6 Ways to Make People Like You
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Date: 2023-12-24
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Video Notes!
(You can use these for your own as well, I don't mind)
0: 00 - 0: 30 intro
0: 30 - 1: 11 Embrace the Pratball Effect
You don't need to be perfect to be liked by others.
The Pratball Effect says that those who show their mistakes are more likely to be liked by others than those who are seen as perfect perfect people could even be more disliked than others.
Imperfection = Relatable
1: 12 - 1: 50 Up From Your Screens
Looking at your phone while in a conversation with someone makes them think that you're not listening/getting distracted. So put your phone away and listen to the other person or that person may grow a disliking to you.
(Just an addition: People love being listened to! So if you don't want that person to dislike you, try listening to them more)
1: 51 - 2: 48 Follow up with Others
When people share their plans in the near future, they might be worried/excited about it that they feel the need to share it.
People will think that you actually care and that you're actually interested in them.
2: 49 - 3: 37 Crack a Smile
People who express more emotions on their faces are more likeable smiling more so.
Smiling actually helps people to build social bonds and be more likeable.
3: 38 - 4: 41 Speak up
Talking more (when first introduced) imprints a postive impression in others.
Of course, you should let other people steer the conversation from time to time and listen to them as well.
4: 42 - 5: 29 Don't Suppress Showing Stress
Showing signs of stress can cause people to react more positively and empathetically to you.
It engages others to cooperatively interact rather than competitvely.
Don't be ashamed of stress! It's natural and everybody experiences it atleast once in their lifetimes.
5: 30 - 5: 49 Conclusion
5: 50 - 6: 23 Cute Psych2Go Plushie!
And always remember, even if it's harsh, it's important to know that not all people will like you some even hate you but that's alright! Because there will always be people in your life who will love the way you are
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Video Notes!
(You can use these for your own as well, I don't mind)
0: 00 - 0: 30 intro
0: 30 - 1: 11 Embrace the Pratball Effect
You don't need to be perfect to be liked by others.
The Pratball Effect says that those who show their mistakes are more likely to be liked by others than those who are seen as perfect perfect people could even be more disliked than others.
Imperfection = Relatable
1: 12 - 1: 50 Up From Your Screens
Looking at your phone while in a conversation with someone makes them think that you're not listening/getting distracted. So put your phone away and listen to the other person or that person may grow a disliking to you.
(Just an addition: People love being listened to! So if you don't want that person to dislike you, try listening to them more)
1: 51 - 2: 48 Follow up with Others
When people share their plans in the near future, they might be worried/excited about it that they feel the need to share it.
People will think that you actually care and that you're actually interested in them.
2: 49 - 3: 37 Crack a Smile
People who express more emotions on their faces are more likeable smiling more so.
Smiling actually helps people to build social bonds and be more likeable.
3: 38 - 4: 41 Speak up
Talking more (when first introduced) imprints a postive impression in others.
Of course, you should let other people steer the conversation from time to time and listen to them as well.
4: 42 - 5: 29 Don't Suppress Showing Stress
Showing signs of stress can cause people to react more positively and empathetically to you.
It engages others to cooperatively interact rather than competitvely.
Don't be ashamed of stress! It's natural and everybody experiences it atleast once in their lifetimes.
5: 30 - 5: 49 Conclusion
5: 50 - 6: 23 Cute Psych2Go Plushie!
And always remember, even if it's harsh, it's important to know that not all people will like you some even hate you but that's alright! Because there will always be people in your life who will love the way you are
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KhoiruunisaRF
Sometimes I've got the vibes of You're as sucks as me, so I like you. We're alike about how people come up to like each other such as in point no. 1. That could be dangerous in a long way. I also found it annoying for people to look at their phones all the time, whether it's because they are indeed busy, using it to avoid confrontation or whatever. If I have reminded them yet they still prefer their gadgets over me, what I'm supposed to do? Can't force them to make friends with me either
Follow up probably the most effective, because people seem to really like to be remembered. However, I tend to forget names or people's faces. I also don't like to be forced to smile. And about speaking up. Most people only want to hear what they want to hear. They don't like to be criticized, even if the critique is spot-on & useful for them. It feels like they don't want to grow as a person & want to stay in the mud. It's also quite well-known that showing signs of stress to other people, even sometimes in front of loved ones can make them uncomfortable.
But these are, of course, the non-idealized situations where everything can turn up bad even if you're trying, even though it also comes from my own experience with others & some observations. There are some occasions where the tips in this video are working, & we get along fine because we're willing to understand each other. So I think the best way is to keep trying.
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Sometimes I've got the vibes of You're as sucks as me, so I like you. We're alike about how people come up to like each other such as in point no. 1. That could be dangerous in a long way. I also found it annoying for people to look at their phones all the time, whether it's because they are indeed busy, using it to avoid confrontation or whatever. If I have reminded them yet they still prefer their gadgets over me, what I'm supposed to do? Can't force them to make friends with me either
Follow up probably the most effective, because people seem to really like to be remembered. However, I tend to forget names or people's faces. I also don't like to be forced to smile. And about speaking up. Most people only want to hear what they want to hear. They don't like to be criticized, even if the critique is spot-on & useful for them. It feels like they don't want to grow as a person & want to stay in the mud. It's also quite well-known that showing signs of stress to other people, even sometimes in front of loved ones can make them uncomfortable.
But these are, of course, the non-idealized situations where everything can turn up bad even if you're trying, even though it also comes from my own experience with others & some observations. There are some occasions where the tips in this video are working, & we get along fine because we're willing to understand each other. So I think the best way is to keep trying.
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scouttrooper7804
Imma be real real with you, I dont find any of these tips helpful for ONE THING.
People will always make crap up in their heads about you that isnt real, and eventually, even if you try to talk to them and try to be as open about how they feel or what made them change, they're just gonna sideline you for other people.
Dont waste your time on them, move on and find the right people to be with.
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Imma be real real with you, I dont find any of these tips helpful for ONE THING.
People will always make crap up in their heads about you that isnt real, and eventually, even if you try to talk to them and try to be as open about how they feel or what made them change, they're just gonna sideline you for other people.
Dont waste your time on them, move on and find the right people to be with.
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Nolamtion-lz6vk
Hey can you make a video on how to make a crush recognize you, because my crush doesn t know I exist. But they know I have a crush on them. Oh and I am to SHY to even talk to her. When I told her I had a crush on her I ran before she could answer that is how scared I was. Please.
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Hey can you make a video on how to make a crush recognize you, because my crush doesn t know I exist. But they know I have a crush on them. Oh and I am to SHY to even talk to her. When I told her I had a crush on her I ran before she could answer that is how scared I was. Please.
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Timestamps
1. Embrace the pratfall effect 0: 29
2. Up from your screens 1: 11
3. Follow up with others 1: 50
4. Crack a smile 2: 46
5. Speak up 3: 35
6. Don't suppress showing stress 4: 40
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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Timestamps
1. Embrace the pratfall effect 0: 29
2. Up from your screens 1: 11
3. Follow up with others 1: 50
4. Crack a smile 2: 46
5. Speak up 3: 35
6. Don't suppress showing stress 4: 40
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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jlwest23
As bad I as want to get them to like me I can never get them too. I m embracing the loneliness and the darkness that comes with it. Eventually I will be gone and won t have to live this existence anymore may I should move forward on leaving this existence behind.
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As bad I as want to get them to like me I can never get them too. I m embracing the loneliness and the darkness that comes with it. Eventually I will be gone and won t have to live this existence anymore may I should move forward on leaving this existence behind.
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cynthx
I am not the audience for this video, so I just popped in here to say
People are gonna think what they will of you regardless of what you do. They're a separate entity out of your control. What matters is what you think of yourself. Good luck.
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I am not the audience for this video, so I just popped in here to say
People are gonna think what they will of you regardless of what you do. They're a separate entity out of your control. What matters is what you think of yourself. Good luck.
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ExistingBone
Sadly the part of the video about smiling is kinda impossible for me, I don't smile often, becouse I don't feel emotions leading to smiling often and faking it while I am preety good at, it kinda makes me sadder and distant
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Sadly the part of the video about smiling is kinda impossible for me, I don't smile often, becouse I don't feel emotions leading to smiling often and faking it while I am preety good at, it kinda makes me sadder and distant
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kdubs9111
Don't let people who get attention for free dictate to you how to get it from THEM. Travel, be who you are, and find your tribe. There's a reason the US state department shut down its online portal for Passport applications.
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Don't let people who get attention for free dictate to you how to get it from THEM. Travel, be who you are, and find your tribe. There's a reason the US state department shut down its online portal for Passport applications.
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Jukari94
Aww. This is so cute! I have been a loner for a long time and maybe this can help me build new friendships. Thank you Psych2go for not making just videos about love and break ups. There has been a lot of them resently.
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Aww. This is so cute! I have been a loner for a long time and maybe this can help me build new friendships. Thank you Psych2go for not making just videos about love and break ups. There has been a lot of them resently.
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psych2go
Sometimes, I never smile all that much, but I am still likable to some. Also, as someone who has AuDHD, I try real hard not to fidget so much. Lastly, sometimes, I have no problem being vulnerable to those around me.
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Sometimes, I never smile all that much, but I am still likable to some. Also, as someone who has AuDHD, I try real hard not to fidget so much. Lastly, sometimes, I have no problem being vulnerable to those around me.
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NightspeakerR
Aye, I made new friends and I enjoy their company as they're like me but also at work. But honestly I enjoy my company the most with my GF so I wouldn't say I am unpopular but rather like a small group to know
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Aye, I made new friends and I enjoy their company as they're like me but also at work. But honestly I enjoy my company the most with my GF so I wouldn't say I am unpopular but rather like a small group to know
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psych2go
I make all of that but I haven't still made any actual friends in university I don't know why but it feels like I cannot take the same energy or effort from another person and that just makes it extra hard. ;(
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I make all of that but I haven't still made any actual friends in university I don't know why but it feels like I cannot take the same energy or effort from another person and that just makes it extra hard. ;(
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psych2go
Heyy psych2go
Really appreciate your guys videos they're pretty relatable and helpful in daily life
Can you make a video on ways to get better at socializing without being awkward?
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Heyy psych2go
Really appreciate your guys videos they're pretty relatable and helpful in daily life
Can you make a video on ways to get better at socializing without being awkward?
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kmcd3020
Never ever change who you are for anybody because it will never work. Pretending and going against what you feel will result cognitive dissonance which can destroy you. Merry Christmas
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Never ever change who you are for anybody because it will never work. Pretending and going against what you feel will result cognitive dissonance which can destroy you. Merry Christmas
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jennyle3356
I mean it is great to be positive keep being positive but personally sometimes I am in a really bad mood and I am in my world but they smile 24/7 at me when I want to think
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I mean it is great to be positive keep being positive but personally sometimes I am in a really bad mood and I am in my world but they smile 24/7 at me when I want to think
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JaydenVera-cj5pu
I hope you have a Merry Christmas and a happy new year. You're doing great and I'm glad you exist.
Moral: Show respect to others, it'll make your life better.
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I hope you have a Merry Christmas and a happy new year. You're doing great and I'm glad you exist.
Moral: Show respect to others, it'll make your life better.
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FishHausemusiclab
I ve done all of these and people still hate me. I try to be nice to people, but I always get taken advantage of or treated like trash. Don t know anymore
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I ve done all of these and people still hate me. I try to be nice to people, but I always get taken advantage of or treated like trash. Don t know anymore
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johanna738
please everyone remember you are amazing and important regardless of how many friends you have, if you are in a relationship, or just how many people like you
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please everyone remember you are amazing and important regardless of how many friends you have, if you are in a relationship, or just how many people like you
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