3 Proven Ways To Flirt Effortlessly
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Date: 2023-11-28
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Gab
I find flirting is very much based on the cultural context. I can flirt in a much more natural, friendly and easy going way in english (I find that language engages you in a fluent and impactful shared narration) then while chatting with ladies in my french province, and my mastery of french is much less poor then my understanding of english, so it's not the same challenge either. In my country and especially my province, seducing someone never worked out for me (or hardly at all, frankly. Maybe speaking french in english communities feels exotic to others and is a friendly flag for new relationships. The needs, desires and expectations of women might drastically differ as well, from one culture to another. In english provinces, I found ladies much more romantic then back home in french Canada. While travelling in Asia (when I had a reason to be introduced to ladies, when discovering english communities or while meeting other travellers from all around the world, it was much easier, more fluent and fulfilling to enjoy seduction. I could create friendliness with women, which is dear to me. If there is a bit of fun, kind humour and playfulness while flirting, it feels more satisfying, natural and I find it helps creating bonds. Meeting people that are friends of friends is also useful to create an engaging link. A different way of breaking the ice. Seducing while travelling expands and intensifies any experience, I'd say (well, anything while on a journey is more intense to me. Sitting at a counter in a pub or approaching someone already drinking at the counter makes things easier as well for me. Once, I really wanted to share a beer with someone when at a pub in the States. I offered a drink to a friendly looking and charming lady, she thanked me but told me she'd be too busy to chat with me, but I frankly just needed to share something with a beautiful someone. She accepted a drink and ended up chatting with me for a while, which felt unexpected. I love that aspect of meeting someone new. Sometimes, I find that women from other cultures have a little noble vibe to them. Lately, I really wonder how it feels to others when they flirt, meet new people, create relationships. I ask myself what would be a pleasent and fulfilling romance to ladies. I love being romantic, but only certain people (and certain cultures) seem to appreciate it as well. I'm highly grateful when women are romantic towards me. It's moving! Maybe people in my province are just slightly more materialistic/superficial in essence and feel threatened by deeper discussions and relationships. I can't be certain. Nevertheless, I'll always prefer creating bonds with people from other cultures, at the very least. It expands the intensity of meeting someone new, from a different gender, psychoemotionally and intellectually different as well. Thanks for your creative, kind and warm videos by the way! I appreciate them.
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I find flirting is very much based on the cultural context. I can flirt in a much more natural, friendly and easy going way in english (I find that language engages you in a fluent and impactful shared narration) then while chatting with ladies in my french province, and my mastery of french is much less poor then my understanding of english, so it's not the same challenge either. In my country and especially my province, seducing someone never worked out for me (or hardly at all, frankly. Maybe speaking french in english communities feels exotic to others and is a friendly flag for new relationships. The needs, desires and expectations of women might drastically differ as well, from one culture to another. In english provinces, I found ladies much more romantic then back home in french Canada. While travelling in Asia (when I had a reason to be introduced to ladies, when discovering english communities or while meeting other travellers from all around the world, it was much easier, more fluent and fulfilling to enjoy seduction. I could create friendliness with women, which is dear to me. If there is a bit of fun, kind humour and playfulness while flirting, it feels more satisfying, natural and I find it helps creating bonds. Meeting people that are friends of friends is also useful to create an engaging link. A different way of breaking the ice. Seducing while travelling expands and intensifies any experience, I'd say (well, anything while on a journey is more intense to me. Sitting at a counter in a pub or approaching someone already drinking at the counter makes things easier as well for me. Once, I really wanted to share a beer with someone when at a pub in the States. I offered a drink to a friendly looking and charming lady, she thanked me but told me she'd be too busy to chat with me, but I frankly just needed to share something with a beautiful someone. She accepted a drink and ended up chatting with me for a while, which felt unexpected. I love that aspect of meeting someone new. Sometimes, I find that women from other cultures have a little noble vibe to them. Lately, I really wonder how it feels to others when they flirt, meet new people, create relationships. I ask myself what would be a pleasent and fulfilling romance to ladies. I love being romantic, but only certain people (and certain cultures) seem to appreciate it as well. I'm highly grateful when women are romantic towards me. It's moving! Maybe people in my province are just slightly more materialistic/superficial in essence and feel threatened by deeper discussions and relationships. I can't be certain. Nevertheless, I'll always prefer creating bonds with people from other cultures, at the very least. It expands the intensity of meeting someone new, from a different gender, psychoemotionally and intellectually different as well. Thanks for your creative, kind and warm videos by the way! I appreciate them.
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Kitten_lover
Im a 10 year old with rather not say (It starts with a D and ends with a N) and i believe nobody cares about me, lets recap-
1st grade, i like a girl simply I tell her and her and her freinds end up bullying me everyday.
2nd grade, the same girls still bully me EVERYDAY
3rd grade, New school nothing can go wrong right? no i like a girl ends up rejecting me in the worst way.
4th grade, New school it cant get worse right? no i like a girl she END UP USEING ME FOR EVERYTHING and throws me down the drain.
5th grade NEW SCHOOL AGAIN nothing can go wrong the school is perfect and i lost feeling for girls FOREVER (actualy tho i hav) nothing can go wrong right? NO I END P MOVING TO THE SAME SCHOOL WHERE I WAS BULLYED EVERYDAY WHYYY?
Present day im in 5th grade byeeee
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Im a 10 year old with rather not say (It starts with a D and ends with a N) and i believe nobody cares about me, lets recap-
1st grade, i like a girl simply I tell her and her and her freinds end up bullying me everyday.
2nd grade, the same girls still bully me EVERYDAY
3rd grade, New school nothing can go wrong right? no i like a girl ends up rejecting me in the worst way.
4th grade, New school it cant get worse right? no i like a girl she END UP USEING ME FOR EVERYTHING and throws me down the drain.
5th grade NEW SCHOOL AGAIN nothing can go wrong the school is perfect and i lost feeling for girls FOREVER (actualy tho i hav) nothing can go wrong right? NO I END P MOVING TO THE SAME SCHOOL WHERE I WAS BULLYED EVERYDAY WHYYY?
Present day im in 5th grade byeeee
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Ty
I usually enjoy many of your videos. And I was really looking forward when I saw the title because we can all use some tips. But all this tells me is the best way to show interest is to pace things so slowly that no interest is interpreted. I don't understand how anyone would find me interested in them if I took this advice. I'm not afraid of showing interest, but this is telling me I should take everything as carefully as possible to the point where I don't know how they could possibly see me as flirting. I'm sure this works for low energy people, but this is confusing and looks impossible for people who want to make any progress. I'm sure I'm wrong but I don't understand how long this is supposed to give anyone the hint that I'm into them.
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I usually enjoy many of your videos. And I was really looking forward when I saw the title because we can all use some tips. But all this tells me is the best way to show interest is to pace things so slowly that no interest is interpreted. I don't understand how anyone would find me interested in them if I took this advice. I'm not afraid of showing interest, but this is telling me I should take everything as carefully as possible to the point where I don't know how they could possibly see me as flirting. I'm sure this works for low energy people, but this is confusing and looks impossible for people who want to make any progress. I'm sure I'm wrong but I don't understand how long this is supposed to give anyone the hint that I'm into them.
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Raniux
I know maybe it's not that related to the subject but I'm having a little problem with a girl who is a very close friend of mine and. I think I'm kind of in love with her. The problem is that there is a guy who is trying to get her away from me (he is also in love with her, he hasn't said it but I'm 100% sure) when I approach her and talk to her the guy comes quickly and hugs her, I naturally leave the place. The guy is cool, but even the girl is a little uncomfortable with his attitude. I've been close friends with her for a year, but I haven't dared to do anything else (I'm very introverted in those things. I don't know if it would be wise to do anything about it.
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I know maybe it's not that related to the subject but I'm having a little problem with a girl who is a very close friend of mine and. I think I'm kind of in love with her. The problem is that there is a guy who is trying to get her away from me (he is also in love with her, he hasn't said it but I'm 100% sure) when I approach her and talk to her the guy comes quickly and hugs her, I naturally leave the place. The guy is cool, but even the girl is a little uncomfortable with his attitude. I've been close friends with her for a year, but I haven't dared to do anything else (I'm very introverted in those things. I don't know if it would be wise to do anything about it.
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Chimmichurri
For me, after i graduated highschool i got alot more confidence in myself. Im not a great looking guy, but i do consider myself a flirt. I have a lady so nothing more would happen. Something ive noticed, is: if you want to flirt or to get a lady, be confident in yourself and how you carry yourself. Dudes out there Please listen, POSTURE can really help. Ive always walked shoulders back chest forward, it didn't do nothing when i was an overwieght child. When i got older, still had same posture, grew up and slimmed down/ bulked up, we got results. Dont give up, both men and women, yall can get someone
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For me, after i graduated highschool i got alot more confidence in myself. Im not a great looking guy, but i do consider myself a flirt. I have a lady so nothing more would happen. Something ive noticed, is: if you want to flirt or to get a lady, be confident in yourself and how you carry yourself. Dudes out there Please listen, POSTURE can really help. Ive always walked shoulders back chest forward, it didn't do nothing when i was an overwieght child. When i got older, still had same posture, grew up and slimmed down/ bulked up, we got results. Dont give up, both men and women, yall can get someone
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TheSilverL
Thank God you called out how lame pick up lines are lol. I also tried the compliment approach and it is waaay too straightforward, even if you say something about their personality or clothing style.
Women seem to like the mysterious more than the straightforward, which sucks for most guys because naturally we are straightforward lol. That's why we have to learn how to flirt and whatnot.
I'm still really bad at it, and that's mainly because I stopped approaching women. I'm not sure if I'll start again any time soon, but good luck to those who do.
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Thank God you called out how lame pick up lines are lol. I also tried the compliment approach and it is waaay too straightforward, even if you say something about their personality or clothing style.
Women seem to like the mysterious more than the straightforward, which sucks for most guys because naturally we are straightforward lol. That's why we have to learn how to flirt and whatnot.
I'm still really bad at it, and that's mainly because I stopped approaching women. I'm not sure if I'll start again any time soon, but good luck to those who do.
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GreaterBeyond
Hey I wanted to share my experience with one of these tactics, my girlfriend had used a friend to get me introduced to her and funny thing about it is that when I played this video near her I was shocked to hear that using a thrid party memeber to get others introduced was mentioned. Afterwards I had started to constantly expose her which we had laughed about while at the same time got her embarrassed xD
Im glad to have her though, and I am glad she found me interesting cause she is amazing
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Hey I wanted to share my experience with one of these tactics, my girlfriend had used a friend to get me introduced to her and funny thing about it is that when I played this video near her I was shocked to hear that using a thrid party memeber to get others introduced was mentioned. Afterwards I had started to constantly expose her which we had laughed about while at the same time got her embarrassed xD
Im glad to have her though, and I am glad she found me interesting cause she is amazing
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Deven
When I had finally decided to confront my crush during freshman year of highschool, I just said something random based on the environment around us to break the ice. It turned out that I wasn't the only guy interested in her so it became awkward and I didn't have a real opportunity to really get to know her until 1. 5 years later which is when we were starting to get close but then everything fell apart due to my shenanigans and mental health issues.
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When I had finally decided to confront my crush during freshman year of highschool, I just said something random based on the environment around us to break the ice. It turned out that I wasn't the only guy interested in her so it became awkward and I didn't have a real opportunity to really get to know her until 1. 5 years later which is when we were starting to get close but then everything fell apart due to my shenanigans and mental health issues.
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Gehteuch
The last point assunes you have a friend there to introduce you.
Aside from that, I never tried any pick-up lines or 'direct approaches'. Yet nobody was ever interested anyway. Not sure how much these tips help if you're generally not the kindcof guy women want to flirt with. Be that for looks or because you have less skills in holding a conversation than an automated phone message.
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The last point assunes you have a friend there to introduce you.
Aside from that, I never tried any pick-up lines or 'direct approaches'. Yet nobody was ever interested anyway. Not sure how much these tips help if you're generally not the kindcof guy women want to flirt with. Be that for looks or because you have less skills in holding a conversation than an automated phone message.
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Red
It s more of a matter of what to say without coming off as desperate or creepy. Do you compliment the outfit? Do you ask her if she comes here often?
I know they tell you to live in the moment, something I m trying to do these days, but those overthinking thoughts creep in about the worst possible things that could go wrong.
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It s more of a matter of what to say without coming off as desperate or creepy. Do you compliment the outfit? Do you ask her if she comes here often?
I know they tell you to live in the moment, something I m trying to do these days, but those overthinking thoughts creep in about the worst possible things that could go wrong.
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nodwolf
But. speaking for myself- Corny pick-up lines and jokes are a 100% guarantee to get a guy in my pants if used on me. I like someone who can show that they have humor that can overcome anything else. Because life (again, in my opinion) is something that should be enjoyed fully, and laughter is a great place to start.
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But. speaking for myself- Corny pick-up lines and jokes are a 100% guarantee to get a guy in my pants if used on me. I like someone who can show that they have humor that can overcome anything else. Because life (again, in my opinion) is something that should be enjoyed fully, and laughter is a great place to start.
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NSolares25
Something that has always helped me is a little thing called self amusement. If you re having fun, chances are that the other person is having fun too. Obviously it goes without saying that it should be wholesome fun, & not laughing at someone else s expense. Also, authenticity goes a long way.
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Something that has always helped me is a little thing called self amusement. If you re having fun, chances are that the other person is having fun too. Obviously it goes without saying that it should be wholesome fun, & not laughing at someone else s expense. Also, authenticity goes a long way.
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Kaylen
Considering i m a little shy around new people especially men my age i really appreciated the proceed with caution! If only more men were like this, and not straightforward, I tend to shut down when I don t know people, and they try to come up and talk to me like I ve known them for forever!
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Considering i m a little shy around new people especially men my age i really appreciated the proceed with caution! If only more men were like this, and not straightforward, I tend to shut down when I don t know people, and they try to come up and talk to me like I ve known them for forever!
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Teumeato
hi psych2go,
I love your videos and they often help me through my toughest times,
thank you so much for that,
Could you please make a video about homesickness in university and anxiety related to it?
It'll help a lot of young students like me.
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hi psych2go,
I love your videos and they often help me through my toughest times,
thank you so much for that,
Could you please make a video about homesickness in university and anxiety related to it?
It'll help a lot of young students like me.
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Oliver
Hey I need your response I have a crush on a girl that has no social media s I don t know where she lives and I can t see her at school because we are on a undetermined strike plus I am shy she is showing sings that she likes me we are also good friends pls help
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Hey I need your response I have a crush on a girl that has no social media s I don t know where she lives and I can t see her at school because we are on a undetermined strike plus I am shy she is showing sings that she likes me we are also good friends pls help
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Rania
2: 14 a person who has a crush on me did that to me several times ( I didn't realize he had a crush on me till people who approaches me started getting away by this act) and I don't like it at all. How can I prevent this from happening again please?
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2: 14 a person who has a crush on me did that to me several times ( I didn't realize he had a crush on me till people who approaches me started getting away by this act) and I don't like it at all. How can I prevent this from happening again please?
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Man
Seriously cannot relate to that. In my entire life there was never a thought in my head I want to flirt with him/her. I just never flirt, it's completely alien concept to me and I also get seriously weirded out when someone tries to flirt with me.
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Seriously cannot relate to that. In my entire life there was never a thought in my head I want to flirt with him/her. I just never flirt, it's completely alien concept to me and I also get seriously weirded out when someone tries to flirt with me.
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psych2go
Even though this isn t about the video I just need answers on this
I was using the bathroom and I felt like i was dreaming but I wasn t I was flicking myself and pinching myself and repeating the word wake up,
What dose that mean?
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Even though this isn t about the video I just need answers on this
I was using the bathroom and I felt like i was dreaming but I wasn t I was flicking myself and pinching myself and repeating the word wake up,
What dose that mean?
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Lukas
Damn, I'm destined to be alone, I already practiced all of this without thinking and never went anywhere, then I tried being more direct and it comes out as innapropriate, hahaha, some of us are just not made for it I guess
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Damn, I'm destined to be alone, I already practiced all of this without thinking and never went anywhere, then I tried being more direct and it comes out as innapropriate, hahaha, some of us are just not made for it I guess
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Orion
In my case, a third-party introduction is most likely the only way I ll ever find a partner, based on failed dating attempts and obliviousness to social cues in _both_ directions.
#NeurodivergentBlangst
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In my case, a third-party introduction is most likely the only way I ll ever find a partner, based on failed dating attempts and obliviousness to social cues in _both_ directions.
#NeurodivergentBlangst
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