5 Signs You're Ready To Date
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Sai
I am in a country where the majority of women I've met are extroverts while I am extremely introverted.
So yeah, my problem is not finding someone. That is easy. I get plenty of attention somehow. But more finding someone who understands that I am an introvert. And doesn't force me to go out when I need time to recharge and tries to force me to social when I don't feel like socialising. I can be really social when I am recharged and feel like socialising.
So yeah, I stopped dating like 6 years ago after a toxic relationship and I am happy being single most of the time. Sometimes I miss having a girlfriend but most of the time I am pretty happy.
I've been considering dating again lately but not sure if I will. Hope I can find someone like me or someone who understands how someone how is open to dating an introvert and underatands the workings of someone who is an introvert
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I am in a country where the majority of women I've met are extroverts while I am extremely introverted.
So yeah, my problem is not finding someone. That is easy. I get plenty of attention somehow. But more finding someone who understands that I am an introvert. And doesn't force me to go out when I need time to recharge and tries to force me to social when I don't feel like socialising. I can be really social when I am recharged and feel like socialising.
So yeah, I stopped dating like 6 years ago after a toxic relationship and I am happy being single most of the time. Sometimes I miss having a girlfriend but most of the time I am pretty happy.
I've been considering dating again lately but not sure if I will. Hope I can find someone like me or someone who understands how someone how is open to dating an introvert and underatands the workings of someone who is an introvert
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Questionmark05
Since 14, I've had Invisible disability and a chronic condition that slowly but increasingly got worse. Now I am living in a grandparent flat at my parents house, on a disability pension from The government (sorry) with a recent diagnosis and revelation that the condition can't be fixed. I've never tried to date because of it. I didn't want to inflict this on anyone, and I don't think it's fair to try, I'm 30 now. By 30 your supposed to kinda have yourself together, or a very solid plan that your working through to get there. I'm at home, crippled, on a very limited income, with no dating or relationship experience, literally none. Who would want something like me at that age? I have nothing real to provide and its not temporary, this is me for the foreseeable future. I'm not sure I'll ever be fixed, so I'm thinking I may never have a relationship.
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Since 14, I've had Invisible disability and a chronic condition that slowly but increasingly got worse. Now I am living in a grandparent flat at my parents house, on a disability pension from The government (sorry) with a recent diagnosis and revelation that the condition can't be fixed. I've never tried to date because of it. I didn't want to inflict this on anyone, and I don't think it's fair to try, I'm 30 now. By 30 your supposed to kinda have yourself together, or a very solid plan that your working through to get there. I'm at home, crippled, on a very limited income, with no dating or relationship experience, literally none. Who would want something like me at that age? I have nothing real to provide and its not temporary, this is me for the foreseeable future. I'm not sure I'll ever be fixed, so I'm thinking I may never have a relationship.
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Ace
I am ready for a relationship, but life f me over. I lost my ability to earn to survive due to an illness or illnesses that I didn't cause, basically hereditary and my body just decided to screw me over. Now I can't work, and I can't get medication, because I can't work funny cycle that. Not to mention that the first thing humans look at which is physical attraction isn't gonna work for me anymore. Since I've been mutilated because of one of my said illnesses.
I want to have a family in the future, but I've already accepted the fact that I'm basically useless at this point and no one should be burdened by my existence let alone someone that isn't my immediately family.
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I am ready for a relationship, but life f me over. I lost my ability to earn to survive due to an illness or illnesses that I didn't cause, basically hereditary and my body just decided to screw me over. Now I can't work, and I can't get medication, because I can't work funny cycle that. Not to mention that the first thing humans look at which is physical attraction isn't gonna work for me anymore. Since I've been mutilated because of one of my said illnesses.
I want to have a family in the future, but I've already accepted the fact that I'm basically useless at this point and no one should be burdened by my existence let alone someone that isn't my immediately family.
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Inuala
Not sure if I will ever be ready to date or to start a relationship with someone again. I had two relationships, but I broke them off. I feel too insecure with myself to open up to anyone. But then as the years pass, my wish to one day have a family of my own just fades awa and I fear I will never become a mom or a loving partner to someone.
I'm working on my issues through therapy. but the insecurity of: Will I ever be normal and have a loving relationship? still remains: (
Sorry if I'm writing nonsense. this is the onlyway to vent, I guess.
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Not sure if I will ever be ready to date or to start a relationship with someone again. I had two relationships, but I broke them off. I feel too insecure with myself to open up to anyone. But then as the years pass, my wish to one day have a family of my own just fades awa and I fear I will never become a mom or a loving partner to someone.
I'm working on my issues through therapy. but the insecurity of: Will I ever be normal and have a loving relationship? still remains: (
Sorry if I'm writing nonsense. this is the onlyway to vent, I guess.
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martinisawe
Funny enough, the main reason i haven't dated for so long really stem down to not having a job and a heartbreak.
Now after having a job, I decide on working on myself, my purpose, my friends & family. Now I've been hitting the gym for 6 months also be my own therapist, working on my projects for sometimes, made my 1st best friends(I have 2) ever and have a great relationship with my family. So mostly moved on from my heartbreak why wouldn't I be in a relationship?
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Funny enough, the main reason i haven't dated for so long really stem down to not having a job and a heartbreak.
Now after having a job, I decide on working on myself, my purpose, my friends & family. Now I've been hitting the gym for 6 months also be my own therapist, working on my projects for sometimes, made my 1st best friends(I have 2) ever and have a great relationship with my family. So mostly moved on from my heartbreak why wouldn't I be in a relationship?
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Tanay
I recently sang/played guitar at my college. Few days later, someone told me theres someone who found it quite nice and wanted to get to know me.
I discovered shes this gorgeous lady from another class and decided we should meet. She got me flowers when we met (I couldnt stop blushing. We talked about a lot of things and I feel we connected on some level.
No clue where itll go, but certainly starting to feel that I might be ready to date again.
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I recently sang/played guitar at my college. Few days later, someone told me theres someone who found it quite nice and wanted to get to know me.
I discovered shes this gorgeous lady from another class and decided we should meet. She got me flowers when we met (I couldnt stop blushing. We talked about a lot of things and I feel we connected on some level.
No clue where itll go, but certainly starting to feel that I might be ready to date again.
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Ren
I'm not sure if I'm ready since I'm always hesitant to open up to others. I've never been in a relationship, and I never had a crush on anyone.
Many guys asked me out and I rejected them. But I accepted one of them because I wondered if with time I would feel something. But can't say we were really dating, it didn't feel like a romantic relationship, I didn't feel comfortable.
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I'm not sure if I'm ready since I'm always hesitant to open up to others. I've never been in a relationship, and I never had a crush on anyone.
Many guys asked me out and I rejected them. But I accepted one of them because I wondered if with time I would feel something. But can't say we were really dating, it didn't feel like a romantic relationship, I didn't feel comfortable.
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AJ
Just to add, I think its also a good sign youre ready to start dating when you realize everyone is imperfect and you can accept them anyway. Knowing that relationships require mutual effort and working through those imperfections. Basically, understanding the reality of relationships and not going into it thinking itll be like a movie.
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Just to add, I think its also a good sign youre ready to start dating when you realize everyone is imperfect and you can accept them anyway. Knowing that relationships require mutual effort and working through those imperfections. Basically, understanding the reality of relationships and not going into it thinking itll be like a movie.
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Ha
Thank you for today's video. This was very important for everyonelove yourself
believe yourself
listen yourself
Never disappoint yourself for unvaluable thingsAlways give yourself a chance to change your lifeI believe in youyou can do itself care is on the first placesorry for my english
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Thank you for today's video. This was very important for everyonelove yourself
believe yourself
listen yourself
Never disappoint yourself for unvaluable thingsAlways give yourself a chance to change your lifeI believe in youyou can do itself care is on the first placesorry for my english
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Twisted
Resonated with the things here, but I know my dating chances won't improve. The things that are red flags about me won't change. So, that's that. Which is fine. I knew this before hand. I just enjoyed learning more on this subject. Thanks for the info psych2go.
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Resonated with the things here, but I know my dating chances won't improve. The things that are red flags about me won't change. So, that's that. Which is fine. I knew this before hand. I just enjoyed learning more on this subject. Thanks for the info psych2go.
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Lawrance
I am genuenly confused how some totaly messed up people get in ton of relationships, but some people who are ok by all standards are looners.
I am not cringing or anything i am just wondering how in the name of god
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I am genuenly confused how some totaly messed up people get in ton of relationships, but some people who are ok by all standards are looners.
I am not cringing or anything i am just wondering how in the name of god
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Ethan
I need to work on investing in myself a bit more and honoring my wants and needs. I'm great at communicating but when it comes down to my needs I struggle at talking about it but ik I'll get better as time moves on
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I need to work on investing in myself a bit more and honoring my wants and needs. I'm great at communicating but when it comes down to my needs I struggle at talking about it but ik I'll get better as time moves on
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intercept
I got 0/5 so yeah, I don't think I'm ready for a new relationship. This video was still great, and it has given me more confidence in my assessment of myself. So thank you! And keep doing what you are doing!
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I got 0/5 so yeah, I don't think I'm ready for a new relationship. This video was still great, and it has given me more confidence in my assessment of myself. So thank you! And keep doing what you are doing!
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L.
In this time of my life, this is your most relatable video I've seen so far! I'm looking forward to starting a relationship and I feel ready for it. Always keeping an eye out for new opportunities!
Thank you
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In this time of my life, this is your most relatable video I've seen so far! I'm looking forward to starting a relationship and I feel ready for it. Always keeping an eye out for new opportunities!
Thank you
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Branislav
I love how this video is made for those who had been in a relationship before, not for those who haven't.
It's clear that this content is aimed at only the specific demographic.
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I love how this video is made for those who had been in a relationship before, not for those who haven't.
It's clear that this content is aimed at only the specific demographic.
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Mam
Can you do another video on how we tell someone we think they like us, that we're not ready yet without heartbreaks, even though we think that they might be the right person for us?
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Can you do another video on how we tell someone we think they like us, that we're not ready yet without heartbreaks, even though we think that they might be the right person for us?
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Jetsparx373
I often think the worst thing about being in a relationship should I choose to pursue one, is being compared to that girl's EXs and or harps on them.
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I often think the worst thing about being in a relationship should I choose to pursue one, is being compared to that girl's EXs and or harps on them.
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Dragon
So about the first point. if you've been traumatized in a previous relationship, it'd be a bad idea to go into the next one, despite years having passed?
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So about the first point. if you've been traumatized in a previous relationship, it'd be a bad idea to go into the next one, despite years having passed?
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Mira
I was so sure i am not ready to date(even sometimes i falling in love) The video proof i am right about myself. I am not ready for romantic relationship.
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I was so sure i am not ready to date(even sometimes i falling in love) The video proof i am right about myself. I am not ready for romantic relationship.
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Beutimus
I've never had a relationship, so I guess there isn't much baggage, unless we talk about the relationship with myself. That's been a tough one.
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I've never had a relationship, so I guess there isn't much baggage, unless we talk about the relationship with myself. That's been a tough one.
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Charles
add finicancial stability especially for men. many of your dates will be coming out of YOUR pocket, so keep in mind you have to pay to be loved.
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add finicancial stability especially for men. many of your dates will be coming out of YOUR pocket, so keep in mind you have to pay to be loved.
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CuddleFish124
What if you only have 4 out of the 5 recommended things? Can you still date? Or should you wait until you have all 5 under control?
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What if you only have 4 out of the 5 recommended things? Can you still date? Or should you wait until you have all 5 under control?
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xCCflierx
What if i just want friends? I know dating is too much for me right now, but would love to have more friends so im not as lonesome
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What if i just want friends? I know dating is too much for me right now, but would love to have more friends so im not as lonesome
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Sarvae
Ready for a fresh start
Ready for romantic excitement
Being honest about how you can make stuff better
Knowing your needs
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Ready for a fresh start
Ready for romantic excitement
Being honest about how you can make stuff better
Knowing your needs
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