4 Signs You're Faking Your Niceness & WHY
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Date: 2024-04-16
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umbra4233
I don't want to believe i fale niceness, but I feel I'm nice to everyone even if they hurt me. Like I will stay quiet about how they made me feel in fear of being seen as too sensitive (this has happened too many times) or in fear of me hurting the other person. For me, I'd rather take in the hurt than speaking up to the other person. I'm also autistic so I'm also wonder if I show genuine kindness. When someone gifts me something and I say that I love it (like I want to scream in excitement but don't, I either feel like they think I'm not being genuine or trying to put on a show by overexagerating my reaction
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I don't want to believe i fale niceness, but I feel I'm nice to everyone even if they hurt me. Like I will stay quiet about how they made me feel in fear of being seen as too sensitive (this has happened too many times) or in fear of me hurting the other person. For me, I'd rather take in the hurt than speaking up to the other person. I'm also autistic so I'm also wonder if I show genuine kindness. When someone gifts me something and I say that I love it (like I want to scream in excitement but don't, I either feel like they think I'm not being genuine or trying to put on a show by overexagerating my reaction
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horacestorm13
To be honest, I'm considered by many as a pretty kind and gentle type of guy by heart, not like putting up an act or anything. You could say it already ate into my veins, so it's kinda hard not to be kind.
Well, except for when I get super mad, though. A facade would be put up and my other scheme-loving, psychotic, unforgiving personality would make its way to temporarily relieve my gentle personality off its duty. Sounds edgy as hell, but it is what it is: V
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To be honest, I'm considered by many as a pretty kind and gentle type of guy by heart, not like putting up an act or anything. You could say it already ate into my veins, so it's kinda hard not to be kind.
Well, except for when I get super mad, though. A facade would be put up and my other scheme-loving, psychotic, unforgiving personality would make its way to temporarily relieve my gentle personality off its duty. Sounds edgy as hell, but it is what it is: V
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psych2go
Honestly, I feel like most people I meet only like me when I just shut up and agree with everything they say and do what I'm told by them. And whenever I say or do anything that they disagree with, I'm labeled a jerk for it. Makes me wonder sometimes if anyone even wants to have a sincere relationship with me or maybe they just see me a means to an end and nothing more.
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Honestly, I feel like most people I meet only like me when I just shut up and agree with everything they say and do what I'm told by them. And whenever I say or do anything that they disagree with, I'm labeled a jerk for it. Makes me wonder sometimes if anyone even wants to have a sincere relationship with me or maybe they just see me a means to an end and nothing more.
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keip4568
In reality, everyone needs to fake niceness IRL especially working or not offending someone.
So this is kind of strange to me. A lot of people cannot handle authenticity or the truth.
It is too much for people as the truth hurts some carry much more baggage than others and many cannot handle it or it triggers them.
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In reality, everyone needs to fake niceness IRL especially working or not offending someone.
So this is kind of strange to me. A lot of people cannot handle authenticity or the truth.
It is too much for people as the truth hurts some carry much more baggage than others and many cannot handle it or it triggers them.
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psych2gomandarin
0: 00 intro
0: 31 1. sincere compliments
1: 00 2. Teflon Interactions
1: 38 3. Seeking Validation
2: 13 4. All Talk, but No Action
2: 43 why you're faking niceness
2: 44 1. Trauma
3: 07 2. Fear of Rejections
3: 29 3. Low Self-esteem
3: 52 conclusion
4: 06 outro
4: 12 ad
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0: 00 intro
0: 31 1. sincere compliments
1: 00 2. Teflon Interactions
1: 38 3. Seeking Validation
2: 13 4. All Talk, but No Action
2: 43 why you're faking niceness
2: 44 1. Trauma
3: 07 2. Fear of Rejections
3: 29 3. Low Self-esteem
3: 52 conclusion
4: 06 outro
4: 12 ad
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flamegamer3424
The only time when I would fake my niceness is when someone I don’t know talks to me out of nowhere, especially when I’m already uncomfortable, or when I’m not sure if I’m interested in participating in a certain. Other than that, I try to be as genuine as I can.
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The only time when I would fake my niceness is when someone I don’t know talks to me out of nowhere, especially when I’m already uncomfortable, or when I’m not sure if I’m interested in participating in a certain. Other than that, I try to be as genuine as I can.
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GabbySugarRush
Am I faking it if im kind to others cause I wanna see em smile and it makes me feel better, but I also do kind things in secret, I wanna help restore people's faith in humanity and spread smiles, it makes me happy and makes me feel like I matter, is that selfish
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Am I faking it if im kind to others cause I wanna see em smile and it makes me feel better, but I also do kind things in secret, I wanna help restore people's faith in humanity and spread smiles, it makes me happy and makes me feel like I matter, is that selfish
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user-qd7lw1eb2s
I think I am really nice to people but it's because I'm just trying to make them feel good about themselves, it's like I'm unconsciously telling myself, I know how it feels to not be validated and made feel good, so I don't know if my niceness is fake
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I think I am really nice to people but it's because I'm just trying to make them feel good about themselves, it's like I'm unconsciously telling myself, I know how it feels to not be validated and made feel good, so I don't know if my niceness is fake
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psych2go
Isn't that a book or a psychological study about the different masks we wear everyday in life. Some of us are just tired of switching masks out. You don't have to worry about pretending to be nice when you're done wearing the masks they want you to wear.
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Isn't that a book or a psychological study about the different masks we wear everyday in life. Some of us are just tired of switching masks out. You don't have to worry about pretending to be nice when you're done wearing the masks they want you to wear.
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lenninmontiel4539
Just because you see a smile my dear, doesn't mean I am happy, a smile can be used to keep those around you feel comfortable and keep you're enemies guessing. besides you all can never tell if I say the truth or a lie with my smile.
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Just because you see a smile my dear, doesn't mean I am happy, a smile can be used to keep those around you feel comfortable and keep you're enemies guessing. besides you all can never tell if I say the truth or a lie with my smile.
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cookiemonnom_
Ok well I learned I am NOT faking niceness, but I am struggling with giving without expectations, and the people around me do not support me in the way I need and the way I would for them. I’m drained and feeling hopeless
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Ok well I learned I am NOT faking niceness, but I am struggling with giving without expectations, and the people around me do not support me in the way I need and the way I would for them. I’m drained and feeling hopeless
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gamemsster_gc1601
Damn this video really hit me hard but I'm not gonna lie it's quite understandable because of some people always used to being nice just to get attention from other's so I can't disagree with this video
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Damn this video really hit me hard but I'm not gonna lie it's quite understandable because of some people always used to being nice just to get attention from other's so I can't disagree with this video
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roaaibrahim424
Ignorance is bliss, realize that u're traumatized and fake is really painful thing, but it's necessary.
What about give step by step solutions and focus on the disadvantages of being fake niceness
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Ignorance is bliss, realize that u're traumatized and fake is really painful thing, but it's necessary.
What about give step by step solutions and focus on the disadvantages of being fake niceness
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Tac-Tac
Signs
1. Insincere Compliments
2. Teflon Interactions
3. Seeking Validation
4. All Talk, but No Action
Reasons
1. Trauma
2. Fear of Rejections
3. Low Self-esteem
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Signs
1. Insincere Compliments
2. Teflon Interactions
3. Seeking Validation
4. All Talk, but No Action
Reasons
1. Trauma
2. Fear of Rejections
3. Low Self-esteem
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Nik0_07
Thanks for the update, hmmmm it is what it is. If I want to be nice, I don't forget about being honest if the opinion is not the same with me, but in the end it is just an opinion
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Thanks for the update, hmmmm it is what it is. If I want to be nice, I don't forget about being honest if the opinion is not the same with me, but in the end it is just an opinion
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erikallen863
I'm fake nice because of all of the above, but also because I don't want to project how impatient and angry I always am. It's not easy. It should be.
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I'm fake nice because of all of the above, but also because I don't want to project how impatient and angry I always am. It's not easy. It should be.
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ashleyklump4638
I tell someone to lmk if they need anything bc its good manners and im genuine about it. I may not be able to do everything. But, ill do what I can.
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I tell someone to lmk if they need anything bc its good manners and im genuine about it. I may not be able to do everything. But, ill do what I can.
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TheChainTV
It really hurts sometimes, your putting a happy facade for your family they ask how you are doing and you say Im fine, while deep inside your not fine.
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It really hurts sometimes, your putting a happy facade for your family they ask how you are doing and you say Im fine, while deep inside your not fine.
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artisticalex1206
Honestly as an autistic person this unfortunately is accurate because I’ve been bullied all my life and I get worried about being too nice.
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Honestly as an autistic person this unfortunately is accurate because I’ve been bullied all my life and I get worried about being too nice.
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DrRyguy24
Or maybe you are taught by society that this is how you should behave. No one wants to be around someone who is grumpy, quiet, or impolite.
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Or maybe you are taught by society that this is how you should behave. No one wants to be around someone who is grumpy, quiet, or impolite.
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