Self check: 6 Signs You're Becoming A Toxic Person
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Date: 2023-09-10
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Benjamin
My beliefs I see true.
We needed money to make sure our comunity would survive, because we are inherently greedy by nature. One man decided we all had good products we made out of curiosity, but we needed to share amongst our selves to progress. With it we hid the evil briefly. The evil only morphed in a different ways if not multiple. Without moderation we made greed in a different form and with it made the madness of the world with comfortable distraction. Our distractions are us trying to avoid what we really know. The only thing we slave for is the cause in unity despite the indviduals. We saw ourselves as higher because we worked hard to get it well why can't we just try without the stress and fule our actual curiosities despite our known danger on a singular level. Ego is not a bad thing but we need to take pride in a singular goal. Is your comunity taken care of? Are they fed and housed just like you? Can they feed their true curiosities without the stress we deal with in the name of distractions or forced learning. We need morals but we don't need a system to keep it. Malice can end. when it dosent and you see it end it with the knowlage they taught us if they don't see it oh well.
I do not fear the end we should embrace it because we did it out of pure curiosity without fear.
Share this with like minded people if it resonates never dull your true purposes though if this isn't you I understand and I'm sorry.
Take down the money and the laws your killing us! Please. And with it the hate should follow. Because in the end we are all equals to one another no matter the age or status. If not oh well I tried. If this seems odd or bothers you deeply I beg you to look inside yourself before you speak to the community around you. I've been doing this all week don't fear the unknown embrace it as it is.
They know they are wroung but that can't stop it because it made an entity the petty few might fight but they are only human right?
And if you see a problem across the world fix it yourself singularly or not at all. we need our kids to put this past them. Not put them deeper into the madness. We aren't killing ourselves off anymore were doing it out of yalls hypocrisy.
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My beliefs I see true.
We needed money to make sure our comunity would survive, because we are inherently greedy by nature. One man decided we all had good products we made out of curiosity, but we needed to share amongst our selves to progress. With it we hid the evil briefly. The evil only morphed in a different ways if not multiple. Without moderation we made greed in a different form and with it made the madness of the world with comfortable distraction. Our distractions are us trying to avoid what we really know. The only thing we slave for is the cause in unity despite the indviduals. We saw ourselves as higher because we worked hard to get it well why can't we just try without the stress and fule our actual curiosities despite our known danger on a singular level. Ego is not a bad thing but we need to take pride in a singular goal. Is your comunity taken care of? Are they fed and housed just like you? Can they feed their true curiosities without the stress we deal with in the name of distractions or forced learning. We need morals but we don't need a system to keep it. Malice can end. when it dosent and you see it end it with the knowlage they taught us if they don't see it oh well.
I do not fear the end we should embrace it because we did it out of pure curiosity without fear.
Share this with like minded people if it resonates never dull your true purposes though if this isn't you I understand and I'm sorry.
Take down the money and the laws your killing us! Please. And with it the hate should follow. Because in the end we are all equals to one another no matter the age or status. If not oh well I tried. If this seems odd or bothers you deeply I beg you to look inside yourself before you speak to the community around you. I've been doing this all week don't fear the unknown embrace it as it is.
They know they are wroung but that can't stop it because it made an entity the petty few might fight but they are only human right?
And if you see a problem across the world fix it yourself singularly or not at all. we need our kids to put this past them. Not put them deeper into the madness. We aren't killing ourselves off anymore were doing it out of yalls hypocrisy.
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WhatPach
1. Argumentative. I don't like all those arguments, especially with an aggression. More likely I'll try to avoid that and find a peaceful solution rather than fight.
2. Owning up mistakes. I think that I admit even not my mistakes. Yeah, it's not good.
3. Avoiding drama. I don't like it and more likely avoid it. I just live with my real emotions (or not so, by covering bad emotion )
4. Jealous and possessive. I don't really have friends or people I consider as friends. But sometimes when I see that people with who I talk has a conversation with another I feel some bad emotions, but I try to shut that and say to myself: It is good that he has more friends! .
5. Overly competitive. I'll say more: I can't bring any words about my life like You're good! or I'm glad you got so far! . Meaning, I can't celebrate my own victories, but CAN celebrate others'.
6. Extreme criticism. And again: I say only good about almost every person, not finding bad in them, but I more likely say something harm about myself. Meaning, I am critical to myself more than to others.
So. I have 1/6 about becoming toxic, even trying to close that emotion, and 2/6 about becoming toxic to myself.
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1. Argumentative. I don't like all those arguments, especially with an aggression. More likely I'll try to avoid that and find a peaceful solution rather than fight.
2. Owning up mistakes. I think that I admit even not my mistakes. Yeah, it's not good.
3. Avoiding drama. I don't like it and more likely avoid it. I just live with my real emotions (or not so, by covering bad emotion )
4. Jealous and possessive. I don't really have friends or people I consider as friends. But sometimes when I see that people with who I talk has a conversation with another I feel some bad emotions, but I try to shut that and say to myself: It is good that he has more friends! .
5. Overly competitive. I'll say more: I can't bring any words about my life like You're good! or I'm glad you got so far! . Meaning, I can't celebrate my own victories, but CAN celebrate others'.
6. Extreme criticism. And again: I say only good about almost every person, not finding bad in them, but I more likely say something harm about myself. Meaning, I am critical to myself more than to others.
So. I have 1/6 about becoming toxic, even trying to close that emotion, and 2/6 about becoming toxic to myself.
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BJavin
I didn't like the word toxic, cause it was used so flippantly. But when it properly applies it's such a fitting word. Toxins flow through the veins and cause reactions to the system, to stimulate, to feel. You only notice that sensation, but once it touches someone else; most of the time it's people you care about most, you see the damage it does and it's normally too late. It leaves it's scars and severs bonds. Some try and purge it from themselves and it leaves them hollow. It leaves little options and you withdraw. You associate excitement with that toxin and avoid things that used to stimulate. In an attempt to stay clean you self isolate. Isolation leads to depression. depression leads to suffering. And you can't feel sorry for the suffering cause you made the toxin all by yourself. And to reason or shift the blame of the toxin just makes the toxin remanifest. And the cycle repeats.
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I didn't like the word toxic, cause it was used so flippantly. But when it properly applies it's such a fitting word. Toxins flow through the veins and cause reactions to the system, to stimulate, to feel. You only notice that sensation, but once it touches someone else; most of the time it's people you care about most, you see the damage it does and it's normally too late. It leaves it's scars and severs bonds. Some try and purge it from themselves and it leaves them hollow. It leaves little options and you withdraw. You associate excitement with that toxin and avoid things that used to stimulate. In an attempt to stay clean you self isolate. Isolation leads to depression. depression leads to suffering. And you can't feel sorry for the suffering cause you made the toxin all by yourself. And to reason or shift the blame of the toxin just makes the toxin remanifest. And the cycle repeats.
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XxNightPackAlphaxX
I was always told that I was toxic because I was possessive, insensitive, and just said stuff that just came out the wrong way. It really hurt my self esteem and I had closed off all contact with everyone because I believed I was a bad person and that no one would want to be in contact with me. Every friendship I had, I'd have to warn them about my tendancies beforehead so that they can be more understanding and open minded of my flaws. It has helped so far, but I still get negative comments about my logical way of thinking over my emotional way of thinking that causes a lot of arguments. But when they needed space, I'd cling and be possessive all because I didn't want to be left by myself. If my current friends left, I'd be alone again and that thought scares me.
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I was always told that I was toxic because I was possessive, insensitive, and just said stuff that just came out the wrong way. It really hurt my self esteem and I had closed off all contact with everyone because I believed I was a bad person and that no one would want to be in contact with me. Every friendship I had, I'd have to warn them about my tendancies beforehead so that they can be more understanding and open minded of my flaws. It has helped so far, but I still get negative comments about my logical way of thinking over my emotional way of thinking that causes a lot of arguments. But when they needed space, I'd cling and be possessive all because I didn't want to be left by myself. If my current friends left, I'd be alone again and that thought scares me.
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DaDMonDCB
I was nervous about this video when I saw it pop up, because my worst break up was from someone who accused me of being toxic, and wouldn't even talk to me in person about how things were going between us.
On the other hand, most of my friends (and both my parents and therapist) said that person was lying and using me, my current love-interest (unrequited crush me->them) said me being toxic is ridiculous (apparently I'm too hard on my own mistakes and am too self-critical, even, and the closest I (think I) come to any of these symptoms is enjoying my competitiveness when it comes to SmashyBros.
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I was nervous about this video when I saw it pop up, because my worst break up was from someone who accused me of being toxic, and wouldn't even talk to me in person about how things were going between us.
On the other hand, most of my friends (and both my parents and therapist) said that person was lying and using me, my current love-interest (unrequited crush me->them) said me being toxic is ridiculous (apparently I'm too hard on my own mistakes and am too self-critical, even, and the closest I (think I) come to any of these symptoms is enjoying my competitiveness when it comes to SmashyBros.
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SilverPsychic
I do get jealous when I see others having a better time without me, but I never mention it and often ignore it. I have been feeling like I m being a toxic person, but I only related to the one thing I ve also learned I ve probably been doing mental self harm for a while. I ve been torn between wanting to make friends and share and have love vs wanting to isolate myself so I don t hurt others. I can t tell anymore if Im being toxic or I keep finding toxic people to talk to, I feel so blind and Im starting to get fearful to ask for help because it tends to end up doing more harm then good.
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I do get jealous when I see others having a better time without me, but I never mention it and often ignore it. I have been feeling like I m being a toxic person, but I only related to the one thing I ve also learned I ve probably been doing mental self harm for a while. I ve been torn between wanting to make friends and share and have love vs wanting to isolate myself so I don t hurt others. I can t tell anymore if Im being toxic or I keep finding toxic people to talk to, I feel so blind and Im starting to get fearful to ask for help because it tends to end up doing more harm then good.
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sanudi
Guyd I need help
My bestfriend, she is completely avoiding me, she doesn't share anything with me about her life, like anything guys we are bestfriends, when I tell her about my day and ask about hers she doesn't seem like she likes it. I am starting to think that I am the problem here, when I ask about her studies she gets angry and She lies about everything and when I get to know the truth it really hurts, she make sure to avoid me at any event ( I think so, but also she is super competitive with me. am I doing something wrong? what happened to her? I didn't do anything wrong tho.
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Guyd I need help
My bestfriend, she is completely avoiding me, she doesn't share anything with me about her life, like anything guys we are bestfriends, when I tell her about my day and ask about hers she doesn't seem like she likes it. I am starting to think that I am the problem here, when I ask about her studies she gets angry and She lies about everything and when I get to know the truth it really hurts, she make sure to avoid me at any event ( I think so, but also she is super competitive with me. am I doing something wrong? what happened to her? I didn't do anything wrong tho.
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sovannita
Im in a bit of trouble. After i brokeup with my bf everything goes wrong for me. Our relationship was really toxic and he did many terrible things to me and i still love him. But these day i started to compare myself to a girl that he is close to she s better than me in every way and im really jealous of her because ill never be likable. I dont hate her but it really hurt to see that he s close to her every second even tho he said he still love me. I even ended up pushing everyone away
In short i need help with self love and finding hobby. Please help. Its scary to be alone
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Im in a bit of trouble. After i brokeup with my bf everything goes wrong for me. Our relationship was really toxic and he did many terrible things to me and i still love him. But these day i started to compare myself to a girl that he is close to she s better than me in every way and im really jealous of her because ill never be likable. I dont hate her but it really hurt to see that he s close to her every second even tho he said he still love me. I even ended up pushing everyone away
In short i need help with self love and finding hobby. Please help. Its scary to be alone
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ChaosWaffle
I don't treat people badly except my toxic family or anyone else who's abusive and bad, I don't wanna be toxic. But I do wanna be toxic to those who hurt and I'm bitter about my family. I know it sounds concerning but I can't help it, my family does not have good people and unfortunately I'm not a good person. But my family is no better and there's drama and toxic arguing. At least I'll ignore them and stay away, and act hostile if they approach me. I'm sorry I know I'm a bad person and I don't know how to get out of that eye for an eye and justice mentality of mine.
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I don't treat people badly except my toxic family or anyone else who's abusive and bad, I don't wanna be toxic. But I do wanna be toxic to those who hurt and I'm bitter about my family. I know it sounds concerning but I can't help it, my family does not have good people and unfortunately I'm not a good person. But my family is no better and there's drama and toxic arguing. At least I'll ignore them and stay away, and act hostile if they approach me. I'm sorry I know I'm a bad person and I don't know how to get out of that eye for an eye and justice mentality of mine.
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Mai
What if im replying to toxic argumentative people? Instead of being toxic myself haha im sorry that they are toxic but that doesnt have anything to do with me, its almost as if DRAMA just follows me. it cant be me everyone likes me the most and all my friends only like me not you. lets go friends. that person sucks anyways i mean he thinks he is cool cuz he got a 89 on his test I GOT A 91! Probably because that person sucks, im better im smarter, like that loser. hahaha jk it was. Just a joke. Atleast i know i am not toxic.
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What if im replying to toxic argumentative people? Instead of being toxic myself haha im sorry that they are toxic but that doesnt have anything to do with me, its almost as if DRAMA just follows me. it cant be me everyone likes me the most and all my friends only like me not you. lets go friends. that person sucks anyways i mean he thinks he is cool cuz he got a 89 on his test I GOT A 91! Probably because that person sucks, im better im smarter, like that loser. hahaha jk it was. Just a joke. Atleast i know i am not toxic.
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arto
too simplistic view of human behaviour maby childish, It is far more complicated how toxic pattern play out, difficulty is that, it is diffcult to prove what happens at role level who enable wrong doing and how scapegoat is formed. Many sufferings are built up in way that truth is hidden someone mistake is shown out as white lie which needs enablers and then there is scapegoat who understands but none believe him/her and then story goes on and enablers become exhausted and replaced and pattern continues.
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too simplistic view of human behaviour maby childish, It is far more complicated how toxic pattern play out, difficulty is that, it is diffcult to prove what happens at role level who enable wrong doing and how scapegoat is formed. Many sufferings are built up in way that truth is hidden someone mistake is shown out as white lie which needs enablers and then there is scapegoat who understands but none believe him/her and then story goes on and enablers become exhausted and replaced and pattern continues.
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GamingTurkey5
So, the others i dont have, but i do have the first two down. I dont feel excited or anything when i argue but i do tend to argue alot with others, but not in a really bad way, and if i do say something harmful i always end up apologising. Another thing, every time ive made a mistake with either speech or a something silly, i always tend to not blame others exactly, but its most of the time not my fault so i have to work on that. Thanks for raising this for me and i will try improve myself!
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So, the others i dont have, but i do have the first two down. I dont feel excited or anything when i argue but i do tend to argue alot with others, but not in a really bad way, and if i do say something harmful i always end up apologising. Another thing, every time ive made a mistake with either speech or a something silly, i always tend to not blame others exactly, but its most of the time not my fault so i have to work on that. Thanks for raising this for me and i will try improve myself!
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Morgue
I mentioned this on the last video but can you guys do a video on boundaries and the proper way to set them? Ive always heard its important to enforce a consequence if your boundary is communicated and then overstepped. But what if someone accuses you of holding the relationship hostage by saying you wont tolerate having your boundaries overstepped. Is this a fair accusation? Im struggling with not feeling guilty for setting boundaries
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I mentioned this on the last video but can you guys do a video on boundaries and the proper way to set them? Ive always heard its important to enforce a consequence if your boundary is communicated and then overstepped. But what if someone accuses you of holding the relationship hostage by saying you wont tolerate having your boundaries overstepped. Is this a fair accusation? Im struggling with not feeling guilty for setting boundaries
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RoRo
I often feel overly competitive and jealous internally but try my hardest to never act on it because as I describe it in my head when it happens 'don't want to be an asshole. ' I've always had problems with that and never liked it so try to not act on it insteasld. It likely comes from a lack of self worth. In a twist of irony however, I am becoming overly critical so time to dial that back.
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I often feel overly competitive and jealous internally but try my hardest to never act on it because as I describe it in my head when it happens 'don't want to be an asshole. ' I've always had problems with that and never liked it so try to not act on it insteasld. It likely comes from a lack of self worth. In a twist of irony however, I am becoming overly critical so time to dial that back.
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Dead
The only one true for me is the jealousy and possessiveness. I don t go and make drama in public or in private honestly I keep it to my self and then I begin to not trust anymore. Yes the communication is not there on my part but people have left after I do comunicare and try to set boundaries. So yeah decided to be single until I fix that about my jealousy and possessiveness
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The only one true for me is the jealousy and possessiveness. I don t go and make drama in public or in private honestly I keep it to my self and then I begin to not trust anymore. Yes the communication is not there on my part but people have left after I do comunicare and try to set boundaries. So yeah decided to be single until I fix that about my jealousy and possessiveness
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Dana
Toxicity can be contagious. When I was an at risk teen due to my troubled home environment where arguments were on the daily, I attracted other toxic people. Now that I'm mindful of how important peace is in the home, I attract people who are about peace. I avoid argumentative and drama seeking people as much as possible. This even includes some relatives.
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Toxicity can be contagious. When I was an at risk teen due to my troubled home environment where arguments were on the daily, I attracted other toxic people. Now that I'm mindful of how important peace is in the home, I attract people who are about peace. I avoid argumentative and drama seeking people as much as possible. This even includes some relatives.
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Hans
Also I don't have do my military service for 2 years but me and my ex-girlfriend breakup
It's happened, and if only she's could watch more of these kind of video then she's would know
If a motherf#cker want to be alone let's the motherf#cker be alone the feeling ain't changing we all need our alone time
But hey I may have dodge a bullet there
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Also I don't have do my military service for 2 years but me and my ex-girlfriend breakup
It's happened, and if only she's could watch more of these kind of video then she's would know
If a motherf#cker want to be alone let's the motherf#cker be alone the feeling ain't changing we all need our alone time
But hey I may have dodge a bullet there
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Lofi
0: 38 You are argumentative.
1: 08 You never own up to mistakes.
1: 50 You can't seem to avoid drama.
2: 26 You are jealous and possessive.
3: 00 You are overly competitive.
3: 37 You are extremely critical of others.
I always love the videos! It's helped me learn more about myself and how to better myself!
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0: 38 You are argumentative.
1: 08 You never own up to mistakes.
1: 50 You can't seem to avoid drama.
2: 26 You are jealous and possessive.
3: 00 You are overly competitive.
3: 37 You are extremely critical of others.
I always love the videos! It's helped me learn more about myself and how to better myself!
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education
When I saw the video s banner picture, I thought of Fruits Basket immediately. If you don t know what fruits basket is, it s a great Anime. I believe the guy on the front is the Dog Zodiac.
The Dog Zodiac is very toxic, and seems to have every single one of the traits listed.
I also loved seeing Bakugo in here-
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When I saw the video s banner picture, I thought of Fruits Basket immediately. If you don t know what fruits basket is, it s a great Anime. I believe the guy on the front is the Dog Zodiac.
The Dog Zodiac is very toxic, and seems to have every single one of the traits listed.
I also loved seeing Bakugo in here-
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loverrlee
The jealousy/possessiveness one is tough because I ve always been the one left out and talked negatively behind my back, so when people consistently don t want to hang out with me but would rather hang out with someone else, it s really hard to not take that personally as though they don t even care about me at all.
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The jealousy/possessiveness one is tough because I ve always been the one left out and talked negatively behind my back, so when people consistently don t want to hang out with me but would rather hang out with someone else, it s really hard to not take that personally as though they don t even care about me at all.
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