5 Signs Youre An Introvert, Not Antisocial
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Date: 2023-08-20
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angelina!
Jeez these videos make me realize a lot of stuff about myself.
Lately Ive been becoming more and more drained by socializing, and Ive actually been labeled antisocial because I dont want to go talk to other people while my ambiverted best friend likes to, so often I tag along awkwardly or I just stand around awkwardly and wait for break time to be over. She kinda laughs sometimes when she brings up the fact I dislike talking to people, and calls me antisocial or paranoid. I dislike people at my school, because lots of drama often starts and I feel stuck and helpless in the middle of it. I often have to ask to use the restroom to have a small break from just being in the same room as people. Like I said in another comment of mine, my schools community engagement requirements pretty much requires me to be extroverted, so I tend to push my energy limits overboard, which results in me shutting down by spacing out of becoming cranky and snappy towards others.
I am so excited to leave my school. My best friend (were only best friends because we came here the same time) likes to hold things over my head when I do or say something she doesnt like. Things I dont want to bring up anymore, things Ive repeatedly told her to stop. it. And I cant find more friends, I go to a very small school with only 11 people in my grade. Funny thing is last year when everyone brought up stuff about her past actions she cried and said she didnt want it brought up anymore. She wont listen when I ask politely, she doesnt know boundaries, theres no way out of this without force and currently Im too drained to use force.
Also 2: 19 Eda and Raine
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Jeez these videos make me realize a lot of stuff about myself.
Lately Ive been becoming more and more drained by socializing, and Ive actually been labeled antisocial because I dont want to go talk to other people while my ambiverted best friend likes to, so often I tag along awkwardly or I just stand around awkwardly and wait for break time to be over. She kinda laughs sometimes when she brings up the fact I dislike talking to people, and calls me antisocial or paranoid. I dislike people at my school, because lots of drama often starts and I feel stuck and helpless in the middle of it. I often have to ask to use the restroom to have a small break from just being in the same room as people. Like I said in another comment of mine, my schools community engagement requirements pretty much requires me to be extroverted, so I tend to push my energy limits overboard, which results in me shutting down by spacing out of becoming cranky and snappy towards others.
I am so excited to leave my school. My best friend (were only best friends because we came here the same time) likes to hold things over my head when I do or say something she doesnt like. Things I dont want to bring up anymore, things Ive repeatedly told her to stop. it. And I cant find more friends, I go to a very small school with only 11 people in my grade. Funny thing is last year when everyone brought up stuff about her past actions she cried and said she didnt want it brought up anymore. She wont listen when I ask politely, she doesnt know boundaries, theres no way out of this without force and currently Im too drained to use force.
Also 2: 19 Eda and Raine
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Tereza
I am an introvert from my childhood and also highly sensitive person. I'd rather stay home and spend time alone, but sometimes I also like some people around me. I would love to have some good friends, but my social anxiety is too big and I also rather stay home, than go with someone somewhere. But if I have something in common with them, then it's easier for me to talk with them. And I also hate family reunions, because I feel like I have nothing in common with big part of my family and they always attack me, if I say different opinion than what they want to hear. I take my highly sensitiveness as a gift and as I moved with my boyfriend I avoid toxic people in my family and I can say it certainly helps and I feel much better. I wish everyone to do the same, also if it's hard, because it only hurts your body and your feelings. Sending love to all of the introverts on our planet.
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I am an introvert from my childhood and also highly sensitive person. I'd rather stay home and spend time alone, but sometimes I also like some people around me. I would love to have some good friends, but my social anxiety is too big and I also rather stay home, than go with someone somewhere. But if I have something in common with them, then it's easier for me to talk with them. And I also hate family reunions, because I feel like I have nothing in common with big part of my family and they always attack me, if I say different opinion than what they want to hear. I take my highly sensitiveness as a gift and as I moved with my boyfriend I avoid toxic people in my family and I can say it certainly helps and I feel much better. I wish everyone to do the same, also if it's hard, because it only hurts your body and your feelings. Sending love to all of the introverts on our planet.
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Dustin
I think this sums me up completely. I like to stay in my own mind most of the time and stay at home and doing work. The only times I would leave my place is to go do errands or hang out with friends on occasion. I don't go to clubs and bars cause they're noisy and the drinks are mostly overpriced, nor do I try to find intimate relationships. I think metal music is stronger than love so I like listening to that from hours on end rather than go on dates to places that I would most likely hate to go to. Am I lonely because of it? Sure, who wouldn't be, but I know I can just pop in a Behemoth or Gojira record and know that I'll be fine and continue on with my life in a way that makes me comfortable.
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I think this sums me up completely. I like to stay in my own mind most of the time and stay at home and doing work. The only times I would leave my place is to go do errands or hang out with friends on occasion. I don't go to clubs and bars cause they're noisy and the drinks are mostly overpriced, nor do I try to find intimate relationships. I think metal music is stronger than love so I like listening to that from hours on end rather than go on dates to places that I would most likely hate to go to. Am I lonely because of it? Sure, who wouldn't be, but I know I can just pop in a Behemoth or Gojira record and know that I'll be fine and continue on with my life in a way that makes me comfortable.
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cinnamaricat
i cut off anyone who calls me antisocial there's just no point in explaining why being called that hurts me cause they won't understand and they'll do it again since i know antisocial ppl are manipulative i feel like they're indirectly calling me a manipulator i'd rather be around ppl who know i'm just an introvert i still like being around ppl and having friends i just like to protect my energy cause when my social battery dies you can see it very well cause i become quiet and don't want to be talked to and i space out that's why i can't meet big groups of strangers at once it drains me very fast but apparently for some this looks antisocial and that label hurts like hell to have
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i cut off anyone who calls me antisocial there's just no point in explaining why being called that hurts me cause they won't understand and they'll do it again since i know antisocial ppl are manipulative i feel like they're indirectly calling me a manipulator i'd rather be around ppl who know i'm just an introvert i still like being around ppl and having friends i just like to protect my energy cause when my social battery dies you can see it very well cause i become quiet and don't want to be talked to and i space out that's why i can't meet big groups of strangers at once it drains me very fast but apparently for some this looks antisocial and that label hurts like hell to have
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3-EX-0
I had so much trouble following this video because of the background music being so loud. But you pretty much nailed introvert on the head when I did hear what you were saying. A lot of people mislabel a lot of mental disorders for something else. Like this person is lacking empathy and is very selfish they must be a narcissist. Or if someone jumps from one emotion or another they assume that is bi-polar. A lot of people get Bi-polar disorder wrong.
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I had so much trouble following this video because of the background music being so loud. But you pretty much nailed introvert on the head when I did hear what you were saying. A lot of people mislabel a lot of mental disorders for something else. Like this person is lacking empathy and is very selfish they must be a narcissist. Or if someone jumps from one emotion or another they assume that is bi-polar. A lot of people get Bi-polar disorder wrong.
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Hanrahan
I am not sure, but I think I have more in common with asocial (has nothing to do with antisocial) than introvert. I just don't care about anything social, it's just boring to me. I don't care about having friends at all. However I am very empathic, and I care about others in my own way. Like if I see someone gets bullied, I am the kind of guy that will intervene. Not sure how to define myself.
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I am not sure, but I think I have more in common with asocial (has nothing to do with antisocial) than introvert. I just don't care about anything social, it's just boring to me. I don't care about having friends at all. However I am very empathic, and I care about others in my own way. Like if I see someone gets bullied, I am the kind of guy that will intervene. Not sure how to define myself.
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flumi
Based on these, basically I'm an antisocial, mainly because I'm used to be the shyest person in the school or even in uni. I always flopped it when it comes to the presentations and stuffs that requires talking.
Now what?
I'm lonely and can't even socialize properly. I can talk but I'm never the social starter or whatever.
Feeling like a complete failure
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Based on these, basically I'm an antisocial, mainly because I'm used to be the shyest person in the school or even in uni. I always flopped it when it comes to the presentations and stuffs that requires talking.
Now what?
I'm lonely and can't even socialize properly. I can talk but I'm never the social starter or whatever.
Feeling like a complete failure
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abbie
People have told me a lot that I'm antisocial and tbh I didn't really know what it meant so I didn't say anything, this video really helped i always called myself a introvert. Which I I'm not antisocial i like being with the people I care a lot about and not really the people who I don't. So tysm for making this video i love watching your videos a lot!
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People have told me a lot that I'm antisocial and tbh I didn't really know what it meant so I didn't say anything, this video really helped i always called myself a introvert. Which I I'm not antisocial i like being with the people I care a lot about and not really the people who I don't. So tysm for making this video i love watching your videos a lot!
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Aragmora
I remember once, for punishing myself and hiding myself from a friend, I had go in a crowded place because I hate that.
I cry quietly because I had understand that, this time, I'd see the crowd for a unique entity. So even in this place, I was feeling alone and pathetic.
Thanks to another friend, I run home.
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I remember once, for punishing myself and hiding myself from a friend, I had go in a crowded place because I hate that.
I cry quietly because I had understand that, this time, I'd see the crowd for a unique entity. So even in this place, I was feeling alone and pathetic.
Thanks to another friend, I run home.
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martins
When friend or a person next to me talk, my eyes look for all the small signs their body, face and eyes show. Ears pick up every slightest change in their tone. It is the way to guide myself and understand others. Confusing and a lot of background thinking or deciphering when words and expressions don't match.
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When friend or a person next to me talk, my eyes look for all the small signs their body, face and eyes show. Ears pick up every slightest change in their tone. It is the way to guide myself and understand others. Confusing and a lot of background thinking or deciphering when words and expressions don't match.
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Jack1994hoo
5. You enjoy doing things with the people you love.
Here is the thing, all the things I like doing are stuff you do alone, solo. Ex: cooking, drawing, gardening, reading. These are all things that don't involve another person, and they are the stuff I like.
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5. You enjoy doing things with the people you love.
Here is the thing, all the things I like doing are stuff you do alone, solo. Ex: cooking, drawing, gardening, reading. These are all things that don't involve another person, and they are the stuff I like.
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Helen
Didnt have friends growing up I did however have an abundance of bullies including my parents so I retreated and had imaginary friends. I still do though no one knows. Im a writer and have a deep imagination. But sometimes Im an extrovert I can be loud and fun.
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Didnt have friends growing up I did however have an abundance of bullies including my parents so I retreated and had imaginary friends. I still do though no one knows. Im a writer and have a deep imagination. But sometimes Im an extrovert I can be loud and fun.
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uarmyhope
At first I thought that I am an extrovert because of the way I was talking with my THREE favourite best friends
But after watching this vid I realized why I have 3 besties only
But I like being an introvert and I like being alone once in a while: )
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At first I thought that I am an extrovert because of the way I was talking with my THREE favourite best friends
But after watching this vid I realized why I have 3 besties only
But I like being an introvert and I like being alone once in a while: )
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Wendy
In 2nd grade, I would rather sit on the floor in the corner of the school library with a book, than bo on the playground with everyone else. Except when it rained--then I wanted to be on the playground, mostly because everyone else was huddled in the library.
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In 2nd grade, I would rather sit on the floor in the corner of the school library with a book, than bo on the playground with everyone else. Except when it rained--then I wanted to be on the playground, mostly because everyone else was huddled in the library.
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JAMES
Hey phyce2go, so me and someone in my class where not dating but we were in a relationship, but now shes bay, and were not the same gender, and I havent gotten good sleep since that day, it just hasnt set well in my mind, what should I do?
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Hey phyce2go, so me and someone in my class where not dating but we were in a relationship, but now shes bay, and were not the same gender, and I havent gotten good sleep since that day, it just hasnt set well in my mind, what should I do?
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education
Do you ever feel like your being judged so you just wont speak up? Thats how I used to feel when I was younger. You just dont want to talk because you feel like they are going to judge you and dismiss you ideas so you wont speak up.
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Do you ever feel like your being judged so you just wont speak up? Thats how I used to feel when I was younger. You just dont want to talk because you feel like they are going to judge you and dismiss you ideas so you wont speak up.
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vii
I am an introvert even if its one class that i have to pass by to get to my classroom i always hide because i just dont like ppl staring at me and sometimes i run because i dont feel comfortable just walking and seeng people staring at me
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I am an introvert even if its one class that i have to pass by to get to my classroom i always hide because i just dont like ppl staring at me and sometimes i run because i dont feel comfortable just walking and seeng people staring at me
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Hmmngbrd382
The fact you had a stardew reference and Ive been playing that today was awesome.
On the other hand, I learned through this video that someone I knew is actually antisocial when I thought he was just an extreme introvert
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The fact you had a stardew reference and Ive been playing that today was awesome.
On the other hand, I learned through this video that someone I knew is actually antisocial when I thought he was just an extreme introvert
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RULERZREACHF4N
Wait. I saw Edalyn Clawthorne and Raine Whispers from the owl house from the time 2: 20 to the time 2: 40 also the yellow cat thing and kikimora is owl house reference!
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Wait. I saw Edalyn Clawthorne and Raine Whispers from the owl house from the time 2: 20 to the time 2: 40 also the yellow cat thing and kikimora is owl house reference!
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Diletta
I am an ambivert. I relate to these points but not always. I feel like I am split in two halves, and it's stressful because even I don't understand myself completely
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I am an ambivert. I relate to these points but not always. I feel like I am split in two halves, and it's stressful because even I don't understand myself completely
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Isabela
thank u so so much for your videos! I love watching them, its always so helpful and fun to watch haha I also love the animation, its so cute and pretty
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thank u so so much for your videos! I love watching them, its always so helpful and fun to watch haha I also love the animation, its so cute and pretty
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Brittany
I am an extrovert because I love meeting new friends and spending time with them but most of the time when I cry in front of people I get embarrassed
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I am an extrovert because I love meeting new friends and spending time with them but most of the time when I cry in front of people I get embarrassed
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Elisa
As an Introvert, I love to have deep connection with people and talking about life. I also busy with my inner world, solitude is my old friend
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As an Introvert, I love to have deep connection with people and talking about life. I also busy with my inner world, solitude is my old friend
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Mona
An anti-social person is not someone doesn't want to socialize. An anti-social person is a sociopath. The proper term is asocial.
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An anti-social person is not someone doesn't want to socialize. An anti-social person is a sociopath. The proper term is asocial.
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Solesteam
1: 52 Does liking being in the presence of other people but hate talking to them or being in an otherwise empty room count?
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1: 52 Does liking being in the presence of other people but hate talking to them or being in an otherwise empty room count?
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