3 Common Relationship Mistake To Avoid
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Date: 2023-09-25
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Patricia
One issue that my partner and I just discussed a few days ago that kead to a lot of arguments was:
Be there for your partner, be caring and loving, show that they matter to you. However, take care of yourself too. You're only one person with a life of your own, worries, a family, wants and needs of your own, take care of yourself. Don't give up all your free time and put your needs away for your partner. Once in a while if your partner really needs you, okay, its good to helpful to actually do that, but not constantly. Its puts so much pressure and strain on you and you feel then stressed and irritated because you're not taking care of yourself, you're firgetting about things that your body and mind need.
My partner was always there for me and I felt so loved and cared for, but what we both only noticed after is that it started to take a toll on him. He was more irritated, angry, sad, unmotivated because he wasn't taking care of himself.
Be there for each other, love each other, spend time together, but never forget about yourself and your needs. Please.
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One issue that my partner and I just discussed a few days ago that kead to a lot of arguments was:
Be there for your partner, be caring and loving, show that they matter to you. However, take care of yourself too. You're only one person with a life of your own, worries, a family, wants and needs of your own, take care of yourself. Don't give up all your free time and put your needs away for your partner. Once in a while if your partner really needs you, okay, its good to helpful to actually do that, but not constantly. Its puts so much pressure and strain on you and you feel then stressed and irritated because you're not taking care of yourself, you're firgetting about things that your body and mind need.
My partner was always there for me and I felt so loved and cared for, but what we both only noticed after is that it started to take a toll on him. He was more irritated, angry, sad, unmotivated because he wasn't taking care of himself.
Be there for each other, love each other, spend time together, but never forget about yourself and your needs. Please.
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Raypunzel
Something REAL important that happened to me not too long ago was realizing that me and my boyfriend just didn t have time in our lives to be in a relationship. It was something we had discussed early on but kinda brushed off because of the heat of the moment, but when time went on we realized we were both too busy to give each other the time we deserved from each other and thus had to split even though we had fallen in love by that point. Let it be known to always ask yourself and your potential partner if you guys have enough time to be in a relationship before you go too far
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Something REAL important that happened to me not too long ago was realizing that me and my boyfriend just didn t have time in our lives to be in a relationship. It was something we had discussed early on but kinda brushed off because of the heat of the moment, but when time went on we realized we were both too busy to give each other the time we deserved from each other and thus had to split even though we had fallen in love by that point. Let it be known to always ask yourself and your potential partner if you guys have enough time to be in a relationship before you go too far
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Katielovably
I never been in a relationship but i know quality time and touch/snuggles are my love language being an intervert and scared of crowds and new situations scare scare me a little so i tend to glue to people that i know. When alone in a place i'm familiar with i will go of on my own before returning but if i am in someplace i don't know then i'm like a puppy.
I also explain alot of why i do things. until i comes to awkward moments like talking about feelings or talking about things that both me (i know bad but growing up in a man's world does that)
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I never been in a relationship but i know quality time and touch/snuggles are my love language being an intervert and scared of crowds and new situations scare scare me a little so i tend to glue to people that i know. When alone in a place i'm familiar with i will go of on my own before returning but if i am in someplace i don't know then i'm like a puppy.
I also explain alot of why i do things. until i comes to awkward moments like talking about feelings or talking about things that both me (i know bad but growing up in a man's world does that)
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ouannaaa
A little storytime
i have this crush who i'm kind of friends with? we've been classmates for maybe 2 months now and we're familiar with each other. we play sports together all the time except its him and his group of guys and i'm typically alone playing with them. i kind of developed a crush on him even though i didn't think i would, but the problem is that he lacks self love because of pressure of being the third boy in a family. i want to help him achieve self love first before letting myself like him, but i don't know what to dooo
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A little storytime
i have this crush who i'm kind of friends with? we've been classmates for maybe 2 months now and we're familiar with each other. we play sports together all the time except its him and his group of guys and i'm typically alone playing with them. i kind of developed a crush on him even though i didn't think i would, but the problem is that he lacks self love because of pressure of being the third boy in a family. i want to help him achieve self love first before letting myself like him, but i don't know what to dooo
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KosViik
I have a question regarding love languages. I've had for years, but found no solid answer: Can you learn to appreciate another language?
For me, gifts are null, zero. I really struggle with appreciating gifts at all unless they are truly pinpoint perfectly chosen, and similarly, giving a gift I do not deem similarly perfect just makes me feel bad. And I am not good at gifts either, so one can imagine how to me it feels like pulling a tooth.
Is there a way to change our perception? Change how we treat different languages?
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I have a question regarding love languages. I've had for years, but found no solid answer: Can you learn to appreciate another language?
For me, gifts are null, zero. I really struggle with appreciating gifts at all unless they are truly pinpoint perfectly chosen, and similarly, giving a gift I do not deem similarly perfect just makes me feel bad. And I am not good at gifts either, so one can imagine how to me it feels like pulling a tooth.
Is there a way to change our perception? Change how we treat different languages?
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giga
In a relationship, opposite essences must be present. One of masculine essence and one of feminine. Doesn't matter weather the girl is masculine or the boy is, and the same for feminine, but in my opinion, a male should be masculine and dominative and a female should be feminine and submissive. But a relationship cannot be formed with 2 people of similar essence. Such a relationship would deteriorate very quickly, and if not, the 2 people might be in the relationship but will act as bestfriends.
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In a relationship, opposite essences must be present. One of masculine essence and one of feminine. Doesn't matter weather the girl is masculine or the boy is, and the same for feminine, but in my opinion, a male should be masculine and dominative and a female should be feminine and submissive. But a relationship cannot be formed with 2 people of similar essence. Such a relationship would deteriorate very quickly, and if not, the 2 people might be in the relationship but will act as bestfriends.
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Littysavior
Im glad I knew all of these things before hand and knew what I wanted too. But still, the last one is extremely easy for me because my ADHD side of me will get bored and just DO. Its fantastic and makes everyday interesting. Yes, I keep bare bones order in my life and a routine because my ASD side will grow uncomfortable with chaos, but it is flexible due to my ADHD getting bored. And Im glad it does because we both chill and then blop! Im snuggling up for attention lol
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Im glad I knew all of these things before hand and knew what I wanted too. But still, the last one is extremely easy for me because my ADHD side of me will get bored and just DO. Its fantastic and makes everyday interesting. Yes, I keep bare bones order in my life and a routine because my ASD side will grow uncomfortable with chaos, but it is flexible due to my ADHD getting bored. And Im glad it does because we both chill and then blop! Im snuggling up for attention lol
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Dakie
This video came out with perfect timing for me! My boyfriend and I have been dating since the beginning of January (almost 9 months now. Things have been feeling nowhere near as fulfilling in the past 2 months or so. And guess why! We hadnt had a discussion about love languages yet. Turns out touch and quality time are important to me, and quality time and gift giving are important to him. Now we need to try some new things together!
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This video came out with perfect timing for me! My boyfriend and I have been dating since the beginning of January (almost 9 months now. Things have been feeling nowhere near as fulfilling in the past 2 months or so. And guess why! We hadnt had a discussion about love languages yet. Turns out touch and quality time are important to me, and quality time and gift giving are important to him. Now we need to try some new things together!
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Teresa
Its Illigal to be this early! I feel personally some people date wayyy to early i would stay wait until highschool. For example, I might start small with some close friends and maybe when Im 16-18 I will get more serious because I may be more mature. You should also talk to their parents and if they don't like you I wouldnpersonally just stay friends. Same with my parents aswell.
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Its Illigal to be this early! I feel personally some people date wayyy to early i would stay wait until highschool. For example, I might start small with some close friends and maybe when Im 16-18 I will get more serious because I may be more mature. You should also talk to their parents and if they don't like you I wouldnpersonally just stay friends. Same with my parents aswell.
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Deven
In my personal experience, my immaturity and tendency to overtext is what killed this curious cat over here. I know she didn't feel the same way about me but I still put forth all the effort anyways because I still envisioned a connection with her, I was wrong and just can't seem to forgive myself even though years have now gone by. I refuse to let go even though I know I should.
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In my personal experience, my immaturity and tendency to overtext is what killed this curious cat over here. I know she didn't feel the same way about me but I still put forth all the effort anyways because I still envisioned a connection with her, I was wrong and just can't seem to forgive myself even though years have now gone by. I refuse to let go even though I know I should.
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Carol
Question: if you have a partner texting you a lot blows up your phone and if you're not texting for a hour or two would your partner think you're not interested in talking to him/her/them? Cuz I used to be in a relationship this person would always say why I'm not talking to them when I was busy is that healthy or no?
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Question: if you have a partner texting you a lot blows up your phone and if you're not texting for a hour or two would your partner think you're not interested in talking to him/her/them? Cuz I used to be in a relationship this person would always say why I'm not talking to them when I was busy is that healthy or no?
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Nihonguy
Apparently i have 2 love languages words of affirmation and services, i do enjoy arts and crafts and i do get a big smile on my face when i cook for a bunch of people i love and care about and they all enjoy my efforts and tell me how much they like and appreciate it so makes sense
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Apparently i have 2 love languages words of affirmation and services, i do enjoy arts and crafts and i do get a big smile on my face when i cook for a bunch of people i love and care about and they all enjoy my efforts and tell me how much they like and appreciate it so makes sense
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Araiguma-kun
I don t get love languages. Am I supposed to have one type, but what if I enjoy 2 or 3 of them? Isn t it more like a negative concept, like you not being the gift giving type or you wanting to have me time frequently instead hanging out all the time? It s a little confusing.
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I don t get love languages. Am I supposed to have one type, but what if I enjoy 2 or 3 of them? Isn t it more like a negative concept, like you not being the gift giving type or you wanting to have me time frequently instead hanging out all the time? It s a little confusing.
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Wayne
I don't have a relationship with anyone but my sister. I don't know what the problem is. My brother and sister were married but I never was. I just can't find that one person who's just right for me. I can be friends with others but it never goes any further than that.
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I don't have a relationship with anyone but my sister. I don't know what the problem is. My brother and sister were married but I never was. I just can't find that one person who's just right for me. I can be friends with others but it never goes any further than that.
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Flamingo
Dang it psych2go. I ve been in this headspace not to be in a relationship my whole freshman year for no good reason Stop making me feel as if I m more ready for a relationship than the last time I had one! It makes me feel good about myself!
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Dang it psych2go. I ve been in this headspace not to be in a relationship my whole freshman year for no good reason Stop making me feel as if I m more ready for a relationship than the last time I had one! It makes me feel good about myself!
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MegaManNeo
I make the mistake of not addressing issues in behaviour all the time and right now, I did it with my best friend which I now fear to have hurt by mentioning things.
To see the two at 3: 14 made me feel a little sad for them too:
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I make the mistake of not addressing issues in behaviour all the time and right now, I did it with my best friend which I now fear to have hurt by mentioning things.
To see the two at 3: 14 made me feel a little sad for them too:
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TD,
A strikingly beautiful Latina once told me. and I quote: I hope ypu get hit by a car today! I am going to pray for it.
. It's a different kind of Love. But, given the particular contextual dynamic, it meant a lot to me. Still does.
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A strikingly beautiful Latina once told me. and I quote: I hope ypu get hit by a car today! I am going to pray for it.
. It's a different kind of Love. But, given the particular contextual dynamic, it meant a lot to me. Still does.
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ASite2See120
One mistake I've made was being too afraid to self-advocate even when I knew it would be the right thing to do. If you don't self-advocate, I've learned that you're easier to be taken advantage of. It can go either way.
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One mistake I've made was being too afraid to self-advocate even when I knew it would be the right thing to do. If you don't self-advocate, I've learned that you're easier to be taken advantage of. It can go either way.
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education
I agreed with most of it. But I disagree with the part that said there are only 5 love languages. My love language is constructive criticism. If someone never gives me constructive criticism I don't feel loved by them.
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I agreed with most of it. But I disagree with the part that said there are only 5 love languages. My love language is constructive criticism. If someone never gives me constructive criticism I don't feel loved by them.
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Diane
I think its also important to know your partners attachment style. Anxious/Avoidant combos can be very painful. Anxious needs closeness to feel safe while avoidant needs space to feel safe. Very painful dynamic.
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I think its also important to know your partners attachment style. Anxious/Avoidant combos can be very painful. Anxious needs closeness to feel safe while avoidant needs space to feel safe. Very painful dynamic.
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