5 Deep Conversation Starters To Get Someone To Open Up
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Date: 2024-04-25
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ikergonzalez4222
Honestly, the moment I was most vulnerable was with my ex three years ago.
And she kinda destroyed me from the inside.
After her first assault (methaphorically speaking) I had once again been vulnerable with friends and betrayed, then she came back to open the wounds and make them bleed harder.
Whitout counting all the friendship throught the years I've been vulnerable in.
So now I have such a social anxhiety that my psychologist compares It to the effects of abuse or rpe.
Whitout counting the whole other trauma package. Also related to social interaction.
My social abilities once existed. I just got thrown to the floor so many times that fear overshadowed confidence, and even my will. Because I cant think of a good thing to come. I can only thing of the many ways this could blow in my face.
Trusting others have allways been the reason to so much pain.
So I dont even trust my shadow.
But I try. Even thought it's so hard.
Proudest memory I cant really remember many things I'm proud of. Other than me as a kid standing up for myself against my bullies. Or last year where I did the same but with a different method.
Or when in my first year learning chess I won a competition as a total rookie.
I barely can remember good memories. To be honest. It's so foggy.
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Honestly, the moment I was most vulnerable was with my ex three years ago.
And she kinda destroyed me from the inside.
After her first assault (methaphorically speaking) I had once again been vulnerable with friends and betrayed, then she came back to open the wounds and make them bleed harder.
Whitout counting all the friendship throught the years I've been vulnerable in.
So now I have such a social anxhiety that my psychologist compares It to the effects of abuse or rpe.
Whitout counting the whole other trauma package. Also related to social interaction.
My social abilities once existed. I just got thrown to the floor so many times that fear overshadowed confidence, and even my will. Because I cant think of a good thing to come. I can only thing of the many ways this could blow in my face.
Trusting others have allways been the reason to so much pain.
So I dont even trust my shadow.
But I try. Even thought it's so hard.
Proudest memory I cant really remember many things I'm proud of. Other than me as a kid standing up for myself against my bullies. Or last year where I did the same but with a different method.
Or when in my first year learning chess I won a competition as a total rookie.
I barely can remember good memories. To be honest. It's so foggy.
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NormalChannel95
You ever hear the tragedy of Darth Plagueis the wise Darth Plagueis was a Dark Lord of the sith. He was so powerful, Yet so wise. He could use the force to influence the medi chlorians to create, Life. He had such a knowledge of the Dark side, He could even keep the ones he cared about, From dying. The dark side of the force is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnatural. Darth Plagueis became so powerful that the only thing he feared was losing his power, Which eventually of course he did. Unfortunately, He taught his apprentice everything he knew. Then his apprentice killed him in his sleep. Ironic, He could save others from death, But not himself.
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You ever hear the tragedy of Darth Plagueis the wise Darth Plagueis was a Dark Lord of the sith. He was so powerful, Yet so wise. He could use the force to influence the medi chlorians to create, Life. He had such a knowledge of the Dark side, He could even keep the ones he cared about, From dying. The dark side of the force is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnatural. Darth Plagueis became so powerful that the only thing he feared was losing his power, Which eventually of course he did. Unfortunately, He taught his apprentice everything he knew. Then his apprentice killed him in his sleep. Ironic, He could save others from death, But not himself.
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dragonqueen9744
Some time ago a person I barely met strated a conversation with me, and at the beggining it went surprisingly well (I'm kinda bad at talking with ppl unless I get to know them, but then they started asking these questions, like about my personal values and beliefs, and I completely freaked out and kept saying 'I don't know'
I hate smalltalk, but these questions are too personal for me, especially as a conversation starter. I guess I struggle with talking about myself. I mean, give me 2 days to think about what challenge made me grow and then I'll give you an answer
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Some time ago a person I barely met strated a conversation with me, and at the beggining it went surprisingly well (I'm kinda bad at talking with ppl unless I get to know them, but then they started asking these questions, like about my personal values and beliefs, and I completely freaked out and kept saying 'I don't know'
I hate smalltalk, but these questions are too personal for me, especially as a conversation starter. I guess I struggle with talking about myself. I mean, give me 2 days to think about what challenge made me grow and then I'll give you an answer
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psych2go
Honestly, I don't feel comfortable with sharing my vulnerability other than my diagnoses. Diagnoses can show something deeper to other helping us to understand others and later put them in confusion by showing them that I'm above their measurement, discouraging them. Although directly showing something on which they can keep an estimation on and explicit can be used again us as a weapon. This happened to me many occasions in the past and I'm not doing it any longer. I'm becoming prouder as I've already dumped religion.
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Honestly, I don't feel comfortable with sharing my vulnerability other than my diagnoses. Diagnoses can show something deeper to other helping us to understand others and later put them in confusion by showing them that I'm above their measurement, discouraging them. Although directly showing something on which they can keep an estimation on and explicit can be used again us as a weapon. This happened to me many occasions in the past and I'm not doing it any longer. I'm becoming prouder as I've already dumped religion.
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ryanricks318
Aren't u in business o influencer but u haven't the moments to properly shares dat quietness speaky volumes wot not say says so much u have needs o wide audience quantity over quality ur actions reactions so telling are u really improvement quality o dat quantity maybe to early to tells plus i has dis ood sensation dat u has needs to stick to the shallows furs ur security u ain't so prepared furs challengers o the deep ends nya sojourneys
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Aren't u in business o influencer but u haven't the moments to properly shares dat quietness speaky volumes wot not say says so much u have needs o wide audience quantity over quality ur actions reactions so telling are u really improvement quality o dat quantity maybe to early to tells plus i has dis ood sensation dat u has needs to stick to the shallows furs ur security u ain't so prepared furs challengers o the deep ends nya sojourneys
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pastarzzoto
As someone with social anxiety and socially awkward, this is what I need because I really need to work on my conversation skills. I don’t even know what to talk about most of the time, and always having those awkward silences, making us feel uncomfortable. I look at other people who are great conversationalists and they’re so comfortable in their own skin making it look as if they’re good friends with everyone they meet.
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As someone with social anxiety and socially awkward, this is what I need because I really need to work on my conversation skills. I don’t even know what to talk about most of the time, and always having those awkward silences, making us feel uncomfortable. I look at other people who are great conversationalists and they’re so comfortable in their own skin making it look as if they’re good friends with everyone they meet.
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TheBlindedForest
Great video today! I think we all kind of in a way needed and/or wanted it. Here's TIMESTAMPS--
1. What challenge made you grow 0: 27
2. Have you ever experienced a time when being vulnerable 1: 10
3. What's your proudest moment and what did it teach you 2: 17
4. What are your values and beliefs in life 3: 00
5. Who's had the biggest impact on your life and why 3: 41
Have a great day!
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Great video today! I think we all kind of in a way needed and/or wanted it. Here's TIMESTAMPS--
1. What challenge made you grow 0: 27
2. Have you ever experienced a time when being vulnerable 1: 10
3. What's your proudest moment and what did it teach you 2: 17
4. What are your values and beliefs in life 3: 00
5. Who's had the biggest impact on your life and why 3: 41
Have a great day!
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psych2go
I have Schizophrenia, OCD, Trauma-Related issues. Does it cause for conversation barriers Like difficulty at being together with others, talking friendly with others, sharing things without being afraid I've a lot of them. The best thing out of all is, I don't trust the given diagnosis to be a 100% accurate one as well as the medications.
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I have Schizophrenia, OCD, Trauma-Related issues. Does it cause for conversation barriers Like difficulty at being together with others, talking friendly with others, sharing things without being afraid I've a lot of them. The best thing out of all is, I don't trust the given diagnosis to be a 100% accurate one as well as the medications.
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neofulcrum5013
What is a favorite childhood moment
What’s your funniest memory ever
What’s a goal you want to reach Is there a way I can help with that
I think those are some good questions to act during a conversation. Especially if it’s your crush or just someone that caught your eye.
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What is a favorite childhood moment
What’s your funniest memory ever
What’s a goal you want to reach Is there a way I can help with that
I think those are some good questions to act during a conversation. Especially if it’s your crush or just someone that caught your eye.
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Facing challenges 0: 23
2. Showing vulnerability 1: 08
3. Proudest moments 2: 14
4. Personal values and beliefs 2: 57
5. Influence and inspiration 3: 37
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Timestamps
1. Facing challenges 0: 23
2. Showing vulnerability 1: 08
3. Proudest moments 2: 14
4. Personal values and beliefs 2: 57
5. Influence and inspiration 3: 37
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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psych2go
That's a good friend recently pointed out from the help of a great town that I've lived in for many years new and old people like sitting there and helping to make change in my life and the people around me for the better of society
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That's a good friend recently pointed out from the help of a great town that I've lived in for many years new and old people like sitting there and helping to make change in my life and the people around me for the better of society
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TheTrueAuthorMRS
I love people who can have these conversations with me. I was born a genius, (don't mean to brag) I found I think a lot deeper than a lot of the people I know, so people who can share that with me are respected highly
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I love people who can have these conversations with me. I was born a genius, (don't mean to brag) I found I think a lot deeper than a lot of the people I know, so people who can share that with me are respected highly
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wilhelmvonn9619
These are all important things to talk about, but can they really be used to start a conversation with someone I would need to know them well, and feel comfortable with them, before I started on topics like these.
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These are all important things to talk about, but can they really be used to start a conversation with someone I would need to know them well, and feel comfortable with them, before I started on topics like these.
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pygmalion0451
I needed this, cause every time I hear people say they want deep conversation, I always picture them and myself like that one scene in Barbie where she's dancing and just goes You guys ever think about dying
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I needed this, cause every time I hear people say they want deep conversation, I always picture them and myself like that one scene in Barbie where she's dancing and just goes You guys ever think about dying
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psych2go
It can be scary for some to be vulnerable, feeling worried about how the other person might react. But when you are vulnerable and the other person responds favourably, that's how you know you're in good company.
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It can be scary for some to be vulnerable, feeling worried about how the other person might react. But when you are vulnerable and the other person responds favourably, that's how you know you're in good company.
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psych2go
Hello Psych2go. I got rejected by the girl i loved so deeply a week ago. There is not a single moment that im NOT thinking about her, doing my hobbies or activities dont help anymore. How do i overcome this pain
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Hello Psych2go. I got rejected by the girl i loved so deeply a week ago. There is not a single moment that im NOT thinking about her, doing my hobbies or activities dont help anymore. How do i overcome this pain
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THEDOORIZCLOSED
Does this work for friends who speak in video reels Cuz i have a friend all they do is send videos online. They never like have meaningful conversations unless its me initiating
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Does this work for friends who speak in video reels Cuz i have a friend all they do is send videos online. They never like have meaningful conversations unless its me initiating
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frza7252
I really need like this video because when i see someone i think they may refuse and don't wanna be a friend. That's why I have less friend at least i know they are real friends
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I really need like this video because when i see someone i think they may refuse and don't wanna be a friend. That's why I have less friend at least i know they are real friends
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biancalumina313
Thank you very much, I'll use these tips.
Fun fact: I'd not be happy if anybody would ask me all those questions in one setting. Seems exhausting to answer them
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Thank you very much, I'll use these tips.
Fun fact: I'd not be happy if anybody would ask me all those questions in one setting. Seems exhausting to answer them
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laberbla6466
I know it's unfair to say - but whenever I start a video and it's not amandasilvera doing the voiceover I cannot focus long enough or listen as close to what is said
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I know it's unfair to say - but whenever I start a video and it's not amandasilvera doing the voiceover I cannot focus long enough or listen as close to what is said
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