5 Signs Your Crush is Not Interested in You
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Date: 2024-01-19
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GreenpoppyFoy
Okay so I need advice. If you’re a boy, that’s even better. I’m using my alt account right now so nobody from my high school will see this. I've been looking everywhere on the internet for advice; but none of the stuff I'm finding are good in my situation. My crush and I don't talk at all, we've only spoken some words to each other; but never an entire conversation. Even though we don't talk, I know that he knows me(because one of my friends decided it'd be a good idea to send a follow request to him TWICE from my account so now I'm embarrassed.
I’ve liked him for a while now. I don’t know if he knows; he probably does though. These two people he talks to KNOW that I like him; so they probably told him. He hasn’t said anything though; all I get are a few glances. The longest we've looked at each other was maybe 4-5 seconds. I’ve noticed that he reacts to my name and voice too but I don’t know if I’m being delusional. Since Valentine’s Day is coming up, should I make a move I don't know, I'm in grade 11 and many students in my grade are really rude. I’m just really scared. I’m too nervous to try and talk to him. I’m stuck between talking to him and getting to know him, or just telling him I like him even though we’ve never talked to each other much. What do I do Please help
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Okay so I need advice. If you’re a boy, that’s even better. I’m using my alt account right now so nobody from my high school will see this. I've been looking everywhere on the internet for advice; but none of the stuff I'm finding are good in my situation. My crush and I don't talk at all, we've only spoken some words to each other; but never an entire conversation. Even though we don't talk, I know that he knows me(because one of my friends decided it'd be a good idea to send a follow request to him TWICE from my account so now I'm embarrassed.
I’ve liked him for a while now. I don’t know if he knows; he probably does though. These two people he talks to KNOW that I like him; so they probably told him. He hasn’t said anything though; all I get are a few glances. The longest we've looked at each other was maybe 4-5 seconds. I’ve noticed that he reacts to my name and voice too but I don’t know if I’m being delusional. Since Valentine’s Day is coming up, should I make a move I don't know, I'm in grade 11 and many students in my grade are really rude. I’m just really scared. I’m too nervous to try and talk to him. I’m stuck between talking to him and getting to know him, or just telling him I like him even though we’ve never talked to each other much. What do I do Please help
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sprenzy7936
I have a crush, I'm madly in love I wanna die.
But ivgotta say, I don't do those things that you say if they don't the. They might not like you. I dont fllirt, never done it, dunno how and I don't really know how to conversate well, I cannot carry a conversation, I only do well when they are very engaging
It's funny because I had this crush in high-school and I almost did the same thing, I didn't talk to her and i pretty much ignored her waiting for her to initiate the conversation, but I would always admire from a distance, then she asked me a single question, "do you hate me"
Is this a genuine question Did she really think I hated her because I chose to not be the one always to initiate the conversation and I just waited and waited and waited
I dunno but this is killing me. All i want is to have a platonic relationship and for her to talk to me
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I have a crush, I'm madly in love I wanna die.
But ivgotta say, I don't do those things that you say if they don't the. They might not like you. I dont fllirt, never done it, dunno how and I don't really know how to conversate well, I cannot carry a conversation, I only do well when they are very engaging
It's funny because I had this crush in high-school and I almost did the same thing, I didn't talk to her and i pretty much ignored her waiting for her to initiate the conversation, but I would always admire from a distance, then she asked me a single question, "do you hate me"
Is this a genuine question Did she really think I hated her because I chose to not be the one always to initiate the conversation and I just waited and waited and waited
I dunno but this is killing me. All i want is to have a platonic relationship and for her to talk to me
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psych2go
Ok, I liked this guy; it's not that deep, and I already confessed, but he rejected me. But still, we were friends because we were in the same coaching classes and the same college too, so we went together. We usually talk about finance, stock, trading and sometimes about his family and friends and random things, but we never talk about our love interests or anything like that. But suddenly, a few days ago, he asked me about my school crush (we were in the same school too till 9th grade. i do had a crush on another guy for 7 years but now i don't. What does it mean Is he just curious to know about my crush I don't want to overthink it; I think he's just curious that's all what do you guys think.
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Ok, I liked this guy; it's not that deep, and I already confessed, but he rejected me. But still, we were friends because we were in the same coaching classes and the same college too, so we went together. We usually talk about finance, stock, trading and sometimes about his family and friends and random things, but we never talk about our love interests or anything like that. But suddenly, a few days ago, he asked me about my school crush (we were in the same school too till 9th grade. i do had a crush on another guy for 7 years but now i don't. What does it mean Is he just curious to know about my crush I don't want to overthink it; I think he's just curious that's all what do you guys think.
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khrisbreezy3628
Things I try to focus on remembering:
-Someone not being interested and actually TELLING YOU is a GOOD thing.
-Its always best to be told sooner rather than later because it saves everyone involved precious time. Time that is best not wasted on pursuing a fruitless relation.
-If feelings are not mutual, you don't want it. Love has to be a two-way street to truly work.
-as Barney Stinson said; "New is always better! " It's a privilege to move on and find new, different people to surprise you. Eventually one of them will blossom into something unique and wonderful.
-You only need Chemistry and Timing. Focus on what you can control and enjoy the wild ride otherwise!
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Things I try to focus on remembering:
-Someone not being interested and actually TELLING YOU is a GOOD thing.
-Its always best to be told sooner rather than later because it saves everyone involved precious time. Time that is best not wasted on pursuing a fruitless relation.
-If feelings are not mutual, you don't want it. Love has to be a two-way street to truly work.
-as Barney Stinson said; "New is always better! " It's a privilege to move on and find new, different people to surprise you. Eventually one of them will blossom into something unique and wonderful.
-You only need Chemistry and Timing. Focus on what you can control and enjoy the wild ride otherwise!
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Cosmicmorales
If you ask me. (and no I ain't generalizing women and I'm not bitter so before one of you guys come up with some bum understand what I'm saying) it's better to be friend-zoned by a chick than to be one of those guys who are humiliated and accused of being a pdf file just because a guy’s looks doesn't meet the chick’s standards. Because at least with being friend-zoned, you’ll be able to learn from it and get over it. The other stuff, however, stays with you and destroys your confidence, takes much longer to heal, and it can potentially ruin your life.
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If you ask me. (and no I ain't generalizing women and I'm not bitter so before one of you guys come up with some bum understand what I'm saying) it's better to be friend-zoned by a chick than to be one of those guys who are humiliated and accused of being a pdf file just because a guy’s looks doesn't meet the chick’s standards. Because at least with being friend-zoned, you’ll be able to learn from it and get over it. The other stuff, however, stays with you and destroys your confidence, takes much longer to heal, and it can potentially ruin your life.
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Cosmicmorales
If you ask me. (and no I ain't generalizing women and I'm not bitter so before one of you guys come up with some bum understand what I'm saying) it's better to be friend-zoned by a chick than to be one of those guys who are humiliated and accused of being a pdf file just because a guy’s looks doesn't meet the chick’s standards. Because at least with being friend-zoned, you’ll be able to learn from it and get over it. The other stuff, however, stays with you and destroys your confidence, takes much longer to heal, and it can potentially ruin your life.
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If you ask me. (and no I ain't generalizing women and I'm not bitter so before one of you guys come up with some bum understand what I'm saying) it's better to be friend-zoned by a chick than to be one of those guys who are humiliated and accused of being a pdf file just because a guy’s looks doesn't meet the chick’s standards. Because at least with being friend-zoned, you’ll be able to learn from it and get over it. The other stuff, however, stays with you and destroys your confidence, takes much longer to heal, and it can potentially ruin your life.
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listentothelawww
I'm so glad & proud that the women of the real world believe me to be and look on me with disgust. The one woman I would've ever considered to be possibly compatible with me in the last 20 or so years of my life happens to be the crush of a million men around the world our paths will never cross and I'll never matter or meet her in real life. Even if you're in a loveless relationship, it's wrong to have crushes on other people and for that, I'll admit to being wrong, but I'm only human and it's just me daydreaming at the end of the day anyway.
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I'm so glad & proud that the women of the real world believe me to be and look on me with disgust. The one woman I would've ever considered to be possibly compatible with me in the last 20 or so years of my life happens to be the crush of a million men around the world our paths will never cross and I'll never matter or meet her in real life. Even if you're in a loveless relationship, it's wrong to have crushes on other people and for that, I'll admit to being wrong, but I'm only human and it's just me daydreaming at the end of the day anyway.
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geminiguy6032
Everyone whose exprienced this and is still single, please be aware, not just that of the people who are uninterested, but to the people who are also interested but are too shy to say anything. I promise you, there will be a ton of people you meet throughout your life that will and/or already do find you attractive, you just have to meet them first and get to know them, because in this day and age, people are masters at masking their true feelings socially and need to feel safe enough before expressing their true feelings.
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Everyone whose exprienced this and is still single, please be aware, not just that of the people who are uninterested, but to the people who are also interested but are too shy to say anything. I promise you, there will be a ton of people you meet throughout your life that will and/or already do find you attractive, you just have to meet them first and get to know them, because in this day and age, people are masters at masking their true feelings socially and need to feel safe enough before expressing their true feelings.
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ShadowZZZ
I have a crush but I seem to make her uncomfortable. shes pretty. I like her personality, she does the same profession. and im a high quality man too, i conpliment her, am always nice, we have deep talks and I help her out, gift her drinks. Its just. Im terrified kf coming off as weird or awkward. I struggle with a lot in my personal life. divorce, heartbreak, depression, anxiety, asd, add, ptsd, low self esteem. and idk if im ready for dating again or should work on myself enough to fix my brokenness.
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I have a crush but I seem to make her uncomfortable. shes pretty. I like her personality, she does the same profession. and im a high quality man too, i conpliment her, am always nice, we have deep talks and I help her out, gift her drinks. Its just. Im terrified kf coming off as weird or awkward. I struggle with a lot in my personal life. divorce, heartbreak, depression, anxiety, asd, add, ptsd, low self esteem. and idk if im ready for dating again or should work on myself enough to fix my brokenness.
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psych2go
It matters not if my crush has any interest in me or not at this point. It’s not my primary goal at this point or won’t be. New gym opens tomorrow and I’m already a member. Swan diving in head first. 2024 goals connect better with family, evolve myself in a positive direction and find my purpose in life. I’ll get it done even if it’s painful. All of you can do this because I know I can.
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It matters not if my crush has any interest in me or not at this point. It’s not my primary goal at this point or won’t be. New gym opens tomorrow and I’m already a member. Swan diving in head first. 2024 goals connect better with family, evolve myself in a positive direction and find my purpose in life. I’ll get it done even if it’s painful. All of you can do this because I know I can.
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maz-jd8qf
0: 17 -- they dont seem particularly focused on you or what you have to say.
0: 48 -- they're always busy.
1: 24 -- you're the one starting all the conversations.
1: 51 -- your conversations are either professional or small talk.
2: 17 -- they treat you like their buddy or acquaintance.
sorry for everyone who found out the hard way. i hope u find ur special someone soon
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0: 17 -- they dont seem particularly focused on you or what you have to say.
0: 48 -- they're always busy.
1: 24 -- you're the one starting all the conversations.
1: 51 -- your conversations are either professional or small talk.
2: 17 -- they treat you like their buddy or acquaintance.
sorry for everyone who found out the hard way. i hope u find ur special someone soon
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K. D. Sedits
Lets be real, it is safe to say that most people we have a crush on don't like us back, not because anything is wrong they just never thought of you that way, the ones who do like you back are normally the ones you are dating, also people dont expect your crush to like if you if you don't even talk to them lol, i know it is obvious but somehow people tend to not think about that.
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Lets be real, it is safe to say that most people we have a crush on don't like us back, not because anything is wrong they just never thought of you that way, the ones who do like you back are normally the ones you are dating, also people dont expect your crush to like if you if you don't even talk to them lol, i know it is obvious but somehow people tend to not think about that.
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. They don't seem particularly focused on you or what you have to say 0: 16
2. They're always busy 0: 47
3. You're the one starting all the conversations 1: 21
4. Your conversations are either professional or small talk 1: 49
5. They treat like their buddy or acquaintance 2: 15
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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Timestamps
1. They don't seem particularly focused on you or what you have to say 0: 16
2. They're always busy 0: 47
3. You're the one starting all the conversations 1: 21
4. Your conversations are either professional or small talk 1: 49
5. They treat like their buddy or acquaintance 2: 15
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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alexiacrystal16
It's hard to know if they like they can just be friendly and that's all. I was the one who started the conversations and approached them and I got rejected a lot throughout highschool 7 times actually and always got stuck in the friendzone it's hard to accept the fact that they don't like you and that there's even a small hope that they might like you back
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It's hard to know if they like they can just be friendly and that's all. I was the one who started the conversations and approached them and I got rejected a lot throughout highschool 7 times actually and always got stuck in the friendzone it's hard to accept the fact that they don't like you and that there's even a small hope that they might like you back
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greenpapperwn1743
I'm feeling strange cuz there is nothing seriously with my crush but she is keeping coming into my house to talk and sometimes kissing but there is no a relationship, i didnt know she had a boyfriend, actually she bumped him two days ago, idk what should I do, this feeling is a real sh. I just wanted to tell my feelings to someome: ')
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I'm feeling strange cuz there is nothing seriously with my crush but she is keeping coming into my house to talk and sometimes kissing but there is no a relationship, i didnt know she had a boyfriend, actually she bumped him two days ago, idk what should I do, this feeling is a real sh. I just wanted to tell my feelings to someome: ')
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StarFighter748
A friend of mine said i got all the qualities of a steller person. Im charismatic, got passion, good looking (according to them) fun to be around and most importantly "you're not weird. " She said she would date me, but I dont't give the "bu-bumps" and thats the most impotent thing out of all else.
TLDR: Im not their type.
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A friend of mine said i got all the qualities of a steller person. Im charismatic, got passion, good looking (according to them) fun to be around and most importantly "you're not weird. " She said she would date me, but I dont't give the "bu-bumps" and thats the most impotent thing out of all else.
TLDR: Im not their type.
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krystalmendez2994
I still get mixed signals they'll seem interested in what I'm saying, live far so that's not them being busy, we both start conversation but it always ends with the last message being from me, conversation is interesting, and I haven't seen them around their friends in order to compare how they act with me versus them
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I still get mixed signals they'll seem interested in what I'm saying, live far so that's not them being busy, we both start conversation but it always ends with the last message being from me, conversation is interesting, and I haven't seen them around their friends in order to compare how they act with me versus them
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BlossomsMeadow
I don't really start convos because I have nothing to talk about, and I'm an introvert, but if you start a convo with me I'll keep ranting and speaking on, I truly don't mean harm if I don't start convos, sometimes I will tho! but also yeah I will reject every one whos interested in me
I'm aromantic so, yeah.
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I don't really start convos because I have nothing to talk about, and I'm an introvert, but if you start a convo with me I'll keep ranting and speaking on, I truly don't mean harm if I don't start convos, sometimes I will tho! but also yeah I will reject every one whos interested in me
I'm aromantic so, yeah.
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flamegamer3424
This video was needed. Most of my crushes in the past weren’t interested in me. They don’t start the conversations or come up to me, it always up to me. When convos do happen, it goes by very short as if they don’t want to be fully engaged. Overall, they see me as filler. It’s really sad.
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This video was needed. Most of my crushes in the past weren’t interested in me. They don’t start the conversations or come up to me, it always up to me. When convos do happen, it goes by very short as if they don’t want to be fully engaged. Overall, they see me as filler. It’s really sad.
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ProsteKiara
I don't wanna jinx it, but. For the first time in my life I can say, that my crush doesn't do any of these things. Plus I literally told him I like him the first day we met each other. He seems fine with that. He's a bit younger than me and hurt from his past, so I'm as slow with him as possible.
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I don't wanna jinx it, but. For the first time in my life I can say, that my crush doesn't do any of these things. Plus I literally told him I like him the first day we met each other. He seems fine with that. He's a bit younger than me and hurt from his past, so I'm as slow with him as possible.
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