7 Signs You're Rejecting Love Without Knowing It
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Date: 2024-04-21
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Davey-TheDJ
No 1 is normal because there's no such thing as normal normal does not exist in our lives nobody is perfect nobody is normal everybody has their faults and their talents some have more than the other and some have less than the other everybody's uniquely different so nobody is normal there is only one who was perfect and he's not here right now he's coming back but we don't know when yes I'm gay and I'm in a relationship 5 years now and we're having problems it starts with me by bipolar and other mental illnesses he's just coming to realize that I'm narcissistic really bad I have no therapist so it's been really rough lately there's been some Financial strain due to change of job but to be honest this is not what I signed up for I signed up for love and not have to worry about where the rent money is coming from electric money is coming from my car payment is coming from I pay his car payment he pays my car payment I pay his because it's cheaper than mine but I just got him a car yesterday I put it in my name because there is no vehicle and the last two that I paid for did not have my name on the title or registration my car that I drive has my name and is but this one here it's just in my name on the title the contracts in both names like it was when the other two cards that I paid for but I really loved this man I thought this is perfect he's got it but he cannot deal with my mental illness that's the biggest thing right there for him is my mental illness hey at least I am bringing money in and not totally living off of him I bring in close to 1500 dollars a month so and he knows that I have limited income what's the straw that broke the camel's back and why were so bad today I don't want to lose some but I need someone tell my deepest darkest thoughts that are running through my head trust me there are some evil thoughts in there that I need to get out and I don't have nobody to get it out to and I can't get it out to a therapist cuz I want to block me up in the hospital so no I don't want to do that I don't want to go there either I don't want to die I finally want to live and I'm in a relationship that is hurting namely because of my mental illness he cannot deal with the fact that I have memory loss ADHD he ain't worried about the bipolar he cannot deal with my narcissistic I have full cluster B he cannot deal with my self-destructive Behavior if I turn that on that's borderline personality disorder self-destructive Behavior what I'm doing right now is called histrionic personality disorder drama but seriously I don't know without therapist I can't get anything done and it's hard to find a therapist that takes my insurance I have the good old Medicare Medicaid through United Healthcare AARP I don't have that yet but it's on tied into that already I ain't over 50 yet I don't know what to do next
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No 1 is normal because there's no such thing as normal normal does not exist in our lives nobody is perfect nobody is normal everybody has their faults and their talents some have more than the other and some have less than the other everybody's uniquely different so nobody is normal there is only one who was perfect and he's not here right now he's coming back but we don't know when yes I'm gay and I'm in a relationship 5 years now and we're having problems it starts with me by bipolar and other mental illnesses he's just coming to realize that I'm narcissistic really bad I have no therapist so it's been really rough lately there's been some Financial strain due to change of job but to be honest this is not what I signed up for I signed up for love and not have to worry about where the rent money is coming from electric money is coming from my car payment is coming from I pay his car payment he pays my car payment I pay his because it's cheaper than mine but I just got him a car yesterday I put it in my name because there is no vehicle and the last two that I paid for did not have my name on the title or registration my car that I drive has my name and is but this one here it's just in my name on the title the contracts in both names like it was when the other two cards that I paid for but I really loved this man I thought this is perfect he's got it but he cannot deal with my mental illness that's the biggest thing right there for him is my mental illness hey at least I am bringing money in and not totally living off of him I bring in close to 1500 dollars a month so and he knows that I have limited income what's the straw that broke the camel's back and why were so bad today I don't want to lose some but I need someone tell my deepest darkest thoughts that are running through my head trust me there are some evil thoughts in there that I need to get out and I don't have nobody to get it out to and I can't get it out to a therapist cuz I want to block me up in the hospital so no I don't want to do that I don't want to go there either I don't want to die I finally want to live and I'm in a relationship that is hurting namely because of my mental illness he cannot deal with the fact that I have memory loss ADHD he ain't worried about the bipolar he cannot deal with my narcissistic I have full cluster B he cannot deal with my self-destructive Behavior if I turn that on that's borderline personality disorder self-destructive Behavior what I'm doing right now is called histrionic personality disorder drama but seriously I don't know without therapist I can't get anything done and it's hard to find a therapist that takes my insurance I have the good old Medicare Medicaid through United Healthcare AARP I don't have that yet but it's on tied into that already I ain't over 50 yet I don't know what to do next
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MegaManNeo
I'm pretty certain by now I needed hugs and someone close to me more than just gifts or the knowledge I'm with my mom.
She was the best but I don't feel like she could give me the love I needed. Probably she knew that too which is why she felt so bad: (
sigh Yea. but I too experienced lots of bullying ever since I was a kid and girls usually made fun of my looks and my voice, the same way boys did anyway but that left a deep mark.
The unrealistic expectations thing however is something that everyone needs to learn in time, I think. Personally I enjoy those love stories for what they are in movies and shows but I accept it as functional construct in that fictional environment. Nothing that'd work in real life necessary.
As for the disorder thing, if anything it would be a combination of fear of rejection, the bad experiences from bullying and being highly introverted for me. I just lack massive social experiences.
Pretty sure I could pull off to love someone and commit to it but. it's no given for me.
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I'm pretty certain by now I needed hugs and someone close to me more than just gifts or the knowledge I'm with my mom.
She was the best but I don't feel like she could give me the love I needed. Probably she knew that too which is why she felt so bad: (
sigh Yea. but I too experienced lots of bullying ever since I was a kid and girls usually made fun of my looks and my voice, the same way boys did anyway but that left a deep mark.
The unrealistic expectations thing however is something that everyone needs to learn in time, I think. Personally I enjoy those love stories for what they are in movies and shows but I accept it as functional construct in that fictional environment. Nothing that'd work in real life necessary.
As for the disorder thing, if anything it would be a combination of fear of rejection, the bad experiences from bullying and being highly introverted for me. I just lack massive social experiences.
Pretty sure I could pull off to love someone and commit to it but. it's no given for me.
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Rosemarie-ll7yp
I need help, i like this guy since last year and we tried to get into a relationship, but it never worked. I thought that I was the one avoiding, but watching this video made me realise that he probably is the one avoiding. He tells me he loves me, but don't talk to me very often, he is an insecure guy and he dont think that he is worty of love. Everytime I say that it won't work and that we can stay friends, i'm scared that he move on. He doesn't make efforts. Maybe he is scared. I can't move on, but I never feel like it works.
I'm very open to advices and thoughts
(English isnt my first language, sorry for the mistakes: ) )
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I need help, i like this guy since last year and we tried to get into a relationship, but it never worked. I thought that I was the one avoiding, but watching this video made me realise that he probably is the one avoiding. He tells me he loves me, but don't talk to me very often, he is an insecure guy and he dont think that he is worty of love. Everytime I say that it won't work and that we can stay friends, i'm scared that he move on. He doesn't make efforts. Maybe he is scared. I can't move on, but I never feel like it works.
I'm very open to advices and thoughts
(English isnt my first language, sorry for the mistakes: ) )
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evanneal4936
The autism spectrum is not a mental disorder. it's just a developmental disability that causes the brain to be wired differently. I know it's in the name ASD but thats only because they don't know what else to say and because its not the norm. I was a bit offended to hear it called a mental disorder similar to something like bpd or depression since i have autism, but i also have a 200 IQ, so that proves its not always a disorder type thing. The spectrum is like being a slightly different shade of a color than others. You don't say that bulb is the WRONG color. You say that bulb is a DIFFERENT color.
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The autism spectrum is not a mental disorder. it's just a developmental disability that causes the brain to be wired differently. I know it's in the name ASD but thats only because they don't know what else to say and because its not the norm. I was a bit offended to hear it called a mental disorder similar to something like bpd or depression since i have autism, but i also have a 200 IQ, so that proves its not always a disorder type thing. The spectrum is like being a slightly different shade of a color than others. You don't say that bulb is the WRONG color. You say that bulb is a DIFFERENT color.
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eaglegaming1012
I broke up with my loved ones(like literally she was my first love. She left me for no reason and she told that we can be friends like before even if she loves me so much or I love her. She said this was not our age to be in a relationship. I cried the whole night just thinking she loves me but.
I don't know how to express this
I'm cryin while watching this video like this have so much loyalty and betrayal.
At the end of the day life is not like a movie where you fell for someone and it's meant to be mine.
Stay happy wherever you are. I love you
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I broke up with my loved ones(like literally she was my first love. She left me for no reason and she told that we can be friends like before even if she loves me so much or I love her. She said this was not our age to be in a relationship. I cried the whole night just thinking she loves me but.
I don't know how to express this
I'm cryin while watching this video like this have so much loyalty and betrayal.
At the end of the day life is not like a movie where you fell for someone and it's meant to be mine.
Stay happy wherever you are. I love you
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sophie0918
I don’t feel like I am unworthy to be loved, it’s just, who in their right mind would love me Did they hit their head on a fire hydrant or something I am not meant to be loved. Liked Sure, who wouldn’t Hate Fair enough, because the feeling is more than mutual, love But someone saying they love me Sorry, that doesn’t work with me here. I accept hearts, but not that kind, I’m afraid. Come back to me when you have the right currency
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I don’t feel like I am unworthy to be loved, it’s just, who in their right mind would love me Did they hit their head on a fire hydrant or something I am not meant to be loved. Liked Sure, who wouldn’t Hate Fair enough, because the feeling is more than mutual, love But someone saying they love me Sorry, that doesn’t work with me here. I accept hearts, but not that kind, I’m afraid. Come back to me when you have the right currency
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geomaster_86
Hey Psych. My mind has been troubled recently. I am still of school age and have had trouble with relationships before. I had just found out that the girl I like likes my friend. The only class I have with her is the only class she has with him. Except I know for a fact that he has no feelings for her. So I guess what I'm asking is this: should I see if they turn out to be anything, or should I try to win her over Any other advice
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Hey Psych. My mind has been troubled recently. I am still of school age and have had trouble with relationships before. I had just found out that the girl I like likes my friend. The only class I have with her is the only class she has with him. Except I know for a fact that he has no feelings for her. So I guess what I'm asking is this: should I see if they turn out to be anything, or should I try to win her over Any other advice
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AC-ni4gt
Relatable but I'm slowly learning how to accept the love languages of others. As an autistic person with depression and anxiety, yeah it's a pain in the spine. However through guided therapy and conversations with open-minded fellows, I was able to understand love languages. I still am however unable to commit myself for a long run. Not because I fear love. I have my reasons. But respect is my largest one.
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Relatable but I'm slowly learning how to accept the love languages of others. As an autistic person with depression and anxiety, yeah it's a pain in the spine. However through guided therapy and conversations with open-minded fellows, I was able to understand love languages. I still am however unable to commit myself for a long run. Not because I fear love. I have my reasons. But respect is my largest one.
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RoninRen
I've more or less been sick of this logic(you know what its mostly related to narratives) that just wanting/looking for love, is what insures that you'll be single for life(sorry I just can't deal with the contradiction, that if both are shy, you can't be the first to ask, because you just ruined your chances by taking the initiative, but they can't approach you, you have to walk over to them)
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I've more or less been sick of this logic(you know what its mostly related to narratives) that just wanting/looking for love, is what insures that you'll be single for life(sorry I just can't deal with the contradiction, that if both are shy, you can't be the first to ask, because you just ruined your chances by taking the initiative, but they can't approach you, you have to walk over to them)
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psych2go
I’ve been numb for a long time now to the point where I don’t know if my emotions even exist anymore. I’ve never been good at relationships and always keep them at the surface level as I don’t want to hurt the other person when they realize their feelings may not be reciprocated. I wonder if it’s just me cuz I talked to closed ones about it but no one seems to understand
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I’ve been numb for a long time now to the point where I don’t know if my emotions even exist anymore. I’ve never been good at relationships and always keep them at the surface level as I don’t want to hurt the other person when they realize their feelings may not be reciprocated. I wonder if it’s just me cuz I talked to closed ones about it but no one seems to understand
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dreams_of_gaia
I've been rejected so many times, not only by people I liked romantically but friends and family as well (even my therapist told me I had low chances of anyone ever loving me, that I can't help but feel like love just isn't for me, maybe I'm just not worthy of it after all. It's been like his forever, so why would it change now
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I've been rejected so many times, not only by people I liked romantically but friends and family as well (even my therapist told me I had low chances of anyone ever loving me, that I can't help but feel like love just isn't for me, maybe I'm just not worthy of it after all. It's been like his forever, so why would it change now
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memorableman3709
0: 17 Misunderstanding what love is.
1: 09 Feeling unworthy of love.
1: 34 Unrealistic expectations.
2: 20 Fear of commitment.
2: 53 Fear of vulnerability.
3: 30 Disorders that make love difficult.
Edit: I seem to have missed one but I can’t tell what. If someone could tell me, I’ll add it.
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0: 17 Misunderstanding what love is.
1: 09 Feeling unworthy of love.
1: 34 Unrealistic expectations.
2: 20 Fear of commitment.
2: 53 Fear of vulnerability.
3: 30 Disorders that make love difficult.
Edit: I seem to have missed one but I can’t tell what. If someone could tell me, I’ll add it.
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DreiPinguine
Feel like many of these issues aren't actually people rejecting love but people just being not being able to connect for various reasons. Saying they reject love makes it seem like they actively choose not to give in when they don't have a choice at all. Granted, i don't know a better way to word it right off the bat.
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Feel like many of these issues aren't actually people rejecting love but people just being not being able to connect for various reasons. Saying they reject love makes it seem like they actively choose not to give in when they don't have a choice at all. Granted, i don't know a better way to word it right off the bat.
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MindBuddies
I absolutely loved the way this video addressed the common yet rarely discussed issue of love rejection. The part about the Triangular Theory of Love was so insightful and made me realize the importance of passion, intimacy, and commitment in forming strong connections. Thank you for such a thoughtful presentation!
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I absolutely loved the way this video addressed the common yet rarely discussed issue of love rejection. The part about the Triangular Theory of Love was so insightful and made me realize the importance of passion, intimacy, and commitment in forming strong connections. Thank you for such a thoughtful presentation!
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davec3651
When real life experience repeatedly has shown that you're unworthy of love, despite your best effort, what is one to do Some of us truly seem to be unlovable from a long-term standpoint. You have it, then you lose it without any catastrophic event. people just don't care to hold onto you. Is this karma at work
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When real life experience repeatedly has shown that you're unworthy of love, despite your best effort, what is one to do Some of us truly seem to be unlovable from a long-term standpoint. You have it, then you lose it without any catastrophic event. people just don't care to hold onto you. Is this karma at work
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ItsLunavie
Yea I had to drop this- and to make it easy for all of you.
Why people Reject Love:
0: 18 Misunderstanding what love is
1: 10 Feeling unworthy of love
1: 35 Unrealistic Expectations
2: 21 Fear of Commitment
2: 54 Fear of Vulnerability
3: 32 Disorders that Make Love Difficult
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Yea I had to drop this- and to make it easy for all of you.
Why people Reject Love:
0: 18 Misunderstanding what love is
1: 10 Feeling unworthy of love
1: 35 Unrealistic Expectations
2: 21 Fear of Commitment
2: 54 Fear of Vulnerability
3: 32 Disorders that Make Love Difficult
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Misunderstanding what love is 0: 15
2. Feeling unworthy of love 1: 08
3. Unrealistic expectations 1: 34
4. Fear of commitment 2: 20
5. Fear of vulnerability 2: 53
6. Disorders that make love difficult 3: 29
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Timestamps
1. Misunderstanding what love is 0: 15
2. Feeling unworthy of love 1: 08
3. Unrealistic expectations 1: 34
4. Fear of commitment 2: 20
5. Fear of vulnerability 2: 53
6. Disorders that make love difficult 3: 29
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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geemail369
What i'm facing the most in potential partners is fear of vulnerability and commitment, though the tensiin is palpable!
Saddest thing: they don't even muster the courage to talk it out, but rather run or ghost.
6th sense for picking cowards i guess.
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What i'm facing the most in potential partners is fear of vulnerability and commitment, though the tensiin is palpable!
Saddest thing: they don't even muster the courage to talk it out, but rather run or ghost.
6th sense for picking cowards i guess.
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psych2go
It's interesting to me that most languages only have one word for love. In Hungarian there are two different words for love. One for friendship/family love (szeretet) and romantic love (szerelem, but there is only one verb for both (szeretni)
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It's interesting to me that most languages only have one word for love. In Hungarian there are two different words for love. One for friendship/family love (szeretet) and romantic love (szerelem, but there is only one verb for both (szeretni)
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Eddison33
Ouch, that kind of hurts. And my 'tism makes it even worse.
It's one thing if you're the one rejecting (mentally or physically, it's the other when you're not even given a chance because of who you are or how you're perceived socially.
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Ouch, that kind of hurts. And my 'tism makes it even worse.
It's one thing if you're the one rejecting (mentally or physically, it's the other when you're not even given a chance because of who you are or how you're perceived socially.
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