12. she always mirroring my behavior and trying to sleep with me and she hugs me. And I Have Crush on her too. Help me Confess her(remember: we Met Together 17 days per year when my parents decide to travel and It depends on my parents' decision
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Bastion
My crush helped me get out of the idealization stage quickly, probably without even realizing it
There's probably more, since she's a public figure, but knowing I've gotten over the start helps me believe the rest won't cause a problem to see for what they are
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My crush helped me get out of the idealization stage quickly, probably without even realizing it
There's probably more, since she's a public figure, but knowing I've gotten over the start helps me believe the rest won't cause a problem to see for what they are
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Annie
My relationships have never lasted it has always ended in the person cheating on me. I just went through a divorce that lasted almost 5years, I feel like its always my fault and Im never gonna find anyone. Maybe all my relationships have been immature.
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My relationships have never lasted it has always ended in the person cheating on me. I just went through a divorce that lasted almost 5years, I feel like its always my fault and Im never gonna find anyone. Maybe all my relationships have been immature.
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DelusionalDreamer
I'm a teen in a current relationship with my wonderful, amazing girlfriend. We were best friends for years, so actually a lot of these hurdles are things we got over already, and I for one think our relationship is very mature.
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I'm a teen in a current relationship with my wonderful, amazing girlfriend. We were best friends for years, so actually a lot of these hurdles are things we got over already, and I for one think our relationship is very mature.
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LanceTheKing
If you can find the flaws of a person and can either help heal and remove it (if it's a negative part of someone's personality) or accept the flaws as part of being human, then I feel like you already are more mature than most
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If you can find the flaws of a person and can either help heal and remove it (if it's a negative part of someone's personality) or accept the flaws as part of being human, then I feel like you already are more mature than most
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Eggward
My Twin brother fell in love and then when he asked them out and he said yes he immediately lost interest and the guy he fell out of love with is what I consider my only friend I feel like I'm gonna have to pick sides
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My Twin brother fell in love and then when he asked them out and he said yes he immediately lost interest and the guy he fell out of love with is what I consider my only friend I feel like I'm gonna have to pick sides
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Dila
that describes my ex girlfriend. she never supported me or never accepted me and only cared about her goals and wishes. she expected me to give her everything I have thank god I broke up with her.
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that describes my ex girlfriend. she never supported me or never accepted me and only cared about her goals and wishes. she expected me to give her everything I have thank god I broke up with her.
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aquahex
what do mixed signals mean in a relationship? i really care abt someone but often times they'll either show minimal interest or a whole bunch of interest, and i don't know how to interpret that
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what do mixed signals mean in a relationship? i really care abt someone but often times they'll either show minimal interest or a whole bunch of interest, and i don't know how to interpret that
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Fade
Um. I think I have a crush on my closest friend. hold please, I'm going to tell him.
He said he likes someone else, which is fine! we're friends. I want him to be happy! :)
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Um. I think I have a crush on my closest friend. hold please, I'm going to tell him.
He said he likes someone else, which is fine! we're friends. I want him to be happy! :)
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