5 Ways You Unintentionally Ruin Your Relationships
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Ryan
Frankly speaking ngl so is dat really all the mindtricks theys are playing foul wits wits themselves keeping meh oot o loop having to learn the game intuitively instinctively so clueless wurkin wits themselves against themselves pitys uncanny b no such passions possibly kindle such behaviors wits better knowledge wits true intentionally whirrs it such a fun game theys need to play all alone but whom am i to takes all their fun aways if theys saints having fun wot bouts attempting others games furs them to plays wit bu theys olde favorite fall back baka well wotevs gonna goth gud greef patience paces impulses biorythems whirrs yorr input tensions bounce baka theys gots that game going honest honey hmm so roses rounds whince they wins do i plays nexus turn err tis it best to sits oot leaving them wits tjeys toys whirrs theys even have to learn that game in the first place whys dspys truthful dares cares o well i wanna plays fun games wits others but theys already gots they crowds won't intrusive can carry oot meh service o the lonesome take cares mine intentions waits it oot o theirs ways is there another way can play oot thnx yorr vellcoom grates cya oo sojourneys
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Frankly speaking ngl so is dat really all the mindtricks theys are playing foul wits wits themselves keeping meh oot o loop having to learn the game intuitively instinctively so clueless wurkin wits themselves against themselves pitys uncanny b no such passions possibly kindle such behaviors wits better knowledge wits true intentionally whirrs it such a fun game theys need to play all alone but whom am i to takes all their fun aways if theys saints having fun wot bouts attempting others games furs them to plays wit bu theys olde favorite fall back baka well wotevs gonna goth gud greef patience paces impulses biorythems whirrs yorr input tensions bounce baka theys gots that game going honest honey hmm so roses rounds whince they wins do i plays nexus turn err tis it best to sits oot leaving them wits tjeys toys whirrs theys even have to learn that game in the first place whys dspys truthful dares cares o well i wanna plays fun games wits others but theys already gots they crowds won't intrusive can carry oot meh service o the lonesome take cares mine intentions waits it oot o theirs ways is there another way can play oot thnx yorr vellcoom grates cya oo sojourneys
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Nex. Playzz
I have a hard time trusting anyone, even my closest friends, because I told someone what my favorite show used to be as a secret, then everyone knew and they made fun of me for it, so I had to grow out of it, someone sang a song from that show recently, but he was just joking this time and wasn't making fun of me, we're straight now. I've thought about talking to someone about my crush, but what happened last time, I don't trust telling anyone, because that's even more embarrassing, because then even my crush would know, and my social life would probably be ruined. Actually almost happened, my friend didn't know that this girl was my crush, he said he told her I wanted to kiss her, thank God that actually didn't happen, because I would start begging to go to private school if that happened.
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I have a hard time trusting anyone, even my closest friends, because I told someone what my favorite show used to be as a secret, then everyone knew and they made fun of me for it, so I had to grow out of it, someone sang a song from that show recently, but he was just joking this time and wasn't making fun of me, we're straight now. I've thought about talking to someone about my crush, but what happened last time, I don't trust telling anyone, because that's even more embarrassing, because then even my crush would know, and my social life would probably be ruined. Actually almost happened, my friend didn't know that this girl was my crush, he said he told her I wanted to kiss her, thank God that actually didn't happen, because I would start begging to go to private school if that happened.
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Hiroaki
Making assumptions, overthinking. I just did that 2 weeks ago. The person I was seeing flirted with another person in their friend group and the group seemed to support it. It has been happening for a long while behind my back and it was in a foreign language so it made me feel left in the dark so I called the person out. I was lable as not giving the person enough trust cause in the end the flirting was just seen as friendly teasing. I still have my doubts but I decided to trust. Kinda too late for that now since we're taking a break from each other. Sigh, the said teasing is still going on and it's getting more intense, so idk how to look at the situation anymore tbh.
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Making assumptions, overthinking. I just did that 2 weeks ago. The person I was seeing flirted with another person in their friend group and the group seemed to support it. It has been happening for a long while behind my back and it was in a foreign language so it made me feel left in the dark so I called the person out. I was lable as not giving the person enough trust cause in the end the flirting was just seen as friendly teasing. I still have my doubts but I decided to trust. Kinda too late for that now since we're taking a break from each other. Sigh, the said teasing is still going on and it's getting more intense, so idk how to look at the situation anymore tbh.
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Red
Also be aware of fake apologies. Be careful of thinking that you are a blaming type of person. The other person might have genuinely wronged you. To avoid humiliation and responsibility, the other person will apologize for your feelings instead of their actions. They might also apologize and then add an insult or another argument at the end of the apology. This is meant to make you appear to be an unforgiving person if you continue to argue. These people know exactly what they are doing, so letting them know that you're aware is the first step. It's up to them to change or up to you to walk away at that point.
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Also be aware of fake apologies. Be careful of thinking that you are a blaming type of person. The other person might have genuinely wronged you. To avoid humiliation and responsibility, the other person will apologize for your feelings instead of their actions. They might also apologize and then add an insult or another argument at the end of the apology. This is meant to make you appear to be an unforgiving person if you continue to argue. These people know exactly what they are doing, so letting them know that you're aware is the first step. It's up to them to change or up to you to walk away at that point.
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B.
+Psych2go Thanks for the list o' relationship traps:
0: 37(1) Making assumptions
1: 26(2) Unspoken understandings
2: 22(3) Refusing to apologize
3: 22(4) Refusing to compromise
4: 16(5) Refusing to assess own role in adversities
Side note: As an autist with a special interest in structural technology, I find weaknesses in almost everything; in extreme cases, might have to go behind everybody's backs to not only fix but also reinforce (to the nth degree, yet) a kaputt. I'd rather design in resilience and toughness from day zero.
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+Psych2go Thanks for the list o' relationship traps:
0: 37(1) Making assumptions
1: 26(2) Unspoken understandings
2: 22(3) Refusing to apologize
3: 22(4) Refusing to compromise
4: 16(5) Refusing to assess own role in adversities
Side note: As an autist with a special interest in structural technology, I find weaknesses in almost everything; in extreme cases, might have to go behind everybody's backs to not only fix but also reinforce (to the nth degree, yet) a kaputt. I'd rather design in resilience and toughness from day zero.
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Ayaken
Making assumptions (always assumes a lot of things in our relationship, refusing to apologize (because she thinks she's right, and refusing to compromise (it's the I'm like this and if you can't handle it, then leave me. type of argument. Although she does compromises on some things, she won't compromise on how she acts and behaves when things don't go her way (which I've communicated to her multiple times to tone it down. If you can give me any opinions, please do. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm lost tbh.
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Making assumptions (always assumes a lot of things in our relationship, refusing to apologize (because she thinks she's right, and refusing to compromise (it's the I'm like this and if you can't handle it, then leave me. type of argument. Although she does compromises on some things, she won't compromise on how she acts and behaves when things don't go her way (which I've communicated to her multiple times to tone it down. If you can give me any opinions, please do. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm lost tbh.
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Gatcha
As someone who is scared off messing anything upp, I never say anything if somthing happens
So its hard for me to just talk to my friends if Im feeling alone, Ive had a lot off fake friends too,
So I have a hard time trusting ppl. I had one fake friend for over 1 year, and now shes claiming
She wants to be my friend. And sometimes she says awful things abt me: (
And she always talk abt me when Im not there ( I figured it out when I was close to them, I hear them talking abt me.
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As someone who is scared off messing anything upp, I never say anything if somthing happens
So its hard for me to just talk to my friends if Im feeling alone, Ive had a lot off fake friends too,
So I have a hard time trusting ppl. I had one fake friend for over 1 year, and now shes claiming
She wants to be my friend. And sometimes she says awful things abt me: (
And she always talk abt me when Im not there ( I figured it out when I was close to them, I hear them talking abt me.
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Atomic
Yeah sometimes I hear from others that it is not their responsibility or that they did nothing wrong for the relationship to go sour or downhill. I do agree that we should take responsibility for our actions. Which means apologize sincerely and know why what you did wrong to hurt the other person. Although some people don't want to apologize because they told me they did nothing wrong. Not when it comes to me, but when they told me about their situation with friends
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Yeah sometimes I hear from others that it is not their responsibility or that they did nothing wrong for the relationship to go sour or downhill. I do agree that we should take responsibility for our actions. Which means apologize sincerely and know why what you did wrong to hurt the other person. Although some people don't want to apologize because they told me they did nothing wrong. Not when it comes to me, but when they told me about their situation with friends
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Maria
This behavior creates trauma to the other person. It will make you question your worth and you will feel not enough at all. You know when you give your best to communicate, and work things out but still the other person will not participate, refusing to compromise instead just gaslight you and made you think you are the problem. When you told the person what you feel and what you want, the person would just ignore it, like its just too much for them.
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This behavior creates trauma to the other person. It will make you question your worth and you will feel not enough at all. You know when you give your best to communicate, and work things out but still the other person will not participate, refusing to compromise instead just gaslight you and made you think you are the problem. When you told the person what you feel and what you want, the person would just ignore it, like its just too much for them.
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Indrid
I have had no relationship, whether amicable nor amorous, since the 8th of August 2000 at 18: 34. I learned the hard way. Being social is dangerous, draining, painful, and economically difficult. Being social is not for everyone. It just so happens it fell upon me to be one that should not be social. I respect that weakness and bypass it by not trying to be social. Now, my weakness has absolutely no effect in my life.
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I have had no relationship, whether amicable nor amorous, since the 8th of August 2000 at 18: 34. I learned the hard way. Being social is dangerous, draining, painful, and economically difficult. Being social is not for everyone. It just so happens it fell upon me to be one that should not be social. I respect that weakness and bypass it by not trying to be social. Now, my weakness has absolutely no effect in my life.
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Lizzie
There's nothing wrong with friends and relationships but learning to be happy on your own too and doing things without friends, can be liberating! We need to learn to be happy with ourselves first and in our own company not just with others too! Sometimes said friends or relationships can bring loads of heartache, who wants that! Honestly, if you find the right people that's a gift in itself!
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There's nothing wrong with friends and relationships but learning to be happy on your own too and doing things without friends, can be liberating! We need to learn to be happy with ourselves first and in our own company not just with others too! Sometimes said friends or relationships can bring loads of heartache, who wants that! Honestly, if you find the right people that's a gift in itself!
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Solo
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When pressure is mounting from every angle, it can be tough to keep believing in yourself. Whether youve had a recent knockdown or are getting started in a new endeavor, Decide what you want. Believe you can have it. Believe you deserve it and believe its possible for you because the greatest achievement begins from deep inside you (YOUR MIND)
I LOVE YOU
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DONT READ IF YOURE NOT READY
When pressure is mounting from every angle, it can be tough to keep believing in yourself. Whether youve had a recent knockdown or are getting started in a new endeavor, Decide what you want. Believe you can have it. Believe you deserve it and believe its possible for you because the greatest achievement begins from deep inside you (YOUR MIND)
I LOVE YOU
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ARE
So I've lost the love of my life, we really love each other but I guess she thinks it's best to end it and it's been a month now and I'm struggling. I really want her back so much, she mattered the most to me, but I was too attached to her and relied my happiness on her, I don't know what to do man, I wish I knew what I was doing wrong before things ended
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So I've lost the love of my life, we really love each other but I guess she thinks it's best to end it and it's been a month now and I'm struggling. I really want her back so much, she mattered the most to me, but I was too attached to her and relied my happiness on her, I don't know what to do man, I wish I knew what I was doing wrong before things ended
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bizak17
Hey.
I know this is not the best place to ask and that I should speak to a professional, but I cant currently get myself there so I have to ask here.
Is coping with an abandonment from a friend by slowly turning to hate them and finding things to hate about that person, even if they abandoned me by my fault, bc of my mental health?
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Hey.
I know this is not the best place to ask and that I should speak to a professional, but I cant currently get myself there so I have to ask here.
Is coping with an abandonment from a friend by slowly turning to hate them and finding things to hate about that person, even if they abandoned me by my fault, bc of my mental health?
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Nola
When you Ghost or take time to yourself without saying a word to the other person, you' ve done this multiple times to them then wonder why they aren' t reaching out to you anymore and/ or why they are not responding to you, get a clue you did it to yourself YOU sabotaged that relationship.
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When you Ghost or take time to yourself without saying a word to the other person, you' ve done this multiple times to them then wonder why they aren' t reaching out to you anymore and/ or why they are not responding to you, get a clue you did it to yourself YOU sabotaged that relationship.
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Asakedia
I have someone who is too apologetic and I say don't apologize for this or no apologies needed in context. I say it often because they are apologizing for things that are absolutely not their fault at all.
I want us to say thank you more often than sorry: )
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I have someone who is too apologetic and I say don't apologize for this or no apologies needed in context. I say it often because they are apologizing for things that are absolutely not their fault at all.
I want us to say thank you more often than sorry: )
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Southern
I couldn't agree more. My relationship was just ruined by a partner who did these very things (ESPECIALLY the first and last ones. And then, when I left, because it eventually broke my heart, I became every nasty, hateful name in the book.
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I couldn't agree more. My relationship was just ruined by a partner who did these very things (ESPECIALLY the first and last ones. And then, when I left, because it eventually broke my heart, I became every nasty, hateful name in the book.
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Caleb
1. Making Assumptions - 0: 38
2. Unspoken Understandings - 1: 27
3. Refusing to Apologize - 2: 24
4. Refusing to Compromise - 3: 24
5. Blaming and not looking at your part in things - 4: 17
Hope this is useful -
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1. Making Assumptions - 0: 38
2. Unspoken Understandings - 1: 27
3. Refusing to Apologize - 2: 24
4. Refusing to Compromise - 3: 24
5. Blaming and not looking at your part in things - 4: 17
Hope this is useful -
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Ali
Friends are often enemies in disguise. Feminism has made relationships toxic. The world has changed. I'm done playing this game. I'm more than happy to be alone. The alternative is to lose what little sanity I have left.
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Friends are often enemies in disguise. Feminism has made relationships toxic. The world has changed. I'm done playing this game. I'm more than happy to be alone. The alternative is to lose what little sanity I have left.
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PracticalNeuron
hey psych2go,
i have a friend that i find annoying. asking the same questions, asking irrelevant questions. he asks more questions more than i do. how do i restrain myself from yelling at him unjustly?
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hey psych2go,
i have a friend that i find annoying. asking the same questions, asking irrelevant questions. he asks more questions more than i do. how do i restrain myself from yelling at him unjustly?
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Monk
Relationships are a waste of time. I don't have the time nor the energy to waste on someone else's insecurities or hatred of themselves. No one will love me as much as I love myself. Self-love is the best love.
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Relationships are a waste of time. I don't have the time nor the energy to waste on someone else's insecurities or hatred of themselves. No one will love me as much as I love myself. Self-love is the best love.
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Nick
For it was true love so I let them move away.
Had it been lust like THEM
They would have been in my arms now.
No regrets.
My happiness totally depends on theirs. their decisions too
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For it was true love so I let them move away.
Had it been lust like THEM
They would have been in my arms now.
No regrets.
My happiness totally depends on theirs. their decisions too
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Thunder
For the first one: my partner has told me. When you assume, you make an ass out of you and me. For 2. I cannot change anything or help you if you dont tell me. I wont realize something is wrong
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For the first one: my partner has told me. When you assume, you make an ass out of you and me. For 2. I cannot change anything or help you if you dont tell me. I wont realize something is wrong
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Pierce
I always try to stop myself from being self-destructive in any friendship/relationship I have but it always blows up in my face and I lose friends (and even family members) more often than not.
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I always try to stop myself from being self-destructive in any friendship/relationship I have but it always blows up in my face and I lose friends (and even family members) more often than not.
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Jo
I don't expect I'll ever have one. Never got along with any of my family, but wasn't able to keep friends because of the family. Not really had a close bond to another human being since I was 14.
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I don't expect I'll ever have one. Never got along with any of my family, but wasn't able to keep friends because of the family. Not really had a close bond to another human being since I was 14.
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